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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by sacx: 8:17pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Nwanyi calm down. You've been cool until now. Don't blow your top and resort to name calling. There's nothing wrong in wanting to see someone you've been having an online relationship with. You did nothing wrong in wanting to see him. I even don't see anything wrong in asking for transport fare. What was important was timing. In my opinion, you hastened to smoothen things up without having a better understand of who you are getting on with. Different people react to issues differently. Given that you are knowledgeable on the human psychology, I think the onus lied with you to know when to press and when to tarry. Did you factor in what led to the crash of his last relationship? Could it have had a little to do with finance? Then you could have tread with caution on that subject. You get my point? Count your losses. Forgive and let go. He is not wrong, neither are you. You both were just not right for each other at the moment. To the success of your next relationship. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:18pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
wetdick:The white women of thesedays are not the ussual pale skinned, blonde, blue eyes flat bottom bimbos.. I see, maybe co's you live in Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by pocohantas(f): 8:20pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Valerie47: Firstly, there is nothing wrong in going to Lagos with HER OWN MONEY. He doesn't have to insist, it is what she should do. I wanna believe she wanted to see him as much as he wanted to see her. I love to spend my own money, it quickly sends the message that you either behave well or you fck off. I wouldn't know why he insisted, if I were her, I will tell him it isn't cost effective. Lol @ chance to misbehave. Give them an inch and they will take a yard... 6 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:23pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
gypsey: Dude not because i live in Nigeria, i have been abroad before but i still go out with black girls, it has to do with culture, i have seen how they behave and i dont think they are what i want. 1 Like |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:23pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
It's really shameful reading some comments. Too many kids everywhere. Some guys are a disgrace, a big shame to manhood. A lady wants to visit you, and you can't even offer to take care of her travel expenses. And you call yourself a man? She was not even supposed to ask. You don't have a business dating or approaching a lady if you can't afford to incur some expenses. You want a fine babe but you no wan spend. Which kind baby men be these? One only needs to avoid lavish spending. The immaturity this guy displays here is too appalling, even when OP never mentioned his moniker specifically. Some people are not old enough to be in a relationship. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:24pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
pocohantas:He even sent her a used card, that nigga never wanted to take her serious. |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:24pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
That lady running her mouth, 'if it is me,if it is me','nl boys this,nl boys that'.. I know their type Nwanyiawkaetiti,you did nothing wrong my dear,absolutely NOTHING,everything happened for a reason 10 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:25pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
pocohantas: Praise the lord, lets hope you are not all talk on NL but a doer of your word in real life. 3 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:29pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:29pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Simplep:Hmmm, some people never jam.... It's better you do your thing codedly |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:29pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
ceeroh:Dude ,what you experienced is less astonishing to what I saw during my university days. That is why I will always say it anywhere I go that igbo ladies are the most promiscuous. In my lodge alone I had like 4 ladies that their fiance/husband where abroad hustling and financing them but yet they couldn't resist the temptation of following young guys in school. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:30pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Simplep:Mtcheeeeeew. 1 Like |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by LordAdam16: 8:30pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
FRoosevelt: You could say that again. Been there, done that. Part of the convincing reason why I opine that s*x is overrated. But from what I know of the guys who've been on the pleasurable side of that equation and have that pesky thing called emotions, connecting on an emotional level with a skirt becomes difficult. Like the dude earlier up in the thread. It becomes a double-edged sword of sorts. I mean ideally one should be able to just see it as game if it happens to you seeing you've done it to someone else's bae. But the mind can be tricky, so I imagine for some, it would fill their hearts with dread to ever find themselves on the receiving end. To essentially be the "mugu." In the same way cheaters lose their mind when they're on the receiving end. Because they know for sure how seriously amazing the feelings are and how they're the subject, much to their chagrin. -Lord 1 Like |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by pocohantas(f): 8:32pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Valerie47: The guy is plain mischievous and it is good it's all over. She has learned her lessons. Lots of these guys here are snitches. Once they have a misunderstanding with you offline, the first thing that enters their head is to troll you online. Especially if you are a popular/active female. |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:33pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
pocohantas:Exactly, which is why I don't reply their pms and choose to be anonymous, they kiss and tell too much. nairaland alpha male wannabe. 1 Like |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:35pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Valerie47:in that case, my moniker is funmisticqueen, not funmiNIsticqueen. There is no Ni inside. |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:38pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:Ummmm are you expecting me to cram your moniker or something? 2 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by LordAdam16: 8:38pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
vingeophysicist: From what I know, it has nothing to do with ethnicity. But I may be wrong. -Lord 2 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:39pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
How do u mean? DanDeeBoss: |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by EzeAnambra: 8:40pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:pls dont listen to that hooker who loves tfare more than her life,she is still a small girl and dosent know what she want yet.You played your part but things didnt work out,spending 10k for calls and sms to be intouch with him,u tried. Maybe he's not that into you.Move on with urlife b4 one ashawo will come and teach u how to collect tfare to go and Bleep. 4 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:40pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Valerie47:yes. Learn to spell it correctly 2 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by pocohantas(f): 8:41pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Valerie47: Alphas males indeed. Fucking preeks who can't keep their mouths shut. If you are alpha, you don't need to say it, it will be obvious. I am even angry that ladies started attacking themselves over one community preek. Make una no do that kind thing again abeg... 3 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by BiafraBushBoy(m): 8:45pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: You may neglect this my mention... but know when you type and know when not to type. I told you this before, you neglected it and thought you were making me a fool. I cautioned the guys on the other thread you created prolly felt they were trolling you... but here you are again. |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by BiafraBushBoy(m): 8:46pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
pocohantas: I just won 500 Naira because I knew I would find you here. Here we go. |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 8:47pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Mystique20(f): 8:49pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
What do we say about you? You were well aware of the fact that she had a relationship yet you went ahead to ruin your fellow guy's relationship because you couldn't control your urges. For the record, you are no better than her. For all we know, she might have come clean to her husband but you on the other hand will still see him and hail like nothing happened. YOU COULD HAVE SAID NO ceeroh: 1 Like |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:51pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Valerie47: no be u again, u and bragging na 5 and 6. no provoke me. u tink say if u change moniker like as u don do now and always do after being smacked say we no go no say now u. as u de brag now n so u brag de last time say ur immediate ex na ur last bus stop but u did not see it coming say ihm planned to dump u until ihm doam. now as ur heartbreak don de heal u don begin de brag again. duck mouth 10 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by oochi123(f): 8:52pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
bayocanny:..good.. Thanks |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by stephleena(f): 8:52pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
used recharge card..lol |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by pocohantas(f): 8:54pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 8:55pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
BiafraBushBoy:On a cheery side I doubt this thread would have made Frontpage without his input which sparked the whole thread. Atleast I made many people's day less boring today. 1 Like |
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