1StopRudeness:


Regret what...??

Taking charge of ur emotions ??
and not allow a woman determine ur happiness like the OP is what he will regret....??
U are the one that deserve slap cos u didn't see his message.....U might not agree with his idea of visiting prostitutess because u have customized one lady to urself in the name of marriage in Dec 8....
Weda in marriage or just sexxual relationship, a man still needs to get a grip of himself and not allow sexx-drive rule him.....because women will always use sex as a weapon against u weda outside marriage or legally in marriage, even though they want it as well, but will make it look like it's a favour they are doing for u...

Happy married life in advance anyways

Slappers, abeg make una direct these E-slaps well before another person cheeks go collect am.

MrEazi223:
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That's why I can thief to subscribe data on my phone to visit nairaland everyday.
This bro really makes my day already

bross nairaland is free na. use airtel or etisalat sim card, go through freebasics.com then then just open nairaland from there.

Sterope:
Quit the relationship and work on your grammar. Your English is too poor for a postgrad. You really to need to focus on your personal development.

thanks sis

macello4:
werey teacher i love u. Lol

You see, there are various mistakes people make when it comes to relationship and one of those reason is not understanding why you are in the relationship. its obvious that your feelings for the girl is no longer as strong as it was when you guys just started and you are only trying to put up with things because you pity her and don't want to be labelled. Relationship is not a do or die affair, it is meant for us to check and appraise each other and if along the journey you find some things you cannot stand in your partner, you talk to her about it and give room for correction but if she still doesn't change or improve then you have no reason to continue such relationship because it goes a long way to shows that she is not as committed to the relationship as you are. Remember, your happiness also matters.......so don't keep yourself in the relationship if you are no longer happy because either you like it or not, you guys are still going to break up if such things continues.

nh04:


Wow this is unbelievable... I can't believe my eyes
God bless you in a million folds...I could not believe my eyes when I saw the alert on my phone..

Below is the attached image of the alert
Once again thanks and God bless you and your family. Amen

Hmmm it's actually unbelievable.....ur comment depict the behavior of a brother who doesnt allow any lady to break his heart in my area.
Anyway, try and extend some kindness with that alert u got. I think their is a guy who needs help
Check through all d comment to identify him and please share something wt him. And God in his mercy would supply more.

luminouz:


Lmaoooo
N women are emotionally and mentally stronger eh?? Yet u lots don't just wanna WORK FOR UR OWN MONEY!!!

That's harsh.. of course they wanna work ....They just don't feel complete without spending a man's money...

MrEazi223:
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That's why I can thief to subscribe data on my phone to visit nairaland everyday.
This bro really makes my day already

hahahaha ole.....

1StopRudeness:


That's harsh.. of course they wanna work ....They just don't feel complete without spending a man's money...

Lmaoooo
Now ur really way harsher!!!!
So they be leeches??

The girl is in love with your phallus due to her regularly giving you B.J that is why she is crying not to leave your phallus for another predator.

This writer na mumu oo a girl you did not married to and you don't take care of her as a broke guy you are ,you expect to chop alone abi ,if say no bi God I for call you pig

akiOYIBO:

I love you

u be gay?

1StopRudeness:


That's harsh.. of course they wanna work ....They just don't feel complete without spending a man's money...

Will you feel complete without spending on your woman? How many men feel complete without spending on their women?

It is an ego trip for men. So, that arrangement favors both gender if you ask me.

spyg1:
The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future.

There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while I am 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship.

We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because I am a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that I am just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter.

But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted.

Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again.

After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, I am just like other guys, she know the reason why I am doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla.

To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex.

Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come.

I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly I am seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat?

Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly?

Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page.

PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS

........If e good for ur health DO IT
........if e no good for ur health. QUIT.

luminouz:

Wao!!!
See how u insulted ur sisters and mum!!

The fact is that truth should not be half told. So kindly stop being deceived. Your sister and mum are not in anyway exempted! Truth is bitter and I admit 99.999% of ladies are no saints. None of them is exempted. They can only be repented!

GrammarNazi1:

...Don't ever condone cheating.

Bru ah ah ah, u'll have a lot of Englishes to correcting. Lol

strong766:
bross nairaland is free na. use airtel or etisalat sim card, go through freebasics.com then then just open nairaland from there.

Thank you for opening my eyes to this, I'll check it if it can work when I exchust this current subscription

general09:
No! Don't leave her yet. Help her to live the life that she want.
How do you do that?
1. Control your heart from loving her
2. Convert that love to anger
3. Channel that anger to your di*k
4. If you do the item 3 sincerely, you will notice the reaction on your di*k. It will become aware of your pain thereby becoming malicious that when you look at it when it's charged, you will see the malice written all over it. It will be thick, strong, full of veins..that's your weapon bro. That's your weapon!
5. Now use it to attack her kpekus vigorously
Note: when attacking, don't do it for you to enjoy. Tell yourself that your doing it for her ie that your trying to liberate her from a curse.
6. Keep doing it at every opportunity. Boy! She will take off and will never blame you. Instead, when ever she sees you she will be like good afternoon bross.
Try this and thank me later.

