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| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Grupo(m): 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Let me read topic. I'll comment later |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Skelewu: 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
You don't deserve her. She has moved on, move on too with the lesson you've learnt from this. If you find someone else who loves you this way, never flirt with other ladies. 14 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by ezenna191(m): 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Don't lose your head, if she loves you as much as you love her, she will come back. If not go your way, she's not for you. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
If this were the other way round, would you take her back? Continue fooling yourself. 16 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Obito555(m): 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
What ever the out come now u have learnt a great lesson...I hope she forgive u 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Airtimex(m): 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Op. I don't know what to tell you. But believe Me, she is your wife and both of you will make a good family. Don't bother your self again plz...she will come back in two weeks time. 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by jeff1607(m): 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: only a woman can truly give the needed advice for this predicament avoid the bitter ones tho ,they sting 1 Like |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by paparazzi1987(m): 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by chelsea4su(f): 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Asewo olojukokoro 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by bettercreature(m): 2:55pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
You broke the first rule my brother,never allow your wife or girl friend to have access to your phone You must set boundaries during courtship and make sure she doesn’t have access to your phone in order to avoid fighting because of phone when you are married beside I don’t know why you are worried here,you should be in control so I am sure she will get over It and return back to you if you really worth it.If she doesn’t return it means she never loved you 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by mrNEMZY(m): 2:55pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
You fvcked up man, truth be told. You were about to marry and you are still flirting for fun, who does that? I'd advice, let her let her cool off first, like give her 2-3wks then find a way to meet her yourself and try talking sense into her. But if she is reluctant free her abeg, you will get over her with time. Never you beg her into marriage, bcoz you will continue begging in the marriage. Even if she forgives you, relax and show her a reason to marry you. If not, she would have a way of bringing this up from time to time in the marriage. If she does come back, she is strong, bcoz if this were to happen to me, I wouldn't go on marrying the lady, no one wants to marry a cheat. 19 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by don4real18(m): 2:55pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by ideabuilder: 2:55pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
OP is weak. This indomie kids sef. Na your type dey swallow sniper becos of girl. My advice for your sorry self, MAN UP. If she cant trust your word, I beg free her. Only a fool will believe you don't have a side chick. Promote one of them. Na she go beg las las 9 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by BrilliantF: 2:55pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
How can you deny some you love and even say she's your cousin. You knew God gave you an angel but you chose not to be faithful? Please let her go if you would hurt her more in the future. You can marry any of those your female friends 16 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Adebaba1(m): 2:56pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Its either she doesn't really like you or u have done some other negative things to her Either ways, just move on...life continues 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by faithfull18(f): 2:56pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
OtunbaChibok:Bad advice. 7 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by HARDDON: 2:56pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
 So unfortunate bro. Here are the possible out-plays 1. She really loves you a. Should would cry/go moody and her life would be hollow but She would cool off after punishing you for your crime ( off radar, silent treatment) and call/visit/stealthily send a fam member/friend to make u call. b. She wouldn't cry rather take it a notch up and punish you with sleeping with another guy - sometimes a total stranger that knows his onion around the minds/laps of a heart broken dock. Then come back to milk the last of your apology and effectively deball you with commitment to some stringent course. 