princfred:
Yes. So what?

akinszz:
your character determines where you are placed .

zinaunreal:


Sister Nigerian women are more financial in relationships. Maybe not you but most ladies. Boring as hell. That notion where you attract people like yourself, lady youre damn wrong.

I think you just dey use vex dey comment, white women know what relationships really mean, not the commercial black african money lovers, who call themselves wives to be

93Miles:


Why keep me waiting if u are not interested?

And for asking for 'airtime', it wasn't a way to put me off.

Most Nigerian ladies ask guys for money the moment the guy starts chattin them up.

Some will bring up stroies like 'My gas just finished. My mom is sick can u send me airtime to call her'?


I've encountered an Ameriacan girl on social media. She wasn't interested and she opend up. Told me straight up. She didn't ask for money as a means to put me off.

Justice310:
Sharap there. I dislike naija ladies, they're like poo

ImaIma1:


So what? Nothing. I just wanted to know

motivationspika:
the summary is that most of these girls think by accepting to go out with us, they are doing us some kind of special favors. This is where they have lied.

Odionwere:
Because I don't have money

princfred:
Rather both of us are doing each other.

princfred:
@ (a)Please gladly do as i believe the guys are matured and emotionally developed enough to take criticism and use it o improve rather than childish doubling down on stupid.
@ (b) Don't think thats high esteem because its actually delusional ego which prevents the average black from learning and improving when their flaw is shown to them enough.

MariaLavina:
So you are saying no Nigerian Lady has ever turned you down? With an outright No?

Anyways there are boring men and leeches everywhere, its not in Nigeria alone. Most Indian guys I have met online are boring too. They are either showing you pictures of their diicks or asking what time it is in Nigeria. . The point is, Nigerians should embrace themselves and try to help each other grow.

princfred:
Ok we do use that line sometimes if it will drive home a point. Are you satisfied now, miss Sabinus?

MariaLavina:
Lol....Nice conversing with you. I've spent too much time here already

Bryan12:
Left my workplace, went to see her after driving for an 1hr and 70% of the time she pressed her phone.
Feelings dropped from 45% to 2%

JamaicanLove:








Please stick to Kenonze and let me be.

pocohantas:


LOL, sorry about that. Why would you want him to sing na? I will be nervous if I am asked to sing o. Not with this my tiny voice

Honestly, it goes both ways. Most Naija guys don't wanna really know you, they just interrogate. That is why they forget almost everything about you in record time.

I have met some really awesome ones, but they shared some qualities. A particular age group, thriving careers or goals and sometimes foreign based.

paulGrundy:


she kept snobbing my WhatsApp message and went about telling my Church folks about how I try hard to woo her and that the tone of my WhatsApp messages are too sexualized. I cut off ties with her.

one year after her marriage she messaged me hi on Facebook.

I didn't waste time! DELETE AND BLOCK!!

Kenfil:


Mm��. If anyone knows they have a flaw, it's their duty to change and work on them however, BLACK MEN STOP THE FOOLISH COMPARISM. If u prefer the white women, by all means go for them but stop being ridiculous cos all the things you men are complaining about in Nigeria where actually caused by u guys.. list: bride price, women staying at home, women believing only a man pays, etc.were all standards set up by d African male.. U guys should sit and think bout it

93Miles:



We will keep on picking white women over black women until black women stop being leeches.

No black woman wants to share bills with her man.

Most African ladies go into relationship for monetary gains.




No sane black man will run black to an African leech.

MariaLavina:
Obviously she's isn't into you! Your consistent message might have showed you off as a possible maga. Although she might have made that request to get you off her neck.

BTW can't you guys attain that level of self realization where a lady has to start a conversation with you? Must you always be the seeker. Ladies chat up guys too, just that they must have seen something in you.

ImaIma1:


You don't have to get cheeky with me. Try communicating without sounding offensive or defensive.

princfred:
No Nigerians cannot grow by embracing their nonsense but by dis embracing themselves with the present nonsense mental dispositions, growing, then re-embracing.

