She should be relocated to stay with a relative in another state or rehabilitated

funmisticqueen:
Yabaleft Has rehab

Lol...don't tell me you believe the young girl needs rehab for something as natural as sex.

MaziOmenuko:


Lol...don't tell me you believe the young girl needs rehab for something as natural as sex.

not sex, bad behaviour

IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

bros ...it's your fault!!! first..how will your father send her packing? is that the solution? what happen to beating her? this may sound archaic but shave her hair with razor blade!! she is just 16 for chrissakes !!! and as for you...guy watch her then when you see the yahoo boys she is with go and warned them to leave her..if them no hear...if you be strong man..carry men go beat them or fall their hand but if you be JU-man na to use SARS buts them. one day she will thank you for it.
also no forget to seize her phone and shave her hair!!
find one good lady to put her under her wing and be advising her.

p.s chimezie I know you stay in Lagos badagry area..if you need my help unto beating the Yahoo boys or police I am available
GOD bless you

I feel your pains there,I have read some previous responds both the good and the bad, am a gal, and I know how these things happened, am sorry to say this,your parents failed in their row to train her up, even you as a big brother,the said train up a child in a way he won't depart from, my candid advice is this,pray for her,their is a spirit in charge of sexual activities in human being,people don't seems to know,break the evil force behind her behavior, and ask God to restore her back to you.
Also as a big brother that loves her sis,you can play the lead roll here,call her,talk to her as a brother, tell her how much you love her and how much her action breaks you down,keep praying for her,keep her in your care,Dont allow her live with those guys rather let her stay with you or a relative, ignore her actions for sometime while you tackle the spiritual aspects, when is done spiritually, is done physically,Dont lost hope in her yet,she can still change,later you can talk to your parents, I wish you all the best OK, be strong

GBOKASINCHA:
Seriously having a girl child in nigeria is a curse 16 years old and see wetin dis little ogbanje dey cause her family..members

You are an idiot! Do you know what teenage kids overseas does?

IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

I just have one problem with your write up. You call your sister a slut because she sleeps with guys.. tell me and be honest, have you ever laid with a woman before?

IamPlato:
if Na Cane, he Has Flogged With Types Of Cane even Used Broom And Nearly Blinded Her but She Waited To Get Healed And continued.

Few Weeks Ago, he Beat Her With Hands And Legs like He Would Kill Her But My Mother Stopped Him before It Became A Death Case. He Said Its Better She Left Or He Would Commit murder

He is abusing her and he has no right to do that. She will die of depression one day.. what am I saying sef. You don't care if she lives or dies anyway.. You seem like a wicked person..no offense

CaptainMitch:
Your family wasn't there for her when she was growing up, you come from a dysfunctional family like most of us, she needs a lot of attention and affection, it should have been done on time, it's never too late, if she has a mentor, she will change and be upright, but the immediate solution would be to find her a gainful employment or spouse because she is definitely not going to succeed in school as she will be distracted easily. Some father do have them.

Nigerians dey read? Only cane them sabi buy.. imagine one idiot said spread her legs..and put pepper. Dude should be in a jail for child abuse.. but am tired of the ignorance of our people though.. am even tired of Nairaland sef..

The thing is during teenage years some people will go crazy in their behaviours..some wouldn't. There is nothing like demon possessing.. They are just fighting with hormones raging..but our typical uneducated ancestors will term it what they will.. take her for deliverance smh

Interesting thread.

kai....she dey enjoy d sex and weed life she started early.

Simply send her to boarding school....Military one for that matter

A woman died in our street this week from child problems. She had a notorious cultist son, he had been in the game since I was in primary school, he's been locked up for over a year now.He's now a big boy cultist though working for politicians. The woman lost her first born last year and few months after the cultist second born was arrested(normal thing).

Now the woman left the other good children and a sick husband(from thoughts of the child) . I was discussing with my dad last night and we resolved it would have been better if they had disowned and completely forgotten about the man(cultist), that way the good children won't be denied of a happy family, the husband will still have a wife.

you people can only remember her in your prayers, but I support your dad cos she would end up killing your dad or mum with high BP if they don't do away with her. my own submission based on experience.

IamPlato:
She Used To Be His Favourite Years Ago but She Just Changed like She Got Cursed Or Something...


Also My Father Is A Strong Choleric and Will Never Listen To Anyone Because He Believes He is Always Right And Never Regrets his Actions... We Are Not Even Close at All. We Are Two Different Person

Guy take matters into ur own hands or are U 17 year old. Take her phone. Chase and embarrass her female friends. Those female friends of hers must be cut off first. They should feel the heat and because of regular embarrassment from ur parents will not want to walk with her.

Get the police to arrest one of her Yahoo boyfriends. I wish ur father could throw his anger to right direct. He could accuse D boys of kidnap. She is 16 according to law ur father has 100% over her. Trust me the police will work with ur father. He should pay the regular police charge and they teach the boys lesson.

Also, pray things get better.

IamPlato:
My Sister Is Cursed And My Father Is An Extremist

My Younger Sister Has Been A Thorn To The Family, she Is Just 16 but Is Completely Lost In The World. She Moves With Different Boys and Has Gotten Involved In Sexual Activities Mostly Yahoo Boy. I No Longer See A Sister But A Slut


Personally, I Dont Care If She Lives Or Dies but I Feel For My Mother Who Recieves All The Blames from My Father. My Father Had Sent Her Out Of The House On Various Ocassions but She Is Highly Disobedient, my Mother Will Beg And She Will Be Pardoned but Will Repeat it Countless times.


