JoseVanMoyes:



well that's the man palava..

so during the 8 years, the wife was celibate abi.... the man dey cold dey hustle and the wife dey naija dey flex... weh don Sir

You still don't get it...Many naija girls can wait for years and even stay asexual as long as you wire them good money regularly...quote me anywhere.

Until you tell them to move on,they will keep their hope alive.

We can't work with Akata

Why stay in any country with incomplete papers? Some people need good doses of self respect sha.

With your visitor's visa, you should be smart enough to make the necessary contacts to improve your network.

Personally, I'm a no no for long distance relationship. More often than not, they shipwreck and if they don't they gift you hypertension. I love my peace of mind.

Nice post Op. Thanks

It's better to make an arrange marriage with a white woman than black American akata lady. Please what's your take?

You have sense. What I keep asking is after all the green card hustle and you eventually have it, so what? Are you even genuinely happy and fulfilled. This life is short and temporary. Always think of the future. To me, working hard in your own country and visiting those countries on vacation is the best. Don't shorten your happy days because of one's country citizenship. We will all still die last last. And even not all american citizens are successful, happy or rich like Nigerians back home. Most are depressed and damaged. Be wise. Don't compare yourself with another. It's your journey and life after all. My 2cent oh

doyinbaby:
I will rather Me and my future husband stay in Nigeria and manage than for me to let him embark on a journey where he will be sleeping with all sorts of women just because we sha want American green card by all means

planetx:
Lol I knew he was indirectly quoting me, how do you drive Uber or deliver food without a social security number or driver license.

If you're in the US and still doubt all I have written, please change your friends. I'm not here to impress anyone, it's the reality.

Let me reiterate that without a "shola", you will drive with Uber and Lyft. Deliver food for Grubhud, Doordash, and even Postmates using a 2019 vehicle if you so choose.

I guess you don't know what a TaxID is.

Ask Amazon boys how e dey go. This is a public forum. Be blessed.

majekdom2:
What makes you think with time Canada and those countries you mentioned won’t have more strict immigrants laws. The problem is most blacks don’t add value. I don’t want to think it’s a cursed race. They don’t ever get things right. Give some an opportunity and they mess it up. You go to another man’s country and there you are misbehaving and making it tough for other people with genuine interest. I once wondered why were banned from the lottery and I remembered it is still same Nigeria. [/b]As long as [b]ISREAL isn’t tolerating blacks, with time other countries will follow.

Bros, dem no ban Naija for DV lottery - Naija or any country no dey qualify if over 50,000 immigrants(With immigrant visas, such as family-base - immediate relative of USC, F2A for LPR and employment) enter US in the previous 5 years.

As long as Naija people or any other country continuously exceeds that allocated number, dem no go qualify. So no one to blame cos na the rule of DV lottery be that.

Lawyer777:


If you're in the US and still doubt all I have written, please change your friends. I'm not here to impress anyone, it's the reality.

Let me reiterate that without a "shola", you will drive with Uber and Lyft. Deliver food for Grubhud, Doordash, and even Postmates using a 2019 vehicle if you so choose.

I guess you don't know what a TaxID is.

Ask Amazon boys how e dey go. This is a public forum. Be blessed.

What's Shola?

HebronHF:
It's better to make an arrange marriage with a white woman than black American akata lady. Please what's your take?

To the best of my knowledge, most Naija guys that got married to white ladies did so under the pretext of "real marriage". These ladies think the union is for real. Hardly will you find a white lady who marries a Naija guy for pecuniary reasons.
As regards, African Americans, I can boldly affirm that the educational and socio-economic status of these citizens matter when you are considering them for arranged marriage. There is greater likelihood of success if the African American lady is well educated and has a good job as opposed to a crack head who is a perpetual public charge.
The well educated Akata girls don't come cheap though. You may have to pay through your butt to get through the whole green card process.

Skmoda360:

What about a Registered Nurse?

Do you have a Bachelor's degree in Nursing?

EVILFOREST:
GREEN CARD hard oooo
The FASTEST route is MARRIAGE.
But the marriage must be to a reasonable and understanding man or woman.
Avoid Black Americans oooo
They may dump you before your Green Card interview

White Americans can also dump you. Honestly, it boils down one's destiny. If you are destined to be in the US, everything will eventually work out for you even though the beginning might be rough.
If otherwise, one would keep moving in circles with no headway even when one's contemporaries are succeeding in the States

ifedapsy:

White Americans can also dump you. Honestly, it boils down one's destiny. If you are destined to be in the US, everything will eventually work out for you even though the beginning might be rough.
If otherwise, one would keep moving in circles with no headway even when one's contemporaries are succeeding in the States

Yeaaa
It’s true.
I PREFER the whites anyway.
AMERICA is the best for me.
The most important thing is to have your papers which will include your social security

Toks2008:


You still don't get it...Many naija girls can wait for years and even stay asexual as long as you wire them good money regularly...quote me anywhere.

