Kapello8:
Hello Guys,

Please don’t Mind my English, am really typing this in tears and pain.

So there’s the babe I’ve been dating, I truly love her and we’ve been setting up my new flat and making plans for our Traditional wedding hopefully this November but something tragic struck and took away all d Joy and Happiness....

This was how it began, she took my phone and went through all my chats and I had some female friends I’ve been flirty chatting with but honestly I I was dumbed to have done dat...

I lied to them that I was single and searching I never accepted that I had a Fiancé just for the fun of it I also lied that she was my cousin and she found out all those stuffs and now she has ended the relationship...

I’ve cried and wept because my stupidity has made me to loose my angel...

She’s an ideal wife I never knew what got over me to just try being flirty....

I have involved my Family and her Family to beg her but she has refused. She told my eldest brother that she can’t love me anymore.

I’ve also pleaded with her best friend and siblings to plead with her but she’s not willing to come back....
I’ve sent her over 50 apology SMS I’ve called her line over a 30 times but she’s not willing to take my calls.

When I call with an unknown number and she hears my voice she will drop the call.
She doesn’t wana even talk to me.


The whole house looks empty without her I just can’t forgive myself for loosing the best gift God gave me. Now I feel so downcasted...

Brothers and Sisters please I need your candid advice. Your Free to Insult me

Am writing this because I’ve not been able to sleep. I can’t Forgive my self. I truly Love her.

Mods please move to front page.

pm her number let me talk to her

Kapello8:
Hello Guys,

Please don’t Mind my English, am really typing this in tears and pain.

So there’s the babe I’ve been dating, I truly love her and we’ve been setting up my new flat and making plans for our Traditional wedding hopefully this November but something tragic struck and took away all d Joy and Happiness....

This was how it began, she took my phone and went through all my chats and I had some female friends I’ve been flirty chatting with but honestly I I was dumbed to have done dat...

I lied to them that I was single and searching I never accepted that I had a Fiancé just for the fun of it I also lied that she was my cousin and she found out all those stuffs and now she has ended the relationship...

I’ve cried and wept because my stupidity has made me to loose my angel...

She’s an ideal wife I never knew what got over me to just try being flirty....

I have involved my Family and her Family to beg her but she has refused. She told my eldest brother that she can’t love me anymore.

I’ve also pleaded with her best friend and siblings to plead with her but she’s not willing to come back....
I’ve sent her over 50 apology SMS I’ve called her line over a 30 times but she’s not willing to take my calls.

When I call with an unknown number and she hears my voice she will drop the call.
She doesn’t wana even talk to me.


The whole house looks empty without her I just can’t forgive myself for loosing the best gift God gave me. Now I feel so downcasted...

Brothers and Sisters please I need your candid advice. Your Free to Insult me

Am writing this because I’ve not been able to sleep. I can’t Forgive my self. I truly Love her.

Mods please move to front page.

Bro free that girl Jor
Just because you got caught doesn't mean you're the only criminal.
There somethings she's hiding from you too.
If she really loved you, she'll forgive you.
I have been caught in that manner before too and I was forgiven.
If she insist on leaving , let her go. You'll surely find someone better.
IT CAN ONLY TAKE TIME...

OP, pm me her number let me talk to her

Ntoooor... Good for you.
You are part of the bad boys destroying innocent ladies with lies.
What about the girls you ve deceived and might be catching feelings for you already?
What about the ones that ve already believed you and wouldn't give any other man a chance because of your lies.
You see how u re hurting, that's what your lies have/would ve caused some other people so enjoy it..

Theboss100:
You Should Pity Him, He Has Acknowleged His Mistakes And He Is Sorry. U Might Have Done Same B4.... U Know...

After he got caught and because the consequences are pretty serious lol

He should've thought about that beforehand womp womp

Chairman, move on. I'm sure you wouldn't have looked at her twice, if it were to be you. The trust has already been eroded, nothing will solve it again.

If I were to be you, I would even break up with her before she asked.

Son, take it easy...

You have not even gone into marraige proper, and you are already getting your whole family into your business.

This indicates that you are still a child, enjoying senior jokes.

If you cannot get her to see reasons why she should forgive you, then no one can. Never forget that.

