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Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by ImaIma1(f): 12:05pm On Feb 12, 2019
Martinez39:
You don't know what the MGTOW movement is all about. Educate yourself on it and stop strawmanning.
Did I mention MGTOW? Read to understand and not to attack.
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Martinez39(m):
Athena4:
Hmm.You are certainly an impressionable youngster. You should browse more productive websites..Like Quora..read from real live successful men what it's like to be "A DECENT MAN". U certainly won't find sexist childish rants that deceive you.
Lol, I have a Quora account. You assume too much about people you have never met. That's very unintelligent. I put it to you that you don't know what the MGTOW is all about. Since you have taken it upon yourself to remain incorrigible in your strawmanning and irrationality, I rest my case with you. Bye. grin

Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Nobody:
ImaIma1:
Did I mention MGTOW? Read to understand and not to attack.
You spend your time too much on Nl ,and I thought you are a married woman undecided
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Martinez39(m): 12:11pm On Feb 12, 2019
ImaIma1:
Did I mention MGTOW? Read to understand and not to attack.
Lol. Funmisticqueen was talking about the MGTOW movement and you followed up with about "those men." You didn't mention MGTOW and you didn't have to bash the MGTOW men.
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Athena4: 12:12pm On Feb 12, 2019
Martinez39:
Lol, I have a Quora account. You assume too much about people you have never met. That's very unintelligent. I put it to you that you don't know what the MGTOW is all about. Since you have taken it upon yourself to remain incorrigible in your strawmanning and irrationality, I rest my case with you. Bye. grin
Jeez.By all means please come and continue educating me.Theres a difference btwn having a Quora with subscription to useful topics and just... having a Quora account. Also "strawmanning" sounds stupid.I bet you've never used it near sane people. I mean just say that word out loud and see how it sounds. There isn't much difference between you and a Nazi feminist by the way. Screaming MGTOW on every comment u make is ridiculous. Be real and stop hiding behind something someone made-up to deal with their insecure self. Bye.
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Martinez39(m): 12:18pm On Feb 12, 2019
kollinzgee:
loolzzz the life of a betamale is bitter unless he luckily gets rich even at that he is still a beta .i have been there and done that.he cannot face the crowd and be assertive,he crumbles under pressure,women easily loose interest in him,they always come to nairaland to cry when their hearts get broken,shuush a betamale depends on luck and chance to get anything in life mostly settles for less.
Some men allow women to define what makes them real men that's why once a beta male becomes rich and spends on women, he thinks has arrived. He doesn't know that he is a mugu wasting money only to be called a real man in return. SMH. Riches has nothing to do with alpha and beta, anyone of them can be rich and talented. The crux is the mentality.
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Biglittlelois(f): 12:18pm On Feb 12, 2019
Jeferious:
Genuine alphas- of course they exist- would not bother themselves with the viewpoint of the op. A lion does not bother itself with the opinion of sheep. Anyone who claims to be an alpha male here and yet reacted emotionally to the op's assertions needs to check his "Alpha" status again. An Alpha is rarely emotional, and would never exhibit the slightest visible trait of insecurity.
Well said.
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by ImaIma1(f): 12:39pm On Feb 12, 2019
SilentListener:
You spend your time too much on Nl ,and I thought you are a married woman, smh. bitches everywhere
I didn't know my life was supposed to stop because I am married. Yours can stop when you get married.
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by ImaIma1(f): 12:45pm On Feb 12, 2019
Martinez39:
Lol. Funmisticqueen was talking about the MGTOW movement and you followed up with about "those men." You didn't mention MGTOW and you didn't have to bash the MGTOW men.
Wrong! Read again. Funmi was responding to Poco's response to me.

She mentioned red pill. Does red pill apply to only MGTOW?
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by ImaIma1(f): 12:46pm On Feb 12, 2019
SilentListener:
You spend your time too much on Nl ,and I thought you are a married woman, smh. bitches everywhere
Only you has the right to live on NL. Move along if you have no reasonable argument
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Martinez39(m): 1:06pm On Feb 12, 2019
ImaIma1:
Wrong! Read again. Funmi was responding to Poco's response to me.

She mentioned red pill. Does red pill apply to only MGTOW?
Okay.
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Nobody: 2:15pm On Feb 12, 2019
Curvinus:
Op, Alpha male is the male equivalent of a beautiful woman. He has way too many choices that he is unable to commit to one woman. Please note the emphasis unable. The alpha male gets way too many attentions and sexual indications of interest from the ladies that makes settling with one woman an anathema to him.

