Chubhie:

Should we then term it spiritual condition since this is "beyond" science?

Are character flaws spiritual? Can a nasty temperament be 'cured' by science?

eyinjuege:


People with personality disorders that don't want your help can't be forced to receive it. It's her choice to be fighting about, and I'm sure she will vehemently resist any offer of help from any quarters.
She doesn't sound bipolar, not like someone with depression either. She's also never physically hurt anyone for you to section her, and such people love life too much to hurt themselves. She's a hopeless case unfortunately

QED

AntiBrutus:
Sadly, your brother will marry and bring your mother to his house, despite knowing how troublesome she is.

When the innocent woman reacts, people will say she is a bad wife. Chai!

Am an only child

Ishilove:

Let's pity mama and meet in the middle- 3days

Um um, okay, we have a deal . OP, three days

Ishilove:

Are character flaws spiritual? Can a nasty temperament be 'cured' by science?

How you fail to understand that billions are spent and careers dedicated to the study,understanding,treatment and management of character flaws is rather unsettling.

poison her abi veekid wetin I talk?

joystarts:
Hi guys, I really need some advice

My mom is so troublesome... She's always looking for people trouble, always ready for a fight. In the area in which we live in she has quarrel with all the people.

Our Tenants always move out after their rent has expired, i have tried to talk to her but she doesn't listen. Each time I try to she calls me a bastard and all sort of horrible names and tell me she is going to kill me, countless of times she has used a knife to threaten me.

My dad doesn't live with us but he is worst (I had a rough childhood). My mom has countless of times told me to leave her house which i plan on doing by next year but I can't take this anymore.

She is always being arrested and the worst part is the fact that she is educated. Am pretty sure that she has seen the police station than most policemen, I don't associate with people so not to attract problems to myself because she insults them.

But am tired of always getting her out of trouble.. Pease help me...I really need the help

Are you linking behaviour to education ?

Just move out and leave her to her own devices........

Take your mother to Church. I mean a vision and prophecy kind of church. Your Mom's problem is spiritual. Believe it or leave it.

Shibaraba:
Talk to her,and find out what's wrong with her. Even if youre afraid of doing so from what ive deduced.

Besides when the grow older they always calm down. So be patient.

U and this ur stupid advice.....always saying 'talk to him,her,them' as if that works...did u even read where OP said the mom is violent and used a knife on her?? U want her to still stay and TALK after that??

OP,move thafuq out;

Ginaz:
You can't do nothing but move out. You can't change her And it is a 100% true.

You can't hate her, she's your mother unfortunately for life. Except she ends up dead, that is your lot.

You trying to change her will be met with resistance at always.

Eminem said " I guess we are who we are ".
There are some people you can never change, She is what she is.

Its been fvcking ages babe...
Where u been?

Happy Easter BTW

Maybe she was a trouble when she was still an unmarried girl and her parents/old people as at then placed curse on her.

Well, you can't stop praying for her. God will deliver her.

Shibaraba:
Talk to her,and find out what's wrong with her. Even if youre afraid of doing so from what ive deduced.

Besides when the grow older they always calm down. So be patient.

You only think so, they are worse

This is beyond me. You can't flog or fight her just move out. But you said she threatens you with knife. Are you sure she is not taking something? Also her mental health can be checked

joystarts:
Hi guys, I really need some advice

My mom is so troublesome... She's always looking for people trouble, always ready for a fight. In the area in which we live in she has quarrel with all the people.

Our Tenants always move out after their rent has expired, i have tried to talk to her but she doesn't listen. Each time I try to she calls me a bastard and all sort of horrible names and tell me she is going to kill me, countless of times she has used a knife to threaten me.

My dad doesn't live with us but he is worst (I had a rough childhood). My mom has countless of times told me to leave her house which i plan on doing by next year but I can't take this anymore.

She is always being arrested and the worst part is the fact that she is educated. Am pretty sure that she has seen the police station than most policemen, I don't associate with people so not to attract problems to myself because she insults them.

But am tired of always getting her out of trouble.. Pease help me...I really need the help

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op since you are single... kindly take victorian as wife

Set ur mumcy up,or better still,carry am come mushin here,she will definitely meet her .match, dem go beat her to stupor,if u re dere,pretend as if nothing is going on, though it might b difficult to pretend

If dem beat ur mama twice for mushin here,she go think say na trailer jam am,am sure after 2 concurrent beatings,she go humble

Arrest Her Yourself

Bro....move out....lost a long relationship to that...

I was still saying she will change she will change,until she change am for the babe consistently.....

Listen to no one,move out....period

You aren't alone dear, if you are matured enough pls relocate . Staying with her 'll dent your image, if u 're a woman u may end up bn disappointed by your guys d moment they findout how your mom behaves.

Build and live your life independent from her so you don't regret living for her

...I'm sorry ; but are you sure it's not depression ?

