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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by iamVirus(m): 10:46pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

God knows that after reading all the comments here, you are still going to give her the money!


smh!

man up, what will she be doing with her own money?


she ain't a good woman. take it or leave it.


as for her friend?? birds of the same feathers flock together bro.

be wise

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by emelda86(f): 10:46pm On Jun 09, 2018
Our elders say...na from how u dey, how u dey, na him belle dey take enter...

Op if shes saying this to you now means she's damn serious no be we again na we na...

People wey get yansh no sabi sit down
No dey inside water make soap enter your eye.

Udo!

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Sydebel(m): 10:46pm On Jun 09, 2018
Holymann:


Trying to defend her only shows that YOUR LEVEL OF STUPIDITY IS HIGHER THAN I THOUGHT.

Honestly, the post should be deleted .....how can he even try to defend her ....irishirishi.
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Theflint1(m): 10:46pm On Jun 09, 2018
grin grin grin

déjà vu. Some people sha get mind!
SoapQueen:


I am going to deactivate because of you this guy! See everyone looking at me the way I am laughing!

Chai. Hilarious.

You sound like his daddy!
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by mistacoco: 10:47pm On Jun 09, 2018
Sarah20A:
You have 5m million to give to her but you don't have money for the upkeep of the family undecidedhmmmm
is 5 milion worth invest not enov to provide for the family?

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by lonelydora: 10:47pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.

An adage in my place says....na 'mess' we dey use know how 'shit' dey smell.

The handwriting on the wall is very clear....run as fast as your legs can carry you. She has bad friends already

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by SoapQueen(f): 10:48pm On Jun 09, 2018
Theflint1:
grin grin grin
déjà vu
Guy! Guy!
I go expose you o. Loool.
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by tishbite41(m): 10:49pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.
mugu, she is praying for u to be down financially abi? young man retrieve ur steps , God is giving u signs !!!

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:50pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
Get the fvck out if you dont Av what to say?
.. Shame on you. You here fighting another lady for telling you the truth but scared to take action on the one who is about to kill you. Bleep off,ode. Man indeed.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Memyselfu2009(m): 10:50pm On Jun 09, 2018
RUN FOR YOUR LIFE
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Wiizzyy: 10:50pm On Jun 09, 2018
SoapQueen:


Make water carry me go if the girl no dump this guy like hot potato when he broke.

you gat me laughing like i'm mad
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by jaxxy(m): 10:52pm On Jun 09, 2018
Omachona:
Open the lab in your name, employ her as the managing director. Pay her from the proceeds after all accounting has been done. Let her know from onset that the lab belongs to you

U want him to marry trouble abi? Do u think such a woman wud agreee to such belittling conditions from ur utterances? And even if ahe pretends to do u think u will have peace in that house?

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Eagba(m): 10:53pm On Jun 09, 2018
futurism:
don't make the mistake of marrying a selfish woman... Don't ever think it. You will wish you were never born.

My aunt sustain her home for years when her husband lost his job.

It is so pathetic. Better go and look for a woman with compassionate soul and this is no time to be sentimental.

the worst part is that they extend the selfishness to their children.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by musa234(m): 10:54pm On Jun 09, 2018
Woman wrapper.. Love has blinded this one.. Weakling

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by femi4: 10:54pm On Jun 09, 2018
Lalas247:
It’s very simple....
Do not invest ..... let her go and get that 5 million with her blood,sweat and tears ...

I’m sure if she funds it herself you will be more than happy to sustain your family.. she can buy her hair and clothes when she gets it up and running ...
Take that 5million open small business get sales girl or something that way you have extra income coming in ...invest or buy land just don’t give it to her ...

Pls don’t quote me ....


Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Giwa80(m): 10:54pm On Jun 09, 2018
Call 911
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Theflint1(m): 10:54pm On Jun 09, 2018
Gerrout! grin grin
SoapQueen:


Guy! Guy!

