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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Nobody: 8:24am On Apr 09, 2019

Gaspardd:
There is this lady at work, she works for the client and i work for the contractor. She has a nigga friend who is my padi and he has been talking to me about her, after so much persuasion, i said fùck it and gave it a shot.

Really she was so receptive than i envisaged and since then we've been casually saying hi and stuff.
On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). She said she wud call me wenever she's back from church.
She called around 5pm, i dressed up, all my clothes were creased so bad so i had to borrow a niggas Tshirt, pocketed 2k cus i am cheap and i live cheap, so i cant spend more than 2k on a date.

I got to d venue, she was waiting already, she was putting on a gown revealing some cleavage which was a very nice sight but really unlike her as she always dress modest to work.
Long story short, i ordered for drinks, all was 1400 naira, which was within budget, d 100 naira change will be for my TP and i will give d maruwa guy 500 for her own TP to give her d remaining change. Everything was going according to plan, things were going fine , what a good time to be alive. Suddenly she said she feels like chewing sth.
I initially made as if i didnt hear what she said, she said it again and i interjected with "NOPE, CHEWING IS BAD FOR TEETH" She laffed and beckoned on the waiter to come over. In shock i yelled wait wait, i brought out the whole of 1500, dropped it on the table and told her this all i have with me, already she knows there is 1400 payment to be made.

She didnt give a shìt, she called the guy, brought 2 plates of meat, i was just feeling awkward watching how the whole shìt wud play out. At last she brought out her purse, gave d guy some money, i picked the 1500, gave it to the waiter but he returned the money, said the money she gave him is complete.
Seriously i was ashamed of myself, i wanted to talk about it but i decided to let it slide so as not to overflogg the issue.
Later we were done and i saw her off, i gave d driver 500 for her TP. Some hrs later i saw 3missed calls from her, i texted her back and she responded with... see you tmao. While i dont know wht that means but i know she is gonna tell everybody at work about what happened, about how i am a stingy pig. But i aint stingy, i just priotize things i spend money on.
Today i told my niggas what happened, i have only two niggas, but neither i nor any of them has heard about the parol from another source. But then i am sure that if words get around, my reputation = Ruined

Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by HardMirror(m): 8:24am On Apr 09, 2019

Jidibia:
He called the girl a gluton? OMG!!! that guy is a stingy man. He has no right to call the girl a glutton because she paid the bills.

look at the third comment where he called her a glutton. How can you go on a date and spend 1400 on drinks alone and expect her not to eat anything. Just drink like the drunkard he is. He shld have bought weed for her since that is also cheap. These are the guys disgracing us

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Kendrick80(m): 8:24am On Apr 09, 2019

The bushmeat finally caught the hunter cheesy

Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by alphaNomega: 8:24am On Apr 09, 2019

Gaspardd:
I just dont spend money on mundane things. And i am not stingy

Dude you are stingy. Honestly you can't enjoy a woman with this type of behaviour.

These mundane things you call are, in reality, the spice of life. That's why you refused to own a nice shirt because to you it is unnecessary.

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by MartinsD12(m): 8:24am On Apr 09, 2019

Jidibia:
Just listen to yourself, but he borrowed a shirt to wear for the date. He should as well gone nude to the place nah!!! Haba!!! Stop defending the guy, he messed up big time and he is stingy.

No he didn't borrow abeg am not defending the guy am saying I love what he did one can't live above his means and there is nothing wrong in a lady paying for a date case closed

Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by juliuscapps(m): 8:25am On Apr 09, 2019

Bro, I am interested in this book.. Can I message you on WhatsApp? Thanks

WomenTrainer:
My brother, you did the right thing. And she loves you for your sincerity but you don't know it. Why are you worried about damaging your reputation when you should be planning on making that co-worker your co-lover? Lol. She spent her hard-earned money on you and still gave you three missed calls afterwards bro. Are you blind or an olodo? Can't you see she really likes you?

It's unfortunate that many men don't know that being the man by standing your ground (and in your case, sticking to your 2k budget) actually turns women on. You know why? Because a man is supposed to make the rules not bend it to please women. Ironically, when a man tries hard to please a woman, that's when he'll even displease her and turn her off.

