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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by olahpet777(m): 1:39pm On Sep 07, 2018
In secondary school..she had a crush on a teacher nd d man too wan do... grin grin

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Divay22(f): 1:40pm On Sep 07, 2018
ceeroh:
Well, that's just me. I lose interest easily. Might end up not getting married sef
You will get married. But to the one you just can't seems to give up on or want to lose..i understand that feeling.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by tgmservice: 1:41pm On Sep 07, 2018
The babe was so boring, imagine replying my whatsapp chat every 30 minutes.

Oboi i find my level.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by allanphash7(m): 1:41pm On Sep 07, 2018
Oro nla




Seems she's finding it difficult to be herself and she's not ready to be mine



She's reading my comment at moment

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by smeag0l(m): 1:41pm On Sep 07, 2018
She's not boring, she's just not interested do move on and stop wasting your time.[ cryquote author=daymeelarday post=70985506]She made it look like my life depended on her agreeing to date me, she was boring too, always replying with those "k, aiit, never mind" type of replies after I text her like 5 long messages consecutively. To summarise it all, it was just exhausting.[/quote]

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by meneski(m): 1:43pm On Sep 07, 2018
smeag0l:
Pray for you to get a girl that the only thing you know about her is something as inconsequential as beauty?May God help you and open your eyes!
Amen my brother a big AMEN...i need them open so as to see beyound that.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by sommyboi(m): 1:44pm On Sep 07, 2018
felzylix:
Time, I realized there wouldn't be time for her. The little time i have i use it on my video game.


Game lovers like us, we noh dey too dey follow woman like that nah PES dey rush us grin grin


This is the funniest thing I have seen on the internet since this month.
P.S I am a game lover too

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Xisnin(m): 1:45pm On Sep 07, 2018
MariaLavina:
Not likely...
Sometimes when I'm not into a guy, I let him wear himself out, To me it's better than rudely cutting him off. However I must have let you know your place and my opinion of you before I do that.


The problem is most guys hardly take an outright No. You think all women have that patience or time to play hard to get. smiley
The bold seems to buttress my point. The writer complained of receiving one-word answers to his texts i.e k, aiit.
If she is spending time responding at all, she probably has an interest in him, maybe not for romantic purposes.

Since you let the guy know where he stands in your case, then he will know you are deliberately holding back and not
just boring.

But many other guys believe they have the girls interest and are often frustrated and confused when they get a cold response especially
when such responses are occasionally mixed with warm ones. So the guys conclude she is boring when there are other equally valid possibilities.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by zealadjay(m): 1:45pm On Sep 07, 2018
krissconnect:
I'll start with myself. She played hard to get and retracted her steps unnecessarily when I showed immense attention. I couldn't waste my time any longer cos she taught I was a fckboy and there was little I could do to change her view.

C'mon guys, lets here yours!


When others come dey rush us
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by 93Miles: 1:48pm On Sep 07, 2018
I lose interest in jamaicanlove because I discovered she's crushing on a fellow nlder
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by motivationspika(m): 1:49pm On Sep 07, 2018
insperyadyou:
Mine was, it was very clear that I was forcing myself into her probably because little interest from her wasn't' there at all. She will never return multiple missed calls. There was no Chemistry in our chats and discussion. She was never straight-forward. She was Cunningly rude, and her actions were like "get the hint and move on". I read the signs early. To me, hers wasn't playing hard to get. She was never interested. I moved on. Sometimes we think holding on is what makes us stronger not knowing is letting go.
the summary is that most of these girls think by accepting to go out with us, they are doing us some kind of special favors. This is where they have lied.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by 93Miles: 1:54pm On Sep 07, 2018
motivationspika:
the summary is that[b] most all of these girls think by accepting to go out with us, they are doing us some kind of special favors. [/b] This is where they have lied.


Exactly.

See how they'll behave if you ask for their digits.

They form sh!ts they aren't.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by tgmservice: 1:55pm On Sep 07, 2018
Reinah:
I hear a lot of guys complain about girls being boring, I agree that some girls can be boring but some times, the thing is we just can't have the same vibe with everyone. I talk and chat much but not with everyone.. I'm sure the people I don't really chat with would see me as boring but it's just that I find it hard to flow or see anything to chat with them about.