An apha male is blessed by nature with good looks and such physical strength that he could easily make you his biitch in an instant. These two combinations and little hard work are what drives a man to become successful in life. Any three combination of money, romance and excitement will certainly have the ladies rising like a cobra in a wicker basket. But the alpha male does not necessarily use the money to seduce women as he doesn't need to. instead he uses that to get himself a nice house, good ride and clothes to keep him shining gleam clean like a god. I'm sure you must have heard the popular phrase men are scum, stingy, jerks. They tactics used to manipulate the alpha male into committing and providing but they don't always work.

Forget that poverty has made so many women in this country to deaden their loins to the amorous pool of the alpha male's charm and they are now settling for the average dude who consistently provides. But you can bet your nickle and dime that the girl you are adoring and doing everything to please and provide for her needs hasn't really given up hope of an alpha male coming someday to rescue her from perpetual boredom.

It is this this realisation that has made certain men to go their way, aka MGTOW. These men feel that the system has been rigged against them by nature and therefore are no longer willing to play on an uneven field.
someone should give this guy a chilled bottle of ciroc
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by ubunja(m): 4:03pm On Feb 12, 2019
Athena4:
Jeez.By all means please come and continue educating me.Theres a difference btwn having a Quora with subscription to useful topics and just... having a Quora account. Also "strawmanning" sounds stupid.I bet you've never used it near sane people. I mean just say that word out loud and see how it sounds. There isn't much difference between you and a Nazi feminist by the way. Screaming MGTOW on every comment u make is ridiculous. Be real and stop hiding behind something someone made-up to deal with their insecure self. Bye.
loool when people try to shame mgtow. Its hilarious
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Uyiii:
pocohantas:
When I see alphamales/MGTOW, I see bunch of elements who have confused themselves with their illusions. I see a man who has been hurt by women and is trying so hard to prove to women that he can do without them. They are worse than the "feminist" they so hate.

Show me a man who is in a loving relationship with a woman who loves him back that is into this alphamale/MGTOW stuff...and I will show you a virgin mother of 5.

OP, congratulations on being liberated. Watch how happy you will be now... Alpha males spend so much time scheming, you can only imagine how stressful love/relationship must be for them. Zero-spontaneity cheesy cheesy
Lol, as usual you've got the very wrong notion as regards the alpha male concept but I am not mentioning you for this, reason why I didn't mention you earlier.

I saw some of the comments in 'ashewo beer parlor' and I am like Poco, what's really going on? because ordinarily I use to think it's just normal banters/trolls in NL as a social forum, like banters must be exchanged (it's a norm) and as a girl who normally stands out strong fronting for the rest of your gender who cannot with opposing your opposite gender more often than not has now made you very popular in the circus of some of the guys here.

I do mention you teasingly because of this trademark attached to you and like yah, I really end it there once I log out, like normal social media talks but it seems sturvs happening to you in NL with some guys here is really beyond NL, like it's now an offline thing and it's not even related to your "feminist" stance here.
As a friend sha, would have really love to know what the qualms is because I read very toxic comments that forced me to mention you now, like the motive behind those talks are way beyond mere internet trolls.

You know, as I earlier said to you some time ago, there are very intelligent chaps here that makes NL so intriguing for me, like I love reading their comments when indeed I couldn't drop mine. So aside the fact we share disparities on some of your talks, yours still fall in the category of the comments I like to see and read.

For using your sobriquet to make jokes, okay I don't think it'll stop anytime soon sha, your sobriquet is just so sweet for teasing/trolling, well maybe because of the popularity attached to it but I just want you to know it's done all for social media sake, no real hard feelings at all and I trust you strong enough to know and not even give a fvck but play along just to make this place as lively and fascinating as it can ever be for all of us.
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Nasri100(m): 4:43pm On Feb 12, 2019
Martinez39:
I explained to funmisticqueen what MGTOW movement is and how it originated but she still prefer to live in denial for selfish reasons. Notice how every female on this thread are strawmanning and shaming MGTOW guys and praising men that marry and provide for their women. You won't get their motive for doing this until you contemplate who stands to benefit more if every man tried to fit into their narrative of who a real man is. That's why I tell guys to be the ones who define what makes them real men not women or else they end up becoming women's fools. These women know that men don't owe them anything and that they should try to be independent but because life is hard, challenging, filled with ups and downs, they start favouring the narrative that men are supposed to provide despite calling themselves feminists. The cognitive dissonance is too much.

