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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by princfred(m): 6:00pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Can we tell? |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by pocohantas(f): 6:05pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
My dear, you fcked up. I remember one guy asking me for money in such short time, we never even see. I lost connection immediately. Another pulled same stunt, I told my guy and he said since it is for medicals, I can give. I gave him, but after that, I found out that I couldn't stand him anymore. Then I got to understand how guys feel about beggy beggy girls. Totally uncool. 9 Likes |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by JasonScoolari: 6:09pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
pocohantas:Well done, "The good Samaritan" 1 Like
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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 6:20pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
pocohantas:The babe is really a gold digger in the making but mine problem is she is not aware of her gold digging tendency. Recently, I met a girl for just one week and she demanded a birthday gift. I just deleted her number immediately. she later realizes her mistake and started begging me but up till now I only see her as a sex object. 2 Likes |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by AHCB: 6:46pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
pocohantas:smh |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by SexExpert(m): 6:50pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
pacificman: A girl once asked me for 300K (three hundred thousand naira) after a few weeks of dating. That was in 2010/2011. She said it was for school fees. I actually already spent money on her within the period but she wanted mooooooore |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by ballerin(m): 6:55pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
Biglittlelois:Hmmm. For some, money is a love language. |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by pocohantas(f): 7:16pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
vingeophysicist: That your girl, it is very possible she didn't have any birthday. Some of them have a birthday for every new guy they meet. They just wanna cash out as soon as possible. They can't be aware, it is what they were born into. It is the life they live, anything else is an weird... 6 Likes |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by ANGELMARVE(m): 7:42pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
pocohantas:So in your kpangolo mind now, you are rich. Fake life in your post. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 7:42pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: woman that reason. oya take kiss |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Snow87(m): 8:08pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
Corporate Beggars, what u need is a job not a relationship. 1 Like |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by pocohantas(f): 8:14pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
ANGELMARVE: No part of my post says/insinuates that I am rich. This is just your envy, insecurity and jealousy speaking. Please, contain it. 5 Likes |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by victorian(f): 8:23pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
Op, I repeat don't ever dabble into long distance relationship. It's not worth the stress. The guy won't trust you with giving out money for the next three years or so , even if you guys see once a year. He will still say, it's too early cos he saw you just once in a year. Then secondly don't expect any guy u are dating to solve your financial issues. Cos he won't. Look elsewhere for such money and pray God bless your hustle enough to be able to fend for yourself without asking a soul for it. Although I have friends whom we help each other, when things are down, then sometimes my man do assist, whenever I ask.. Just maybe because we've been together for some years down the lane. So remember cancel long distance shiit! Pure waste of time and emotions. 1 Like |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by ANGELMARVE(m): 8:35pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
pocohantas:Can you please do me a favour and shut the fork up. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by OgahBohz: 8:39pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
Amakavula:... madam I carefully made sure I used the word SOME... pls check again |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 8:45pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
victorian:your comment is always shielded with controversy. What is the meaning of "don't dabble with long distance relationship". The fact it didn't work for you does not mean it will not work for others. you sounded like an epileptic social creature. Learn not to dabble into other peoples belief because it doesn't augur well with you. The issue here in contention is demanding money from a guy you only started dating for a week. 2 Likes |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by victorian(f): 9:05pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
vingeophysicist: I don't dabble into long distance relationship means I don't go into it. Not for anything in this whole wide world. You know why? Cause of trust issues. Then asking a guy for money, be it one week or one month or two years in the relationship is not advisable. Financially issues can erupt in someone's life at any time! There is no perfect day or perfect time to ask for money from anyone. So for me, the Op shouldn't have asked even if she's dying on a sick bed cause the guy will take a walk and that's the reality. I have been in a situation in the past, when I started a relationship with a guy from long distance, and unfortunately I fell ill. After some days. I was seriously ill and I am an orphan. It was just me and God. I asked the guy I was dating then for money to treat typhoid and malaria, but he didn't believe I had such illness. He said it was too early to ask. I laughed in hysteria, cos the typhoid has gone deep