Rapunzel001:



She will then say that the reason why you deleted/blocked her is because you no gree for her

Kenfil:


Pained? Sorry oo if u think anyone on d internet can make me scratch my head.. like I said, not worried bout unintelligent men that think they have d right to abuse African women.. most of ur mothers and sisters are leeches and dependent on men all their lives so please miss me with d bullshit.

93Miles:





did u just say wait for a Nigerian girl to start a convo with you? That looks like a long distance dream.

Will pride allowed a Nigerian lady start up a convo? Won't she say she will look cheap if she start?

Even most of our Nigerian gfs find it hard to start a convo with their bfs when the come online and u are talking about a stranger starting up a convo.


Most Nigerian ladies will see u on the street can can't gresst because u are not driving car.
Some u will greet and the can't open their dirty mouth to answer ur greetings and u are telling me to wait for them to start a convo.

I was done with them anyway.

Now left for my brothers to have sense and leave them.

MariaLavina:
Because they were raised by people with reverse logic.

To a Typical Nigerian Man, A lady is expected to be less knowledgeable, quiet, more of a listener and most importantly be a follower. Even in conversations you tend to dominate, you talk about what you want and not what interest the lady. Most times you bore us out. . Worst is if a lady flows too much , she's a flirt, talk active, desperate etc you judge her.


Another point is manner of approach. I cannot count the numbers of messages I've ignored on my social media accounts because of this. Can you imagine who wants to chat you up for the first time starting a convo with "Sup" . Like seriously? A quick check on my profile will should show you the type of person I am. But no, they won't do that, they just want to sup!

And another is most guys these days are looking for who to date Not just friendly conversations. It's like everyone is looking for love.I can't imagine enjoying a good conversation with a guy only for it to go all mushy all of a sudden. Like shooting your shoot? Hell no! Don't blame me if I go cold with the same alacrity.


Accept it or Not, Most guys who claim to have conversations with Whites compose themselves better than when they do with the blacks. They pay more attention, construct the languages better and present themselves well. So Sir, It isn't really our fault.

Cocao:
If i venture find out that you are empty in the brain...the way I will run eh. For avoidance of doubt, if you cannot

Say whats happening around the world
World culture does not interest you
Have no curiosity to know more
interested in more than one perspective
Does not read books
Does not know anything about either or all of tech, business and politics

You are boring. Don't feel offended

MariaLavina:
This isn't a war Sir,

Only blacks put down themselves, as a matter of fact only Nigerian Men put down their women. You will never see a white man insult his kind on a forum. But A Nigerian man will pull down, trample and mock his own. And you think these white will ever take you seriously? No. They laugh at you.

You think praising whites will make them respect you? Whites will never respect one who is insecure of his own skin.

Keep fighting, keep blaming, keep castigating . The joke is on you! If you don't accept your kind, how will you correct ? Smh. I feel pity for my own kind. I feel pity for the typical Nigerian Man!

93Miles:





did u just say wait for a Nigerian girl to start a convo with you? That looks like a long distance dream.

Will pride allowed a Nigerian lady start up a convo? Won't she say she will look cheap if she start?

Even most of our Nigerian gfs find it hard to start a convo with their bfs when the come online and u are talking about a stranger starting up a convo.


Most Nigerian ladies will see u on the street can can't gresst because u are not driving car.
Some u will greet and the can't open their dirty mouth to answer ur greetings and u are telling me to wait for them to start a convo.

I was done with them anyway.

Now left for my brothers to have sense and leave them.

saasala:


Thanks bro. How much does a PS 2 console go for now?

spiceadole:



You have said it all.

Imagine some random stranger on social media starts a conversation with

Hey Babe.
Sup Honey
Sweetheart
Love of my life
My bae....


And seriously expects me to reply.

This person is not even intelligent but will come to nairaland and complain about ladies not being intelligent on chats.