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My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by SyberKate(f): 10:58am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Hi So I decided to go into a long distance relationship with this guy I have not met yet. We just met online and have exchanged pictures. So far the relationship is just one week old and I was in a bit of a situation where I needed some money. Nothing much just about 15,000 to solve an issue. So I asked my BF if he could assist me with the money, only for him to start saying things like the relationship is still young for me to be making demands, that what if he starts demanding for s3xx this early in the relationship. I said I wish I could have solved my problem myself but I really need all the help I can get. He still insisted that he hasn't even met me physically and I could be trying to swindle him for all he knows. Then I said if he feels that way then no need to continue with the relationship and it was over, just like that within one week. So do you think I was being unreasonable to make demands this early in the relationship. 13 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:01am On Nov 25, 2018 |
What if you hadn't known him, how would you have solved that problem? Just imagine he never existed, and get over yourself! It's highly disgraceful. And yea, he was right. It's too early to start begging for stuffs, to think the relationship is even a week old. He dodged a missile. It's called the 'Butterfly effect'. 1166 Likes 107 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by adewumiopeyemi(m): 11:02am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Ok 68 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Kenzico(m): 11:02am On Nov 25, 2018 |
SyberKate: Wait oooo!! So you really quit the relationship....Just because he couldn't give you 15k I think you were inconsiderate....The guy suppose don write you off by now 377 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Lloydthesaint: 11:03am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Early billing � 254 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by adewumiopeyemi(m): 11:03am On Nov 25, 2018 |
So happy hearing this from a girl ;DYou have said it all UyaiIncomparabl: 296 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by positivedaveyy(m): 11:07am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Just like that... You've moved on because he refused to give you 15k? How would you have solved your problem if you hadn't met him? Good day all, I'm a graduate of Biochemistry from UNIBEN with 2.2, and I've since completed my NYSC. I have 4 years working experience in diffrent fields ranging from Customer Service, Ticketing and Reservation, Supervisory levels, Office & Administration, Marketting, Computer Operations, and Teaching. Diligence and commitment to duties are my watchwords. I'm also open minded and excited about learning new things and handling new opportunities. I'm proficient in the use of Ms Office tools and packages as well as Social media flexibility. I've worked as a Data entry Personnel at EXP Marketing Nigeria and it greatly improved my data entry skills. I would appreciate if anyone can help or recommend me to someone as I'm presently jobless. Please, be my connection and God bless your good hearts. Location - Lagos, Abuja, South-South & South-East Contacts - 09038561889 & 08025341558 ighagbonosayande@outlook.com 98 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 11:13am On Nov 25, 2018 |
He jaapa for his dear life 97 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Ehiscotch(m): 11:16am On Nov 25, 2018 |
If you actually don't know you were wrong, inconsiderate, and irrational then I don't think any comment here would get to you. Seriously, you messed up. In this modern age where internet scams - catfishing, yahoo and all - thrives and you expect him to send you 15k under a week. Like even if you needed it so bad and you had to ask, his turning your request down shouldn't make you quit. If I were him I would even be sure you are a scammer and were only out to swindle me. Like he said, if he had asked for sex in week would you have obliged? The jury is out: you messed up, obviously. 288 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by OgahBohz: 11:16am On Nov 25, 2018 |
I don't understand how some ladies think ... azn honestly speaking .. jst one week? and ya already demanding... without the 15k will you die? and am very sure the 15k is not for smtn that important o... please the reasonable ladies out there, advice your selves .. 129 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 11:17am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Girl....solve your problems by yourself....he's not your ATM machine 100 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Tapout(m): 11:19am On Nov 25, 2018 |
SyberKate: it was a very reasonable demand dear... Very very reasonable. Kip it up. This one below me na attention seeker 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by farano(f): 11:19am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something.. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by clive2u(m): 11:21am On Nov 25, 2018 |
we are having a program tagged true color in church today, i think u showed him ur true color way too early and u even said. its over cos of money. i pray he's one genuine rich dude and you just lost him 66 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by eph12(m): 11:23am On Nov 25, 2018 |
farano:Some guys mumu like that sha. Normal stuff 175 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 11:24am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Some ladies sef, na your type they make guys abuse other ladies. A week old relationship and you are making such unwarranted request already. To even think it is a blind date makes it look more irrational. Just put yourself in the guy's shoe 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:24am On Nov 25, 2018 |
You need a real job not a relationship 147 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:27am On Nov 25, 2018 |
farano:And you think his village people are not playing draft with his destiny... 225 Likes 12 Shares
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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by kiddoiLL(m): 11:29am On Nov 25, 2018 |
That guy has made us fellow guys proud.... haba!! hanty!! one week and he's yet to see you n you don request 15k.. You be scam jooor!! your format no catch am... even scammers wet I knw can't fit to demand 1st payment from dating clients within a week.... Abi shey ur own, na plus you dey do ni? 184 Likes 11 Shares
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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by adewumiopeyemi(m): 11:30am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Do you think all guys are like that. Do you even asj how he get the money. farano: 2 Likes |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Uglymind: 11:30am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Op........ How can you ask a guy for money on the net someone who hasn't seen you in person.. And in just a week You must be high.. So you don't have close friends family members or siblings who can lend you the money.. Assuming I was that guy I would have deleted you with immediate alacrity.. Nonsense BTW what is long distance relationship and how does that work.. The guy might be looking flashy on social media so maybe this stupid Op thought that she might eat him clean mouth.. Nonsense 24 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by b0rn2fuck(m): 11:35am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Relationship is not a transaction and your boyfriend is not ATM machine. What if the guy doesn't have money, I hope you are not funmi 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Gboyeboy(m): 11:41am On Nov 25, 2018 |
15K in one week. Not even recharge card money or data subscription and he never even see you sef. Hanty fear God nau. OP would be in Joro ranting if it were the other way round. Big ups to the guy, he get sense. 6 Likes |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by nuggarito: 11:43am On Nov 25, 2018 |
Hungry hoes everywhere. 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Oreofepeters: 11:45am On Nov 25, 2018 |
This is isnt right Blind date for that matter.... 1 Like |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by b0rn2fuck(m): 11:49am On Nov 25, 2018 |
farano:relationship has a source of income, people won't complain but when Yahoo boys turn up , una be they cry up and down. You still young anyway from your picture 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:50am On Nov 25, 2018 |
farano: Lol. Clap for your self. You made absolutely no sense! 64 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by highpriestess: 11:51am On Nov 25, 2018 |
1 week is too early abeg. 2 Likes |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by farano(f): 12:10pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
b0rn2fuck:Lmao..my dear I don't look my age. |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 12:11pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
i dont blame him one bit in his doubts in sending u money. u could be a yahoo boy in a possibilty. forget about d pictures u sent.yahooboyz have catalogues of female pics on their laptops and phones.if i sent pics of beyouncy to a dude over the internet does dat make me beyouncy? try and undetstand his position and stop having this entitlrnent issue. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by emmanuelpopson(m): 12:15pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
she thinks she don see maga to swindle... the guy Japa... Ji maSun ... why demands for cash gift from someone you haven't seen.. its so bad and suspicious... if NA me..I go insults you... 1 Like 1 Share |
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