I Had Come Across Her Chat With Guys Concerning Sex they Would Have. I Feel Ashamed to Look At Her As A Sister

Just Of Recent My Father Chased Her Out Of The House After She Left the House since Morning Without telling Him and Returned At Evening... He Told Her To Come Pack Her Things And Leave, but She Had Already Left, he Pack all Her Clothes And Burnt them at About 10pm Yesterday, and Saying He Never Wants To See Her Again in His House.

Is This The Solution?

One of the reasons you should not pamper kids.

You people should let her be, You don already spoilt her, everybody in the house should just completely ignore her, DO NOT SPEAK TO HER ANYMORE, LET HER DO WHAT SHE WANTS, pretend like she does not exist. If you keep chasing her like headless chickens it will only make matters worse.

You people should not talk to her woh, no calls, text or whatapps. Just LOOK her with eyes

Sarang:


He is abusing her and he has no right to do that. She will die of depression one day.. what am I saying sef. You don't care if she lives or dies anyway.. You seem like a wicked person..no offense

Abusing who, he has every right. This is where you people miss it, every people have their own way of life, we are not whites, even the whites who don't flog their children have wayward children, those kids go about involved in gang wars, gun violence, knife stabbing, drugs etc. You only come here and blame everyone for her misdeeds, yet you proved no solution. Learned woman, tell us the way please.

misano:



Guy take matters into ur own hands or are U 17 year old. Take her phone. Chase and embarrass her female friends. Those female friends of hers must be cut off first. They should feel the heat and because of regular embarrassment from ur parents will not want to walk with her.

Get the police to arrest one of her Yahoo boyfriends. I wish ur father could throw his anger to right direct. He could accuse D boys of kidnap. She is 16 according to law ur father has 100% over her. Trust me the police will work with ur father. He should pay the regular police charge and they teach the boys lesson.

Also, pray things get better.

wow, here is a solution, I like this

Bring her back and arrange a change of environment for her.
Send her to that your aunt living in far north or far east. Your parent should be blamed for the way she turned out.

lonlytroy:
Picture of your sister in slut mood or i don't believe

bring her to me for proper healing ...after camping for 3 days she will not remain the same again

VolvoS60:

Interesting thread.

Is interesting because is a common character in Nigeria

dingbang:
Its too late, she can't change. Let her learn from the hard way

And they should use prayer to follow her

That lady needs a psychologist or counselor. her psychological traits had been restructure or exploited by guys


1. Find out if she has not join cultist

2. take her to a psychologist and counsellor

3. let her leave that vicinity and stay with a disciplinarian

chigoziri2403:
let her hustle hard, buy the old man a jeep, and build a mansion, her sins would be forgiven instantly
money rules the world
I had a relative like that, her father always traced her to hotels, even used a cutlass on her, but when she started flying to Qatar, and bringing goodies, she became her fathers fave, the person whom has the final say in everything concerning family matters

That's my Edo babe � at 18 year 80% of them don get duplex for Benin thanks to international runs package �

That's why we have a lot of sadistic people on the prowl, most actually think being aggressive or bullying people is a normal thing. I don't take people from here serious, you shouldn't also.

Sarang:


Nigerians dey read? Only cane them sabi buy.. imagine one idiot said spread her legs..and put pepper. Dude should be in a jail for child abuse.. but am tired of the ignorance of our people though.. am even tired of Nairaland sef..

sweetv:
I feel your pains there,I have read some previous responds both the good and the bad, am a gal, and I know how these things happened, am sorry to say this,your parents failed in their row to train her up, even you as a big brother,the said train up a child in a way he won't depart from, my candid advice is this,pray for her,their is a spirit in charge of sexual activities in human being,people don't seems to know,break the evil force behind her behavior, and ask God to restore her back to you.
Also as a big brother that loves her sis,you can play the lead roll here,call her,talk to her as a brother, tell her how much you love her and how much her action breaks you down,keep praying for her,keep her in your care,Dont allow her live with those guys rather let her stay with you or a relative, ignore her actions for sometime while you tackle the spiritual aspects, when is done spiritually, is done physically,Dont lost hope in her yet,she can still change,later you can talk to your parents, I wish you all the best OK, be strong

All this things Ure saying, the mama don do am. Its not about upbringing, everyone has a decision to make in life, its not like she hasn't seen good people, she saw bad people and chose to be bad. I'm not saying upbringing does not matter o, all I'm saying is ultimately u have the choice of good and evil no matter the upbringing

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Three things u can do and i assure you, u will look for me to thank me.
1.The extreme measure is to secure her, arrange for soldiers to take her to their guards room and just tell them to handle her like a teenager that she is..believe me, after 4days with those guys her brain will return to factory reset.
2 look for a good spiritualist to help settle her group in the spiritual world so they can allow her be in d physical.
3 she might be a nymph so medical and spiritual is the only solution. In this case it's not really her fault.

The bug got her
Crave for the sweet life money can offer
I am sure she has a banging body
There is nothing that can be done
She either carry belle
Sickness
Or dem go use am buy Benz

So forget about her
Live ur life

KendrickAyomide:
iamPlato give me her contact details let me see if she is really guilty of those accusations.. hope she's sexy

You must be Yoruba. Always thinking about sex sex sex. Dem swear for una?

Them don use your sister bro

IamPlato:
he Burnt All Her Property Yesterday Night..


MODIFIED

She Doesnt Lack Love At All. My Mother Loves Her So Much but I Believe She Hates her Mother... When Ever She Went Out For Days, my Mother Would Not Sleep But Keep Callin this Girl But She Will Not Pick The Call.



When Ever My Mother Begged And My Father Forgives Her, he Pulls Her Closer but She Ends Up Doing Worse

spiritual prayers needed, not just ordinary prayers again. Some spells is on her.

EmekaBlue:
kai....she dey enjoy d sex and weed life she started early.

Simply send her to boarding school....Military one for that matter

soldier go still fuccck her