Best thing to do if someone is not flowing with you is to just let them be or take them like that.

To the question, I lost interest in someone I liked because he wasn't as quiet and intelligent as I thought.. He talks so loud and carelessly, has the brain for academics and nothing more. I remember I advised him to do or learn something before going for service but his response was just off it for me. The attraction died slowly and quietly cheesy grin
but when the bros get money you will run to him with open legs

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by dazzlingd(m): 1:56pm On Sep 07, 2018
When I don't see hope of nunu.
Why should I date a girl I cannot get nunu from, it's like a farmer planting knowing he won't get harvest, it's like going into a business knowing their won't be profit.


Nunu is bae

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Monsieur4u: 1:56pm On Sep 07, 2018
She was being too churchy

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Sep 07, 2018
tgmservice:
The babe was so boring, imagine replying my whatsapp chat every 30 minutes.

Oboi i find my level.

Wqi I don't get it ..is it that she replied too late or too early ? .you wants her to reply after 6 hours or 6 minutes ?

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by NiggasInParis: 1:57pm On Sep 07, 2018
There was this girl i met in Ilorin late 2015, A law student as at then second year in Unilorin.

When we first met it was really interesting and fun. Infact the day we first met we had a swell time, good conversation remarks which led to me even accompanying her all the way to her house in Basin.

Got to even meet her dad and enjoyed a little bit of reception all on the first day we met.

Deep in my heart i was already down for her and was already making plans for the future with her. I had taken it that serious.

In physical features she was my dream type, slim, tall, straight, front and back well served in admirable proportions(a real turn on for slim girls)

As for her intellect and communication skills she was moderate enough though as a law student i expect more.

Now as a grown ass man who knows the hierachy in which i place girls i meet and usefullness of all the ladies on my radar... I already knew this was someone i will want to have a long term relationship with and possibly cross the bridge with in the future so i wasted no time in going straight to the point.

After a few chit chats, follow ups and calls and one informal meeting we went on a date were i asked her out with all my heart, 2nd time we were meeting after the first day we met.


Having replied with the famous "i will think about it response" i had thought she just wanted to be conservative and stretch me a bit you know..Normal forming things

But no. it took another turn!

She started becoming too reserved unlike the lively and jovial person i had met that got me attracted to her. Delayed giving me a reply and when She later did went on to tell me that she don't think she's ready for relationship but we can just be friends.


Really!!!

This was a girl i am sure was into me in every variables and means by which i cant explain here.
Did not say much and let it slide in the few days ahead by sublty killing communication with her..Little effort she made by starting any chat convo wouldn't yield as i woukdnt lead her on and i stopped calling her as well. The spirit was already weak!


Now You wont believe 4 months later in 2016 she called and was complainng i had forgotten her, that i claimed i loved her when I did not, asking that i never called her or talked to her after she said no. That i was suppose to continue persuading her, that really was into me too but just wanted to delay me a bit....

I was SPEECHLESS!

"Firstly i'm longer in Ilorin, secondly the love i had for you had died after the way things turned out and what you're just telling me now has buried it. If we must have something between us again, there will need to be some sort of rekindling- which will go on to reflect the lovely, receptive and good attitude of yours that attracted me to you in the first place"

That was what i told her

Since then i never heard from her again!

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by braivheart: 1:58pm On Sep 07, 2018
Reinah:
I hear a lot of guys complain about girls being boring, I agree that some girls can be boring but some times, the thing is we just can't have the same vibe with everyone. I talk and chat much but not with everyone.. I'm sure the people I don't really chat with would see me as boring but it's just that I find it hard to flow or see anything to chat with them about.

Best thing to do if someone is not flowing with you is to just let them be or take them like that.

To the question, I lost interest in someone I liked because he wasn't as quiet and intelligent as I thought.. He talks so loud and carelessly, has the brain for academics and nothing more. I remember I advised him to do or learn something before going for service but his response was just off it for me The attraction died slowly and quietly cheesy grin

This part got me laughing.

