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Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 7:27pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
vingeophysicist: even with going to school?? I just figured if he could afford school then maybe he wasn’t extremely poor if that makes sense. He wears more name brand than I do lol...which he did say most of its fake because I guess it’s easy to reproduce fake name brand clothing there?? Sigh...idk. I really dig the kid though. Time will tell... 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Benscolari: 7:30pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018:Op is just a local G-boy from Warri At the bolded; an American can NEVER use loose instead of lose in this context. Only non natives makes the mistake of misusing LOOSE FOR LOSE. LOOSE :not firmly or tightly fixed in place; detached or able to be detached. While LOSE means : be deprived of or cease to have or retain (something).(Obviously your fake boyfriend is losing his mind) Believe this keyboard warrior at your own peril! #BENSCOLARI SPEAKS 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 7:35pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Benscolari: Lol seriously That’s what makes me fake...using loose vs lose. Haha mkay. Either way. Doubt I’d waste this much time and energy to be fake sir! And EVEN if you feel that way...why take the time to reply?? ::insert eye roll:: I’m sure I made other grammatical errors too...ya just didn’t catch them English teacher::insert second eye roll:: AGAIN...Thanks to those who have been willing to offer useful advice. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Benscolari: 7:37pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
#Maga go soon pay #BENSCOLARI SPEAKS Fe2018: 2 Likes |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by hardcore007: 8:02pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Ire2:Baba you get sense abeg, that guy na ode. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by musicwriter(m): 8:07pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018: If they offer you a job don't accept it. If they want to send you a cheque, don't accept it, not even to cash it. If they want to wire money to your account don't accept it. If they want you receive a mailed package, don't accept it. If they want your ID, SSN, DOB, TIN, for whatever reason, don't share it. You've been warned. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by donoro(m): 8:21pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Na someone hustle una dey spoil like this oo
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Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by samysmoothfresh: 8:46pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018: i have a friend who's into this whole scamming BS full time.......... And from your entire epistle, i'd say dude is either 60% genuine or he's a bold good scammer reason why i say he probably is 60% genuine is cos he already broke the 1st, 3rd and 4th rules of "the online business" (yahoo) rule #1: never reveal your identity to a "client" rule #3: never make a video call with your client rule #4: never give your real facebook details to your client (most times, facebook accounts are bought by these scammers to make things look real but i honestly dont think that's the case with your "Nigerian man" unless of course, he's a "bold" super intelligent scammer in summary, there's a 60% chance he's sincere if you wanna know more about yahoo in Nigeria and perhaps confirm if he's prolly ticked a box in the yahoo rule book, ask here 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Robynwelo1(f): 8:55pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
BEWARE! There are too many heartless youths here to fully trust one. He is still in college(yahoo boys' residence), there is very little he can offer you. Sooner or later you will know what I mean. Zero percent of Nigerian's date cross country not because of what they can gain. You can date a Nigerian in America who is not looking for a come up. Him saying I love you, so soon, should tell you something. You are also 7 years older than him, my dear, just forget it! SCAM 2 Likes |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 8:58pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Uglymugg:
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Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Robynwelo1(f): 9:06pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh: You have not seen anything. He might not be an expert, but he doesn't have good intentions. They toy with your heart, but you start falling for them and their lies. What I'm concerned for is the OP's emotions, he does not genuinely love her, he wants something. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 9:12pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018:u urself have have doubt in ur heart so that means he might not be genuine.u said he"s 23 and u are 31.that age gap is a bit too wide o.why not try an older nigerian guy. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by ManIzHot: 9:19pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