I recommend THE RATIONAL MALE BY ROLLO TOMASSI to you. Every man should read that book and learn how to be a man. If you need the pdf version, just whatsapp me and ask nicely, I'll send it to you. You can thank me later.

Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by HardMirror(m): 8:25am On Apr 09, 2019

Athena4:
WTF? Can you say to her face? It's like you're a two faced kind of person. You are thrashing her now abi? Cos she paid her bills wahala.If she had eaten down the restaurant and wanted you pay wetin u for come tell us here. U don't deserve better thing abeg .What type of yeye egotistical droll are you? Stupid fûckboy .You think every lady out there is the " buns and coke" kind you managed to lay in school? This is the real world, tons of women are independent.Stupid cow. Your comments just expose you.

you can tell the guy is a broke ass

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by MissJoy29(f): 8:25am On Apr 09, 2019

Gaspardd:
We all have our roles to play, i am the man and shld act like the boss. This is not me being paranoid its about she being full of herself

Already, you are saying she's full of herself. The next thing you will say is, "she's not submissive". MEN!!!

No matter what you guys say, y'all will never really be comfortable with a lady who can take care of herself when you guys start misbehaving. The moment she starts showing that she can take care of herself, your insecurity & inferiority issues start. So why do y'all keep yapping about how ladies are leeches when you can't even handle what you ask for.

The moment I realised that a lot of you guys are confused & like contradicting themselves, my life became easier. I stopped thinking so much about the tantrums y'all throw up & down like overgrown babies about ladies, money and submission.

Every man has that make-up to want to provide. Take that away from them & their ego is bruised. That's why I cringe when I hear the immature, senseless and poorly-raised BOYS (masquerading as men) these days try to shy away from that responsibility. They label all women(including their wives and mothers) leeches & bash them all just to avoid providing. I tell my friends, don't date a selfish woman no matter how beautiful she is. The consequence is you labelling all women leeches. For ladies(not the selfish and entitled ones), a man is meant to provide. If you notice him being selfish and unnecessarily stingy, run! He's less of a man.

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Nobody: 8:26am On Apr 09, 2019

really

Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by abuhusna1: 8:26am On Apr 09, 2019

Somebody wore a nice outfit tried to look nice to go on a date with you all you could afford was just 2000. You should have just taken her for lunch at work the 2000 May be enough or u safe up till you have more to spend or better still hide your face forever if you no get money

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by xtremeTall(m): 8:27am On Apr 09, 2019

Nawa o.... When I'm still praying to God to reduce my weekly outing spedings with bae to 30k..

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by alphaNomega: 8:28am On Apr 09, 2019

daddytime:
She got one over you...lol

No biggies guy. . Take a chill pill..

Little silly awkward episodes like these are a potential solid foundation for a burgeoning love affair.

Most ladies can kill for a straight up natural and no faking dude like you...

Stay awoke dude...

We don experience worse..

As a young chap back in the days on the streets of The Netherlands I had seen a Caribbean lady with an ass and a hip like none I ever had beheld pronto and so I said to myself "we die here after all all die na die"...

Long gist and not much different from yours...I had over spent to give her a great time when she came visiting me for the first time and later asked we go clubbing that night to which I had obliged even when I knew I had gone seriously low on cash.

After clubbing...na leg me and her take trek the length and breath of Rotterdam through the Willemsbrug.

Na so love take start o come lead to marriage...

Nice story bro, but this guy's own won't have your type of ending.

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Nobody: 8:30am On Apr 09, 2019

dannybrasky:
Wicked!!

Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Teetop22(f): 8:30am On Apr 09, 2019

Gaspardd:
There is this lady at work, she works for the client and i work for the contractor. She has a nigga friend who is my padi and he has been talking to me about her, after so much persuasion, i said fùck it and gave it a shot.

Really she was so receptive than i envisaged and since then we've been casually saying hi and stuff.
On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). She said she wud call me wenever she's back from church.
She called around 5pm, i dressed up, all my clothes were creased so bad so i had to borrow a niggas Tshirt, pocketed 2k cus i am cheap and i live cheap, so i cant spend more than 2k on a date.