I go expose you o. Loool.
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by tunary(m): 10:55pm On Jun 09, 2018
Go ahead and marry her you go regret why your mama born you
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by nwaimoroseyaho: 10:56pm On Jun 09, 2018
First check how her parents are living. Truth be told my dear that kind of woman is dangerous very dangerous. She cannot contribute any meaningful thing to your life. I know her type, the moment you are down they take the next available flight. Her own idea of marriage is ' come and chop'. Seek advice from married men, you will see that you need to drop her before it is too late.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by mctowel01: 10:57pm On Jun 09, 2018
Omachona:
Open the lab in your name, employ her as the managing director. Pay her from the proceeds after all accounting has been done. Let her know from onset that the lab belongs to you
Smart!
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by DonCortino: 10:58pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.

You have an educated illiterate as a girlfriend!

Sorry!

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by andyanders: 10:58pm On Jun 09, 2018
Op, you came to this forum to seek for an advise and as such you should expect both sides of the mouth. Some will insult you and some will give you reasonable advise you can learn from. Take both punches and don't start insulting back to some insultive advises herein. To the subject matter, the lady in question by saying that she can only assist you in life ONLY when you are down,even when her business is been financed by you is a very costly statement to make by a lady you are not married to yet. For me, there is danger ahead of such statement. If you fail in your business in life, there is a limit she can endure with you. For me, not you, I will walk away from such relationship. No love is blind these days.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Ogunleti01: 10:58pm On Jun 09, 2018
IamD18:
Bruv, how do you want the thunder that will strike sense and brain inside you?

How do you want the thunder


Boiled or fried? embarassed
Sure candidate for Amadioha's strike. I don't just know why mad people full everywhere
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:58pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
is 5 milion worth invest not enov to provide for the family?
... My friend shut up. You re a disgrace and unintelligent
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Ernesthugo(m): 11:03pm On Jun 09, 2018
Buy me a car with 1m let me run uber for u u won't regret it truth is the moment she knows u don't have she might leave bitter truth
lipsrsealed

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by AbleBouncer: 11:04pm On Jun 09, 2018
IamD18:


Will you shurup! embarassed Look at you attacking her truthful comment but couldn't attack a lady who wants to suck you dry in reality.

You are a disgrace to men. How did you even manage to get 5 million to call your own with this weakness and pussay ass behavior of yours?

Did you even read what you wrote up there?

You want to invest 5 million in a woman who made it clear that she won't be contributing in your home, and here you are, crying like a sissy and asking for advice on what to do?

Invest 20 million in her or better still ask a secondary school student for advice. NONESENSE

probably the share of his fathers inheritance

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by sniperr007(m): 11:04pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.

No vex.
Its the mentality of most girls & they use the helper angle. Which is from the Bible.
But the forget that in the Bible women were housewives.
Oga.. u ve to stand Ur ground now about this issue. She is selfish and if u don't define what u want Ur marriage to look like now.
It will b major issue in marriage.
Mind u, they are many ladies that bring something to the table in their marriage.

But op. U need to be hard on her.
If it means breaking up. U need to cos women like this will rubbish u in marriage when the going gets tough and u can't meet up to the family needs.

Remember money is one of the major reason for family quarrel between couples

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by UncleJudax(m): 11:04pm On Jun 09, 2018
Lalas247:

It’s the only way she will learn...
If he dumps her another mumu will accept .. he has to show her In marriage they have to compromise (some ladies are clueless and programmed to only help when the man fails and that’s wrong! )

It doesn’t make her a bad person she just has a typical leech mentality which a lot suffer from...
What is your definition of a "bad person"?

Leeching is a feature of a good person?

It is simple! She would want to be in control if/when the husband is down. grin

I think the guy is speaking hypothetically sha..No be only 5 million. grin
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Ernesthugo(m): 11:05pm On Jun 09, 2018
nwaimoroseyaho:
First check how her parents are living. Truth be told my dear that kind of woman is dangerous very dangerous. She cannot contribute any meaningful thing to your life. I know her type, the moment you are down they take the next available flight. Her own idea of marriage is ' come and chop'. Seek advice from married men, you will see that you need to drop her before it is too late.
mine took the best flight she has left me broken but God knows best

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by sandland: 11:05pm On Jun 09, 2018
The discussion is too early at this stage. Iam 20 years in marriage.
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by tooth4tooth: 11:05pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:


I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.
Why do you need advice when the answer is starring at you from your statement
Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by DBlackCeazer(m): 11:07pm On Jun 09, 2018
No be only hitup conversation, Mtchew!

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