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Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Dgr8hassiE(m): 5:28pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
[quote author=Kapello8 post=79342046]Hello Guys, Please don’t Mind my English, am really typing this in tears and pain.[code][/code] So there’s the babe I’ve been dating, I truly love her and we’ve been setting up my new flat and making plans for our Traditional wedding hopefully this November but something tragic struck an :-Xd took away all d Joy and Happiness.... This was how it began, she took my phone and went through all my chats and I had some female friends I’ve been flirty chatting with but honestly I I was dumbed to have done dat... :-XI lied to them that I was single and searching I never accepted that I had a Fiancé just for the fun of it I also lied that she was my cousin and she found out all those stuffs and now she has ended the relationship... I’ve cried and wept because my stupidity has made me to loose my angel... She’s an ideal wife I never knew what got over me to just try being flirty.... I have involved my Family and her Family to beg her but she has refused. She told my eldest brother that she can’t love me anymore. I’ve also pleaded with her best friend and siblings to plead with her but she’s not willing to come back.... I’ve sent her over 50 apology SMS I’ve called her line over a 30 times but she’s not willing to take my calls. When I call with an unknown number and she hears my voice she will drop the call. She doesn’t wana even talk to me. The whole house looks empty without her I just can’t forgive myself for loosing the best gift God gave me. Now I feel so downcasted... Brothers and Sisters please I need your candid advice. Your Free to Insult me Am writing this because I’ve not been able to sleep. I can’t Forgive my self. I truly Love. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by mercy87(f): 5:43pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
I can't believe that people are blaming the op on why he granted her access to his phone. No wonder marriages don't last anymore. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by escandon(m): 5:59pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Honestly you just read my mind op just wat if she has always wanted to leave the relationship and this opportunity presented itself move on please don’t go back u would hurt yourself the more try not to contact her if she doesn’t do the Same cvibe2: |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by tradepunter: 6:00pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Crying like a wuss after you messed up.. Anyway so is life she comes back fine, she doesn't fine also... What you have to learn is that things happens for a reason.. This also could test her character as a lady, because if she truly believes in you she will let it slide and even use it to make fun of you if you guys eventually marry.. I am not in support of your sorry stupid cheating arsee tho.. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by enemyofprogress: 6:01pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Give her a break, you are choking her with too much love and apologies,if she is truly yours, she will come back to you. Let me quickly go and delete all my whatsapp flirty messages before my own too go catch me |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by biacan(f): 6:01pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
mercy87:I tell you I'm truly surprise when I love.....I love with my whole heart you can have access to my phone at any fu#king time but I must also have access to yours......if you don't trust me then why are we dating Same reason why I ended my relationship this January guy has been on my neck since then not that I can't forgive him I just can't love and trust him anymore I just can't....... 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by InvertedHammer: 6:01pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
/ No worries. She went back to check if her first choice is still available. If he is not, she will come back to you later. These things take time. Be patient. You don't even know what's on her phone. / 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Biglittlelois(f): 6:02pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Favmil101(m): 6:05pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by RiyadhGoddess(f): 6:06pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kenneth10110(m): 6:08pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Phenomenal16: I am not so deep into marriage i don't even like such topics. If i want to even marry one lady can't just play with my brain just like that i mean a lot of ladies out there |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Biglittlelois(f): 6:09pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Barywhyte: You that is not a weakling, tell me how you know she doesn't love him, read op's words very well and tell me exactly how you know she doesn't love him. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by cutediva87(f): 6:10pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
im not hearing things like "these hoes ain't loyal" in this thread whats going on? if it was a woman now you for don't hear baba stew the hell outta her and leave her 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Biglittlelois(f): 6:15pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