I got to d venue, she was waiting already, she was putting on a gown revealing some cleavage which was a very nice sight but really unlike her as she always dress modest to work.
Long story short, i ordered for drinks, all was 1400 naira, which was within budget, d 100 naira change will be for my TP and i will give d maruwa guy 500 for her own TP to give her d remaining change. Everything was going according to plan, things were going fine , what a good time to be alive. Suddenly she said she feels like chewing sth.
I initially made as if i didnt hear what she said, she said it again and i interjected with "NOPE, CHEWING IS BAD FOR TEETH" She laffed and beckoned on the waiter to come over. In shock i yelled wait wait, i brought out the whole of 1500, dropped it on the table and told her this all i have with me, already she knows there is 1400 payment to be made.

She didnt give a shìt, she called the guy, brought 2 plates of meat, i was just feeling awkward watching how the whole shìt wud play out. At last she brought out her purse, gave d guy some money, i picked the 1500, gave it to the waiter but he returned the money, said the money she gave him is complete.
Seriously i was ashamed of myself, i wanted to talk about it but i decided to let it slide so as not to overflogg the issue.
Later we were done and i saw her off, i gave d driver 500 for her TP. Some hrs later i saw 3missed calls from her, i texted her back and she responded with... see you tmao. While i dont know wht that means but i know she is gonna tell everybody at work about what happened, about how i am a stingy pig. But i aint stingy, i just priotize things i spend money on.
Today i told my niggas what happened, i have only two niggas, but neither i nor any of them has heard about the parol from another source. But then i am sure that if words get around, my reputation = Ruined

Do you live large at work that your reputation will be ruined?
that my type of girl. I hold my money when going on a date because any funny thing might happen... and I hate embarrassment

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Gaspardd(op): 8:30am On Apr 09, 2019

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Act like the boss and na only 2k u see chook for pocket? Pls let's do away with poverty mentality... Anyways different class, different line of reasoning.

This is Nigeria with 18k as minimum wage. So whats wrong with budgeting 2k for a single date? Maybe u re rich and stuff, good for you but this is Nigeria, being brokeass is a normal thing.

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by blindjustice13(m): 8:31am On Apr 09, 2019*

Gaspardd:
Nope she's a glutton.

Lord dont let my daughters fall in the hands of idiots like this fellow.Just imagine the amount of bacteria infested words you just spewed from your baccal cavity. I cringed when i saw this your highly stupid comment. Na people like you dem nor dey help for life. undecided

. I have split bills before and it wasn't a thing, "attitude is the key" and I must say you have a very bad attitude.

Let me stress this, the problem here is not that you dont have money or that you are on a strict budget,the problem here is your attitude, I can smell the stench from your nasty disgusting attitude from here and people like you do not deserve any form of empathy, consideration or even understanding in your life. People like you always end up making good people regret being nice. I wish the universe pays you in this exact attitude you have put up here.

First you only budgeted #2000 for a date , #1400 for flexing, #500 for tfare and #100 for your tfare, like who does that?only a stingy ignorant asshole who doesn't know that anything can spring up and you may end up spending more than your budget.You are a misgiuded buffon and this your "gluoton" statement irked me to my bones. angry

. It seems you will be an ungrateful person,have you forgotten so soon that she paid the entire bill? Honestly,you are the kind of guy that most rich men warn their daughters about,you have gold digging tendencies.

I can just picture you yelling at the waiter to "wait!" And how you will yank the money out of your pocket and throw them on the table like a beggar counting his money. The flush of embarrassment rushing through her face. For all the drama you pulled up ,I must say she is matured lady to have even called you back and gave you three missed calls,no wonder she paid her bill and yours too. undecided

You are an idiot ,thats the bottom line ,I hope she sees this thread and avoids you like a plague cos that is exactly what you are . shirt borrower! angry

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by klassd(m): 8:31am On Apr 09, 2019

Gaspardd:
There is this lady at work, she works for the client and i work for the contractor. She has a nigga friend who is my padi and he has been talking to me about her, after so much persuasion, i said fùck it and gave it a shot.

Really she was so receptive than i envisaged and since then we've been casually saying hi and stuff.
On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). She said she wud call me wenever she's back from church.
She called around 5pm, i dressed up, all my clothes were creased so bad so i had to borrow a niggas Tshirt, pocketed 2k cus i am cheap and i live cheap, so i cant spend more than 2k on a date.

