SingleDaddy:
OK! , long story short, I really need advice at this point in time. I had an encounter with this particular alhaja, I hope that is correct, while i was in camp(Social gathering) , we eventually got to like each other, because she is always tracking me, while I stylishly do the same..

She's always buying me stuffs and surprising me with gift, and I endeavor to do the same.


After camping, we got to finally meet privately, and we had matured meeting between us. All this while, I never knew she was married, and she never talked about it.

Our friendship seems to be escalating quickly, and personally, I never prayed to have anything to do with a married lady. But with the way situations are, I'm stuck in between the hole of a niddle


She seems to be taking this too far and serious than myself... Please what's your advice and suggestions in regards to this issue.

I would like to quench the flame without breaking the candle.

You know what to do already

If you have to break the candle to quench the flame then do it.

OP,
You're sleeping with someone's wife and calling it a "private matured meeting" and then claim not to knw what to do,
Oya, continue with your fed executive council meeting, but I want you to listen to a song by
Justin Timberlake- what goes around, comes around.

After you'll claim that your village people are after you.
Kwantinue

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I understand, but we had a private matured meeting, when we both came out of camp. I actually regret it though, because she lied to me that she had no man at that moment.[/quo

Matured meeting.ow many times u nack her

Anyone committing adultery with a woman is lacking good sense. The one who does so brings ruin on himself.He will only get wounds and dishonor. And his disgrace will not be wiped away. For jealousy makes a husband furious. He will show no compassion when he takes revenge. He will accept no compensation. He will not be appeased no matter how large you make the gift.. -Proverbs 6:32-35.

To be serious, karma is real . quench d candle whoever way u want with out minding whether it breaks or not. God can 4give u for ur ignorance in d "" matured meeting " but not after u might have known. I was in ur shoes and it caused me my job but I'm not regretting today. Be a man and know what u want and stand to say NO.it will not kill rather it will make u strong as a real man.

iwakacome:
You didn't bring any gift for us abi? Only question. Wait let me finish this film.

burst my head

Smash her and get someone smash your future wife. U know karma right? Even an alhaja. Guy she's not ordinary. Shes probably into the polygamy and those ALHAJI DEY GET JAZZ OOO.

SingleDaddy:
Lalasticlala mynd44 please i need advice.

You better run away. What is she still doing where she did her camp if she is married? If she is serving where her husband is, how come she has so much time for such rubbish?

SingleDaddy:
Please i need matured advice?. This is a serious situation.

Wait till tomorrow we have important issues to handle right now

Hehehe
I will tell you what to do

There are no two ways to sin, you either flee from her or continue fornicating, put yourself in the husband shoe, would like your wife cheating on you with a corper,.. Just note that what goes around comes around.

ezewealth:
, my friend calm down, he is right, that is a figurative statement, it is not idiom. Is like saying " i can chew gum and walk". That he meant is he wants to end the relationship slowly

I think you got my comment wrong.
Those were just semantics.
My message was pretty clear
Take chill pill...I got this

nNEOo:
ALHAJA ryt? Op nw listn ,pay no attention to these clowns.


Quick qustion,

you're above 18 ryt?
Good!

At this age in nigeria,no 1 n i mean no 1 has ryt to force their ill thought out opinion down ur throat even if u begged for it.

That being said,forget that convention cookd sht called marriage,let talk abt u alhaja n what u guys want...fukk? Good go ahead and fukk each other.
She've made up her mind to Bleep u again n i thnk that a good start,it means her body is functioning accordingly dvoid of emotion battered by the thought of set rules...

These idiots shouting karma here karma there,let me tell u smthng,karma is neither here nor there!

Her husband is guity of infidelity pls dear op allow karma use u just to punish that stupid ALHAJI.

hope you're not talking through your anus.

I already feel like killing the op. As a married man, I can imagine how it feels to hear such a thing about my wife. No no no. My wife will never stay in that their evil camp, Never!!!

MISSCONGENIALITY:
That's why I keep saying matured meeting.

Aka FEC meeting. Lol

Remi2010:
hope you're not talking through your anus.

Nope...

Am blunt ryt?

Never did!

SingleDaddy:
OK! , long story short, I really need advice at this point in time. I had an encounter with this particular alhaja, I hope that is correct, while i was in camp(Social gathering) , we eventually got to like each other, because she is always tracking me, while I stylishly do the same..

She's always buying me stuffs and surprising me with gift, and I endeavor to do the same.


After camping, we got to finally meet privately, and we had matured meeting between us. All this while, I never knew she was married, and she never talked about it.

Our friendship seems to be escalating quickly, and personally, I never prayed to have anything to do with a married lady. But with the way situations are, I'm stuck in between the hole of a niddle


She seems to be taking this too far and serious than myself... Please what's your advice and suggestions in regards to this issue.

I would like to quench the flame without breaking the candle.

Sleeping with a married woman is a loan payable someday in whatever way Karma chooses!

@SingleDaddy,I beg you in the name of God disengange! Disengage!! Disengage!!! Will you be happy to hear that your married sister,aunt,wife,cousin,etc is in such relationship? The evil you do now may search for you or you offspring later.