However, I don't think you need help. Your mom does...

Pesin ( my friend ) don tell me once ; say he don try kee hinsef like 4times because of hin mama. He even say she dey deny ham sometimes by saying in Yoruba " to ba ya e, wa wa iya e s'iwaju " meaning - " if time reach, you go find your mama go front "

Some mothers and wahala be like 5 and 6
While some others na #okpopais

The ones wey come worse pass ; na the ones wey dey reject their own pikin like say the pikin no go fi do better thing inside life.

...but na God get power pass.
I pray that the heavenly mothers take over our earthly mothers for good ijn and anybody wen beat chest say WE no go make ham ; na chest pain go kee dem ijn

#Like for FATHERS and #Share for MOTHERS

It is incumbent that you love your mum. One day you will miss her and miss her troubles.

joystarts:
Hi guys, I really need some advice

My mom is so troublesome... She's always looking for people trouble, always ready for a fight. In the area in which we live in she has quarrel with all the people.

Our Tenants always move out after their rent has expired, i have tried to talk to her but she doesn't listen. Each time I try to she calls me a bastard and all sort of horrible names and tell me she is going to kill me, countless of times she has used a knife to threaten me.

My dad doesn't live with us but he is worst (I had a rough childhood). My mom has countless of times told me to leave her house which i plan on doing by next year but I can't take this anymore.

She is always being arrested and the worst part is the fact that she is educated. Am pretty sure that she has seen the police station than most policemen, I don't associate with people so not to attract problems to myself because she insults them.

But am tired of always getting her out of trouble.. Pease help me...I really need the help

The worst mistake a child or young adult can make is to carry their parent luggage on their own heads.

It's not your load! Walk out! Your mum is the architect of her own life. Shea unwilling to change and may head on you problems in future.

My stepmom is a hot tempered straight talker, can be very unpolished when angry, embarrassing and does not care a hoot what anyone says.

Her children have learnt to a good extent to accept her but also detach themselves from her bad side.

Every man will carry his own load and your mum's no difference. It's her load not yours. Since you've grown up to be a well adjusted adult, be thankful and walk away.

By the way, I love my stepmom dearly

Shibaraba:
Talk to her,and find out what's wrong with her. Even if youre afraid of doing so from what ive deduced.

Besides when the grow older they always calm down. So be patient.

Na lie bros calm waitn the mom don advance nvr calm down at her age now na wen she reach 90?
my guy simple advice jst move out if u nor get funds to rent hus find somewhere stay. but las las she's till ur mom u can't change that fact pray for her to change.

my sister i will advice you to slice her throat at night no one deserves a mother like that

Ok.. sell him to Yahoo boys na...

joystarts:
Hi guys, I really need some advice

My mom is so troublesome... She's always looking for people trouble, always ready for a fight. In the area in which we live in she has quarrel with all the people.

Our Tenants always move out after their rent has expired, i have tried to talk to her but she doesn't listen. Each time I try to she calls me a bastard and all sort of horrible names and tell me she is going to kill me, countless of times she has used a knife to threaten me.

My dad doesn't live with us but he is worst (I had a rough childhood). My mom has countless of times told me to leave her house which i plan on doing by next year but I can't take this anymore.

She is always being arrested and the worst part is the fact that she is educated. Am pretty sure that she has seen the police station than most policemen, I don't associate with people so not to attract problems to myself because she insults them.

But am tired of always getting her out of trouble.. Pease help me...I really need the help

It is a mental disorder called *Schizophrenia*

I'm sorry you are going through this, as I can imagine the embarrassment you face everyday in your own neighborhood and the fact that she sees you as her enemy is devastating. This is a mental disorder ...you need to be careful and prayerful, unfortunately there is no cure for it medically but it could be managed.

I believe she is very suspicious and believes everyone out there is trying to attack her?

joystarts:
Hi guys, I really need some advice

My mom is so troublesome... She's always looking for people trouble, always ready for a fight. In the area in which we live in she has quarrel with all the people.

Our Tenants always move out after their rent has expired, i have tried to talk to her but she doesn't listen. Each time I try to she calls me a bastard and all sort of horrible names and tell me she is going to kill me, countless of times she has used a knife to threaten me.

My dad doesn't live with us but he is worst (I had a rough childhood). My mom has countless of times told me to leave her house which i plan on doing by next year but I can't take this anymore.

She is always being arrested and the worst part is the fact that she is educated. Am pretty sure that she has seen the police station than most policemen, I don't associate with people so not to attract problems to myself because she insults them.

But am tired of always getting her out of trouble.. Pease help me...I really need the help

Sit her down and seek to know about her mentality, her belief system, her world view, why she does what she does Then u can proceed from there

You are not alone. The best thing to do is to move as far away from her as possible. You can send her money if you are ok but stay away and rebuild your life.