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Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Nukilia: 6:47am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Listening to bunch of confused people in Nigeria is a recipe for disaster |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by pek(m): 6:56am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Why exactly are you and your mum begging him? I think you are more disappointed him the envisaged good and easy life you dreamt. Move on. He didn't love you enough. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Nobody: 7:03am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Sister, flee! I repeat, flee!! .Leave that family and move on with your life; you have just been saved from marital disaster. What kind of man is a man that makes his private discussions with you public, word for word? A man that cannot take his own stand?? He listens to his sisters on everything, regardless of what u have to say about it Why should you live with the mother-in-law and family after the instead of getting an apartment if he is not ready to take you with him? If he is doing that now, u are on a long thing if you marry him. There will be no privacy in your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by ajayiopy: 7:12am On Aug 30, 2018 |
RE-EXAMINE YOURSELF AND IF POSSIBLE LET YOUR FRIEND THAT IS SINCERE DO THAT FOR YOU. IF YOU ARE NOT GUILTY,MOVE ON IF OTHERWISE ADJUST YOURSELF AND STILL MOVE ON. MOST IMPORTANTLY BE TEACHABLE THIS IS THE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Donjazzy12(m): 7:13am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Beke2020:But you know in your heart that you don't love him na. You known that the sisters are right. You are planning to divorce him moment you get overseas and continue your lesbianism full time. Abeg joor swerve! |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by adamsoghene: 7:15am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Things like this happens often in courtship but there's nothing prayers cannot do; private chat me or ring me on 07032178167; I'm sure there's always a way out because with God all things are possible. Pls don't give up, trust God and belief everything is working for ur good aiit, God bless u! |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Nobody: 7:22am On Aug 30, 2018 |
GloriaNinja:you nail it |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by henrygale(m): 7:28am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Born2Breed:Lol. Thank you, the tank will do. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by henrygale(m): 7:36am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Ikpongiton: Ikpongiton:If my life or that of the family is threatened or our existence is threatened by the so-called proposed new wife coming into the family, then it means she must have a very bad character warranting that. Maybe she is an estimated bad woman with every palpable eeaskn and evidence. But look at the instances sited by the op, and how the sisters wants to be over-bearing and in-charge of their brother's life even while married. You will see they are just being selfish and afraid they wouldn't have same influence over their brother once he is married. Would you be happy as a new wife if your in-laws determines what happens between you and your husband? Just think about it. With the picture the op painted, it showed the In-laws to be are selfish and would stop at anything to maintain their personal gains from their brother even at his own detriment. 2 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Beke2020: 7:39am On Aug 30, 2018 |
God delivered you ma see below: .My Wife Is A Wicked Woman,She Denies Me My Right As Her Husband https://livelystones.com.ng/my-wife-is-a-wicked-womanshe-denies-me-my-right-as-her-husband/ |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by capitalzero: 7:45am On Aug 30, 2018 |
the guy is not husband material. however, it is good to pretend. I am very the new girl will pretend and let them have their way and strike them thereafter usually after 2 kids. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by anigold(m): 7:54am On Aug 30, 2018 |
chiommy123:yes ooo some disappointments are blessings.. if the story is true. Imagine your husband to be be sharing your secrets with his sisters that's childish... 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by KpagoGIN(m): 7:57am On Aug 30, 2018 |
There is a saying that if you want your in-laws to hate you try marrying their bread winner......and for the OP am very sorry for whatever you seem to be going through presently, take heart and please stop begging. 2 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by danelson007(m): 7:58am On Aug 30, 2018 |
my God. what is happening to our ladies? so u are begging a guy like this because he is based abroad. Op from ur story, I know u must have told ur friends that your guy is abroad, making them feel inferior, telling everyone who care to hear that you will relocate to whether UK/US soon. imagine your mother going to beg a family that has rejected you. who does that. my dear you have lost your value as a woman. I will keep warning most Nigeria girls about abroad guys it works for some but majority is just a scam. last week, a guy who came to marry a lady beat her blue black. this is a girl that was arranged for him to get married to. move on dear . |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by mercyymai(f): 8:13am On Aug 30, 2018 |
chiommy123: Seriously! U need to go and do thanksgiving in church. Do u imagine what they will make ur life to be after wedding?. Ur life will be a living hell with some1 that believe his sister over u. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by rosalieene(f): 8:16am On Aug 30, 2018 |
sometimes when I read comments here, I shake my head... nairaland is just the worst place to seek for advice and opinion. Now some of you are been judgemental. What's wrong with a girl wanting to go for an abroad based guy? we all have choices and know what we want, respect other peoples choice because you also have what you look out for. That you don't base abroad doesn't mean you should hate on girls that want abroad guys. Same way some ladies rather go for a rich guy, its same way some guys rather go for a working class or rich girls, you see, its their choices.respect it. now someone said she was desperate for his ring! like seriously! have u tried putting yourself in her shoes? wedding plans cancelled few weeks to wedding day! do you think you won't go nuts! do u know what it means.... everyone knows u are getting married this month and then gbam its no longer happening. Do u know she would be mocked. Her family too. She has planned her future, no of kids with said man, do you think its easy to just let go. Someone even said she should aspire to be like Linda Ikeji..... oga save your advice for your sisters. when a woman decide to put career first, she works hard and end up not getting married, you will talk. when she tries getting married, you will still talk... someone that said she is working..what exactly do u want? All she needs is words of encouragement and comfort. Help her to realize that she dodged a bullet and he wasn't meant for her not trying to put her down. its just a phase, over time, she will get over it and it will be a thing of the past. its easier to diss advice, but when it happens to you, you can't take the advice.. its normal for her to go back n beg, she is a human being. 3 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by KpagoGIN(m): 8:17am On Aug 30, 2018 |