2. She doesn't Love you. She wouldn't care a hoot. Swiftly, she would move on with her life. Make public the guy she has been hiding. However, If she is gaining financially from you, She might come back to tell you that she need a lot of time to sort herself out. That you guys should take it slow. That means no more intimacy or caring for u. The only time she is available is when she needs sometin. You are thereby placed in a state of limbo. While you "mumushly" shower her with gifts and apology, she'd be having a time of her life. Should you get nosy, you would be hit with an electrifying efcc to make u back off and sober again with " I don't think we can work out anymore, I just can't get myself to loving you again". And when it finally dawn on you, you would walk off, go to church to give thanks to God for making you dodge a bullet. This is so sad though, there are guys out there that their gurls have caught red handed, got angry for a week, came back the next crying while humping away. Soft button, balls and Jrod are real  My Take: FORGET ABOUT HER( to wimps, this is a tall order. Because they ain't worth their balls) Live your life. Meet other hawt ones. For while u are wasting away in one cocoon ( thinking this is the height of it), the beautiful, hourglass shape, creamy and intelligent world out there is laughing sarcastically at your monocultured airs. 19 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Barywhyte(m): 2:57pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: So many of you boys ( you are not a man yet) are weaklings. Do you need Babalawo to tell you that this lady does not love you? She also know you are weakling. I assumed this is the first time you are doing such. 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by tomju(m): 2:57pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
This is the best, practical advise i wanted to give you. There is no point to add anything. He spoke my mind. But maybe i should just say this: if all he has suggested does not work. Move on. If you force her to come back, you will have to force her to love you, to sleep with you, to do all the things she should have done naturally. Don't forget to pray over it. It works. Take care. funshint: 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by YoungG12(m): 2:57pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Baba,Am Also A Victim Of This Before But What You Need To Do Is To Just,Stop Sending Her Message Or Calling Her And Also Stop Sending People To Her,Just Leave Her For A While Like A Week Sha,After That One Week Her Head Would Have Cool Off And She Would Have Being A Little Bit Heal From Heart Broken,Then Go Confront Her And Beg Her,Cried Till You Get No Tears In Your Eyes Again Just Make Sure You Did All This InFront Of Her,I Swear Down He She Truly Loves You,She Is Going To Accept You Back But For Now Just Go One Bar And Cool Yourself,It's Weeken,Go Refresh  3 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by ibkayee(f): 2:58pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
theButterfly:Lol and he couldn't even wait to tie the knot first before doing nonsense, damn 1 Like |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by am4truth(m): 2:59pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: Thank God, you have learned your lesson. please ask God for forgiveness, also to touch her heart. Everything is possible for those of us that believe. Lastly, don't ever think of doing the unthinkable because of a relationship. I'm sure you understand what I mean. 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by tlurdy: 2:59pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Good luck ! Same thing happen to me years back and d lady finally got married to old man two days ago in ile Ife 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by anochuko01(m): 2:59pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
ibkayee:the guy is a big fool. He may end up cheating when married. Its just up to the woman now 7 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Eberex(m): 2:59pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Stop the calls and SMS. Focus on your job and your sanity. Stop flirting with these gals, its possible she knows some of them, and would try to verify from them if you have changed. So chill and tell yourself you have done all you can àjsl |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by mistyebby(f): 3:00pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by dancewith: 3:00pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
First you were wrong for the behaviour. Cheating isnt only when you sleep with someone else. Chats and some romantic messages with someone else also means cheating on your spouse Two, you have tried the best you could. With time she would get the message and the several good part of you would overwhelm her consideration of this bad part. I do hope she reasons and understands this. The grass is never greener at the other side. The new man she would end up with, is he any different? Smart women would get to understand this aspect if you actually have been good in many other areas Finally I do not get it when people go through their spouses phone. What exactly are they looking for? People that keep doing this are highly insecure, dangerous and quarrel some. You have it coming when you do this and sooner or later you would find something that scatters your relationship As for you, time is your best friend Good luck 7 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by RexTramadol1: 3:00pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Lesson learnt She'll b back tho' |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Michelle55: 3:00pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Give her time perhaps weeks to cool off.. Don't push it cos she's still hurting and any means of reconciliation you initiate Now will backfire. The more you beg, the more she harden her heart( e.g, ME) so free her and if she eventually comes back then you both are meant to be. 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by bluefilm: 3:00pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
You fool. First of all, why did you allow her to access your phone knowing that such chats were in your phone? Then secondly, why do you keep on begging her? The way to handle women is not to appear as a weakling. If you don't stop begging her now, when she comes back, she's going to use that weakness against you. Of course, I know she's coming back. It's just a matter of time. But be ready for her endless accusations from now onward because the issue of trust is gone! Women are just like that. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by zicoraads: 3:01pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
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