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| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by oladele00(m): 3:01pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Let her go there are many bitches in the zoo |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by sunjos79: 3:02pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Let her be alone.She is upset.Believe she will come back unless she looks for excuses to dumb you for that guy she has been eyeing. What will have happened if she hear you impregnate a girl.she will come back since you have tried your best and if she doesn't,trust me God has created millions of girls better than her to wipe away your tears. Note:Even in marital life,it is for better for worse. Pele. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by hannahwealth(f): 3:02pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Just as others has suggested give her some time to cool off i believe she will come back to you. You too try and work on yourself cos with this attitude of flirting there's a tendency you may cheat later (how can you call your woman your cousin) and remember suicide is not even an option before you kill yourself because of a girl. All the best 4 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nat404: 3:02pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8:LOL, I can't believe this is a Nigerian girl. It serves you right. Hasn't your mom ever told you that fishing with dynamite is dangerous? LOL  When a woman is angry, do not talk to her. You just have to keep quiet for a while. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by dazzlingd(m): 3:03pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Forget the girl Biko, a girl that truly need you would have forgiven you and moved on..... She's not serious... 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by mmadu5(m): 3:03pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: Bro its true what you did was bad she was wrong to go through your phone secondly i think shes overrating stop calling her or texting her if she cant forgive you for this little thing then shes not the right person to marry is not like you had sex with any of those girls leave her for the time being she will come back to her right mind . 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by mistyebby(f): 3:03pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Lifestone(m): 3:03pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
faithfull18:How is that a bad advise? |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by OSUigboKiller: 3:03pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8:You people should stop this rubbish. Mind English for what? Is English your mother tongue? Thunder fire English 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by mustykay: 3:03pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
The best approach is to stop calling her, stop sending sms and stop sending people to her.Stay away from her friends and her family.Sure after 30 days you will thank me.She is hurt and hot now let her cool down. She will call you b4 the end of July.Another thing free your mind and pretend you dont care.Also stay off ladies for now.Dress to kill at all times and smell nice.she is coming back. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by adecz: 3:03pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
She dey vex for this small thing?  I think say she catch you on top sef..  She no know say na 9ja guy she won marry, abi she think say she dey Yankee? And, to worsen matters, you dey cry join..  ..........may be she dey leave you because you be crybaby alll along..  Nonsense!!! 4 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Acidosis(m): 3:04pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Funny thing is, if she walks away, the next guy will probably do more than you've done. 8 out of 10 men/women flirt on the social media, married or not. Only thing is the degree of flirting varies. Yours is a little bit on the extreme. You've done your best as per acknowledging your wrong. The choice to come back or not is completely up to her, but she has to be strong and prepared for the future. Male serial flirts nor dey repent, only women make conscious effort to put aside that attitude in marriage. But as far as dating is concerned, I'm sure many are guilty of what you've done, albeit in varying degrees. 5 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by deltateam: 3:04pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: Should we form a queue from nairaland to her house? Dude just accept who you are, a Casanova. Even if she accepts you, it won't change your character. Just move on. That's my honest advice. Whatever made her to end this relationship will also make her end the marriage. Its as serious as that. 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by m140(m): 3:04pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
It's your problem |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by RiyadhGoddess(f): 3:04pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
See as I pause my hot puffpuff to type. Erm op, abeg give her time to heal. While u do that, u might not call but make sure u continue to send her apology messages. Sending over 1000 apology is not enough so keep doing it to get what belongs to you back. Also pray to God to heal her quick and give her a forgiving heart towards you. Let God bring back the love afreash. Let me continue my puffpuff 4 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by AdorableJosh(m): 3:05pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
You sincerely deserve no pity, those are not harmless flirting, you were in a commmited relationship and you shouldn't have done that. I don't see how she can ever bring herself to trust you, this is one of the red flags they say people should look out for in relationships before they 'chook' head, you made your bed. 14 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by obayendo1010(m): 3:05pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
