₦airaland Forum

sukhothai:
you are back with your senselessness as usual

Saffi:
What were you doing when your mates were investing cash to make profit? A way to a woman’s heart is cash, most of you barely have it yet we manage you and compromise for the sake of love. Before a lady pronounces the ‘b’ in broke, 5 guys will haunt her down with abusive words but now you can’t compromise with cooking skills. Well I’ve seen it all on Nairaland and I’m fed up of this site honestly.

Gbengazzee:
In this part of the world, one of the pride of a woman is being able to cook well.

sacramento1212:
It was my own opinion which i believe he understands this. He also stated that if she must learn, it will be in her father's house which I also respect his own point.

I love good food but i won't lose a fantastic woman because she's not a fantastic cook. No one was born a fantastic cook, practise makes perfect so she'll learn and be good in it.

It's just like saying one cannot marry a good woman because she doesn't have skills in the bedroom, it doesn't make any sense to me. Those that have the skills, were they born with it?

Olumidehenryojo:
Lolz! Let assume dat u cn't cook as a guy nd u go ahead 2 marry tinking dat d damsel cn cook bt un fortunate 4 u she cn't cook either... Omo na 4 d parent 2 returned half of her bride price moni so dat i cn send her 2 catery skul[color=#770077]

Ihatelove:
I can't marry a man that can't cook either. So I will teach him how to cook before I say yes to him

Mariangeles:
Whether you admit it or not, FOOD is a very vital part of a marriage!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How many of you lads can actually be patient enough to be with a lady who cannot cook but willing to learn? People are so quick to break relationships these days over little things.
For example when my dad(God bless his soul) met my mom, she didn't even know how to make ordinary pap but he didn't judge her or push her away, instead he taught her everything he knows.
If someone you actually like is lagging in an area, you complement them. Too bad most relationships now are based on selfish interests with very weak bond.

So before you leave that lady because she can't cook, Think twice.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How many of you lads can actually be patient enough to be with a lady who cannot cook but willing to learn? People are so quick to break relationships these days over little things.
For example when my dad(God bless his soul) met my mom, she didn't even know how to make ordinary pap but he didn't judge her or push her away, instead he taught her everything he knows.
If someone you actually like is lagging in an area, you complement them. Too bad most relationships now are based on selfish interests with very weak bond.

So before you leave that lady because she can't cook, Think twice.

lefulefu:
chief bob izua who is a PDP cheiftain in benin and a stark illiterate is married to graduates. His second wife is a medical doctor and his third wife is a lawyer. He has several wives and concubines and they are educated.dont know abt his first wife though.

dukeo:
Are you asking or advising?

OBIACHIMAOBI:
not at all

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Money makes the world go round.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How many of you lads can actually be patient enough to be with a lady who cannot cook but willing to learn? People are so quick to break relationships these days over little things.
For example when my dad(God bless his soul) met my mom, she didn't even know how to make ordinary pap but he didn't judge her or push her away, instead he taught her everything he knows.
If someone you actually like is lagging in an area, you complement them. Too bad most relationships now are based on selfish interests with very weak bond.

So before you leave that lady because she can't cook, Think twice.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Good one. Boys b learning now.

NNAMDIII:
I can't marry a woman that can't cook, as if no be only sex and food they have to offer

Jiang:
No!!!

My question to a lady after first date
1- Do you like cats
2-Can you cook, especially danwake
3- I play alot of video games, would that bother you.

I watch her reaction to the questions & if she lies or answers No especially for No 2 & 3, then we are DONE!!!

Techsupport:
That's all ur mother offered ur father? Well the signs are showing on this post of urs

MRsoftapple:
Cooking is no longer a big deal.
There are YouTube videos and small books that teaches everyone how to cook different delicacies.

If she is willing to learn or not, it does not matter, there are women that knows how to cook but still employs chefs because of work and busy schedule.

Beyonce is worth almost half a billion dollar and she dont know how to cook, she is succesfully married with kids for more than a decade now.

Those female celebs that can win tournaments in cooking, some of them are divorced now, some are mere baby mamas.

izzou:
For me, I really do not have issues with food. And yeah, I can date a lady who doesn't know how to cook

But the truth is, it's not about her not knowing how to cook that's the problem. The real question I ask myself is "WHY DOES SHE NOT KNOW HOW TO COOK?"

Not knowing how to cook, somehow, tells a lot about who she is, especially if she's not from a very very rich family where they have cooks and maids ant their disposal

So not knowing how to cook is not really the problem. It's the reason why you refused to know how to cook that I centre on.... And most times, my answer is usually laziness



And if I may ask, did you ever ask your mum why she never learnt how to cook?

Oyindidi:
Lol, let her go and do her homework

ImaIma1:
Inability to cook should not be the determinant in a relationship especially if she has many other good things about her.

But seriously, cooking is basic...it is a survival necessity. What was she doing with her time that she didn't learn even the basics?

How does she want to go about it in marriage? Eat out, buy pots of soups and stews or depend on maids?

peroristic:
baba abeg you go sch

MRsoftapple:
Cooking is no longer a big deal.
There are YouTube videos and small books that teaches everyone how to cook different delicacies.

If she is willing to learn or not, it does not matter, there are women that knows how to cook but still employs chefs because of work and busy schedule.

Beyonce is worth almost half a billion dollar[b] and she dont know how to cook, she is succesfully married with kids for more than a decade now.

Those female celebs that can win tournaments in cooking, some of them are divorced now, some are mere baby mamas.[/b]

sukhothai:
for shameless senseless useless mannerless hopeless aimless remorseless valueless bitches like ...... and saffi

they go soon use una for money rituals no worry

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Great.

Tundexxy:
Why should i?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Best not to be sentimental. Oyibo wey talk am get sense. You are very bitter son but I know God will bless our hustle.

OgogoroFreak:
Yes, if she can suck and fvck very well.