skarlett:
Not kind of, I hate stingy guys, what the Bleep can 2k buy on a date in this economy

pansophist:


Shut up jare. What of me that goes on a date without spending one naira? Like seriously, where does the idea that a date has to cost something comes from?

I've had dates in park (my most preferable), take a stroll walking around, holding hands and at most, spend money on water. No joke, and yes, in Nigeria. As a dude, if you're sure of your value, and the stuff you bring to the table, I promise you, even if you wear a boxer to a date, she will find it cute (sarcasm).

To be yourself, in your most natural state without the need to impress with money is something reserved for true masculine men. For example when Zuckerberg was in Naija, he wears with a mere tshirt everywhere. He doesn't have to wear Gucci for you to know his worth. If he goes on a date with any girl and spend nothing, she wont worry because she knows his value. It is broke guys or men with no value are worried like the OP, because that's where he draws his worth, paying for date.

ClixMaster:
Stingy and broke guys will always find excuses to defend their stinginess. So Zuckerberg can go on a first date with $10 on his pocket abi? Keep deceiving yourself.

Even the 2k sef he did not plan spending it all. Transport still dey inside

ImaIma1:


Rude indeed. Somebody paying for what she wants is rude because she didn't massage his ego. It is rude for him to take her our with 2k. Was he expecting to buy garden egg and walnut?

pansophist:




So make poor men no date again abi? See this man o. Besides, date suppose be an event of knowing each other, and not a spending spree. Also, make the burden of expense no de on the man only.

ClixMaster:
Stingy and broke guys will always find excuses to defend their stinginess. So Zuckerberg can go on a first date with $10 on his pocket abi? Keep deceiving yourself.

Even the 2k sef he did not plan spending it all. Transport still dey inside

pansophist:




So make poor men no date again abi? See this man o. Besides, date suppose be an event of knowing each other, and not a spending spree. Also, make the burden of expense no de on the man only.

ClixMaster:
I tire oo . He wants to kill the babe with 200 Life beer only

Jidibia:

Help me ask him o. Even 2k can't get you better popcorn sef.

ImaIma1:


The op gaspardd is conveniently responding to only people who cheer him on and support his actions. He cannot handle the truth and criticism.

And i don't know if evercurious is actually serious with her comment or just trying to get likes from the guys.

Gaspardd:

Would you go on a date with me if i asked?...I am gonna come along with only 2k

afribabe:
please tell us what happened at work the next day. Please

skarlett:



Life beer kee am dia!

Gaspardd:

I will get it all out but i ve been inundated with lots of bashes, advices, both on NL and off NL my brain needs reset, or maybe to shrug it off, but either way i need time. But bae didnt take it easy on me.

ImaIma1:


The op gaspardd is conveniently responding to only people who cheer him on and support his actions. He cannot handle the truth and criticism.

And i don't know if evercurious is actually serious with her comment or just trying to get likes from the guys.

ImaIma1:


Rude indeed. Somebody paying for what she wants is rude because she didn't massage his ego. It is rude for him to take her out with 2k. Was he expecting to buy garden egg and walnut?

Mysteriouz:

My friend shut up your mouth there. What do you mean by she's being full of herself? Don't make me comment directly on your post else you'll hate me. Pussy ass niqqa!.

Carry 2k go out with woman say him no dey spend on mundane things. What then do you spend on? Its guys like you that makes the ladies have a hard time consenting to our date proposals.

FYI, that's the last time you'll ever go out with that lady.

Evercurious:


How and what do you mean by putting the guy in his place?

Gaspardd:

Would you go on a date with me if i asked?...I am gonna come along with only 2k

Gaspardd:

We all have our roles to play, i am the man and shld act like the boss. This is not me being paranoid its about she being full of herself

kunleweb:



pito and dankwa. 150bucks tops tfare 1k.

ImaIma1:


Haba!! Pito and dankwa is too local. Egg roll and zobo is more like it

ImaIma1:


The op gaspardd is conveniently responding to only people who cheer him on and support his actions. He cannot handle the truth and criticism.

And i don't know if evercurious is actually serious with her comment or just trying to get likes from the guys.

Evercurious:


I m dead serious about my comments.. Too old to impress anyone

kunleweb:


That's not arrogance o sister

ImaIma1:


But with age comes wisdom.

2k for a date is totally unreasonable.

Andrew3:
Whenever I happen to go out with my ethiopian babe and she know am broke, she would codedly slip some amount into my pocket to make the payment. I dont know why but she does it. She says it makes her feel better I am the 'MAN'

Evercurious:


@Imama and @kunleweb.. This is exactly what I mean when I said there are other means of paying those bills without rubbing it off the guy's face

MartinsD12:

And what's wrong in a lady paying for date knowing fully well the guy was honest and even brought out all the 1400 remaining money, I maintain my word a date is a date OK nothing special friends could go on a date and pay for each other its nothing, a date no be traditional wedding where the man is required to pay everything to have a woman OK, you want the guy to claim what he is not to impress the lady funny enough ladies love fake lifestyle, it's good to be real

Evercurious:


Oga as I said earlier she could have made those payments without rubbing it off his face. Plz note that I pay bills on outings too. Moreover she mustn't accept the next outing if he proposes any if she feels the guy isnt her class or level based on her initial experience with him