tunwumi:


Let he who is without a sin be the first to cast the stone. About 70% of non Virgins have had one abortion or the other. It may be induced or self. You can marry a virgin and still have child bearing issues. It has been proved scientifically.

What's with you people and this stupid 'stone'?! I will cast and super cast cause I am neither a LovePeddler not a baby killer!

Ategberoson:
you're talking about marrying a lady that had aborted before



I can't marry a lady that had been disflower in my life. there is no how I can trust any lady that I didn't meet virgin if I get married to her



why settle down for less Op, don't you know how to woo?

What if she turns to a LovePeddler after disflowering her. Life doesn’t have manual

Amakababe:
just so you know,

any lady who isn't a Virgin has a 90% chance of doing an abortion.
so again I say shutup.

Your frustration is well understood. It is very obvious you cannot count the number of abortions you have carried out. Even your signature says that you're a hole.

If all men are like me, you would never see anybody to marry your lot, bcus I a can never marry a girl who have had abortion, cus I never did abortion for any girl.

PrimadonnaO:


Her post was utterly stupid. I just had to restrain myself from replying her. She thinks everyone is careless, sleeps around and puts their lives at risk.

You have no idea how pissed I was. She insulted me thinking I would go low as she did but my ma raised me better. I'm free in my body and soul.

Saff:
All I have to say is goodluck to you. In this day and age, to find all those things you have to go to your village in Anambra to find a lady who has not been exposed to nada in life. Age will teach you a lesson, you’re just young and a little bit delusional at this point so I completely understand. I wish you well!

Even though it’s his wish, it’s kjnda fantasy to me lol

My dear don't mix up issue with your life, either she committed abortion(s) it’s about you, if you love her. The remorse is the act of exposing the in-depth xter of whom she is. So decide!

123abcclown:

Can you marry one that has done it 3 times?

like your name 123abc. YES . its because you know, what of, if she didn't tell you and she has done it five times.

OsuMustGo:

hOW MANY U DON DO??

3 NOW ABI?

Think what you like, I only asked to know how serious her matter is

abiola7195:
I don't know why people now promote immorality in the society. We shouldn't support abortion irrespective of the situation. There's always an alternative to abortion.....

Everyone has to be responsible for his or her actions. That being said, would you be the one to take care of the kid(s) when she give birth?

ifeko1214:

U had any?

None and never Insha Allah

missdee384:
TBH....u are so full of yourself.... read your comments on this thread so far and all I can smell is pride. SMH

Even though all what he said may not come through, that’s his wish and he is a man. Meaning, he must be proud

For every maiden that has done abortion, there must be a man responsible who hence, has also ...you know.......a******. d Abi na them dey impregnate themselves? So guys, quit the stone casting and grow up. This is lifesh*t happens.

Abortion Isnt The Worst Sin.If God Can Forgive Her Who Are U 2 Question Her.Infact Such Ladies Turn Out 2 B D Best When They Repent.

Saff:
But when a woman wants a rich man, you shame her and call her a gold digger and leech. Meanwhile most of you community dog peniss men want a virgin. Men are allowed to have standards but women can’t? Okay na I see the logic..

Sorry ooo, why is this thing common with u women..??.when an argument of sex and virginity comes up, the next opposite thing u can come up with as a counter dialogue is money...
Money is something everyone can get by working hard, so anyone marrying solely for money weda male or female is a gold digger.....I still don't understand how it the opposite of virginity/sex matters
U women really need to understand that marrying a woman with so many body count and cascade of abortion isn't the problem for guys......the problem is psychological fear, that such a woman might have problems giving birth, or the trust issues that if she can have a body count of above 5-15 before they met her there's really no big deal adding more that statistics...

Flattino:
Thank God for Islam

My brother, Alhamdulillahi! This world has turned into something else

Saff:
You will never know unless that lady opens her mouth to tell you. It is not written on people’s forehead. It does not cause infertility, it’s not written on her vagina , you cannot go to the hospital to find out. Tell me how will you know? Don’t deceive yourself, you better pray that that woman opens her mouth to tell you, but most women take that information to the grave. Some don’t even tell their own boyfriends that they had sex with, goodluck you hear!

You are right about not knowing, I mean, many just put the blame on a lots of things, and we have miscarriages and other stuff, but you were wrong to say its does not cause infertility.

Most of the problems that marriages have can be traced back to what the man and the woman have done in the past. yeah nobody wants to admit it, but that is the truth.

Oh, women keep a lots of secrets, like how many dicks they have sucked, how many men have slept with them, if a man knows some of the things most of the woman have done, they won't want to sit in the next seat.