see oga oooo....because you gave this impression in the first place assuming you brush it off it wont be like this .....and she has it in mind before..she is just looking for a cheap excuse..you want to marry her rite?..she just want one more chance to decide if she is really ready. funny enough she is not really ready to settle down...if you allow time dont talk to her again or send someonne once she stop getting the attention she will be focus...it has happen to me before but this case is the other way round |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by wifeesnatcher(m): 3:05pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Op like the first post said, give her time. no call, no SMS, don't send anyone to her again at least for now I'll give you a tips. you need calm yourself down because as far as relationship is concern it's hard for a lady to start up all over again than guys. guys can easily start up all over again than ladies try and think what usually hold her emotionally down, that's the only way you can get thru to her. you made the matter escalated by involving all the world to the matter, you should have allowed her leave until you explained and confessed to her and 50msgs was way too much. just give her a break. if you're the only one she's dating, she will forgive you but if she still insist my guy move on |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by macello4(m): 3:06pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Na because of woman u dey cry? oga u are a outstanding fool abeg, i know get any advice for u just go and die. 3 Likes
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| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Cmanforall: 3:06pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Here's what might be happening. She has someone that has been there pleading for her hand in marriage. But she's been refusing the guy because she's already committed to You, not that he doesn't like the other guy. Now, you blew that chance. She is considering whether to give the other guy a chance, or whether to forgive you. Meanwhile, which part of the country is she from? How educated and enlightened is she? How religious is she? These are important, and to know how the influence of family members can better or worsen the situation. Kapello8: 1 Like 1 Share |
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| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Artzdanielsz(m): 3:06pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8:no matter how sad you are men are not supposed to cry over break up ,chin up man and also if u believe she go be the best gift God has ever given to you ,bro i gat no pity for you. plenty girls dey around weh better pass her in all ramifications. I believe say as my mama soup delicious reach it get other people weh go cook pass her. Bro that your babe go run back to you if you flunt correct babe and let it look like u have move on. |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by sneak3(m): 3:06pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
funshint: There you have it... This will work, ladies are emotional, any attempt to pacify her is noted and must stop forthwith. Give her space just be genuinely done with the flirty things. after a month send her a text, she might return d text n tell you to stay off, don't bother, it is a forward leap, she now replies your message is d leap. give her a few more days then call her and do not attempt to explain or defend yourself. Apologise all through, tell her how foolish you have been to even contemplate cheating on her. I bet this will give u a desired result if the lady truly loves you. 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kennydoc(m): 3:06pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
tosinornottosin:
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| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by nokatakata: 3:06pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
you have shown signs that you cheat and will continue to cheat. even if she forgives you and you guys get married, she'll still continue to suspect you are cheating... even you won't enjoy the marriage. Be very honest with yourself, what will you have done if you saw exactly the same sms or chats on her phone? You go just conclude say na olosho...no amount of explanation and begging will convince you. She will begin to irritate you once you begin to imagine the number of men she would have phucked even if she didn't. It's the same way she feels too. Most guys will say why can't she forgive if she loves you but the simple truth is how many guys will forgive any lady if we turn the table. its very hard to find reasonable girls these days...if she doesn't forgive you, do not force it. move on with your life and learn from your mistake. meanwhile na your own phuck up she see, you nor see her own. She just might be cheating too. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Theboss100(m): 3:07pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
ibkayee:You Should Pity Him, He Has Acknowleged His Mistakes And He Is Sorry. U Might Have Done Same B4.... U Know... |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by wifeesnatcher(m): 3:07pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
obayendo1010: pls don't jump into conclusion like this. even you as a man if your fiance not gf o deny you on chats you will react more than the lady. lady are more emotional than guys and they conclude so fast 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by baby124: 3:08pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
It’s better you move on with your life because you will never have peace in that marriage. Good for you and good for her that she was able to see who you truly are before marriage. Try to marry one of the girls that is so good that you deny your fiancé as your cousin! God forbid any of my daughters marry your type. If I see you near my house after attempting such with my child, I will amputate you. slowpoke. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by zicoraads: 3:08pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by kid7soccer(m): 3:08pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8:Guy let me tell you the truth. Thank your God and Move on. How can you live with such a person, even after bringing your family to beg her, OK what if you are married and you cheated so she will now divorce you. Brother she not the one for you, love means taking pain to forgive cause no body is above any sin. Even people who got married with cheating till fall sin to it. If everyone have intercede and she said no, please let her be, I can say boldly she also playing the same game you have been playing. As the saying goes "birds of the same feathers flock together". 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by focus7: 3:08pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: And you said you were about to lose or you have lost her already. |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Ogaga87(m): 3:08pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: So that we can help you call her and beg too ba.. OK send us her number maybe she can switch to the next available singlet |
just move on. Once a cheat always a cheat!
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