Quran says:

"…and do not come near Zina(adultery,fornication etc); indeed, it is an abomination and an evil way" (Al-
Isra': 32),

" ...come not nigh to indecent deeds. Whether open or secret;... "(6:151)

"Say: the things that my Lord hath
indeed forbidden are: Indecent deeds, whether open or secret; sins and trespasses against truth or reason; assigning of partners to Allah, for which He hath given no authority; and saying things about Allah of which ye have no knowledge. "(7:33)
Also read Quran 24:30-31

The Bible says in

1 Thessalonians 4:3
“For this is the will of God, that you should be holy and abstain from sexual immorality.”

1 Corinthians 9:10 says, “Or do you not know that unrighteous people will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Do not be misled.
Those who are sexually immoral
(fornication), idolaters, adulterers, men who submit to homosexual acts, men who practice homosexuality, thieves,
greedy people, drunkards, revilers, and extortioners will not inherit God’s Kingdom.”

As noticed from the scriptures above, we see that God hates sexual immorality or
fornication. God even goes to say that those who practice such things will not be allowed in his Kingdom. God intended for sex to take place only between those who are married (Hebrews 13:4). Also read Acts 15:20 ;
1 Corinthians 5:1 ; 6:13,2 Corinthians 12:21 ;
Galatians 5:19 ; Ephesians 5:3 ;
Colossians 3:5 ;
1 Thessalonians 4:3

Finally, I write all these because Allah says in Quran 2 verse 165
" Invite (all) to the Way of thy Lord with wisdom and
beautiful preaching.."

airsaylongcon:

Aka FEC meeting. Lol

yes o. Just that this one was in the other room between the president and the first lady

MISSCONGENIALITY:
oga talk true. You love the fact that she's into you. And you yourselves don't want it to end. I'm sure you still want a matured meeting with her. THis let me advice you. If you want it to end, tell her that you don't hang around married ladies and you never knew she was married that was why you lead her on. Have a less matured meeting with her and tell her that you want it to be over. Stop deceiving yourself that you don't know what to do. If you keep having martyred meetings with her now that you know she's married, my brother, get ready because other men will have matured meeting with your wife. There are so many cute single ladies out there that you can have matured meeetings with. Leaving alhajia alone.

abi o..... a word is enough for the wise

san316:
I already feel like killing the op. As a married man, I can imagine how it feels to hear such a thing about my wife. No no no. My wife will never stay in that their evil camp, Never!!!

Please don't let her stay oo. guys for camp are not smiling. so many things are happening there.

lefulefu:
the handwriting is all over the wall.she wants to get laid and she's giving op all the signs for him to follow. I don't need to read much of dat story to know wat that married lady needs.

you still dint read! or u did not understand the op's language. he has been fuccking her since not knowing she was married.

Continue smashing,nah ur talent

This is Fucking Case...Ikpe aramara

I have read all the advises that some of the members of this forum offered and I must say they are on point and I would like to add my two cents to it as well. But before I do, I must ask you one simple question: Do you really in all honesty want to break off your relationship with this MARRIED woman? You know, it takes two to tango and no relationship would exist if there's no "meeting of the minds" of both parties. So, your first step is to be truthful and determine for yourself that you do not want to be in a relationship with her for reasons that others have so well articulated.

Then after you have made that determination, meet with her in a public place [to avoid any hanky-panky] and explain to her the reasons that made you decide to call off the relationship. You have to be stern and do not let her try to dissuade you. In my opinion, you should not tarry, it has to be done sooner than later. The longer you wait, the more the feelings keep growing; more gifts are given and the harder it becomes on both parties. I am certain you have thought about the consequences should her husband catch both of you in action. Good luck!

Better break the candle and run � for your dear life, or else.......

SingleDaddy:
Please i need matured advice?. This is a serious situation.

What kinda advice do you need dude? you've find out she's married, use your comment sense and walk away.... before water pass gari.

SingleDaddy:
Please i need matured advice?. This is a serious situation.

What kinda advice do you need dude? you've find out she's married, use your comment sense and walk away.... before water pass gari.

Lol.. Nigga just like masef... Knowing a solution to a problem And still present it to the public for opinions... Even if they ask you not to won't u?? You will still do what's on your mind.. But don't do it cos it might kill u now or later.. Am very sure and another person must Bleep your wife too... A tooth for a tooth.. KARMA

please i will give you an advice as if you are my own blood brother. Run away from a married woman or women, abeg do not let bad omen come your way. if she is divorce, then go ahead. I rather be a player and mess with other people girlfriends than date a married woman.

Kingsteve:


Please give more details for better imagination.
How old is she?
Is she the 1st, 2nd or 3rd wife?
Is she a proper Hausa babe?
Is she beautiful?
How many kids if any?

The truth is, once you've started liking her, it will be difficult to disengage.
And for some reason, once one starts catching feelings for a gorgeous married lady, the attraction is stronger than that of a single lady.
Very strange!

Are you talking from experience Sir?

What's the meaning of we had matured meeting between us