GeeString:
I won't go into any long sermon on this I'll just speak from personal experience.

No Nigerian woman is worth the trouble ahead. Infidelity is a serious Nigerian girl issue and it won't leave after marriage rather it will only get worse since her lifelong ambition has been fulfilled and she is now at peace.

Nigerian girls are materialistic and selfish. They do not truly understand the term "love".

Every Nigerian girl 25 & above has engaged in prostitution of some sort be it openly or 'coded'. There are corporate oloshos now sef. By prostitution I mean sleeping with a man for financial gain.

They are just not worth it.

I seriously doubt if I'll ever get married to a Nigerian girl. I'll have two kids from 2 different women & that's it.




Quote me & bash me but kindly produce counter-points or disprove my points while you do so. Oh & lest I forget I have no sisters & my mom is late too.

Goodnight.

You said it all

Men should say why they are scared of getting married. Some went off tangent and started shading all women and even Nigerian women.

Waiting to read reasons why. Not this all women are this and that bs.

Saviour22:
90percent of Nigeria women depends on men, they have nothing to offer apart from sex, fight all you want. that's the reality we see everyday not what u type on Nl, deal wit lady.

90% down from a blanket statement of “All Nigerian women” see how you can be objective? It was 100% before.

They are tiring abeg.

This made me laugh @ bold

SoapQueen:
I took my time to read all the criticisms from some men. Nice one.

Delusions of grandeur, I must say.

Nigerian men are not interested in marriage yet there are pre-wedding photos at every nook and cranny.

Nigerians girls are hoes, cutlass, this and that, who the hell do they cheat with, themselves?

You keep calling ladies unprintable names, is it not men like you that break the "Almighty bro code" by going for someone else's woman. I remember a dude put up a post last week about waiting for his friend to break up with his girlfriend so he could shoot his shot?

It is getting stale. If you don't want to get married, please don't. Some of you up there are boasting of having 3 side Chics. Who should cast the first stone?

Last, last. In the bid to please some girl, some of you will still slide into a girl's DM and do everything within your power to get her attention. After that, Una go come here dey form Bruce Lee.

Ebuka2016:


there is no real one out there if you wanna go that route. How many women will marry a man without money? Its like a guy marrying a woman who is ugly. We fall for what we see. If it means our love aint real then it ok. No one is real out there.

And remember that men age like wine, not like women (una dey age like milk)

you are not exempt from pressure, final. Being 48 and single is not an advantage to you. Accept it and move on.

GeeString:
I won't go into any long sermon on this I'll just speak from personal experience.

No Nigerian woman is worth the trouble ahead. Infidelity is a serious Nigerian girl issue and it won't leave after marriage rather it will only get worse since her lifelong ambition has been fulfilled and she is now at peace.

Nigerian girls are materialistic and selfish. They do not truly understand the term "love".

Every Nigerian girl 25 & above has engaged in prostitution of some sort be it openly or 'coded'. There are corporate oloshos now sef. By prostitution I mean sleeping with a man for financial gain.

They are just not worth it.

I seriously doubt if I'll ever get married to a Nigerian girl. I'll have two kids from 2 different women & that's it.




Quote me & bash me but kindly produce counter-points or disprove my points while you do so. Oh & lest I forget I have no sisters & my mom is late too.

Goodnight.

Bro u made my evening. Abeg i fit buy u beer 2mao night? Hola me

Daeylar:
Men should say why they are scared of getting married. Some went off tangent and started shading all women and even Nigerian women.

Waiting to read reasons why. Not this all women are this and that bs.

Don’t expect emotional intelligence here ....it’s always blanket statements no objectivity whatsoever!

Ebuka2016:
sorry to say but if not for social conditioning, this is what a man really wants:

1. Money
2. Steady supply of sex
3. Kids (his own fresh and blood)

a woman comes with her own set of wahala and responsibilities. The responsibility woman dey carry dey come eeh, e no be here.

