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Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by LeoFish92(m): 10:30am On Aug 01, 2018 |
pocohantas: Lol, at the bolded, did I subconsciously make advances towards you? 2 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by LeoFish92(m): 10:32am On Aug 01, 2018 |
zicoraads: Wow, I'm gonna check it out. Thanks a bunch. 1 Like |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by Nobody: 10:52am On Aug 01, 2018 |
pocohantas: Guy things |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by pocohantas(f): 11:45am On Aug 01, 2018 |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by GCsomething: 12:12pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
I spot wrong motive. Not allowed keep late night; no female visitor(s); too religious family... Oga, don't be a prodigal son. Have better reasons to.move out 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by tellwisdom: 12:13pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
What??...30k is too much for u na. 2 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by ilyasom(m): 12:13pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
pcguru1:I love this answer 2 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by igwefivestar(m): 12:13pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
pocohantas: 1 Like |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by nabegibeg: 12:13pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
pocohantas: This is the best advice I have read so far and coming from you shows you are wonderful woman. You earned my respect 2 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by bidexolumanish(m): 12:14pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
LeoFish92:abeg ,which online side hustle are u into. maybe i can do it too |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by johnydon22(m): 12:14pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
LeoFish92: I left home at 23 when i was still earning 17k a month. Shared a 1 room apartment with a friend. Now i am 25 and i live in my own flat. Take that first step bro, it will not be anything near easy but it is necessary. If you do not do what you can't do, you will never be more than you are. You will definitely suffer, it will be too hard but you won't die. You will only get better. You have food, you have a shelter over your head, you don't worry about nepa bills, you don't bother about anything. Step out of your comfort zone, that is when you will understand the necessity to do more 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by johnydon22(m): 12:15pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
oyb:Mine was 17k. No amount is ever too small to start a life with 4 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 12:16pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
LeoFish92: I left home at the age of 19. 1 Like |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by Nobody: 12:16pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
Rent a place but visit them daily for lunch, not breakfast and not dinner. That will give you some element of freedom without the boredom associated with being alone. And please except you find a lady that loves you without financial demands, stop complicating your life further. 8 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by SokoDobo: 12:18pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
Hmmm |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by Lordofthewest(m): 12:18pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
pocohantas: 2 Likes
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Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by Truflexunits(m): 12:18pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
Please what's the online side hustle, sombori will like to invest into it too. 1 Like |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by erico2k2(m): 12:19pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
LeoFish92:Do what men do in the west, get a group of friends ur own age who have same issue, rent a flat.ie 2 bedroom or three and share the bills, move from there. 6 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by obailala(m): 12:19pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
pocohantas:I disagree with the bolded; what exactly is wrong about his reasons?... and what could possibly pass as a 'right reason'? Truth is that the reasons he gave (i.e. freedom and privacy) is the reason 95% of guys (who still live in the same city with their parents) moved out of their family houses. There's absolutely nothing wrong with a 26 year old Irrespective of his current income, this is the time in his life when he needs to start learning to live alone and also a time he needs to start sampling and learning how to receive or be with women; he's already walked into the marriage realm and he shouldnt really wait till he got 300k before he starts learning to be with women. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by omomummy11: 12:21pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
There's noting wrong in living ur parent house,ure already an adult. 30k is enough to start ur own life,however make sure ur 3 months salary most be able to pay ur rent. 2 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by Nobody: 12:22pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22:get out from here.Your own situation is different nah. Men will definitely assist u.Are u not a lady? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by DidierDrogba: 12:22pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
I was once in your condition..i started buying properties little by little,first i was scared to move out,thinking that i will die of hunger.....but i later took the decision after I've gotten enough properties....i later realised say hunger no dey kill man...any hw any hw man must chop....and also God helps people that takes steps....but i advice you never to leave your parents house just because you wanna be bringing women into your house because you will get tired of it and might not even make any savings at the end of the year.....move out from their house if you believe you are matured and grown and you can hustle 8 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by latexxbro(m): 12:23pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
LeoFish92:the only problem is that you have never lived on your own....Right from sch,I have been living on my own and while I will be graduating this year,I plan on living on my own if not for service....Leave your fathers house if u really want a bright future... 5 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by barongmj(f): 12:23pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
As a man and at 26, you should be able to live alone and take decisions on your own but if those excuses you gave are at the top of the chain, it might be a move you will regret. So just chill a lil bit "grow up" more, learn more and when you have the right mindset and your priorities are well in place, then move 1 Like |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by justtoodark: 12:23pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
LeoFish92: i left home with 16..... i couldnt handle my parents controlling nature no more... but i was working already at 16,repairing bycycles...sooo,they helped me with paying my small room....and their was peace between us... better start early looking for yourself...parents should only be a backup plan..... |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by samuelchimmy(m): 12:23pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
I don't understand why you can't save 20k per month for one year and move out .. I was earning less than 10k with some daily changes when I started living alone,i was 18 then,i remember when I started, my room was empty, I slept on cold floor for some time, bought some few stuffs including bed... But I must mention rentage was 30k per year....... I'm 23 now.you can do it bro, but there will be many times when you wish you were in your parents house 5 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by darmywealth: 12:24pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
GUY COMOT HOUSE DONT WAIT TILL U GET BETTER SALARY U ARE AFRAID OF NOT BEEN ABLE TO PAY RIGHT......IF U DONT MAKE A MOVE NOW U WILL BE STOCKED WITH UR PARENTS FOR A LONG TIME AND PLS GET AWAY FROM UR COMFORT ZONE BETTER THINGS U WILL EXPERINCE WHEN U LEAVE ON UR OWN 1 Like |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by DavidEsq(m): 12:25pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
pocohantas: 3 Likes
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Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by Charmingrascal(m): 12:25pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
It is advisable for every young man at the age of at most 25 years who can afford an apartment of his own to leave his parents house. At the age of 25 every young man should strive to leave his comfort zone (parents' house) not because u want to live a life that no one will check mate u but because u have to be a man of ur own. #Mytake 9 Likes |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by yesloaded: 12:26pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
LeoFish92:Your reasons is not enough bro, I still stay inside my father house even when I already made my first million naira. I remain in single room in my father house, I pay more than 30k to staffs I employed in my own office and to make matter worse, my Dada house to my office is 700 to 800naira transport fee everyday while I can get myself decent self contain or 2bedroom flat at 100k to 120k very close to my office without any transport fare. You should focus on how to develop yourself other than keeping late night outings, partying or carrying girls up and down. Work hard, make money and very other things shall fall in place bro. Good luck 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 26 And Still Living With My Parents (advise) by Nobody: 12:27pm On Aug 01, 2018 |
Leaving ones parents to settle down is good because it makes you responsible for your actions and decisions. But ask yourself the true motive why you want to leave. If is basically to get your privacy so as to keep late nites with your pals and female friends, you are going to get tired no doubt. Just think twice before you walk out. |
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