I got to d venue, she was waiting already, she was putting on a gown revealing some cleavage which was a very nice sight but really unlike her as she always dress modest to work.
Long story short, i ordered for drinks, all was 1400 naira, which was within budget, d 100 naira change will be for my TP and i will give d maruwa guy 500 for her own TP to give her d remaining change. Everything was going according to plan, things were going fine , what a good time to be alive. Suddenly she said she feels like chewing sth.
I initially made as if i didnt hear what she said, she said it again and i interjected with "NOPE, CHEWING IS BAD FOR TEETH" She laffed and beckoned on the waiter to come over. In shock i yelled wait wait, i brought out the whole of 1500, dropped it on the table and told her this all i have with me, already she knows there is 1400 payment to be made.

She didnt give a shìt, she called the guy, brought 2 plates of meat, i was just feeling awkward watching how the whole shìt wud play out. At last she brought out her purse, gave d guy some money, i picked the 1500, gave it to the waiter but he returned the money, said the money she gave him is complete.
Seriously i was ashamed of myself, i wanted to talk about it but i decided to let it slide so as not to overflogg the issue.
Later we were done and i saw her off, i gave d driver 500 for her TP. Some hrs later i saw 3missed calls from her, i texted her back and she responded with... see you tmao. While i dont know wht that means but i know she is gonna tell everybody at work about what happened, about how i am a stingy pig. But i aint stingy, i just priotize things i spend money on.
Today i told my niggas what happened, i have only two niggas, but neither i nor any of them has heard about the parol from another source. But then i am sure that if words get around, my reputation = Ruined

Guy you are a very big fvck up man, you lack composure. You really need to be schooled, especially @ bolded

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by MartinsD12(m): 8:31am On Apr 09, 2019

kunleweb:
Who asked for the date? I go tear you too slap join. Why not bitter kola and alligator pepper to curb her food craving. First Impression matters

And you think first impression is by him living above his income you are definitely wrong first Impression is the true state of things which is the 2k he has even the girl understands pay for the date why the noise na, staying true to self is the best first impression you can present to the world don't fake things but unfortunately in a world where we want to sheepishly belong to the happening trend we lose our identity and originality

Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by keniwonder(m): 8:31am On Apr 09, 2019

WomenTrainer:
My brother, you did the right thing. And she loves you for your sincerity but you don't know it. Why are you worried about damaging your reputation when you should be planning on making that co-worker your co-lover? Lol. She spent her hard-earned money on you and still gave you three missed calls afterwards bro. Are you blind or an olodo? Can't you see she really likes you?

It's unfortunate that many men don't know that being the man by standing your ground (and in your case, sticking to your 2k budget) actually turns women on. You know why? Because a man is supposed to make the rules not bend it to please women. Ironically, when a man tries hard to please a woman, that's when he'll even displease her and turn her off.

I recommend THE RATIONAL MALE BY ROLLO TOMASSI to you. Every man should read that book and learn how to be a man. If you need the pdf version, just whatsapp me and ask nicely, I'll send it to you. You can thank me later.

Please I need the PDF version of the book, my e-mail is ken22ng@yahoo.com. Thanks in anticipation.

Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Jidibia(m): 8:31am On Apr 09, 2019

HardMirror:
look at the third comment where he called her a glutton. How can you go on a date and spend 1400 on drinks alone and expect her not to eat anything. Just drink like the drunkard he is. He shld have bought weed for her since that is also cheap. These are the guys disgracing us

Honestly, some guys the real reasons babes look down on us.
I was on a first date with a girl, had some change on me, when we were billed, I discovered the change I had on me couldn't foot the bill. The babe wanted to pay, I said no and immediately I brought out my ATM card upon sighting the POS.
I was so grateful to God that I went out with my ATM that day. And the difference was just 500 naira. I wasn't having enough, but I know what shame is all about and I know what it means for a man to take responsibilities.

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by cmikel: 8:32am On Apr 09, 2019

Gaspardd:
There is this lady at work, she works for the client and i work for the contractor. She has a nigga friend who is my padi and he has been talking to me about her, after so much persuasion, i said fùck it and gave it a shot.

