SyberKate:
Hi

So I decided to go into a long distance relationship with this guy I have not met yet. We just met online and have exchanged pictures.

So far the relationship is just one week old and I was in a bit of a situation where I needed some money. Nothing much just about 15,000 to solve an issue.

So I asked my BF if he could assist me with the money, only for him to start saying things like the relationship is still young for me to be making demands, that what if he starts demanding for s3xx this early in the relationship.

I said I wish I could have solved my problem myself but I really need all the help I can get. He still insisted that he hasn't even met me physically and I could be trying to swindle him for all he knows.

Then I said if he feels that way then no need to continue with the relationship and it was over, just like that within one week.

So do you think I was being unreasonable to make demands this early in the relationship.

You are a pure thief next time lay your problems let him decide if he wants to help. If I offered to help with the 15K after having a goal btw your legs we are done n am talking even if it takes me 2 years to get in btw it. We will never be. Just opinion as a guy, there are more understanding souls out there thought but experience wise mba.

This is the issue i treated on one of my freestyles on Instagram......You girls just need to advise yourself

Even yahoo boy neva ask client money in d first 1 week.

farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

thank Heaven you said you once" that means you pple are no longer together. I guess its bcoz of you high demanding attitude. That he gave you as you asked does not mean he is happy 4get those fake smiles he wore then. Its totally wrong. What if he said ok cme and give me sex, you will be like but we just met now.

I am so happy for that guy i am literary crying tears of joy for him right now. Go on and prosper my dear brother.

There are too many scammers in this country into a relationship.

some girls will jst be misbehaving, lets assume the guy was the one demanding for sex at that early stage of a one week relationship, wat wud u have done....

farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

You just shutup abeg !
Stop embarrassing the Female-kind !

Colourich:
Babes no get format, you meet guy newly, the next week you don dey throw different kinds of billing give am, the sharp guy go know say the babe wan bill am.


The street is strict

Yea exactly she suppose chill small but anyway she don loose better bobo to impatience

I don't believe this story. No female can be this stupid. Probably a guy posted it so women can be bashed as usual.

farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

werey

I think you shouldn't have asked him. Its just one week and never seen him, he will never believe your good excuse. You made a mistake. Ignore the mistake. Very few and rare guys wont think u want to maga them. Maybe the relationship was not meant to be. I think una relationship was never meant to be. So ignore.

SyberKate:
Hi

So I decided to go into a long distance relationship with this guy I have not met yet. We just met online and have exchanged pictures.

So far the relationship is just one week old and I was in a bit of a situation where I needed some money. Nothing much just about 15,000 to solve an issue.

So I asked my BF if he could assist me with the money, only for him to start saying things like the relationship is still young for me to be making demands, that what if he starts demanding for s3xx this early in the relationship.

I said I wish I could have solved my problem myself but I really need all the help I can get. He still insisted that he hasn't even met me physically and I could be trying to swindle him for all he knows.

Then I said if he feels that way then no need to continue with the relationship and it was over, just like that within one week.

So do you think I was being unreasonable to make demands this early in the relationship.

adewumiopeyemi:
Do you think all guys are like that. Do you even asj how he get the money.

Don't mind the girl joor.
Ask her how the relationship ended?
People like that are not taken seriously een if the guy proceed to give her the money.

farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

It depends on the pace or how fast the relationship is moving for u both. Probably u had a good flow and understanding or an obvious genuine affection then it’s possible. Bt there are relationships that start with everyone’s is being careful or uptight and still observing u won’t just start to ask for smtn awkwardly. That cud send a wrong message.

Relationships develop based on the personalities involved and genuineness. It’s different for people bt idealy u shudnt be asking such so early if at all.

Now that u didn't he the 15k from him, did u die Did u not solve d problem If na me, I won't even waste time still talking to u... I'll just tag u olosho and move on...
Nawaooo

eph12:

Some guys mumu like that sha. Normal stuff

@ferano come lets date so u can demand for money and i will demand for sex instantly...i cant wait

Ehiscotch:
If you actually don't know you were wrong, inconsiderate, and irrational then I don't think any comment here would get to you.

Seriously, you messed up. In this modern age where internet scams - catfishing, yahoo and all - thrives and you expect him to send you 15k under a week.

Like even if you needed it so bad and you had to ask, his turning your request down shouldn't make you quit.

If I were him I would even be sure you are a scammer and were only out to swindle me. Like he said, if he had asked for sex in week would you have obliged?

The jury is out: you messed up, obviously.

COURTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is absolutely the reason most girls got married and in one year the marriage is over. Most of them get into the marriage for the wrong reasons or want relationship for the wrong reasons.

So if the guy had giving you the money he's a sweet guy and your husband material abi?!

I pity any man that will eventually marry you with this your dependency mentality. Because you're a woman doesn't mean you can't go out there and make your own money, so he accepted to date you VIRTUALLY ..you have to transfer all your life problems to him abi?! Like he doesn't have things he's sorting in is own life too?!

Funny enough it's clear you don't even have anything to offer him aside toto.. All you will do is to drain the little he have and move on.

And the fact that you even think it's the right thing to do.. You're absolutely a low life.

SyberKate:
Hi

So I decided to go into a long distance relationship with this guy I have not met yet. We just met online and have exchanged pictures.

So far the relationship is just one week old and I was in a bit of a situation where I needed some money. Nothing much just about 15,000 to solve an issue.

So I asked my BF if he could assist me with the money, only for him to start saying things like the relationship is still young for me to be making demands, that what if he starts demanding for s3xx this early in the relationship.

I said I wish I could have solved my problem myself but I really need all the help I can get. He still insisted that he hasn't even met me physically and I could be trying to swindle him for all he knows.

Then I said if he feels that way then no need to continue with the relationship and it was over, just like that within one week.

So do you think I was being unreasonable to make demands this early in the relationship.

Dem go con dey talk say gboys dey use una 4 money...

farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

and she quit the relationship. the guy's right. she could have been a scammer.

Most girls think relationship is an avenue where they can aleviate their poverty stricken life...

That guy na man him be!

Fadalawd! So if you had not met this guy you wouldn't have solve your problem? Well, I know is just 2 out of 10 ladies that reason this way.

You're a hungry hoe

UyaiIncomparabl:
What if you hadn't known him, how would you have solved that problem? Just imagine he never existed, and get over yourself!

It's highly disgraceful. And yea, he was right. It's too early to start begging for stuffs, to think the relationship is even a week old.

He dodged a missile. It's called the 'Butterfly effect'.

Are you sure you are right with that your Butterfly Effect thing? Cos it doesn't co relate

Mariangeles:
Did you give her the money ??
Don't lie o...

Lol, I gave her part of it because I could afford it convinuently.

So this relationship investor want to collect a month salary which is almost equal to Nigeria current minimum wage in a week relationship


We've told you many times, it's a relationship and not an investment opportunity.

You don't have the problem before accepting to date him, you started having problems when you agree to date him?

farano:
Lmao..my dear I don't look my age.

To fvck u without condom just dey hungry me...

UyaiIncomparabl:
What if you hadn't known him, how would you have solved that problem? Just imagine he never existed, and get over yourself!

It's highly disgraceful. And yea, he was right. It's too early to start begging for stuffs, to think the relationship is even a week old.

He dodged a missile. It's called the 'Butterfly effect'.

YOU HAVE HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD.
MAdam, please respond

Send me your account details.

That's ma kinda of Man.
Some Ladies thinks that when a man gives her something she will think that we are lusting over her .

Hungry Babe!!!

Chei make una take am easy on this girl. the comments alone will make her take basin to start frying akara at ojuelegba junction