Back to the issue, you need to take a chill pill, she may be childish to get upset in my opinion, when nothing concrete has been established. She only saw few chats, in marraige she may see more, so would she walk away?

She will be back, and when she does, let her know the truth and also apologize for sending all your family member at her.

You can never tell, she may have been angry at you but you may have escalated things when you invited the whole world to clean up your mess.

Let me take this as a life lesson and delete all my inappropriate chats.

bettercreature:
You broke the firstly rule my brother,never allow your wife or girl friend to have access to your phone
You must set boundaries during courtship and make sure she doesn’t have access to your phone in order to avoid fighting because of phone when you are married beside I don’t know why you are worried here,you should be in control so I am sure she will get over It and return back to you if you really worth it.If she doesn’t return it means she never loved you

Which rule is that one? Your rule is nonsense. The guy shot himself in the foot. He needs to move on and pray for a miracle.

funshint:
At this moment stop all calls and messages. Also stop sending people to her; don't continue "bombing" her. You've done your best. She's still hurting for now....okay. Just give her time. A few days or even weeks. When her head finally settles down; she'll definitely contact you. Believe me it works! Thereafter take things slow, one step at a time. Takecare...winks!

Boss How many times u don do am

Mustsucceed:
Over flirting ? There's is more to this

1)either you are lying and did more than you are staTING
OR

2)she never loved you or found someone better and used this to end

It baffles me when my fellow guys think like this.

The truth is that, just as girls think they're entitled to guy's spending on them, guys feel entitled to monopoly of cheating.

So, what the guy did isn't enough reason for the girl to break the relationship?

zicoraads:

Nothing.

I just know you love being around this type of topic sha.

Lol. I am just here to watch hypocricy in 4D.
So far, they are not disappointing.

I am however not in that mood to fire.

ibkayee:

Lol and he couldn't even wait to tie the knot first before doing nonsense, damn

It's good she found out now oh. If she marries him she knows what she's getting herself into. A man like him will cheat plenty and sleep around if he can get away with it. On the other hand he could change.

Move on bro, women full everywhere these days

Kapello8:
Hello Guys,

Please don’t Mind my English, am really typing this in tears and pain.

So there’s the babe I’ve been dating, I truly love her and we’ve been setting up my new flat and making plans for our Traditional wedding hopefully this November but something tragic struck and took away all d Joy and Happiness....

This was how it began, she took my phone and went through all my chats and I had some female friends I’ve been flirty chatting with but honestly I I was dumbed to have done dat...

I lied to them that I was single and searching I never accepted that I had a Fiancé just for the fun of it I also lied that she was my cousin and she found out all those stuffs and now she has ended the relationship...

I’ve cried and wept because my stupidity has made me to loose my angel...

She’s an ideal wife I never knew what got over me to just try being flirty....

I have involved my Family and her Family to beg her but she has refused. She told my eldest brother that she can’t love me anymore.

I’ve also pleaded with her best friend and siblings to plead with her but she’s not willing to come back....
I’ve sent her over 50 apology SMS I’ve called her line over a 30 times but she’s not willing to take my calls.

When I call with an unknown number and she hears my voice she will drop the call.
She doesn’t wana even talk to me.


The whole house looks empty without her I just can’t forgive myself for loosing the best gift God gave me. Now I feel so downcasted...

Brothers and Sisters please I need your candid advice. Your Free to Insult me

Am writing this because I’ve not been able to sleep. I can’t Forgive my self. I truly Love her.

Mods please move to front page.

bro forget it, when a woman has no feelings for a man again no amouth of gift and apologies can bring that back, just cry very well till the bucket full and till your eye ball wanna fall you will surely get out of it one day and move on, actually she has been looking for a way to ditch you andf that is the perfect moment for her, you are not in her heart again, she has zero feelings for you now nd ntn cn increase the feelings again, even if you guys come back again things can never be the same and it will surely still fall apart.

Nat404:
LOL, I can't believe this is a Nigerian girl. It serves you right. Hasn't your mom ever told you that fishing with dynamite is dangerous? LOL

When a woman is angry, do not talk to her. You just have to keep quiet for a while.