Really she was so receptive than i envisaged and since then we've been casually saying hi and stuff.
On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). She said she wud call me wenever she's back from church.
She called around 5pm, i dressed up, all my clothes were creased so bad so i had to borrow a niggas Tshirt, pocketed 2k cus i am cheap and i live cheap, so i cant spend more than 2k on a date.

I got to d venue, she was waiting already, she was putting on a gown revealing some cleavage which was a very nice sight but really unlike her as she always dress modest to work.
Long story short, i ordered for drinks, all was 1400 naira, which was within budget, d 100 naira change will be for my TP and i will give d maruwa guy 500 for her own TP to give her d remaining change. Everything was going according to plan, things were going fine , what a good time to be alive. Suddenly she said she feels like chewing sth.
I initially made as if i didnt hear what she said, she said it again and i interjected with "NOPE, CHEWING IS BAD FOR TEETH" She laffed and beckoned on the waiter to come over. In shock i yelled wait wait, i brought out the whole of 1500, dropped it on the table and told her this all i have with me, already she knows there is 1400 payment to be made.

She didnt give a shìt, she called the guy, brought 2 plates of meat, i was just feeling awkward watching how the whole shìt wud play out. At last she brought out her purse, gave d guy some money, i picked the 1500, gave it to the waiter but he returned the money, said the money she gave him is complete.
Seriously i was ashamed of myself, i wanted to talk about it but i decided to let it slide so as not to overflogg the issue.
Later we were done and i saw her off, i gave d driver 500 for her TP. Some hrs later i saw 3missed calls from her, i texted her back and she responded with... see you tmao. While i dont know wht that means but i know she is gonna tell everybody at work about what happened, about how i am a stingy pig. But i aint stingy, i just priotize things i spend money on.
Today i told my niggas what happened, i have only two niggas, but neither i nor any of them has heard about the parol from another source. But then i am sure that if words get around, my reputation = Ruined

u r just a baby..

baby dating..

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by HardMirror(m): 8:32am On Apr 09, 2019

kunleweb:
I forgot something. How can a man say I am cheap. I live cheap. Omg, I feel like beating this guy up. He's social circle has messed up his life. I am cheap, I live cheap. Blood of Jesus

lol!!!

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by evil1: 8:34am On Apr 09, 2019

Gaspardd:
Logically i feel i did the right thing but then it was a very awkward moment for me

i understand what you did was for the best interest to save any embarassment but sorry it was a rather embarassing moment all because u were not patient enough to know what she wanted to chew.
if she wanted to chew something at least u wud hv paid for everything an left out the Tfare

Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Jidibia(m): 8:34am On Apr 09, 2019

MartinsD12:
And you think first impression is by him living above his income you are definitely wrong first Impression is the true state of things which is the 2k he has even the girl understands pay for the date why the noise na, staying true to self is the best first impression you can present to the world don't fake things but unfortunately in a world where we want to sheepishly belong to the happening trend we lose our identity and originality

He should have told the girl that he borrowed the shirt he wore for the date too. Originality my ass. That nigga is stingy even to himself and that's all.

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by BecaciaBarbie(f): 8:35am On Apr 09, 2019

Gaspardd:
I just dont spend money on mundane things. And i am not stingy

I think you are stingy... Haba.... How can you budget 2k for a first date huh

No...common! And if at all that's all you could afford, you could have either invited her to a place where they sell only snacks or you forget about taking her out till you can afford it. First impression matters a lot! I can imagine the thoughts that must have ran through her mind and also the embarrassment that came with it.

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by daddytime(m): 8:35am On Apr 09, 2019

alphaNomega:
Nice story bro, but this guy's own won't have your type of ending.

Lol...make we pray for am

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Jidibia(m): 8:38am On Apr 09, 2019

evil1:
i understand what you did was for the best interest to save any embarassment but sorry it was a rather embarassing moment all because u were not patient enough to know what she wanted to chew.
if she wanted to chew something at least u wud hv paid for everything an left out the Tfare

U didn't understand the post. The nigga only went out with 2k. He did it on purpose or on the ground that he was on a budget. All these stingy guys wey dey form prudence.