humm I will be following this thread kingly |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by rex444(m): 9:19pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Its easy to brand certain nationality con men,forgetting the true origin of d word. Nigeria being a failed nation due to greedy politicking is enough to push one to certain feats,dont just run into conclusion and call names, find out d reason why. Love is a give and take thing, don't fail to give whdn u can even real relationships end up a disaster even marriages . if ur mind says go ahead,follow that |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 9:29pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018: He isn't dating you for your money, he is doing it for the green card. He invites you to Nigeria to get married to him, you work with the immigration so you can get your husband over. When he finally sets his feet on the American soil, he stays married for a while probably 3-4 years, boom a divorce or he disappears. Well, I'm 31, if you looking for someone of the same age. Another scenario, like it stated above perhaps he trying to use to pull his internet scheme, get money, package, a cheque from someone putting you at risk. If I may ask, what dating site did you guys meet? 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by AlPeter: 9:49pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
EVILFOREST:lol.... dude where are you calling hell? |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by samysmoothfresh: 10:10pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Robynwelo1: but what could that "something" be............any ideas? |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 10:11pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
lefulefu: If an older Nigerian guy had been the one to message me then perhaps I would have. I had no intentions of dating anyone internationally but this just happened. 1) for some reason I never asked his age when we initially began talking. He didn’t look as young as he is. 2) Age is the least of my concern. In conclusion...you’re right. Doubt in itself is a reason to believe he’s not being genuine. ::shrugs:: idk. I’ll just let things play out, rebuild my inner wall and try not to dwell on the situation much. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Demogorgon(m): 10:15pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
I don't believe this Fe2018. Clear my doubts. Post a picture of you holding a piece of paper with 'I AM FE2018' boldly written on it. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 10:15pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
BiggyB242: Lol he’s my quota. If it doesn’t work with him I doubt I’ll ever attempt this type of dating again. That just seems like so much work just to pull off a scam for a green card. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 10:19pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Demogorgon: Lol blah! I wonder why people with negative things to say even bother to comment? Guess someone has to keep it interesting. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Uglymugg: 10:21pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
lefulefu:lol what did i type wrongly? |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Uglymugg: 10:24pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
BiggyB242: Please kill yourself. Wow! Nigerians are very wicked people.
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Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Uglymugg: 10:28pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018: I can tell you're gradually getting convinced due to the answers you getting here. But I'll advise you to go back and read admin401's post, so you can snap back to reality. 2 Likes |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 10:33pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Fe2018:just play along and dont so much dwell on the issue. If he truely likes u u will know and if its otherwise u will also know. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 10:35pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Uglymugg:no mind me jor |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by HAkorehdeh(m): 11:38pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
I only am gonna pity the poor guy. First, he was unlucky to come from a shiihole country like Nigeria ; second, he's gon have to date an American lady whom after everything works out (perhaps) would later file a divorce letter and scam the guy of his whole hard earned property. Lol, just joking! On a serious note, we Nigerians equally fear American women as you might fear us. No one is safe and no where is safe. My advice is for you is to take it easy with him. Be patient and don't make it look like you're being too suspicious. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by khiaa(f): 12:48am On Nov 02, 2018 |
ak475: Alezy, this scares me. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Nobody: 12:57am On Nov 02, 2018 |
The response I received on my post has been overwhelming and unexpected. Thanks to everyone who took the time to give positive and encouraging words. I think posting this has helped to see if I care for him I’ll give him the chance he deserves if he’s not giving me any reason not trust him and give him that chance. Perhaps it was fate for me and him to meet no matter the ultimate outcome. Anyway. My complicated yet beautiful love story is to be continued. I guess there isn’t really a way to shut a thread down so maybe I’ll update when I’ve traveled to Nigeria and married my King PS...I did tell him I posted on here because I’m chicken and well I don’t believe in secrets. He’s a little upset but kiiiiiiiind of understands Lol thanks again Nariland peeps. 1 Like |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by khiaa(f): 1:22am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Fe2018: Your people aren't originally from Jamaica. |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by Obas101(m): 1:29am On Nov 02, 2018 |
your picture..let us access you |
Re: American Girl Lost In A Nigerian World by khiaa(f): 1:58am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Fe2018: At the embolden. I know exactly what you mean, I'm American as well and I am having trust issues. Sorry, Alezy, it's not you, it's me. 1 Like |
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