Men dont really need a woman to live with them for the rest of their lives, they rather need that which only a woman supplies- sex and kids

If for say men can impregnate themselves and give birth, no single man go ever marry.

lol the bitter Truth thanks bro what guys really need is money money sex kids food and maybe a caring woman not a must though he is a man he is tough unlike women shutout to all my goons much love an respect

MrBrownJay1:


...and at the rate at which [s]young[/sh] women are desperate to marry, he would easily find one (25 or younger if he desires to do so at 35, 45 or even 70 (ask Oshiomole). but the fact that you would expect him to do so, right now, even though he clearly doesnt want to, is where the issue lies.

let each and everyone live their lives the way they see fit. those that one to get married, let them get married...and the ones that dont, equally shouldnt get married and be happy

i agree with the bolded!! That's the no 1 problem with women!! We all want to get married,But the desperation with women is on another level!! To me I just think men live life the way it's meant to be!! We all are meant to scared of it, living n bonded with someone of no blood relation, Its different for women because of the desperation!! Most women dont care if he is good enough, he makes money n his manhood is functioning that's all they need!! But men think abt it n pick carefully, if they want a foolish woman they get her!! Their own kind!! But women go 4 anything, all because of the fuss of Marriage!! To me we all need to enjoy or youthful age b4 marriage. Not just men!!! Get ready 4 marriage from like 32 but the socitial pressure won't let us!!

Daeylar:
Men should say why they are scared of getting married. Some went off tangent and started shading all women and even Nigerian women.

Waiting to read reasons why. Not this all women are this and that bs.

Are men scared of getting married?

Not worth the stress honestly, life alone is stressful enough.

Too selfish, they never think of the stress someone goes through, only about themselves every time.

I wish I don't get married because am already seeing divorce case and I would be so happy but family pressure.

Ok the plan is, Get married, have some kids find a way to divorce and live my life single in peace. She can find her way to wherever she likes. when we are older, she can come back cos I'll need someone to cook at such old age.

Live happily every after.

Have you seen the number of hoes on social media!? Seems to me that almost all the single ladies are in on the damn business.

Ebuka2016:
sorry to say but if not for social conditioning, this is what a man really wants:

1. Money
2. Steady supply of sex
3. Kids (his own fresh and blood)

a woman comes with her own set of wahala and responsibilities. The responsibility woman dey carry dey come eeh, e no be here.

Men dont really need a woman to live with them for the rest of their lives, they rather need that which only a woman supplies- sex and kids

If for say men can impregnate themselves and give birth, no single man go ever marry.

Theres some truth to this. Won’t lie.

Most of our girls now are all turning into Oloshos and social media is spoiling things dis days till they clock 35 years and starts attending Shiloh .I am over 37 and still single though there is pressure from all sides but don't really feel it .I have the ones that clean my house,cook delicious meals,pampers me or sex me very real good.
I can easily get sex from anywhere at anytime and where ever I want it so why should I marry?

Safiaa:
They think non Nigerian ladies are special specimens that were created from gold dust. It will shock you!!!!! Some of my non naija friends are devils in disguise Loool. They are probably worse, they will suck you dry, but their brains are conditioned to belive anything from their country is less than others. I don’t blame them anyway.

Believe me, apart from my mum.... I don't think there are any good women in Nigeria.
If perhaps I get a chance! I will marry a non Nigerian woman. kai! even Small Juliet is visiting Uncles and friends in Abakaliki, Owerri, Ebonyi, Abaj, Lag etc. The worst is they lie a lot and form nonsense.

tosyne2much:
Aside the phobia of getting entangled with the wrong person, money plays a vital role cos marriage comes with a lot of expenses

and if you go on to marry an average lady, it'll compound your problem

After all said and done...
You all will log out and face reality...

ndubueze92:
Believe me, apart from my mum.... I don't think there are any good women in Nigeria.
If perhaps I get a chance! I will marry a non Nigerian woman. kai! even Small Juliet is visiting Uncles and friends in Abakaliki, Owerri, Ebonyi, Abaj, Lag etc. The worst is they lie a lot and form nonsense.

have you ever dated a non Nigerian woman?

Safiaa:
They think non Nigerian ladies are special specimens that were created from gold dust. It will shock you!!!!! Some of my non naija friends are devils in disguise Loool. They are probably worse, they will suck you dry, but their brains are conditioned to belive anything from their country is less than others. I don’t blame them anyway.

