deltateam:


Op from my understanding of your post. You want girls to sleep with whoever they are dating before marriage. This is dangerous and I hate the idea already. Later your kind will say that girls are hoes.

From your perspective, if she's not a born again or a virgin, she has no right over her body. That's another bull crap.

So going by your writeup, if every girl were to sleep with guys they are dating. It simply means they would have slept with at least 50 men before marriage. What will that make her? The idea is sickening in itself.

drmikeadams:
after sharing toto from 16_30 years old..when their mama and relations don begin torment them for marriage;;.them go turn born again;from Church to church;vigil to vigil..no let them deceive you with them born again ish them go hide their bad character till them cage one innocent Charley . When I still dey go church;na so them full every where one wan drag me go do court wedding she no know say den never born the girl mama wey wan tie my destiny

iragbmite:


Marriage is where women go to learn sense. If you can't teach, you have failed in your responsibility as a man. You are a disgrace to manhood. You father did not teach you well.

mightyhaze:
but na guys like una go still lay ambush for them and stab then from behind when they refuse to give in even as early as 16years...

iragbmite:



So you are disflowered after marriage? Did he leave because you were not experienced in bedmatics?

See the way you talk, you seem like a lovely woman, the marriage type most men are looking for.

Amatarasha:
I ve read all ur comments

I see that being a lady is a curse ,y ar nigerian guys this wicked ...
No feelings! no sympathy!! no love!!!
Since i came here u guys just wanna turn me 2 a feminist

Raalsalghul:
Mightyhaze please na.
Tell Seun to create a kiddies section for me.
Please...

franchasng:
Any single lady that wants to marry a great and wonderful man who wouldn't give her issues in future should stop giving men rules and regulations to follow to be her boyfriend, it doesn't work, you will only end up being with pretending men with abominable attitude and sinister motives.

Be free, don't let society determine who you will be, even though you are 30+ years and unmarried, its not the end of the world unless you are very sure you caused your spinsterhood through your bad character and immoral lifestyle of past, if not, live your life like a teenager, always be happy, stop being moody, too upright, too rigid, too commanding, to autocratic and too serious with life.

If you meet a good guy you click with and he clicks with you too, let the natural attraction/desire happen, don't use rules and laws that you will still break at one point to make you lose a great guy who maybe your Prince Charming.

Majority of men of our time hate rigid ladies who live by laws, rules, restrictions, as if life is an exploration mission you must achieve with a map.

Yes there are still archaic guys who crave and die for ladies that give rules, laws, restriction and live uptight life but they are not many of such guys today, those guys are few who believe a wife material must hate sex, in fact she must never hear anything sex, must cover all her body, walk holily and talk holily too.

But majority of today guys have a different perspective of who a perfect wifey or partner should be, she should:

1.) Be financially independent
2.) Happy and friendly
3.) Respectful
4.) Career or business focused
5.) Love kids
6.) Respect and love her male siblings and relatives
7.) Must not know everything (men hate ladies that act like they are too wise)
8.) Must be good listener
9.) Must not be a talkative and must not be a Dundee that can't contribute meaningfully in a healthy conversation
10.) Must not be a 21st century type of feminist (both white and black and Asian men hate the characters of our modern feminists women )

The list might look long but they are simple to imbibe. A virtuous woman is a virtuous woman, whether she has sex with you or not, it won't take that away from her.

Whether you withhold sex or not, a guy that will marry you will marry you.

Not allowing a guy who genuinely loves you and treats you right after a long time can kill his passion and love for you, forget those nonsense talk that a man that truly loves you won't leave you because of sex, in fact, most ladies lost their true lovers because they refused to allow sex....

I am a guy, I have lots of married and single male friends, we discuss manly, I know why my close friends married the ladies they married and why they left the ladies they wanted to marry initially, so when I talk listen.

Though I am not advising ladies to go about sharing sex to any guy that comes their way, no pls, but apply wisdom, if you are honest to yourself as a lady, u will know a guy that truly cares for you unless you are a fake lady or the type that are saddist, always unhappy and too serious and uptight with life, then u need special prayer and deliverance.

deltateam:


Op from my understanding of your post. You want girls to sleep with whoever they are dating before marriage. This is dangerous and I hate the idea already. Later your kind will say that girls are hoes.

From your perspective, if she's not a born again or a virgin, she has no right over her body. That's another bull crap.

So going by your writeup, if every girl were to sleep with guys they are dating. It simply means they would have slept with at least 50 men before marriage. What will that make her? The idea is sickening in itself.

mightyhaze:
sand no dey ur area ? When we be like una,..nothing like sand mounds to alleviate boredom and even bring out the genius in you...

No sand!

pedrilo:
I am fuccking one church girl atm.
She told me point blank that she needs someone who's religiously up to her level for marriage that I'm not qualified since I'm not a churchy kinda guy.
But I pity her bf anytime I'm fuckin her cos d guy na mugu.
She deprive d guy of her kpekus but bring her succulent body to me for different kind of experiment.
Some pipo dnt hav conscience

1234IKECHhukwu:
My friend stop sounding indifferent, most ladies I know can't stay without sex for that long.

CoolJul:


It's like setting a goal for ursef n being focus on it. Me personally will advise every late spinster n waiting-to-be-married not to jump into sex with their found man (at this case bf) because u may end up hurting ursef . No relationship this days until u see ursef signing the dotted lines oo .


My opinion#

victorian:










I left ,in fact I ran away with speed! I couldn't cope been in a terrible courtship with someone as evil as himself, God forbid. Someone who made me suicidal and he's also abusive. Is that the kind of marriage I should live in! Hell no! We almost got married, I actually ran away before the main wedding date was fixed.
Thank God I ran. He was too obsessed as well. I don't regret my decisions. I thank God I had the guts to cut off and move on with my life.

I no come this life for one man to kill me because I wan marry

highcollide:
Why should they have sympathy for women whose existence revolves around using men to get what they want?


If you close your legs and insist on "no sex until marriage" and the man closes his wallet and insists on "no spending until marriage", will the courtship last?

Be truthful to yourself.

Amatarasha:
Am a proud virgin pls , but u pple lyk shaming women

drmikeadams:
after sharing toto from 16_30 years old..when their mama and relations don begin torment them for marriage;;.them go turn born again;from Church to church;vigil to vigil..no let them deceive you with them born again ish them go hide their bad character till them cage one innocent Charley . When I still dey go church;na so them full every where one wan drag me go do court wedding she no know say den never born the girl mama wey wan tie my destiny

franchasng:
So many ladies act this way, which is one major reason guys don't believe their no sex till marriage talks.

Imagine tomorrow when u meet a girl u want to marry and she is not a virgin and she tells u no sex till marriage when u have had a first hand experience of what u described above, tell me, won't u be laughing at the lady like she is mad

Ladies are their own problem.

You are dating a nice guy who agrees no sex till bla bla bla, u then laugh that this one na mugu and u go and meet one bad guy u feel is sexy enough and he will be f*ucking you thunder, and tomorrow u expect guys to buy the no sex till marriage bullcrap when u are not truly a virgin with hymen in tact Hmmm

drmikeadams:
after sharing toto from 16_30 years old..when their mama and relations don begin torment them for marriage;;.them go turn born again;from Church to church;vigil to vigil..no let them deceive you with them born again ish them go hide their bad character till them cage one innocent Charley . When I still dey go church;na so them full every where one wan drag me go do court wedding she no know say den never born the girl mama wey wan tie my destiny

tosyne2much:
Haha.. Yoh ehn