into my brain and system. That's like four days battling with how will I have money to go buy drugs and treat myself. My eyes were white, I was short of blood cos I had my menses days before the typhoid came. And heavy flow it was. So I was short of blood, then coupled with typhoid and malaria to treat. He said he won't send, it's too early. I said OK, thanks, don't bother. I cut the call. I laid down on my bed and I was praying with tears in my eyes, God if this is how I will die, without help, it's all good. I was managing my health , all my friends back then said they don't have. Thank God none back then are my friends again as I type. For 1week and few days I was ill with typhoid, no drugs, no food nothing. My temperature was very high, all my insides were trembling until one day, my bp rose and I had heart attack , a thought said I should call my Pastor. And I did as I held unto to my chest with sharp pain. My Pastor picked immediately. I said Pastor I am dying pls help me. He said God forbid! What happened, I said my heart and I am down with typhoid. He asked are u at home or where? I screamed yea! Am home. Then I collapsed and fainted. The next thing I saw, I was in the hospital after some hours when I woke up. With my pastor and his wife staring at me with relieved faces. Anyway to cut it short. I got saved. My past Bf then, I cut him as soon as I bounced back. I didn't regret cutting off from him. He called after some weeks, hoping to revive the relationship and I asked him assuming u heard I am dead today, will u still be saying u are inlove with me and want us to date? I just pray God should bless the hustles of everyone trying to make it and trying to survive. Cause only very few truly cares. If the Op has money, she wouldn't even ask the guy for money. And there is no perfect time to ask for help. And I pray small illness will not kill us before our time and our financial problems will not choke us. Amen. May God just help us. And lastly the friends I have now are far better than the ones I had in the past. God will keep blessing them for taking me very close. If your friends are selfish! U have all the right to cut them off, and change everyone of them when u are back on your feet. As dem no owe u anything, u sef no owe them as well. They are better off away from your side. Make yourself better and screen any new friend coming in ,before accepting their hands of friendship. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Biglittlelois(f): 9:12pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by zicoraads: 9:16pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
victorian:So, your own reason for not dabbling into long distance relationships is just about money?! Why would you even want to ask him for money when the both of you are not even totally on a 'I know you level?' Before you met him, how were you taking care of your needs? The truth is, anyone you meet and demand financials from immediately, will have second thoughts about you. Both male and female. 1 Like |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by victorian(f): 9:20pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
zicoraads: Anyways thank God. God has settled me, I don't need to ask any random guy in the name of dating for any money. He can keep his money. 1 Like |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by mrblessed(m): 9:59pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:The answer you provided to the immature damsel is brilliant, apt and plausible, but the concept of "butterfly effect" was used out of context. The concept literally denotes a chaotic system in which little alteration or changes in substance can produce large-scale and unpredictable outcome in the entire system. 1 Like |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 10:28pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
victorian:I understand you better now. But most ladies the way they request these days we find it hard to decipher the genuine ones. Don't be surprised if the guy you requested assistance thought you were another gold digger. if he knew you were really in such condition he would have helped. 2 Likes |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 10:45pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
farano:And you think his submission justifies your actions? Young lady, you have a lot of thinking to do. 1 Like |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by eddykaka(m): 11:09pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
farano:Shea you used your two eyes and saw your guy krokro? you're hearing of long distance relationboat |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by kushercain: 11:23pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: I can see sarcasm is a foreign language to you.
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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by samysmoothfresh: 11:26pm On Nov 25, 2018 |
Saff: |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by kerah(f): 12:22am On Nov 26, 2018 |
SyberKate: That was too forward, the guy acted like a well thinking Nigerian 1 Like |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by ballerin(m): 5:08am On Nov 26, 2018 |
Biglittlelois:08118191132 |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 5:27am On Nov 26, 2018 |
You think say boyfriend na ATM machine? problem solver? Why do ladies always think that way sef..mtcheew.. You were unreasonable.. You had not deserved that sacrifice just yet in a week.. you need to bond more for sth like that to happen.. nawa o.. if he asked for sex the second day, what would you have reasoned about him? The day you stop seeing boyfriend as problem solver, the better for you..Fix ur shit urself.. they may be keen and thoughtful enough to offer you some help. not asking them.. Even in marriages, you think say e nor dey pain body when woman go just demand money from the husband? let alone a relationship of barely a week.. #think. Be rational. Biko.. that's why I'm philophobic these days. |
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Uglymugg: 7:51am On Nov 26, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:All is well, thanks darl. |
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