I like people (girls) that think like this, and believe me when I say they are few and far between.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by centboy123456(m): 1:58pm On Sep 07, 2018
ceeroh:
Well, that's just me. I lose interest easily. Might end up not getting married sef


I swear to God me and u na d same thing oh in fact I can like a girl today tomorrow I lose interest me I talk am I no go marry just baby mama because marriage na sacm

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by olahpet777(m): 1:58pm On Sep 07, 2018
ceeroh:
Well, that's just me. I lose interest easily. Might end up not getting married sef

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Sep 07, 2018
sipsip:
I had known her about 10 years, though most of the time, we just chat and video chat. We met just once so naturally, cause of social media pictures and all that flashes... I had a very high esteem for her. Invited her on a date when i came back for a bit. She stays in lekki so it was easier for us to see at that period. We talked and we decided she knows where i stay. A guy called when we were having a good conversation. Her response to him shocked me. I thought she was an intelligent, confident girl but, naaa. She was obviously in a toxic and abusive relationship. I lost respect for her. She sensed it when i asked her if I should call a taxi... I lost every attraction in me... The end.
chai! cry cry cry

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Xisnin(m): 1:59pm On Sep 07, 2018
motivationspika:
the summary is that most of these girls think by accepting to go out with us, they are doing us some kind of special favors. This is where they have lied.
Where do you think that believe come from?
If you own a business where people push themselves to buy from you, you will at one
stage start to think you are doing people a favor even though everyone benefits from the
situation.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Sep 07, 2018
MariaLavina:
They have come.


The online chatterbox have come grin
grin grin grin
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Adeyeancah(m): 2:02pm On Sep 07, 2018
sodiqapril:
like most Nigerian girls, she is boring AF...chatting with most Nigeria girls identical to chatting with a robot..i think its due to this their stupid pride...i've like five White girls I chat with on watsapp, we met on Instagram..(I use my real name and pictures), we are just friends.I've Even gone as far as making video calls with one of them..the level of maturity and lack of boredom in the way these girls converse has made me sworn not to waste my energy chasing Nigeria girls..what most of them understand is money but there are few exceptions sha
Confirm lo so Sodiq, when I joined facebook in 2008, I started by making friends with White girls and the way they chat is totally diff from most of our 9ja ladies walai. If u ask most of our 9ja girls 3 questions in one message. They would reply one. You go need to retype the remaining two questions LOL!!!!

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Duru009(m): 2:02pm On Sep 07, 2018
Character !
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by 360great(m): 2:03pm On Sep 07, 2018
Baddo..... I no go mind if u connect me o, I don tire for all these sucking blood girls cool
mrphysics:
She was interested in money. I had none then so I forgot about her. In 2018, she's not the one wooing me and I am interested in a girl that have money, since she has none, she should forget about me but she's not doing that.
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Sep 07, 2018
dingbang:
because they dont practice good personal hygiene, they dont even care to check their health status. they just end up infecting you with infections
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Adeyeancah(m): 2:04pm On Sep 07, 2018
Vicintonsh:
.she was pretty buh not lively .mehn you needed to see our chats
.boringgggggggggggg
Same chats everyday, I know hehehehe
Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 2:07pm On Sep 07, 2018
Energy that i will use to find money and shape my life.. i will be wasting to chase one Nigeria girl that will give you attitude which will disorganise your brain.. BRETHREN THE EARLIER YOU REALISE BEING SINGLE WHILE YOU SHAPE YOUR FUTURE THE BETTER FOR YOU. STOP WASTING YOUR TIME CHASING LEECHES. MOST OF THEM LACKS COMMON SENSE AND THINKS THEY ARE DOING YOU A FAVOUR.

IF EVERY GUY WAS LIKE ME, THERE WONT BE LAZY GIRLS IN THIS COUNTRY.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Sep 07, 2018
93Miles:
I lose interest in jamaicanlove because I discovered she's crushing on a fellow nlder




lipsrsealed undecided


Please stick to Kenonze and let me be.

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