Where do you usually get your snuff? Abeg. Asking for a friends friend

Sterope:
Quit the relationship and work on your grammar. Your English is too poor for a postgrad. You really to need to focus on your personal development.

Dindinrin... Mumu... Oponu

Noel1:
Bru ah ah ah, u'll have a lot of Englishes to correcting. Lol

A lot?

Mac2016:


The fact is that truth should not be half told. So kindly stop being deceived. Your sister and mum are not in anyway exempted! Truth is bitter and I admit 99.999% of ladies are no saints. None of them is exempted. They can only be repented!

Well my mum is different....
So..... Japaaaaaa

MrEazi223:


Thank you for opening my eyes to this, I'll check it if it can work when I exchust this current subscription

it works fine and only on operamini browser. you will see other free sites too even BBC

ADEOD:
You see, there are various mistakes people make when it comes to relationship and one of those reason is not understanding why you are in the relationship. its obvious that your feelings for the girl is no longer as strong as it was when you guys just started and you are only trying to put up with things because you pity her and don't want to be labelled. Relationship is not a do or die affair, it is meant for us to check and appraise each other and if along the journey you find some things you cannot stand in your partner, you talk to her about it and give room for correction but if she still doesn't change or improve then you have no reason to continue such relationship because it goes a long way to shows that she is not as committed to the relationship as you are. Remember, your happiness also matters.......so don't keep yourself in the relationship if you are no longer happy because either you like it or not, you guys are still going to break up if such things continues.

Exactly - Go into relationship to see if marriage is possible not to just marry. One of the simpliest and mature comments here. You are followed.

Sterope:
Quit the relationship and work on your grammar. Your English is too poor for a postgrad. You really to need to focus on your personal development.

look at who is correcting someone on grammar,which one is "you really to need to" uh?

tayooluwole:

Dindinrin... Mumu... Oponu

lol, imagine.
Is she OP girlfriend or what has she done to you to deserve this insult? Why taking the matter so personal?

luminouz:

Well my mum is different....
So..... Japaaaaaa

Abi nao...We shd show some respect. Women esp mothers..RESPECT!

My girlfriend, despite the fact that i like her...

She doesn't know how to have S"ex, am always the one having to do the work.

If i ask her for nude pictures, she will just send one and pose boring in the picture. Yet, i always try to act normal with her.

And before we started dating, she told me that she has someone already and that she cannot just dump him because of me. Still yet i accepted and continue having relationship with her. But, one day when she came to my place, so i just felt like going through her WhatsApp chats then i saw her chatting romantically with a guy, but still yet i acted like i did not see the chats, cause i believed we are not married yet.

So one day she just confronted me on WhatsApp that i did not have her time again, that i have found what am looking for(s*ex) now i don't give her time the again(which i have warned her severally to stop talking like that, that the statement always make me sick) cause at the end i always felt like am dating her out of sympathy. But, all of a sudden she popped out another statement that "i told her to leave her bf and she already left him because of me" that's when i just went berserk on her, and asked her "when did i ever told you to leave your bf?" And moreover, there was a day i saw your chats chatting with a guy and you were calling him your love and other romantic names on chat. wasn't he your bf before?" Then she was mute for some minutes and later said it was because the guy always give her something monetary that's why she always still have romantic chats with him, to cut the story short, i think i don't have feelings for her again cause am predicting a nagging and unsatisfied partner in the future...

kunkelhanspeter:
My own advise if you really love a girl don’t even go near her phone bro u will feel heartbreak
I have tried it twice and it did not end well

by the time you get herpes that's when you will know that you have to be at alert at all times.

Postfut:


I kid you not go ahead. At least 4k to recharge your phone so you can keep advising these mumu boys who still believe in “love”

thanks boss,for encouraging a bro,a rev.father of d gospel of dating.

The day I saw whatsapp chat between my ex and the former boyfriend, immediately I killed the feelings and the plans of having her as my wife, I'm happy that I did

Sterope:
Quit the relationship and work on your grammar. Your English is too poor for a postgrad. You really to need to focus on your personal development.

Can you see your error? Madam Grammar, international personality developer.

I don't understand why the guys on this thread are getting so emotional over this issue. Do you people think men don't mess up in relationships?
You think men are saints and women are devils? Or you think men are always faithful while women always cheat?

Get over yourselves jor.

With the many stories of men raping their girlfriends because they refused them sex, there was a story on nairaland of one that killed her after raping her because she wanted to keep her virginity.
Then what of men that waste a womans life, date her for years and years then leave her when she is old?
What about the ones that use women for money then abandon them for another woman?

Rubbish.

I won't even take this thread seriously untill I hear the girls side of the story. How are we sure OP hasn't been mistreating that girl or even cheating on her as well because if he has he won't come here to tell us.

Anyone quotes me to say nonsense, may your family be afflicted with any nonsense or insult you write to your tenth generation.