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by alphaNomega: 8:40am On Apr 09, 2019

WomenTrainer:
My brother, you did the right thing. And she loves you for your sincerity but you don't know it. Why are you worried about damaging your reputation when you should be planning on making that co-worker your co-lover? Lol. She spent her hard-earned money on you and still gave you three missed calls afterwards bro. Are you blind or an olodo? Can't you see she really likes you?

It's unfortunate that many men don't know that being the man by standing your ground (and in your case, sticking to your 2k budget) actually turns women on. You know why? Because a man is supposed to make the rules not bend it to please women. Ironically, when a man tries hard to please a woman, that's when he'll even displease her and turn her off.

I recommend THE RATIONAL MALE BY ROLLO TOMASSI to you. Every man should read that book and learn how to be a man. If you need the pdf version, just whatsapp me and ask nicely, I'll send it to you. You can thank me later.

Why are you whitewashing the man's fuçk up? This is someone who probably sees a nice T-shirt as mundane, but when time came for a date he borrowed one.

You are misinterpreting the bold paragraph the way many clergymen twist religious text.

Call a spade, a spade. The OP is a stingy person and is among the people giving men bad name. I ONLY commend his bravery for sharing his experience online, now it gives us the opportunity to teach him (and others) to stop embarrassing themselves outside.

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by pinkygurl(f): 8:41am On Apr 09, 2019

Gaspardd:
There is this lady at work, she works for the client and i work for the contractor. She has a nigga friend who is my padi and he has been talking to me about her, after so much persuasion, i said fùck it and gave it a shot.

Really she was so receptive than i envisaged and since then we've been casually saying hi and stuff.
On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). She said she wud call me wenever she's back from church.
She called around 5pm, i dressed up, all my clothes were creased so bad so i had to borrow a niggas Tshirt, pocketed 2k cus i am cheap and i live cheap, so i cant spend more than 2k on a date.

I got to d venue, she was waiting already, she was putting on a gown revealing some cleavage which was a very nice sight but really unlike her as she always dress modest to work.
Long story short, i ordered for drinks, all was 1400 naira, which was within budget, d 100 naira change will be for my TP and i will give d maruwa guy 500 for her own TP to give her d remaining change. Everything was going according to plan, things were going fine , what a good time to be alive. Suddenly she said she feels like chewing sth.
I initially made as if i didnt hear what she said, she said it again and i interjected with "NOPE, CHEWING IS BAD FOR TEETH" She laffed and beckoned on the waiter to come over. In shock i yelled wait wait, i brought out the whole of 1500, dropped it on the table and told her this all i have with me, already she knows there is 1400 payment to be made.

She didnt give a shìt, she called the guy, brought 2 plates of meat, i was just feeling awkward watching how the whole shìt wud play out. At last she brought out her purse, gave d guy some money, i picked the 1500, gave it to the waiter but he returned the money, said the money she gave him is complete.
Seriously i was ashamed of myself, i wanted to talk about it but i decided to let it slide so as not to overflogg the issue.
Later we were done and i saw her off, i gave d driver 500 for her TP. Some hrs later i saw 3missed calls from her, i texted her back and she responded with... see you tmao. While i dont know wht that means but i know she is gonna tell everybody at work about what happened, about how i am a stingy pig. But i aint stingy, i just priotize things i spend money on.
Today i told my niggas what happened, i have only two niggas, but neither i nor any of them has heard about the parol from another source. But then i am sure that if words get around, my reputation = Ruined

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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Nobody: 8:41am On Apr 09, 2019

Preshy561:
She's not gonna disgrace your little ass.
She's a feminist y'all have been shouting and yelling untop your voices that they don't pay their bills.

Now, you've seen one, you are feeling emasculated and acting all sissy.

Gaspardd this babe don finish you oh. Delete your acccount bro.

Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by mechanics(m): 8:42am On Apr 09, 2019

Lagbaja01:
You had a date with "miss independent"

lol.

Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Ulovlyn: 8:42am On Apr 09, 2019

You have nothing to bother your head with,she is the kind of my woman that believes that she can contribute significantly to the society and the people around without constituting nuisance .what she did was out of choice and you are a no pretentious man.u are cool .No mess up

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