Learnt these from my GF , Any time she's angry and in doesn't feel like talking to me and I tried all my best to persuade her but everything turns to deaf ear. Laslas , After 1 to 2 days, Na she go call me dey beg me again ...... As a nigga wey I be ,I just go lockup tell her say , I understand and that I love her. Lobatan.

PS - Before I studied these behavior and acts, We often quarrel alot whenever her mood changes due to what i cant even decipher but since I started using that approach whenever she has a mood swing , Na she go come dey beg me again the 2nd day cos I won't even bother her at all. Ladies are indeed complicated homo sapiens

RiyadhGoddess:
See as I pause my hot puffpuff to type.
Erm op, abeg give her time to heal. While u do that, u might not call but make sure u continue to send her apology messages. Sending over 1000 apology is not enough so keep doing it to get what belongs to you back. Also pray to God to heal her quick and give her a forgiving heart towards you. Let God bring back the love afreash.
Let me continue my puffpuff

Serve him one when you're done.

funshint:
At this moment stop all calls and messages. Also stop sending people to her; don't continue "bombing" her. You've done your best. She's still hurting for now....okay. Just give her time. A few days or even weeks. When her head finally settles down; she'll definitely contact you. Believe me it works! Thereafter take things slow, one step at a time. Takecare...winks!

Candid one!!

Ohhhh. How I wish so much that she never returns to you!

AntiBrutus:


Lol. I am just here to watch hypocricy in 4D.
So far, they are not disappointing.

I am however not in that mood to fire.

Awwww... What happened to your mood?

Wanna come sit on my legs?

@Op, you're not telling the truth.
Now let me ask: if she were to be the one what will you advice? I'm sure you'll be among the kids shouting don't take her back here.
She meant little or nothing to you for you to have outrightly denied her as such. If she forgives, you will still do it again. Once a cheat, always a cheat.
Allow her look for someone who values her now before you eventually shattered her heart. Take that as a big sacrifice you have to pay for deceit/cheating and move on. Na my advice be that.

theButterfly:
It's good she found out now oh. If she marries him she knows what she's getting herself into. A man like him will cheat plenty and sleep around if he can get away with it. On the other hand he could change.

Exactly, although the fact that he's doing it already shows he has no respect for the marriage, not a great foundation to start on at all. Like you said, he could change I guess, maybe this will be his wake up call (if she takes him back)

Just pray about it, u can add fasting, seek God's face, if she is ur wife she will come back, relax dont be in a hurry just be calm,
Every thing works for good. It shall come to pass

Kapello8:
Hello Guys,

Please don’t Mind my English, am really typing this in tears and pain.

So there’s the babe I’ve been dating, I truly love her and we’ve been setting up my new flat and making plans for our Traditional wedding hopefully this November but something tragic struck and took away all d Joy and Happiness....

This was how it began, she took my phone and went through all my chats and I had some female friends I’ve been flirty chatting with but honestly I I was dumbed to have done dat...

I lied to them that I was single and searching I never accepted that I had a Fiancé just for the fun of it I also lied that she was my cousin and she found out all those stuffs and now she has ended the relationship...

I’ve cried and wept because my stupidity has made me to loose my angel...

She’s an ideal wife I never knew what got over me to just try being flirty....

I have involved my Family and her Family to beg her but she has refused. She told my eldest brother that she can’t love me anymore.

I’ve also pleaded with her best friend and siblings to plead with her but she’s not willing to come back....
I’ve sent her over 50 apology SMS I’ve called her line over a 30 times but she’s not willing to take my calls.

When I call with an unknown number and she hears my voice she will drop the call.
She doesn’t wana even talk to me.


The whole house looks empty without her I just can’t forgive myself for loosing the best gift God gave me. Now I feel so downcasted...

Brothers and Sisters please I need your candid advice. Your Free to Insult me

Am writing this because I’ve not been able to sleep. I can’t Forgive my self. I truly Love her.

Mods please move to front page.

First and foremost, it is very bad of you to have done what you did. Secondly she is not leaving you because you were caught cheating but she is leaving because you over beg.
A good number of people especially guys fall into your category, this doesn't mean they dont love their wife to be. Is like catching the last fun or watching the last part of a movie. the marriage becomes a real thing after the wedding and gradually a lot of nonsense things and thought will be dropped. When you are caught cheating like yours, you get to prepare your mind for the worst then apply wisdom as you beg for forgiveness. Is like wooing her over again, not begging is foolishness while begging too much is stupidity. Never be the first person to tell third party what happened.