HARDDON: You see op ehn, he knows a rare kind when he sees one, and that lady qualifies 100% that is why he did all that to try and get her back, a WIMP is someone that will say a RARE kind isn't worth his balls, those physical things you mentioned is what fvckboys will droll over not men who knows the worth of what they're likely to loose. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by ncoolsome(m): 6:26pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Pls stay away from "SNIPER".... |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Biglittlelois(f): 6:27pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Biglittlelois(f): 6:31pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
adecz: Small thing? He fvcking said she's her COUSIN, will you like it if your gf says she's single and calls you her BLOOD BROTHER 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by kiddkash(m): 6:35pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
you are so screwed |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Patosky4U: 6:42pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Op just be like me, forget about her and move and boom in 3 months time she will come begging. do shakara small then too |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by missyblissy: 6:56pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
QueenSekxy: Sis take it easy. Did she catch him cheating or just Flirting? Ah abeg take a chill pill. He has acknowledged he messed up big time. I dont support what he did either but no body is perfect even you, you are not above mistake. He has apologised and asked for Forgiveness. If she truly wants to be with him, she will nothing you say or do will change it. Love sometimes conquers!!!!. Imagine if he is your brother or a close bf. Come on!!!! Don't use his mistake to conclude that he is cheat!!!!. You be woman oooo. Nobody is perfect!!!! I tell if she comes back, he will forever cherish what he hasand never again do anything this stupid!!! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by philcz(m): 7:03pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
ibkayee:Don't be too harsh |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Poorboy:If she doesn't come back, ,perhaps, fate allows it. Just remain focus, and don't try it again. Whether with her, or another. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by ibkayee(f): 7:11pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
theButterfly:Lool I hope it won’t have to come to that! Good luck to both of them |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
ibkayee:Ditto on that 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Biglittlelois(f): 7:20pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
kid7soccer: I think you didn't boot well, you wanted to say 'how can she live with the kind of op', know that not all women will stay with a cheating husband, yes she will divorce him, same way if she was the one who cheated in marriage, he would divorce her, let it sink into your skull that most women these days will not do that endurance bullshit in marriage especially with a hoe of a husband, You can boldly say she is doing the same thing yen yen yen, because you know her and is always with her right? Just because she wouldn't condone a cheating man abi, rubbish. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Dreew(f): 7:22pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
OtunbaChibok: Nonsense. Go back to him for what? You men think you're all that but some women are more. A woman who respects herself wouldn't give two fuckks about a bleeding cheat. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by HARDDON: 7:29pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: The rare kind that went searching for an ish to anchor on ( so that she can deploy her next nest or deball him), got to see the ishh and went wild as she punched on the plan-activate button? The rare kind that listens to no voice of reason? 3 ways this wud play out and none is to the advantage of the guy 1. She wud come back but he wud spend the rest of his days trying to prove to her that he is clean and in effect, he hands her the r/ship/marriage control knob. 2. She planned to exit, didn't know how to, and he played into her arms. Real men know that a lady is worth the value HE place on her... Real men have Abundance Mentality - There can't be lack when there is more than enough to eat and spare. Real men would not be in her space with listless messages and calls. Stuff her air. They wud relax. When she is tired, she know where we be. Needless responding to your quote, I'm from pluto, you are from Mars and I heard those from Mars always strive to mislead my kind. We know better 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by luminouz(m): 7:35pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
So much emotional drivel here!!!! Now I know some people's weaknesses!!! NL,always a fun place to be!!! |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by luminouz(m): 7:37pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
HARDDON:Now,here is a G,with some balls.. One love 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
funshint: Meanwhile there will probably be a guy who's being trying to get her, he'll probably get to go one or two good rounds..thats why I often hang around most babes in relationships maintaining some low key sexual tension, so when small casala burst for their main relationship I go fire down one or two times before they hook back up 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Lol, most of the time if the girl likes you she'll curse and cry , attack, but if she's turn dead cold on u, men, she's either totally broken or she found an opportunity to escape. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Houseofglam7: And ladies should never play with a good and sincere man too Houseofglam7: And ladies should never play with a good and sincere man too Houseofglam7: And ladies should never play with a good and sincere man too 1 Like |
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