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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by ghettochild(m): 11:36am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.
U dey see signs of olosho.... U still asking for advice...OK Go n marry oooo n still return here to be asking us advice for u to stay in marriage

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by duduade: 11:39am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.

"Retrieve" the date of the wine carrying

It will reset her brain

If it doesn't then move on to someone who will be loyal

It's either she isn't satisfied with the amount of money you give her or she likes attention

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by drseun91(m): 11:40am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



I felt like smashing her phone on the wall Buh I couldn't.... I just lost my appetite and left the house for her before I will do something silly...


when I came back she already ate hers and left my in the freezer.... from what I gathered from this post, my mind is made. i have called her elder sister this morning and told her everything and that if she doesn't stop, I will cancel every marriage plans.. she said her and the husband will invite me and he sister over to talk to us.. on how to get along, she really begged me shaaa
Postpone the wedding man, her sister can talk to her but her Sis can't be with her in the wedding.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Bondinus(m): 11:41am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



I understand you have to use such word just to express how u feel for the shyte I'm passing through..
so no offences taking..

Buh honestly I'm not a weakling Bro, I'm just deeply in love and my woman is taking advantage of the love I have for her... Buh ain't no weakling
I understand how you feel, but you just have to disappoint her.
But few questions, what does she do?
When did you start noticing this character both on calls and sex?
Finally, what do will you lose if you move on?
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by OgbeniSamm(m): 11:42am On Jan 11, 2019
MariaLavina:
Common sense isn't common after all.

It is a known fact that opposite sex relates more on phone then people of same sex. A brief scroll through your contact is a proof of this. As a guy how many guys' number do you have on your phone compared to the ladies? Same thing applies to the ladies.

Op, that you are engaged to her doesn't mean she has to cut others off, as long as she's faithful and has regards for you, there is no problem. As for the odd calls, seat her down and talk about it together like adults. Communication is the key.


To the foolish ones ranting, may God help your foolishness! I'm out!

You're half stupid...thanks to your third paragraph, you would have been fully stupid.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by LoveDocAdeshina(m): 11:42am On Jan 11, 2019
What derailed most relationship is lack of compatibility and the only way to get compatible is to look out for type. Find someone whom you feel same way. Instead of accepting of any person.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by oluphunmy(f): 11:43am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



Now this is the full story, I'm saving up funds to further my studies by September fall abroad...

Me and my family agreed I should finalize everything about marriage so that when I by year end, I will be going down the alter by 4th January 2020 ....

So me and my patents with some elders went to her village with Palm wine 2 jars according to tradition and we collected full list and gave them Easter as our return date... check my previous post, I made mention of getting list from her family against my coming by Easter...

maybe she's misbehaving cuz I don't spend like I used to before but she should understand that I'm entering into a huge project that will better the lives of our unborn babies

God will lead u right. Be smart about it any decision u will be making
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by itsmeurLady(f): 11:45am On Jan 11, 2019
Sheggy13:

Like that's the height of it telling another man in my presence that I'm just a minor distraction. Such level of disrespect.

Then u should talk to her about it, if she doesn't listen, run away and don't look back... Don't walk away ooo,run with speed grin
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 11:46am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



she always telling me she dry, baby can't u see am dry and me being dry means I'm not in the mood...

or if she concepts to making love, once she cums, she pushes me away... and now do a hand job on me b4 I cum... (sorry I'm spelling everything out like this) I'm seriously hurting
How old is she?
Does she see sex as a sin?
Have you gotten her pregnant before and asked her to abort?
Are you the one that took her virginity?
Have you cheated on her before?
Are you too demanding of sex?

If all your answers or most of your answers are "yes", I am guessing she doesn't trust you not getting her pregnant so she doesn't want you to cum inside her with or without a condom. Also, she avoids sex as much as possible because her conscience is troubling her as regards fornication. I personally feel you hurt a good woman and it's because of remorse you're acting weak. She doesn't seem to me like a bad person else you won't even notice her runs trust me. Or she's new in the game and is immature. After all said, I believe there's more to this story. I might be wrong though.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by bigiyaro(m): 11:47am On Jan 11, 2019
MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak! angry
who d fvck calls u late at night and early in the morning if not your fvck friends?