Until you tell them to move on,they will keep their hope alive.

lol toks this is not true. A number of married women dat theie husbands are hustling overseas have boyfriends here in naija shining their kongi. Except when the wife really loves the husband then she might hold herself. But unfortunately many of them have boyfriends that service dem regularly. Everythin na code.

keneguae:


Bros, dem no ban Naija for DV lottery - Naija or any country no dey qualify if over 50,000 immigrants(With immigrant visas, such as family-base - immediate relative of USC, F2A for LPR and employment) enter US in the previous 5 years.

As long as Naija people or any other country continuously exceeds that allocated number, dem no go qualify. So no one to blame cos na the rule of DV lottery be that.

thanks for clearifying this cos all i have been hearing from social media is that nigeria has been disqualified from the lottery programme cos of their dubious nature.

buying Btc now get in touch rate-350/$

lefulefu:
thanks for clearifying this cos all i have been hearing from social media is that nigeria has been disqualified from the lottery programme cos of their dubious nature.

That's fake news and ignorance. DV lottery no dey discriminate - every eligible country stands the same chance

InyinyaAgbaOku:


What's Shola?

Social security number

demmisab85:
Yes, that's for real, thanks for the write up.
I personally asked my GF in Nigeria to move on when i moved to the US on F1 student visa for my MBA., am maintaining my status and never stopped my program.

Initially, i thought i could sustain the distant relationship, but after like 4months, I just have to get real with her. It was painful for us both, but it was a great relief on me afterwards.

ur girlfriend right now

EVILFOREST:

We have so many People that did such.
My MUM did likewise for us.
My Mother in Law did likewise as well.
It takes Love and commitment, knowing fully well that one cannot realize his GOD GIVING potentials in Nigeria fully.
AMERICA is one country, one can enter with $30 in his pocket and bottle of groundnut in his hands and returns to Nigeria made for life.
The LAZIEST man in Nigeria can excel in the US.
It’s God’s own country.
U can hate it but the truth is too Glaring.
American Government makes you feel like a HUMAN BEING. Even Animals feel happy.
No STRUGGLING NIGERIAN ever comes in and thinks of going Back to Africa.

Lol super story

myk2mic:
This is the truth and nothing but the truth,am currently here , and with wat I have seen and my ears have heard ,man it's simply not worth it.

Like the op said ,u have to marry a citizen to get a green card and hope that the person you married understands that it's simply a business arrangement, but if the person develops feelings for you, men you are screwed. But as always there is a way,

Some states in the USA have faster processing time for work permit/green card than others and there is a big market here for arranged marriage,even churches/pastors are involved, meet the right pple and the will point you in the right direction.

So it's no all gloom

The ones I pity the most are married folks here with family, I have a friend here who moved with her entire family, she is currently pregnant and her husband has married a citizen and rented another apt where he and his new wife stay while his pregnant niaja wife stays in another apt with the kids.

This shit is truly messed up. My advice, hustle to go the countries that allow for skilled workers ,

na wao so yankee pastors can be kwarroupt too?

Gloryemo:

You have sense. What I keep asking is after all the green card hustle and you eventually have it, so what? Are you even genuinely happy and fulfilled. This life is short and temporary. Always think of the future. To me, working hard in your own country and visiting those countries on vacation is the best. Don't shorten your happy days because of one's country citizenship. We will all still die last last. And even not all american citizens are successful, happy or rich like Nigerians back home. Most are depressed and damaged. Be wise. Don't compare yourself with another. It's your journey and life after all. My 2cent oh

although I desire American citizenship there are some things I will not compromise to get it.

Lawyer777:


If you're in the US and still doubt all I have written, please change your friends. I'm not here to impress anyone, it's the reality.

Let me reiterate that without a "shola", you will drive with Uber and Lyft. Deliver food for Grubhud, Doordash, and even Postmates using a 2019 vehicle if you so choose.

I guess you don't know what a TaxID is.

Ask Amazon boys how e dey go. This is a public forum. Be blessed.