Believe me, apart from my mum, I don't think there are any good women in Nigeria.
If perhaps I get a chance! I will marry a non Nigerian woman. kai! even Small Juliet is visiting Uncles and friends in Abakaliki, Owerri, Ebonyi, Abj, Lag etc. The worst is 9ja women lie a lot and form nonsense.

Shugavee:
i agree with the bolded!! That's the no 1 problem with women!! We all want to get married,But the desperation with women is on another level!! To me I just think men live life the way it's meant to be!! We all are meant to scared of it, living n bonded with someone of no blood relation, Its different for women because of the desperation!! Most women dont care if he is good enough, he makes money n his manhood is functioning that's all they need!! But men think abt it n pick carefully, if they want a foolish woman they get her!! Their own kind!! But women go 4 anything, all because of the fuss of Marriage!! To me we all need to enjoy or youthful age b4 marriage. Not just men!!! Get ready 4 marriage from like 32 but the socitial pressure won't let us!!

What are the youthful enjoyments you are typing about?

Daeylar:
Men should say why they are scared of getting married. Some went off tangent and started shading all women and even Nigerian women.

Waiting to read reasons why. Not this all women are this and that bs.

the main reason is money, can you marry a poor man out of pity?

Safiaa:
you are not exempt from pressure, final. Being 48 and single is not an advantage to you. Accept it and move on.

the pressure on a 40years old man is equivalent to that on a 28years old girl and when a girl gets to 40 she is literally expired. As a man I can marry even at 60. Don't deceive yourself.

SonsOfLiverpool:
the pressure on a 40years old man is equivalent to that on a 28years old girl and when a girl gets to 40 she is literally expired. As a man I can marry even at 60. Don't deceive yourself.

40 is too old sef. Just hit 29 and see the pressure. You people need to face the reality, when you log off NL you know what’s good in your hood. You can marry at 60 but is that ideal? When your children are 12 you’ll be on your death bed. Commot jare.

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Saviour22:
80 percent of Nigeria women are ugly, can't marry ugly woman

MissRaine69:

Don’t expect emotional intelligence here ....it’s always blanket statements no objectivity whatsoever!

As much as nairalanders fail me sometimes when I expect reasonable responses to issues. There are still some posts I see where some posters manage to do so.

Hoping I see such posts tonight, thread started on point with such posts giving reasonable answers before the "all women are this and that gang" came out and tried to veer the thread off track.

I'm trying to get them to stop.

ndubueze92:
Believe me, apart from my mum, I don't think there are any good women in Nigeria.
If perhaps I get a chance! I will marry a non Nigerian woman. kai! even Small Juliet is visiting Uncles and friends in Abakaliki, Owerri, Ebonyi, Abj, Lag etc. The worst is 9ja women lie a lot and form nonsense.

keep quiet.

Do you know your mom before she married? except she is over 45 or 50 then I can classify her as old school moms and even at that they still had hoes during their time.

My brother, our older mother's didn't have the opportunity like this generation, if they had they probably will be like our generation. Nothing special. Its human thing.

IamD18:


What are the youthful enjoyments you are typing about?

just hving fun!! Hving fun like men do!! B4 a lady is 23 the pressure has began!!! While The parent of a male child is setting up his future!!! B4 u get to 300l self as a woman, u r ripe for marriage!!!( U won't get it, u r not a lady) U think ladies won't like hving random sex too n being players!! But we can't cause the society has conditioned us

I just wanna fvck bad bitch€s , all night i never had bitch£s.. Even in my 50's still fvcking bad bitch£s.

Give me reasons why you should marry, when all the girls/women both married and single can be fvcked with money. ... Getlost

When you count the number of unhappy marriages ...
When you count the number of divorces...
When you witness the humiliation and spousal abuse both parties go through...
when you witness spousal infidelity...
People living in pain and dying in silence...
When you consider the unrealistic demands of women...
When you realize 'most hoes a'int faithful'....
When you come to know that sex is cheap and abundant in our time...
When you consider the bad economy.....

You will be afraid of marriage too OP

Safiaa:
have you ever dated a non Nigerian woman?

I haven't. I believe they're more loyal and open minded .

Because, that will be the end of more kpekus

ndubueze92:
I haven't. I believe they're more loyal and open minded .

keep believing based off assumptions. Smh