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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by iamnavy1: 11:33am On Aug 05, 2018 |
Rubbiish: 18 yrs old 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 1:02pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
iamnavy1:okay sir Honestly your issue got more to do with self esteem & not because u are an introvert. What kind of friends do u keep? Do u have any female friend? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by iamnavy1: 1:50pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Rubbiish: I don't have friends they usually see me as being so quiet sometimes they will be like "hey do you dat you are so dull" and I can't take that so am always alone to avoid being nagged at. A girl told me last week that she likes she is always staring at me maybe it is because of my look I don't know But when she told me she like me I developed cold feet instantly and I was tongue tied I can't utter any word it was so embarrassing 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 2:33pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Today I had the opportunity of preaching to the congregation and it was my second attempt in a Sunday service. I have always had an issue with public speaking which has a lot to do with my desire to stay out of public view but then I find myself being given opportunity to lead and teach once in a while. In my attempt to become a public speaker, I have made some adjustments in order to communicate effectively and I hope someone learns from this. 1 I am a fast talker and this has been a problem especially in relation to my desire to get over the speech as soon as I start. Hence, I have learnt the art of patience when talking in order to carry people along. 2 I try to work on my mindset. I try to imagine a successful outcome and this was helpful. 3 It's not about you. You must look beyond yourself in trying to pass across a message. Be confident in your ability to pass across your message and sometimes just forget about yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 3:00pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
iamnavy1:@bold funny...Like i said before your problem is low self esteem. U got any sibling? Lets start from there... 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by iamnavy1: 3:57pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Rubbiish: Yes i have 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 4:03pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
iamnavy1:Cool If u are on whatsapp u can pm me your whatsapp number so i can share certain solutions with u. It is not magic, it will take a little time & u will begin to laugh over these things u worry about... 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by iamnavy1: 4:12pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Rubbiish: OK thanks give your own whatsapp number 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ladygudhead(f): 4:49pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Impressive. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HeWrites(m): 7:04pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
iamnavy1: We are in the same shoe bro, same age also. I'm always indoor, I don't go out of my room to greet any visitors even if it's my sibling. All the girls I have on my WhatsApp list (90% are my fam) I only chat with them online. When I see them physically, I just snub them. One even greeted me when she came last week, she thought I was fighting with her. I'm even afraid to do some things I'd like to do because I always feel like, how will people be looking at me in the street. I don't have a girlfriend nor can I walk with a girl on the street. I can't even approach a girl because I hate the word NO. I always feel bad being talked about or making jest of. I'm always afraid call a girl or picking a girls call Cc; Rubbiish 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 7:15pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
HeWrites:@bold your case is serious...Lol I am afraid u fear women...It's a challenge on its own. Although it is kind of related with self esteem....I brought this female angle to it because 90% of guys with low self esteem fear women. How old are u? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by iamnavy1: 7:47pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
HeWrites: We are100% the same bro. I pray that we get through this shit 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 8:27pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
iamnavy1: @ HeWrites and IamNavy Please listen to the guys above you. You have to believe in yourself and think highly of yourself before others will see and appreciate your worth. Suicide is not the answer. These issues you are facing are not impossible to overcome. Are they hard? yes, will they require effort, energy, and time? Yes. But in this life anything worthwhile having is all of these things. Dont give up, hang in there. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 8:34pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
iamnavy1:Lol...U will certainly get through It is just a phase in your life u need to pass in order to be a better person. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by iamnavy1: 9:00pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Thanks bro. I do appreciate Rubbiish: 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HeWrites(m): 10:04pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Rubbiish: 18 years old. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HeWrites(m): 10:06pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Backfornow: Thanks, I appreciate. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 10:07pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
HeWrites: You are welcome. I am cheering for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HeWrites(m): 10:08pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
iamnavy1:Hopefully 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Geofavor(m): 5:59pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
iamnavy1:.. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Geofavor(m): 6:09pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
GloryIsaac:. I swear, that's what attracted me to it as well. I read the sales copy online and was captivated. Please, if you have the soft copy of it, I'll really appreciate your sending it to my email. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by infj: 7:23pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
iamnavy1: wow so we're plenty on this self esteem/confidence shii I don't also like going out cos I don't know what people starring @ me are thinking up till today I hate going to malls, I'm in uni. uni can be fun and same time overwhelming I don't eat in the cafeteria when people are plenty because in my head 'everybody in the cafeteria are looking @ me eat'. As an introvert in the uni, you'll need a friend if not friends, this has helped me in some ways because most of my friends are from my secondary school(some from my class) so I was able to relate with them faster than random strangers. If you stay in your unis Hall some people will try to bring you out of your shell, I had this issue with a guy who likes chit chatting from one room to another. Sometimes when I need to be alone, I don't open the door for him then he got annoyed I also got annoyed and told him he was disturbing me we later resolved it sha. Sometimes my friends make Jest of me that if not for them I'd be living a more boring life than this. My friends also complain that I snub people, there are times when I say idgaf about people but actually I give a **** about what they say about me I'm also shy and infj but please stop thinking about suicide, suicide is not an option try to read books watch youtube videos about your personality and learn to appreciate yourself and stop scolding yourself. I prefer to walk in the night around the campus I withdraw my money from the atm @ night because I don't want people to see me, I don't want them to know who's passing. In my hundred level days a guy used to say I was nocturnal. You can take personality test online and watch YouTube videos, read books also and read learn to appreciate who you are. Sorry my write up is not organised 5 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by iamnavy1: 8:57pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
infj: WOW I like to do my things in the night too to avoid been seen by people 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 10:06pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
Geofavor: It's a really good book especially for introverts. Search for it on Oceanofpdf or pdfdrive. 1 Like |
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