ChiefAlex:


Everyone has to be responsible for his or her actions. That being said, would you be the one to take care of the kid(s) when she give birth?

you don't have to smell what you won't eat...if can't care for a child, you won't go near (unprotected) sex which of course leads to unwanted pregnancy. You can't justify immortality. let call a spade a spade

Dshocker:


She wanted to say every Nigerian girl has done an abortion before #fact

Fact for her, in her world not mine.

AryEmber:
Fact for her, in her world not mine.

But the truth still remains that most girls have done it

thegoodone1234:
like your name 123abc. YES . its because you know, what of, if she didn't tell you and she has done it five times.

Yes, I guess we shouldn't judge people by their past. Of even more so not hold past regrets against them.

sparko1:


You are right about not knowing, I mean, many just put the blame on a lots of things, and we have miscarriages and other stuff, but you were wrong to say its does not cause infertility.

Most of the problems that marriages have can be traced back to what the man and the woman have done in the past. yeah nobody wants to admit it, but that is the truth.

Oh, women keep a lots of secrets, like how many dicks they have sucked, how many men have slept with them, if a man knows some of the things most of the woman have done, they won't want to sit in the next seat.

Men nko? You how many pvssy have you licked? etc

kennedith9:
Maybe many guys are like that but not me. I hate always hate abortions, I want a girl who is decent but I would still prefer a single mother to someone who's killed a soul before. When she told me, I froze. I distant myself a little to wrap my head around it, she starting insulting me saying I'm conderming and leaving her because of something that's not a big deal.

...sm

she really thinks its not a big deal?? gosh...she's dumb o..lol

AryEmber:
Don't tell me you think every lady in that age gap gas had an abortion before

Ignore her. She has saw dust inside her skull calling it sperm. They think everybody opens leg like them. What a stupid statement.

Dshocker:


She wanted to say every Nigerian girl has done an abortion before #fact

Fact for her, maybe in her world but definitely not mine.

Dshocker:


But the truth still remains that most girls have done it

Soo the truth still remains that most guys have done it as well. Abi na the girls dey impregnate themselves?

1StopRudeness:


Sorry ooo, why is this thing common with u women..??.when an argument of sex and virginity comes up, the next opposite thing u can come up with as a counter dialogue is money...
Money is something everyone can get by working hard, so anyone marrying solely for money weda male or female is a gold digger.....I still don't understand how it the opposite of virginity/sex matters
U women really need to understand that marrying a woman with so many body count and cascade of abortion isn't the problem for guys......the problem is psychological fear, that such a woman might have problems giving birth, or the trust issues that if she can have a body count of above 5-15 before they met her there's really no big deal adding more that statistics...

money is something that everyone can get, but virginity is non existent in males? Or what exactly is your point. Men priories sex and virginity when it comes to relationships, women prioritise money. Why can’t both genders set the standards high for the things they prioritise? Why is it only men that are allowed to have standards, don’t you get it? Infertility is not only in women if you don’t know, men also can experience low sperm count and infections/infertility from stds and multiple sex partners. Stop putting this unrealistic standard on women when you men are more of a problem in this society than anyone else.

AryEmber:
Fact for her, maybe in her world but definitely not mine.

I guess you are a virgin

Amakababe:
you're still a baby, a virgin, an upcoming ashawo.
don't worry with time you'll understand.

come....shut up.... just shut up... u dey yan dust. so u be ashawo abi??obviously sef.. y am I still asking...

I CANNOT even marry someone that isn't a virgin talk less of person wey don do abortion!

abiola7195:



you don't have to smell what you won't eat...if can't care for a child, you won't go near (unprotected) sex which of course leads to unwanted pregnancy. You can't justify immortality. let call a spade a spade

That’s true but raw sex sweet and if she gets pregnant, abortion straight no time

kennedith9:
I was not expecting her to be a virgin, I know how hard it is to remain chaste these days but I thought she should atleast tell me it is one of the biggest mistake she's ever made. You can insult me all you want but I Know It's Not a crime to have standard.

you are very correct jare.........it's good you have standards... you are a 100% on point tho....
she didn't even feel remorseful... omo...DAT girl don commit Belle taya..lol...she's a pro in it

MsGood:

Don't tell me you have time for that mufu. I notice that Nairaland degrades women. All I ever see here is questions about imperfect women, what about men? What about "Can you marry a stingy man?" Or "Can you marry a man that disregard your family?".

The pure truth is that men have the upper hand in this part of the world and many ladies are making themselves useless. A guy wanted to sleep with me, he was angry when I declined. Called me names for months, later he showed me my respect.