Kapello8:
Hello Guys,

Please don’t Mind my English, am really typing this in tears and pain.

So there’s the babe I’ve been dating, I truly love her and we’ve been setting up my new flat and making plans for our Traditional wedding hopefully this November but something tragic struck and took away all d Joy and Happiness....

This was how it began, she took my phone and went through all my chats and I had some female friends I’ve been flirty chatting with but honestly I I was dumbed to have done dat...

I lied to them that I was single and searching I never accepted that I had a Fiancé just for the fun of it I also lied that she was my cousin and she found out all those stuffs and now she has ended the relationship...

I’ve cried and wept because my stupidity has made me to loose my angel...

She’s an ideal wife I never knew what got over me to just try being flirty....

I have involved my Family and her Family to beg her but she has refused. She told my eldest brother that she can’t love me anymore.

I’ve also pleaded with her best friend and siblings to plead with her but she’s not willing to come back....
I’ve sent her over 50 apology SMS I’ve called her line over a 30 times but she’s not willing to take my calls.

When I call with an unknown number and she hears my voice she will drop the call.
She doesn’t wana even talk to me.


The whole house looks empty without her I just can’t forgive myself for loosing the best gift God gave me. Now I feel so downcasted...

Brothers and Sisters please I need your candid advice. Your Free to Insult me

Am writing this because I’ve not been able to sleep. I can’t Forgive my self. I truly Love her.

Mods please move to front page.

Boy, let me tell u a secret about women, if she did not come back, you were only an option, she is cheating on you with somebody elsewhere and she's not ready for you.. Reason she went through your phone to find something as an excuse to end it with you..

I guess she has been digging someone making her happier, and I suspect you are a sissy nigger, she might have found someone who is more daring and spending on her plus a better diick....sorry, the angel u think u know might just be a demon.... That's if she doesn't come back to you...

But if she comes back, then truly, she may be the angel u think she is...

This is an opportunity for you to know.

Oh boy this one hard oh. I just pray she change her mind or else na O Y O you dey oh.


Most importantly, when she forgives you and you get back kindly come and update us.

dancewith:
First you were wrong for the behaviour. Cheating isnt only when you sleep with someone else. Chats and some romantic messages with someone else also means cheating on your spouse

Two, you have tried the best you could. With time she would get the message and the several good part of you would overwhelm her consideration of this bad part. I do hope she reasons and understands this. The grass is never greener at the other side. The new man she would end up with, is he any different? Smart women would get to understand this aspect if you actually have been good in many other areas

Finally I do not get it when people go through their spouses phone. What exactly are they looking for? People that keep doing this are highly insecure, dangerous and quarrel some. You have it coming when you do this and sooner or later you would find something that scatters your relationship

As for you, time is your best friend

Good luck

matured!

EazyMoh:
Let me take this as a life lesson and delete all my inappropriate chats.

See DEM.

You have done your best. Stop calling her but rather go ahead and run your things with those ladies. You might not just know what you are missing.

As for your girlfriend (fiancé) give her sometime she will be back telling you how she has been missing you. If she doesn't come back don't kill yourself, just move on.

No dey worry yourself for woman ,na money suppose be your problem.

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OSUigboKiller:

Bro free that girl Jor
Just because you got caught doesn't mean you're the only criminal.
There somethings she's hiding from you too.
If she really loved you, she'll forgive you.
I have been caught in that manner before too and I was forgiven.
If she insist on leaving , let her go. You'll surely find someone better.
IT CAN ONLY TAKE TIME...

Find someone better indeed. You think it’s that easy huh? Tell that to my ex’s who are miserable in their marriage and always crying to me that if only I gave them another chance or forgave them, their lives may have been different.its too late for them, I am happy and they are miserable. When you have something good and you know, you better behave yourself and appreciate it. OP knows the gravity of what he has lost and till he dies he will never forgive himself. Very good for him. His type need to be taught a bitter lesson.

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