....
Oga,you keep encouraging illegality with your baseless narratives thereby raising some people false hopes.while changing their friends,are they going to replace them with those people who are life patrons or matrons of the dept of labour or better still a white house staffers who can as well change the laws in their favours??.
Of over 50 states plus DC in the US,only few states issue taxID to some undocumented aliens in other to do certain jobs and uber and co are definitely not one of those organisations.you buy business account from the original owner with its own risks and you are here misinforming the gullibles.same thing goes for Amazon you mentioned.please stop encouraging wrongdoing and I challenge you with proves here if you have one.

Lawyer777:
60% of Akatas are morally unacceptable by their own community. The ones from the core Ghetto have "zero life". You must run away from them when considering marriage for AOS. It's pathetic when you see them begging on the street in this same land flowing with milk and honey.

How do you know where to invest your time and resources? All you need is their names, address or SSN for a comprehensive background check to get credit history, driver's history, criminal records, education and more. From there, you don't need to be told your next move.

The US is not so hard. I have friends that takes home $200 plus daily driving Uber and delivering food for Grubhub and Doordash even without "Shola". I also have a Doctor friend who left Nigeria four years ago, I can't even calculate his annual salary to avoid unnecessary heartaches.

Life in the US is all about planning and connecting the right people. The people that you interact with every day, whether it's at home, work or on the streets, and their beliefs and opinions influences your beliefs and opinions. There are too many basic IT and Engineering jobs paying 25/hr and still begging for applicants. No one left Nigeria to eat burgers here.

Someone in Nigeria will still tell people in the US that they can't work and be successful without "papers" in the US. It's laughable because the person without the "paper" is actually making dollars as we deliberate here.

Leave people queueing at the embassy/consulate to make their own decision. I took my own decision after holidaying in the US for the fourth time in two years and no regret so far. People make dollars here daily except they choose not to work and it's the reality.

Abeg, make I go hustle small. I get bills to pay for here and Naija.

. biko if u living and working in the USA let us know the prospects living and working in the US as a foreigner cos the impression i am getting here due to what some diasporans have posted here that d only way to survive in yankee is to get married to a fat old american grand mama .mehn i cant just imagine myself getting married to one wrinkled looking tobacco stained teeth 78 yr old white american woman just because i want to travel out.that will be worse than hell fire.those of our brothers in uncle sams country married to old american grand mamas for papers are really trying oo.its not an easy job.

kadraxkyle:
everybdy sha wan comot for this country. na wa o

make we leave the kuntry for jubril

Angela777:

What if this cheated American is your sister? Used for papers without knowing it, hearing lies until he gets what he wants.

I would never cheat anyone to get what I want. Cheating is not something I encourage. Like I said, it is different strokes for different folks. We all know what people do to get GC. If you don't follow the multitude, they thing you're dumb or not 'street smart'.

Modified: I see you're in the States. Which State are you?

In this short life that somebody would still die again? I probably won't be able to empathize fully as my social standing wouldn't require such desperation but even so, common! going through all these for years - uncertainty, anxiety, loneliness, and frustration, without reuniting ones family (you could even lose them and still not show up for their funeral) for GC plus no guarantees because one might still end up broke or in debt or sick with cancer or something If this isn't misery at its finest, I wonder what is.

To each his own abeg, everyone decides what their life is worth. If you ask me, getting a 5.0 cgpa and securing a scholarship to the same country that would open a world of opportunities is way easier than what I've read here. Maybe Nigerians, as per self-acclaimed toughest breeds omostreet, just prefer the more adventurous path laced with landmines of humiliation, sanctions, deportation perhaps jailterms. Na wa! but what do I know.

The US is one hell of a place though.

Tinyemeka:


Jesu!!!

There's actually a vid for it!

Is that where the word was coined?

Loool this movie came out in the 90s. Who knows? ask Nigerians in america

Nig4Greatness:
....
Oga,you keep encouraging illegality with your baseless narratives thereby raising some people false hopes.while changing their friends,are they going to replace them with those people who are life patrons or matrons of the dept of labour or better still a white house staffers who can as well change the laws in their favours??.
Of over 50 states plus DC in the US,only few states issue taxID to some undocumented aliens in other to do certain jobs and uber and co are definitely not one of those organisations.you buy business account from the original owner with its own risks and you are here misinforming the gullibles.same thing goes for Amazon you mentioned.please stop encouraging wrongdoing and I challenge you with proves here if you have one.

You dey mind the illegal idiot

Nig4Greatness:
....
Oga,you keep encouraging illegality with your baseless narratives thereby raising some people false hopes.while changing their friends,are they going to replace them with those people who are life patrons or matrons of the dept of labour or better still a white house staffers who can as well change the laws in their favours??.
Of over 50 states plus DC in the US,only few states issue taxID to some undocumented aliens in other to do certain jobs and uber and co are definitely not one of those organisations.you buy business account from the original owner with its own risks and you are here misinforming the gullibles.same thing goes for Amazon you mentioned.please stop encouraging wrongdoing and I challenge you with proves here if you have one.