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Emmanuelcann: 11:48am On Jan 11, 2019
MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak! angry
you're kidding, right?
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by OgbeniSamm(m): 11:48am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



she always telling me she dry, baby can't u see am dry and me being dry means I'm not in the mood...

or if she concepts to making love, once she cums, she pushes me away... and now do a hand job on me b4 I cum... (sorry I'm spelling everything out like this) I'm seriously hurting


Nigga, wake up. She doesn't love you. Let her go! Take this advice my brother. You deserve to be happy.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Qualitygod01(f): 11:50am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



I felt like smashing her phone on the wall Buh I couldn't.... I just lost my appetite and left the house for her before I will do something silly...


when I came back she already ate hers and left my in the freezer.... from what I gathered from this post, my mind is made[b]. i have called her elder sister this morning and told her everything and that if she doesn't stop, I will cancel every marriage plans.. she said her and the husband will invite me and he sister over to talk to us.. on how to get along, she really begged me shaaa[/b]

My advice is based on your story and believing you are honest in your dealings with her.

Sir, you have done the right thing at the wrong time.
Kai, you will not be able again to determine wholeheartedly if she loves u and wants to marry u.

Dont do what u will regret.
See what will happen after the meeting.

First, she will be annoyed that you couldnt deal with her atitude as a man Then,if you are just an alternative, she will agree to change(which will be 90% fake)
Secondly, since its calls that u are worried about and not to be completely in control of your decisions without external forces, she will hide and make more deadily calls.

Ohhh, you have a long journey ahead of u.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by bigiyaro(m): 11:53am On Jan 11, 2019
Florblu:
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.

Deal with your insecurity
what's is the insecurity there? do you the meaning of ' conduct unbecoming' am very sure you are an upcoming artist. They usually spread their numbers around.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 11:53am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.

Terminate the contract now, Op! She ain't interested.

Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Belafonte(m): 11:54am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:


it's not insecurity my Dear... I have gotten list from their family... against my Coming by Easter with my family... or do you think I don't see beautiful girls out side that I will flirt with or give my number to....

Your fiance is a hoe. I would advise you to not marry her. If she can do this confidently and defiantly when you're about to wed, a period she should be pretending, what do you think she'll do when you guys are official?

Do not rush into marriage. In this same Nigeria marriages break up within six months. If you think I'm exaggerating, go to any courts around your location and see for yourself. You cannot marry a prostitute and expect virtuous behaviours from her. Don't let anyone pressure you, not her, not her family, not your family. No-one.

Don't let anyone go and bring a basterd for you to train. A word is enough for the wise. If you like, marry the neighbourhood pússy, na you go carry your cross by yourself

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by OgbeniSamm(m): 11:54am On Jan 11, 2019
SirMichael1:


She's got no friends?

That MariaLavina is a stupid lady. I pity those good girls that will fall into the friendship trap ofMariaLavina. She go don corrupt all ladies within her sphere of influence.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Belafonte(m): 11:56am On Jan 11, 2019
lilmax:
this is why in a relationship, you spell out what you can't tolerate

if you had talked about this the first time you encountered it, she would have changed

tbh with you, baba that girl will never change and I can tell she's still a kid that doesn't know right and left

the ball is in your court, if you go ahead, you're going to regret it....this is just facts

The best talking about it would accomplish is she would be discreet about the calls. A normal responsible woman should not be told that such behaviours are whorish. If she thinks it's normal, then a man who values his peace of mind should not be considering marriage with her.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Bondinus(m): 11:57am On Jan 11, 2019
OgbeniSamm:


That MariaLavina is a stupid lady. I pity those good girls that will fall into the friendship trap ofMariaLavina. She go don corrupt all ladies within her sphere of influence.
Bro, easy na. E never reach like that!!
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Snow87(m): 11:57am On Jan 11, 2019
I don't know where you people see this kind of ladies to date. Marry a woman that love u more not the other way round. Because she knew u can't lose her that's why she is disrespecting u, if it were the other way round na she go dey bow and tremble at ur word. We the alpha male don't have time for unnecessary discussion, u violate any stipulated rules, we hibernation na u go dey date urself cos we are too busy chasing money.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by OgbeniSamm(m): 11:59am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:


I Now understand it more better now...

thanks brother.
but why are some women like this....

when we visited her parents during Xmas eve, her Dad asked her if him and their elder should collect drink from us and issue us marriage list, they gave her 15mins to go inside and think about it.. she said her mind is made up that she wants to be my wife...

why will she accept and be behaving this way...

