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Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by oshaosha2014(m): 5:19pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Your husband is not a man. All you have in your house is a fellow woman. sassysure: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by CorperKola: 5:19pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Bossjakande:Maybe the guy should clarify what he meant by instruct Most times in my house if na dat kind package, my mum would knw b4 hand. So there wud be no need for instructing anytin Or the guests wud ask my mom themselves for food b4 she start serving or mayb my sister can help her serve too Buh even if he instructed her, Are u seriously saying that its bad for a husband to instruct his wife or what are u saying exactly? |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by ibkayee(f): 5:23pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
HBB1:Not everyone governs their lives by the bible Also, when someone is being appointed as the the ‘head’, that’s not a ‘partnership’, it’s a hierarchy. And that’s ok, if that’s what both people want, if you like it for yourselves, I love it 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by 5ublime: 5:24pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25:Were they having this issue before they got married or after he got a job? What has name got to do with anything?. Sigh. African men die in their 50s because of their stupid ego. 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by NdiaraIGBO: 5:26pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
sassysure: I support everything you have said here BUT you African ladies also have to stop the mumu multiple birth (more than 2 children) that you are having all over the place knowing fully well that most those children will grow up into poor adults because our tiny national economy cannot sustain our ever ballooning population! Bringing a man doing well down financially! 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by kevin25(m): 5:27pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
5ublime:For your information my gf is a graduate very smart ful of wisdom and productive beautiful stil she respects me she know her work she knows the work of a man ..get dat into u head 2 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by NdiaraIGBO: 5:28pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
5ublime: You kill them all with your stupid multiple births (having more than 1 or 2 children in this day and age). And you are good at ambushing the weak souls with s..x 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Jsst: 5:28pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Hmm so many sides to it |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by 5ublime: 5:31pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
oshaosha2014: I'll rather be a 'fellow woman' in a happy home than become an egoistic cunt in the name of "man of the house" 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by HBB1(m): 5:31pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
ibkayee: Sorry about the Bible reference... Have you lead a team before, have you ever been a head of anything? Did it mean you were superior to your colleagues or you were the most "responsible'' for any happenings? I have lead teams of people older and younger and nothing changed. We were teammates, partners and we helped one another. But whatever works for you luv, cheers! |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by 5ublime: 5:32pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
NdiaraIGBO:what is this one saying? 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by CorperKola: 5:32pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Angelfrost:The chances are not good Women that are better than the husband and are respectful are like like 10% Meawhile all the examples i have seen have personally been very traumatic for me. Men jst have a general rule to protect themselves Its very necessary to have a general rule Wow i am jobless today o |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nasri100(m): 5:33pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
NdiaraIGBO: God will not forgive anybody that bring in children they can’t take care of. This madness has been going on for too long in This country and people wonder why we are in this mess. 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by 5ublime: 5:33pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
NdiaraIGBO:Are they impregnating themselves? Shop [b]here [/b]for brains 5 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Reeses: 5:33pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
sassysure: Lmaoooo ouch!!! |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by chinchonglee(m): 5:34pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
henryobinna: Experience is d best teacher so i wont tell her |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by sammyesx: 5:36pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
the elders always say that " when a man marries the wrong woman even the devil leaves him alone 3 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
ibkayee: Naija equivalent of swallowing I guess |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 5:39pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
trapQ:one of my academician friends is like your dad too, he used to go to market to even buy food ingredients 2 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by CorperKola: 5:41pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
GogobiriLalas:Hanhan this is too much naw They deserve pity not hate and destruction naw |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by oshaosha2014(m): 5:42pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Who literally has the cunt here madam 5ublime: |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Kolping: 5:43pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
A man should know what his goal is in life and where he is going. This must be done first before finding a woman who will want to help him achieve his goal. If as a man you have not got your act together, you might fall into a situation where the woman will dictate to you where to go. The man is the leader in the home. Every young (and old) man, before getting involved in a long-term relationship, should spend time to understand the nature of women, especially in the current global war against men. A good book to read is "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi https://www.docdroid.net/xmhw/the-rational-male.pdf kevin25: 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by CorperKola: 5:45pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Macwrites:I could say the opposite. Find the person that has what you want . Simple! The Western mentality is detrimental to africam women and is ruining lots of relationships! 2 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by AgreatMan: 5:46pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
OvaSabi1: Xisnin. AmazonTopaz,runwaymodel, sassysure For example, a person's moniker is Ovasabi, but I can call that name in 5 different ways n they will each have 5 different meanings. Same way, a woman can say "go n fetch your food," politely or disrespectfully. What we say is not important at all, it is all about how we say it. I believe the OP is .matured enough to know this difference. I believe in happiness, d man should get out of marriage n find someone his status. A man needs to leave the house everyday even if it is to bring in 20k at d end of d month, at least, for some self dignity. I have once been with someone miles above my social status. If she said she can't cook, well, is that news? I can cook better than her. If my laptop is faulty n she offered me her spare laptop, I will refuse. If I happen to be with her on her shopping spree and she ask me to pick something...no madam. Does she pick up some big bills? of course, yes, I cannot come and cripple my account. Does she raise her voice and try to boss it? Yes, but I usually react so calmly she immediately realize she crossed line. At the bedtime duties, 7 out of 10 times, I am usually on fire, at least, I get to be the real boss there. Can she leave? Of course she can, but she clearly understood that my life does not depend on her. I understand that there is the issue that I am not yet married, hence my opinion. However, I don't think I can suddenly change my identify just because I signed on a paper n now wear a ring. I think couples should get to know each other at least 2 years before marriage. Whatever behavior they are covering, they would have let their guard down in that periods, it's left to the other partner whether or not he/she wants to be blind to those behaviors. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Pavarottii(m): 5:47pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25:Wat are u saying? She met him not financially okay and she still sticked? There is nothing wrong in fishing ur food.. If she has good reasons for not entering d kitchen at that point in time. 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Tchange1(m): 5:47pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Their marriage is due to pressure its that simple 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by richie240: 5:48pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
sassysure: kevin25: Matthew 19:10-11 (KJV) His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he [Jesus] said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. These are the words from the Bible. One day - one day d guys will wake up! |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Pavarottii(m): 5:49pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25:Check urself den... U might av done something to provoke her, but at least for the sake of ur friends presence she should go and dish the food ... Wen he is gone, u guys trash out ur differences. Himself no know who em marry ... If she has never done that through dating she won't wen she is married in front of ur friend. 2 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by jaxxy(m): 5:49pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
ibkayee: Do u have a problem with what u bolded? |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Pavarottii(m): 5:50pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25:Den why did he marry her if he provides knowing she law zero respect? 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by ibkayee(f): 5:52pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
HBB1:Haha no problem at all Yeah I’ve led teams before, as far as that particular/task I led, the position I held suggested some manner of superiority as far as our goal at that point in time. Even if everyone’s opinion was considered, I’m the leader because I’m meant to be overseeing them in some way, no? Even if the people are my elders Thank you |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by ibkayee(f): 5:53pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
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