danelson007:some see it as a game of chance (overseas' union).....come to think of it at this age and time who goes into a union without knowing the other partner, even those that even knew their other halve aren't safe talk less of a faceless lover. As said begging from her write up really broke my heart even her mum had to follow suite, she should just know that if that guy makes a U-turn and marries her only time will tell the outcome. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by delishpot: 8:19am On Aug 30, 2018 |
You seriously want still marry the mommys boy? Women sef. Una go see big hand writing for wall una no go still gree read am. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by seun10k5k(m): 8:20am On Aug 30, 2018 |
davit:You have no sense at all |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Nobody: 8:25am On Aug 30, 2018 |
I know how hurtful you must be feeling now but you should be extremely grateful to God for saving you from such man and his family. This is why I don't buy into such an arranged marriage, abroad matching making marriage is a no no for me. Take care of yourself dear, 3years is a long time to waste but you will be fine. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by duscollins: 8:30am On Aug 30, 2018 |
You should be thanking God for saving u from the clutches of greedy family. Is this d kind of man u want to marry? The one that is being controlled by his sisters? U are chasing shadows. If u truly need freedom, find love elsewhere. That is not d end of life, build positive air around yourself. Engage in constructive discussion and dwell little in d past. Open ur mind about relationship and work hard. Men will come but don't discriminate on d basis of their careers, finance and appearance. Knowing that men of substance are not dressed in gold, its only when u scratch them. Lastly, pls don't forget to examine ur life and work hard to remedy ur own shortcomings. U are not without one. I would have loved to follow up on this and update us frequently how u are doing. Tell ur mum not to beg, that is an insult on u. U are more than that. U are a jewel in d savanna. eimoga24@gmail.com 2 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by emsco(m): 8:36am On Aug 30, 2018 |
lesson to you girls who will dump an average guys for any abroad base guy.Am sure numerous guys have tried show you love but you rejected them because of your oversea lov,now you have to start from the scratch.Am sure those guys u reejected are doing fine or married by now.. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by gudugudumeje: 8:39am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Father figures on both sides were missing ad or, uninvolved.Ur man is a non-independent mind u need 2avoid going by d calibre of devourers/sisters around her.U wl nvr enjoy d marriage.Ask ur mother's friend 2appeal 2them ad if dat fails,u leave them 2meem their perils. Then seek a fall-back partner wt independent mind and go 2Registry simply ad follow up wt traditionals.. I pray for you 2get a bdta man ad d pray is answered.D sisters r envying you as a working class.Read Ps.86 ev'day... |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by upuphim(m): 8:46am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Indeed, you should be thanking God. If you get married to him, his sisters will still ruin the marriage because they seems to control him. You can still love another man, better than him who will not judge with hearsay evidences. BROKEN ENGAGEMENT IS BETTER THAN BROKEN MARRIAGE. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by spiceadole: 8:55am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Beke2020: Your major problem is that YOU MUST HAVE ALREADY ADVERTISED AND BRAGGED ABOUT GETTING MARRIED ON SOCIAL MEDIA. if not, I don't see any big deal about it. The family don't want their son to marry you. Do you intend to force yourself in? You should be happy they showed they don't like you. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Rajosh(m): 9:06am On Aug 30, 2018 |
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. God just saved you from a boy in a man's body. It's painful but the best thing is to move on. Forget about what people will say. it's you that'll suffer the consequences later. It's easy for us to tell you to move on because we're not in your shoes but that's the best thing to do. Time will heal all wounds. You may think age is not on your side but I tell you when God blesses you with your own husband, age will be so trivial. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by OlaoChi: 9:13am On Aug 30, 2018 |
henrygale: Lmao. So sisters cannot advice their brothers without being labeled selfish or feeling threatened That is family, especially if they are Yorubas. But wait o, why have you concluded the sisters are evil and the guy is a dummy but the writer of the story is the Saint? You only heard one side of the story 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Sammye(m): 9:14am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Prayers, my dear. But hey, if I were a lady, I wouldn't marry a sisy as a husband. From your story, that guy is not yet ripe for marriage. I can see you not ready to marry his whole family but him alone, which is good. I bet you, that new girl will not last there if that guy is not liberated. Domineering attitude of his family is not what any sane lady can endure. Don't mind today, think tomorrow. Do you want to marry the guy, or him and his whole family? I mean who forwards private chats between him and his fiancée to his family, metcheew 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Butoneday2(m): 9:18am On Aug 30, 2018 |
You need to go for spiritual cleansing. Not ordinary dear. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Jaqenhghar: 9:20am On Aug 30, 2018 |
henrygale:Perfect. I couldnt have said it better. But have you noticed she seems desperate. I mean WTH is up with all that begging |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Jaqenhghar: 9:23am On Aug 30, 2018 |
spiceadole:That one dey She don do pepper dem |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Jaqenhghar: 9:31am On Aug 30, 2018 |
rosalieene:You strike me as one of those people who like to do things because of what people will say and are in the habit of flaunting things to hear other people's opinions. In your wisdom you sacrifice your dignity and self worth because of a chance to go abroad and what people will say. I actually shake my head for you. |
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