₦airaland Forum

Zing85:
See yea snitching is snitching I think if I were in your shoes I would have just put some space between myself and the guy(and his girls)

Meta4element:
If she do am make my Grandma turn virgin...To them...Ripping off a Nigga of his hard earned money all in the name of love na normal thing to them...If a guy does it to them...They start ranting up and down like pigs on heat

CarlosTheJackal:
Brain cells you lack

udemzy101:
So if a 18 seater bus get into an accident and all the passenger died on the spot then all the 18 passengers died because of Karma?

Let's assume you lost a huge sum of money, will you say Karma is happening to you?

nanauju:
Whether he's more wicked than his friend, I wouldn't know and definitely none of my business. But as for this matter so, he did well by opening up to the lady. It's left for the lady to do whatever she wants

SirBunky85:
he shud have told her first and its left for her to believe or not but,his mind would be at peace dan allowing her to pass all through dese troubles.if d lady decides to treat dem f.ups,she supose start with dat jackal guy cuz hes an accomplice.he was aware and still allowed d lady to be spending her money and time.dat guy is evn more wicked dan his friend

SirBunky85:
him telling d lady now came too late cuz she has already lost everything.he evn helped his friend in telling d girl lies initially wen he could've tld d lady or back off frm his friend.I repeat hes more wicked dan his friend

LivingFree:
Do we know eachother?

SirBunky85:
him telling d lady now came too late cuz she has already lost everything.he evn helped his friend in telling d girl lies initially wen he could've tld d lady or back off frm his friend.I repeat hes more wicked dan his friend

CarlosTheJackal:
You can't get an apology from me because I'm not someone that hides from the truth. Okey is wrong and the fiance so called Karma cannot happen under my watch


Stop supporting evil please

CarlosTheJackal:
Stop calling me wicked because you would have fumbled if you are in my shoes

LeHMaR:
Wait oo, you've got my take mixed up... The so-called Okey is as wrong as the word "wrong" goes.. But i just didn't think you should have continued to be involved if you were against his methods..
You should have let fate handle their matter..

Arondizuogu:
So your friend left a financial capable woman for a university girl that lecturers have already bleeped with their pot belly. He's stupid! The girl probably saved his number with "mumu 1". I don't know yet Nigerian men are so afraid of independent women.

SirBunky85:
story.I dont knw if u are naturally wicked,I called u wicked based on ur stoty and d part u played all through before teln d lady.its not as if ur friend didnt tell his evil plans from the onset.why didnt tell ur friend to count u out from the onset.if dat lady takes any silly action dat takes her life of her depression,u follow kill am cuz u were part and parcel of d deceit by telling her numerous lies just to cover ur friend up.just go beg d lady to forgive u and also beg God to forgive u

sharpwriter:
Yes nau.

nanauju:
I don't think there's anything like too late in this matter. He had a choice to say it.. Or just let it be thereby making the lady find out on her own. But he chose to say, and even gave her hints on what to expect from the Okey (how he was gonna come breaking up with her). Even if he's more wicked than his friend, @ least he was kind enough to tell the lady what was going on when he could have chosen to keep quiet. Let me ask you, haven't you covered up for friends before in similar situations? We all have at some point, but this one is too much to cover up, and thank God op has conscience

Pls how would you feel if this kind of thing was happening to your sister? Put yourself in her shoes

CarlosTheJackal:
My actions were the best because i made sure that i gathered every evidence and also all my advice to the guy not to leave the girl failed. You need to make sure you get your facts right before you go on a long tale exposee

SirBunky85:
has d girl not lost everything already?if dat gal shud try anything stupid cuz of depression now,jackal follow kill am.whats d essence of teln her now wen she'slost everything?

ihimiray:
U deserve to die by lethal injection

LordsApostle:
Bro, you are a true man, u have done well, and truly, u do not deserve that bastard as a friend, when the time comes, he will sacrifice you for his selfish gains. You have no business having such people as friend... You are a respectable man, and should seek people of like minds around you.

SirBunky85:
facts or no facts.u aided ur friend to execute his evil plans of wch u were aware.when u were teln d gal lies abt ur friends travels,didnt ur conscience prick u?do u think dat u wil go free if d decides to involve d police for obtaining money via false pretence in wch u are an accomplice.just go beg God for forgiveness.

nanauju:
I don't think there's anything like too late in this matter. He had a choice to say it.. Or just let it be thereby making the lady find out on her own. But he chose to say, and even gave her hints on what to expect from the Okey (how he was gonna come breaking up with her). Even if he's more wicked than his friend, @ least he was kind enough to tell the lady what was going on when he could have chosen to keep quiet. Let me ask you, haven't you covered up for friends before in similar situations? We all have at some point, but this one is too much to cover up, and thank God op has conscience

Pls how would you feel if this kind of thing was happening to your sister? Put yourself in her shoes

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

nanauju:
The capable woman just dodged a bullet. Imagine being married to someone you are very much aware that he cheats and he comes home rubbing it all over u with STDs.. Gosh! What kind of emotional torture is that

LivingFree:
Did you read the op, because the girl knew that her man was cheating on her, she's even begging him to use condoms and asking op to tell the guy to use condoms. This sister had zero self respect and other people can't respect you for your self. There's only so much one can do... Taking her money to marry another girl, embarrassing her father while he flex in her suit in front of his future father in law! Abeg go back and read slowly

nanauju:
Like it or not.. He did the right thing. Good night

SirBunky85:
evn if d gal was foolish.d op aided his friend in executing his evil plan.besides,d gal might knw dat her man cheats and condone it but,deceiving d gal to marry anoda lady and evn used her money is pure evil.