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Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Xisnin(m): 2:37pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25: Wait. You are still single and you are angry at your friend's wife? I won't be surprised if you are the one poisoning his minds against his wife. Married people should be selective of the friends they keep. 32 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by kevin25(m): 2:37pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Xisnin:So its now a crime to ask ur own wife to get u food from the kitchen don worry wat goes around comes around u call it order? Things fall apart 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Xisnin(m): 2:39pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25:She is not a maid. I repeat, she is not a maid. Does your friend even have a job because it is only jobless people who fight over petty things. 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 2:40pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Jmk9292:gbam! Such marriages are usually loveless and dry. |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Xisnin(m): 2:40pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
eni4real:There is no strong thing anywhere. From the OP's narration, the man has always been poor meaning the woman knew what she was getting into. If she had no use for him, she would have dumped him. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by sweetrace(f): 2:41pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Bossjakande: Okay o! |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Xisnin:Only fools pay Bride price.. What is the essence of paying the bride price when I have to be negotiating who should be the head of the family with my wife.. Being a wife is not slavery but responsibilities to her roles in which the husband assist if it becomes overwhelming.. I have my roles as the husband too which I will never complain about.. No matter what pseudo education or Westernization teaches, I will continue to be the head of the family while she will continue to be 'neck'. Never negotiate the leadership of your family. You are the head act like it.. I am not asking you to rule her but lead her. Every woman desires that... If you jam correct "anybody can be the head of the family" lady, you will understand how null and void your point about submission is!!! 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Jmk9292: Baba !!!! |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by kevin25(m): 2:46pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Xisnin:I dnt have such time guy they are my neigbor get that if not watin concern me nd them the man always advice me not to end with her kind of woman... He always regret everytn he says had it been he married a woman of his level he wil not been havin dis issue... Guy wen ur wife dnt respect u my dear ur finish. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
eni4real: Of course, why won't he when he sucks the living daylight out of the puccy Anything I do for him, he does for me and the kids are learning. Go and check my post in food section where I posted his attempt at cake making. And my my dad did more for my mum. My mum insisted he is a better cook What I learnt from them is what I am applying in my marriage. My dad worshiped the ground my mum walked that when he left before her,even though she was still young and needy,she refused to settle for less. And I actually believed the poster that said u are the man in question. Grow up. Marriage is a union and not an office. 26 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Fhowe: 2:48pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25:shatta wale said it all " I KNOW MY LEVEL" this is my advice to any man out there when it comes to the issues of getting married and child bearing be financially prepared if not you go suffer no be small dont let any woman sweet talk you into these things they are good at saying baby anything we see we go eat even if na garri na big fat lie oooo . 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Xisnin:So helping him to get a job or making provision when the husband was poor gives her the temerity to be rude to her husband with reckless abandon You never jam the "I have my degree and you have yours" lady. Like I said "they never do you strong thing"!! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by kevin25(m): 2:50pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Xisnin:Wat u said now means that u didnt read my write up very well coz i said dat d man is working now nd provides for the family just dat no matter any amount he has d wife has it times two d wife is stil richer than him |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
sassysure: Your first sentence is not necessary tho! Just try to treat your husband with more respect and never emasculate him... He is really trying.. Any age difference?? You sound older and more mature than him!!! 6 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
immaculate1234:pls advice ur uncle to do regular blood pressure checkup cos there was this family friend wey i know wey also endure im marriage. Wife was cheating on him and disrespecting him and d man cos na dedicated catholic im dey swallow everything. Na one saturday mornin as im wan wash im car then as im bend down to wash im car tires im heart fail am then im die on d spot.im two big dauthers and im wife dey inside dey watch film. Pls tell ur uncle to do check ups oo. Wen u endure na ur blood pressure dey suffer am oo. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by kevin25(m): 3:07pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
sassysure:U get luck if na my type u marry we for don divorce how can i been struggling kitchen wit my wife? Dnt she knw her work,My wife must atleast respect me d way sarah respects abraham.I hope u read d bible wen abraham told his wife to go and make food for the strangers dat visited dem did sarah ask him go to and do it by himself? 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by kevin25(m): 3:17pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Go and read about the ideal woman PROVERB CHAPTER 31 VS 10 TO 31 Then tell him if the woman is an ideal woman 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Xisnin(m): 3:18pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
eni4real:There is no rule book for life. People are free to choose whatever they want. The part where I come from recognize bride price but the bride's family never accepts. If the bride price is the justification for submission, this particular man should be the one cooking and serving his wife food because he is useless according to your logic. Slavery is about coercion, threat and lack of choice. So my submission was correct. If for some reason you fail to perform your role do you automatically lose your "leadership" position. What makes you a better leader than your wife? I admit that some dumb women need guidance but so do dumb men and being incapable of making sound decisions has nothing to do with gender. If the bold were true, we won't be having this conversation. In fact, the wife of this "friend" would have jumped to obey her husband's command. I guess this false assumption is why many men are shocked and are having marital problems. I would not advise anybody I know to settle down with a lady who believes in "head of the family" regardless of who she nominates for the position. I prefer ones who don't believe in the head at all. 25 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Xisnin(m): 3:19pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25:Well, it is simple. Let him divorce her, go to the village and buy an obedient wife since nobody is tying him down. 15 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Xisnin:Nice Theories! Praticals has a lot of plot twists!! At least, you meant well!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Xisnin(m): 3:22pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
eni4real:It is obvious that our expectations for marriage are very different. If your "strong thing" has any meaning, please lay it bare. She picked the man from the gutters and now he has the effrontery to turn her into a maid. He should hire a maid if he wants someone to dish his food for him. Since he now has a job, I wonder why he hasn't look for a young illiterate wife that will worship him. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by luminouz(m): 3:36pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Rubbish post... Some women have all that and will still make u happy... Its all about the individual, not the status 10 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by dominique(f): 3:36pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Why can't he dish food by himself? Is he an amputee? 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by davibid: 3:36pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
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Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by mmadu5(m): 3:37pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
op your delusional and your mentality is on the low side . such advice is irrelevant , what is wrong if my wife is richer than me at the end of the day if the love and understanding is there that is what matters 9 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by WeRblessed(f): 3:37pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25: You are so low in IQ. That you are educated does not mean you are learned. You went to schoo but school did not go through you. Such a low life scum bag. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by AngelicBeing: 3:38pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by AngelicBeing: 3:39pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
dominique:Hmmmm 3 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by luminouz(m): 3:39pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
sassysure:That's ur husband...can his parents come and u won't dish food? No dey use ur one husband compare to us all biko.. Thank you 2 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by immaculate1234(m): 3:40pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
lefulefu: There is no cheating but what I fear most is his life span I swear |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
luminouz:we dey talk majority here. Dude as most women get money pass you ehn your own don finish |
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