I would have preferred she turned me down than acting like this now...

if she still Want to jump around, she should simply reject me and continue with her flirting life...

well I'm just seeking advise from different angles before I make my final decision... if heavens will fall let it fall

Now you're talking

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jan 11, 2019
Florblu:
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.

Deal with your insecurity
you're lucky your not my gf,I could have use you for money rituals.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 12:06pm On Jan 11, 2019
MariaLavina:
Common sense isn't common after all.

It is a known fact that opposite sex relates more on phone then people of same sex. A brief scroll through your contact is a proof of this. As a guy how many guys' number do you have on your phone compared to the ladies? Same thing applies to the ladies.

Op, that you are engaged to her doesn't mean she has to cut others off, as long as she's faithful and has regards for you, there is no problem. As for the odd calls, seat her down and talk about it together like adults. Communication is the key.


To the foolish ones ranting, may God help your foolishness! I'm out!
Sorry you're the foolish one here
What is Cheating?
Can you define or explain cheating in Relationship
I only have my sisters number on my phone I don't make calls I don't even Recharge I only Subscribe to Read News

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 12:06pm On Jan 11, 2019
MariaLavina:
Common sense isn't common after all.

It is a known fact that opposite sex relates more on phone then people of same sex. A brief scroll through your contact is a proof of this. As a guy how many guys' number do you have on your phone compared to the ladies? Same thing applies to the ladies.

Op, that you are engaged to her doesn't mean she has to cut others off, as long as she's faithful and has regards for you, there is no problem. As for the odd calls, seat her down and talk about it together like adults. Communication is the key.


To the foolish ones ranting, may God help your foolishness! I'm out!
Sorry you're the foolish one here
What is Cheating?
Can you define or explain cheating in Relationship
I only have my sisters number on my phone I don't make calls I don't even Recharge I only Subscribe to Read News
So all men are not the Same
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by tobidam: 12:08pm On Jan 11, 2019
MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak! angry
that's why guys should away from folks like you.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by IDKadiri: 12:09pm On Jan 11, 2019
DON'T MIND DEM, DEY ARE OBVIOUSLY WICKED

PERSON THAT HAS TOLD HIS LADY THAT HE IS NOT OKAY WITH SOMETHING THAT SHE IS DOING AND SHE CONTINUES DEM DEY SUPPORT AM.

IF THEIR BETROTHED WAS STILL ASKING BABES FOR THEIR PHONE NUMBERS MONTHS TO THEIR WEDDING AND CALLING DEM UP EARLY IN THE MORNING AND LATE AND NIGHT, THEY WILL NOT SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT..22ND CENTURY BRAIN.
DMerciful:
I don't know why girls support themselves in foolishness! Look at the preposterous comments above!

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by vindisick: 12:10pm On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



she always telling me she dry, baby can't u see am dry and me being dry means I'm not in the mood...

or if she concepts to making love, once she cums, she pushes me away... and now do a hand job on me b4 I cum... (sorry I'm spelling everything out like this) I'm seriously hurting
Guy drop that girl quick. Nawa for you. Ah ah!!! How can you contain such nonsense from girl. Show her you are angry and be scarce from her for sometime, let her chase you very well. Make her know shit wont always just go down well with you. If she doesnt obliged, then thank your God cos you have just been saved from a possibly untimely heartbreak and death. No time

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 12:12pm On Jan 11, 2019
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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Daeylar(f): 12:12pm On Jan 11, 2019
You're not happy, break up with her and move on. Why do people like stressing themselves over relationship issues.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by emelda86(f): 12:12pm On Jan 11, 2019
This is what u get when u decide to marry slay Queen lol...
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by IDKadiri: 12:14pm On Jan 11, 2019
GBAM!!

NICE GUYS DEY ALWAYS CARRY LAST

JONNYSPUTE:
....Most ladies don't respect nice guys.So you better man up before its too late.It is not all about playing the same game with her rather its about you taking charge of the affairs. Why marry a lady that can't respect your feelings? Do you want to die young?.

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