Bros, we nor dey quarrel, but abeg stop quoting me. I stated the truth and that's 100% fact. Stick to what you know and your belief or quote exactly where I advised people to do the wrong or is having a Tax ID illegal in the US?

We are our own problem in Nigeria. Leave people who chose to travel alone, and stop thinking everyone who travels to the US finds it difficult to start a living and adjust status.

So because I said change your friends, it means throw your friends away? Ok.

Nigerians will always make the US sound like Hell to others. Are Nigerians the only people immigratint to the US? Visit a USCIS office to know Nigeria is not even on top 10 countries with people adjusting status in the US.

What's so difficult in starting a life in the US when you can start as a dishwasher and get paid $100 daily? Did you come here to eat burger alone?

I repeat, the people you connect with in the US matters a lot. I'll stop here to end this topic.

Lawyer777:
60% of Akatas are morally unacceptable by their own community. The ones from the core Ghetto have "zero life". You must run away from them when considering marriage for AOS. It's pathetic when you see them begging on the street in this same land flowing with milk and honey.

How do you know where to invest your time and resources? All you need is their names, address or SSN for a comprehensive background check to get credit history, driver's history, criminal records, education and more. From there, you don't need to be told your next move.

The US is not so hard. I have friends that takes home $200 plus daily driving Uber and delivering food for Grubhub and Doordash even without "Shola". I also have a Doctor friend who left Nigeria four years ago, I can't even calculate his annual salary to avoid unnecessary heartaches.

Life in the US is all about planning and connecting the right people. The people that you interact with every day, whether it's at home, work or on the streets, and their beliefs and opinions influences your beliefs and opinions. There are too many basic IT and Engineering jobs paying 25/hr and still begging for applicants. No one left Nigeria to eat burgers here.

Someone in Nigeria will still tell people in the US that they can't work and be successful without "papers" in the US. It's laughable because the person without the "paper" is actually making dollars as we deliberate here.

Leave people queueing at the embassy/consulate to make their own decision. I took my own decision after holidaying in the US for the fourth time in two years and no regret so far. People make dollars here daily except they choose not to work and it's the reality.

Abeg, make I go hustle small. I get bills to pay for here and Naija.

Typical naija tout.You are happy you broke the terms of your visa and feel no form of remorse.

The way you express yourself is very typical of Nigerians living illegally in the states. Very loud and obnoxious set of people always taking pride in foolish things and expecting a clap in the back.

You are poorly exposed and ignorant.
Relax !!!! You still in the euphoria your eyes go clear soon

Imagine him saying someone can live comfortably and without hassles as an illegal.

Jchi9876:


Typical naija tout.You are happy you broke the terms of your visa and feel no form of remorse.

The way you express yourself is very typical of Nigerians living illegally in the states. Very loud and obnoxious set of people always taking pride in foolish things and expecting a clap in the back.

You are poorly exposed and ignorant.
Relax !!!! You still in the euphoria your eyes go clear soon

Imagine him saying someone can live comfortably and without hassles as an illegal.

Na dem we dey hear everyday for news say "ICE has just retrieved and deported XYZ people".
This thread does not cover married people nor does it cover illegal things.

Op and other Yankee residents I have a few questions to ask
1) For the married ones in naija, will they have to state single during visa application in order for them to get married to a whity American or it doesn't matter, if this is the surest means of acquiring a GC.If in this situation naija wify is very understanding.
2) I heard that you can acquire legalized papers to work in yankee all you have to do is pay some money, as much as $10,000 in some cases or less perhaps even more.
3) People also get their legalized papers by going to the immigration office to change their status.
Pls throw more light on these

Jchi9876:


Typical naija tout.You are happy you broke the terms of your visa and feel no form of remorse.

The way you express yourself is very typical of Nigerians living illegally in the states. Very loud and obnoxious set of people always taking pride in foolish things and expecting a clap in the back.

You are poorly exposed and ignorant.
Relax !!!! You still in the euphoria your eyes go clear soon

Imagine him saying someone can live comfortably and without hassles as an illegal.

Don't EVER come online and call someone you know nothing about an idiot and illegal. I have your size, but will allow it slide.

I didn't come here to encourage people on illegality, I just mentioned the possibilities of survivals in the US without a document. If that angers you, shoot yourself in the head.