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PraisePiano:
Hello guys....

I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are.
I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.

We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok”

She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.

Please what should I do?

She loves you but doesn't have your time yet

She prioritise her friends more than you

She needs time to have the kind of fun she wants

Summary, she is not yet ready for the kind of relationship you are looking forward too

Am not good at giving advice but I will suggest this.... Try to be about dirty with her I mean the way you both talk.... Invite her over that a friend of yours have an all night club event at a popular club and you will want both of you to go... Give her a date on that day tell her to come early as you will like to have great sex with her before the event.... In short you can buy her wears for the event... In the said date fk her like say you no plan to do again then from tired when it's time to go for the event tell her your friend shift the event date... Bleep her all through the night with the help of....... Then in the morning if she reacts tell her you don't think the relationship will work her reaction will give you the answer you needed....... Thank me later

Op I am sure you aren't normal I don't intend to insult you first you met her on Facebook ,you both stay at two different ends, the relationship is just like 6 months and you are ranting like this ,better stop taking the relationship to a level it has not gotten to,you are just mere friends with this girl ,I wonder why people keep finding love in the wrong places ,even the girlfriend that lives on the same street with you is hard to monitor oga you are the architect of your own problems .

The girl is indeed a runz girl in a code form who doesn't know what she want in life and i don't think she is ready for marriage too. My brother better take off now their is light, there are better decent fine career ladies looking for husband and take my advice allow time to unveil hidden things, don't rush into relationship too. She be hole like this........................................

My guy, any relationship whereby only one party tries 2 keep it working, na wash! She has other guy(s) in her life, except if u don't intend 2 marry her in future. I hv bn tru dis b4, the lady even ended up getting pregnant for another guy. You are only begging to be loved, she does nt love u.

Online thingz

9JAFULLBREED:

Babe be riding d nigga like limo and playing smart on him, nigga dey dia dey catch illusional feelings. Mtcheww

THIs guy Na grade one mugu.even monkey can get a pretty babe mugu you.

okokkk:


I blame the woman that spread her legs wide open for the semen that led to your birthing to be deposited. I hate reading posts from effeminate men like you.

You're obviously dating a woman that understands and sees you as a weakling. She's reported her own side of the story on Ebiwasblog and is asking for the best way to abandon you to your effeminacy.

We have advised her rightly. When it happens, don't hang yourself, jump into the Lagoon.

Bro, abeg link to the blog and her own version

PraisePiano:
Hello guys....

I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are.
I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.

We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok”

She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.

Please what should I do?

Bros, lets call a p
Spade a spade. The babe is obviously not sincere with u. No matter what u do for her, she will take u for granted. She knew she was going for the show but she lied to u. If i were you, dont manage what u car tolerate in marriage. That is the mistake most people do. These are signs you are being given before u marry her. If u can manage her, then fine. But dont start what u cant finish

samysmoothfresh:
From your write up, here are


A) Reasons why you should not quit the relationship


1) you love her.


2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.



B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship


1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!


2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.


3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!


4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.


5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.




OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?


yes or no?

thank you bro, you have given the right solution... this is the kind of advice or comment we needs here to encourage each other.. unlike some idiots that will still post rubbish by insulting the guy as if they are perfect.. kudos to u bro..

Baba abandon quickly ... no go carry dustbin as babe oo

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Relationship headed for the rocks. She still wanna flex while u wanna make her homely. You both are not compatible unless she truly loves and respects u.

A colleague of mine wedded his gf who was just like this your girl, hers was even worse as she slept with politicians but the guy persevered in the relationship.

That's a risky venture your colleague veered into. If she cheats in marriage, he would have no one else but himself to blame. If I were a man, I won't dare marry or even date a woman like that.

