Rubbiish:

What kind of mistakes are u talking about?
No one is infallible, we all make mistakes...Why do u take yours so serious, thinking u should be perfect? how old are u?

iamnavy1:


18 yrs old

Rubbiish:

okay sir
Honestly your issue got more to do with self esteem & not because u are an introvert.
What kind of friends do u keep?
Do u have any female friend?

iamnavy1:


I don't have friends they usually see me as being so quiet sometimes they will be like "hey do you dat you are so dull" and I can't take that so am always alone to avoid being nagged at.

A girl told me last week that she likes she is always staring at me maybe it is because of my look I don't know


But when she told me she like me I developed cold feet instantly and I was tongue tied I can't utter any word it was so embarrassing

Rubbiish:

@bold funny...Like i said before your problem is low self esteem.
U got any sibling? Lets start from there...

iamnavy1:


Yes i have

Rubbiish:

Cool
If u are on whatsapp u can pm me your whatsapp number so i can share certain solutions with u. It is not magic, it will take a little time & u will begin to laugh over these things u worry about...

iamnavy1:


You don't understand how I feel every blessed day when I finally return to bed I cry my self to sleep my parents are not helping matter they will be like "Mike why are you so dull" I hate to hear

HeWrites:


We are in the same shoe bro, same age also. I'm always indoor, I don't go out of my room to greet any visitors even if it's my sibling.


All the girls I have on my WhatsApp list (90% are my fam) I only chat with them online. When I see them physically, I just snub them. One even greeted me when she came last week, she thought I was fighting with her.

I'm even afraid to do some things I'd like to do because I always feel like, how will people be looking at me in the street.

I don't have a girlfriend nor can I walk with a girl on the street. I can't even approach a girl because I hate the word NO. I always feel bad being talked about or making jest of. I'm always afraid call a girl or picking a girls call

Cc; Rubbiish

HeWrites:


We are in the same shoe bro, same age also. I'm always indoor, I don't go out of my room to greet any visitors even if it's my sibling.


All the girls I have on my WhatsApp list (90% are my fam) I only chat with them online. When I see them physically, I just snub them. One even greeted me when she came last week, she thought I was fighting with her.

I'm even afraid to do some things I'd like to do because I always feel like, how will people be looking at me in the street.

I don't have a girlfriend nor can I walk with a girl on the street. I can't even approach a girl because I hate the word NO. I always feel bad being talked about or making jest of. I'm always afraid call a girl or picking a girls call

Cc; Rubbiish

iamnavy1:



We are100% the same bro.

I pray that we get through this shit

iamnavy1:


We are100% the same bro.
I pray that we get through this shit

Rubbiish:

Lol...U will certainly get through
It is just a phase in your life u need to pass in order to be a better person.

Rubbiish:

@bold your case is serious...Lol
I am afraid u fear women...It's a challenge on its own. Although it is kind of related with self esteem....I brought this female angle to it because 90% of guys with low self esteem fear women.

How old are u?

Backfornow:


@ HeWrites and IamNavy
Please listen to the guys above you.
You have to believe in yourself and think highly of yourself before others will see and appreciate your worth. Suicide is not the answer. These issues you are facing are not impossible to overcome. Are they hard? yes, will they require effort, energy, and time? Yes. But in this life anything worthwhile having is all of these things. Dont give up, hang in there.

HeWrites:


Thanks, I appreciate.

iamnavy1:


We are100% the same bro.
I pray that we get through this shit

iamnavy1:


I don't have friends they usually see me as being so quiet sometimes they will be like "hey do you dat you are so dull" and I can't take that so am always alone to avoid being nagged at.

A girl told me last week that she likes she is always staring at me maybe it is because of my look I don't know


But when she told me she like me I developed cold feet instantly and I was tongue tied I can't utter any word it was so embarrassing

GloryIsaac:


A lot of people get turned off by the title but ironically, that's what attracted me to it and I never looked back.

Nice to know that you read it.

iamnavy1:
Am an introvert and the same time am shy I feel like committing suicide sometime to just end my life it is too overwhelming no matter how hard I try to break out maybe if I finally take dat snipper it will end all my misery please is it a crime to be shy or to be an introvert am tired of this life walking on the street with people eyes starring at me pisses me a lot am damn I have tried a lot to socialize but I will end up fumbling with shaky legs and voice am a teenager who looking for admission into university please if I got the admission how will I survive there with this trait of mine

infj:




wow so we're plenty on this self esteem/confidence shii
I don't also like going out cos I don't know what people starring @ me are thinking up till today I hate going to malls, I'm in uni.
uni can be fun and same time overwhelming
I don't eat in the cafeteria when people are plenty because in my head 'everybody in the cafeteria are looking @ me eat'.
As an introvert in the uni, you'll need a friend if not friends, this has helped me in some ways because most of my friends are from my secondary school(some from my class) so I was able to relate with them faster than random strangers. If you stay in your unis Hall some people will try to bring you out of your shell, I had this issue with a guy who likes chit chatting from one room to another. Sometimes when I need to be alone, I don't open the door for him then he got annoyed I also got annoyed and told him he was disturbing me we later resolved it sha. Sometimes my friends make Jest of me that if not for them I'd be living a more boring life than this. My friends also complain that I snub people, there are times when I say idgaf about people but actually I give a **** about what they say about me
I'm also shy and infj but please stop thinking about suicide, suicide is not an option try to read books watch youtube videos about your personality and learn to appreciate yourself and stop scolding yourself.
I prefer to walk in the night around the campus I withdraw my money from the atm @ night because I don't want people to see me, I don't want them to know who's passing. In my hundred level days a guy used to say I was nocturnal.



You can take personality test online and watch YouTube videos, read books also and read learn to appreciate who you are.
Sorry my write up is not organised

Geofavor:
. I swear, that's what attracted me to it as well. I read the sales copy online and was captivated. Please, if you have the soft copy of it, I'll really appreciate your sending it to my email.