I am sure wetdick is rejoicing and filling fulfilled given that females on this thread are supporting him. This is what gives him his sense of being. Shameless beta. grin

Cc. Ubunja, kollinzgee, JOHNNYSPUTE
You are intelligent.
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by ubunja(m): 5:37pm On Feb 12, 2019
Athena4:
Hmm.You are certainly an impressionable youngster. You should browse more productive websites..Like Quora..read from real live successful men what it's like to be "A DECENT MAN". U certainly won't find sexist childish rants that deceive you.
how many women have given their virginity to "decent men"? How many women get pregnant for "decent men"?...
Tone down your propaganda
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by pocohantas(f):
Uyiii:
Lol, as usual you've got the very wrong notion as regards the alpha male concept but I am not mentioning you for this, reason why I didn't mention you earlier.
Hehehe, Uyii is my friend because of gist?
How old do you think I am?

Uyiii:
I think you're 47cheesy


but just know sha say my own na out of likeness for your online xter, oya chop knucklewink and see you on another thread with a correct confirm strokingcheesy
All your permutation and combination no concern me o. It wouldn't add/reduce my actual age. See you too wink
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 12, 2019
wetdick:
Stupid, is that a term you guys use in the Alfa community
smh
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Uyiii:
pocohantas:
Hehehe, Uyii is my friend because of gist?
How old do you think I am?

As for every other thing you said, it is mutual. Hate is vey expensive to maintain; why would I want to incur such expense over Nlders.

Yea, you are very correct. Only a fool will think all their ramblings is because I am a supposed feminist. And only a bigger fool will make that much noise because I am a feminist. Abi na me be the only "feminist" for NL grin
I think you're 47cheesy

okay, that's a joke. I read a comment whr ishilove said you're in your early 20's, but if I was gonna permute online, I'll say you're in your late 20's or early 30's which I really think you are.

Anyhow sha since you cool and don't want to clarify the extreme online and offline diss with me maybe because of how open here is, then no qualms.
but just know sha say my own na out of likeness for your online xter, oya chop knucklewink and see you on another thread with a correct confirm strokingcheesy
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Uglymugg: 6:08pm On Feb 12, 2019
Martinez39:
No. Riches isn't a component of an alpha. It's ladies that define rich men as real men for selfish reasons. In fact, the rich men that are pussy pleasing worshipping fools are the most real men to women. A beta male can be rich or poor and an alpha male can be rich or poor.
Lol, who said anything about being rich? I'm talking about not being broke, that does NOT equal being rich. It doesn't always have to be the two extreme. If someone calls you broke, doesn't mean they expected you to be rich like Linda or Dangote. It's just...be able to live comfortably with what you earn.

One thing I've never seen is a broke alpha male.
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Nobody: 6:41pm On Feb 12, 2019
It is so interesting how all the NL alphas wannabe have quoted paragraphs from pickup artists. Reading their confusion and contradictions was amazing. The other day one called martinez39 open a thread abt how people should stop living a fake life. All you wannabes alphas are just bunch of emotional actors
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Martinez39(m): 6:55pm On Feb 12, 2019
Uglymugg:
Lol, who said anything about being rich? I'm talking about not being broke, that does NOT equal being rich. It doesn't always have to be the two extreme. If someone calls you broke, doesn't mean they expected you to be rich like Linda or Dangote. It's just...be able to live comfortably with what you earn.

One thing I've never seen is a broke alpha male.
Okay then. My bad. Just wanted to correct what I thought was a misconception.
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Martinez39(m): 7:00pm On Feb 12, 2019
wetdick:
It is so interesting how all the NL alphas wannabe have quoted paragraphs from pickup artists. Reading their confusion and contradictions was amazing. The other day one called martinez39 open a thread abt how people should stop living a fake life. All you wannabes alphas are just bunch of emotional actors
Lol. Your irrationality is boundless. What does opening a thread about fake life have to do with anything? Hope you are now satisfied and fulfilled from the attention and support women on this thread have given you? Seems these are what give you a sense of being, shameless beta. You are yet to define what an alpha male is and you are yet to list the names of nairalanders who define being an alpha as being toxic, aggressive etc. Why am I even responding? I rest my case with you. grin

Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Nobody:
Martinez39:
Lol. Your irrationality is boundless. What does opening a thread about fake life have to do with anything? Hope you are now satisfied and fulfilled from the attention and support women on this thread have given you? Seems these are what give you a sense of being, shameless beta. You are yet to define what an alpha male is and you are yet to list the names of nairalanders who define being an alpha as being toxic, aggressive etc. Why am I even responding? I rest my case with you. grin
no time to argue with a jobless and broke jamesbond wannabe adult that gets inspirations from romance novels
Re: There Is Nothing Like Alpha Male In Nigeria by Martinez39(m): 7:23pm On Feb 12, 2019
wetdick:
no time to argue with a jobless and broke jamesbond wannabe.
grin Do you know me? Have you met me before? grin

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