PraisePiano:
no I don’t mind her flexing but she shouldn’t use it against our relationship that’s my annoyance

What a contradictory statement! How would she flex without hurting the relationship? You said she is a slay queen, may be you don't really know the true meaning of a slay queen. A SLAY QUEEN IS A CODED PROSTITUTE DISQUISiNG AS A GIRLFRIEND. So now ask yourself, do I need a slay queen?

alexola20:
@OP if i catch u ehn,the kind slap way u go chop ehn no go be from this world.
U believe if nairaland charges money to post u would taken ur best decision by cutting off all contacts with that bitch that has no iota of truth in her.

Only God knows.U don't love her at all but because u seem not to have many girls on ur disposal that is why u r still sticking to a non-living ikorodu thing.

My guy the girl no like u and no respect for u probably because u don't have enough money yet.

Stop coming here to ask foolish question again...
Last warning.

yes , u are one of the most idiotic men on naira land.. you insult people anyhow. everyone is a slave to love... when u are trapped, its not easy.... but you are mad once again.. its not foolish question, you are d fool here. he seek for an advice.. that's what this forums stands for.

PraisePiano:
Hello guys....

I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are.
I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.

We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok”

She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.

Please what should I do?

My friend, please save yourself headache, FORGET THIS LADY!
find yourself a lady who's comfortable being with you.

This is a few weeks to 2019. No carry wetin no dey work for you enter new year. Triple your hustle, no dulling, no wasting time with players

You are the one in a relationship, the girl has no ship to give.... Move on, there are many girls

PraisePiano:
no I don’t mind her flexing but she shouldn’t use it against our relationship that’s my annoyance

You don't mind her flexing? .......... even flexing with friends in mid-night? I pity you, perhaps you are still a kid.

Let me tell u fact how God configure female heart, if girl/woman truly in love with you, she would prefer you to anything in this world , I mean anything, Even her parents, work, money etc .

If your so called girl is not olosho, what is she doing at night party during the weekend with friends having not seen you for weeks, oga, weekend night club is the time olosho business boom most, hence she can't afford to pay you visit for free fu*ck

samysmoothfresh:
From your write up, here are


A) Reasons why you should not quit the relationship


1) you love her.


2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.



B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship


1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!


2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.


3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!


4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.


5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.




OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?


yes or no?

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PraisePiano:
Hello guys....

I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are.
I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.

We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok”

She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.

Please what should I do?

dude just end the relationship, move on and don't look back no matter the plea. Trust me no matter how you try to be patient, understanding and cool 3 things will eventually happen, she will either leave you like a fool for another dude she thinks is better { which he isn't} or she will never change and keep cheating on you or she will end up being a huge burden for/on/to you courtesy of the life she is living now.

What are you still waiting for?

Oga don't take such relationship serious. If do,nobody go fit mend your heart when she break am finish.

PrimadonnaO:
That's a risky venture your colleague veered into. If she cheats in marriage, he would have no one else but himself to blame. If I were a man, I won't dare marry or even date a woman like that.

Life is all about risk. She has had her fun, seen it all and decided to marry the young broke boy. I doubt she'll cheat on him, Atleast for now.

DateMynd44:
shut up old woman. stop supporting nonsense

Old man deepen your senses. Marrying a seemingly quiet lady is no guarantee she won't cheat. Hypocrite.

Your girlfriend try, my former girlfriend own is to be at different hotels and joints with different guys, I don drop her like bad habit. Move on you will find someone better. All these kind girls no want anything serious, there think there have a lot of time and na to chop life period be this.

Ubdavis:
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U can not teach and old dog new tricks....

Lol. I doubt such applies to humans. The truth is, she has to realize herself, talking to her might be fruitless.

oshaosha2014:
Lol. Which kain relationship be that.

The guy actually married a lady far above his stutus but they are good friends. I believe anyone can change if only they realize their error and need to fix things.

Homeboiy:
U better fūck her for the last time and leave her


Give her a 4hrs non stop marathon sexx

This is the answer you are looking for. Drink pa eyin, action bitters etc. knack her hardcore like a hoe that she is. When she gets home send her a break up sms

Mugu!

Dats all...

The remaining will be said by my oga at d top who is FTC