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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Timijo(m): 7:09am On Jun 16, 2019
obiekunie2:
see mumu!


them dey offer you paradise on a platter of gold you dey reject am!


some men sha! :Na you be the real mumu. So you are suggesting he dives into the offer? I don't know why some adults talk and think like kids.
Think with your brain; and not that tiny thing in between your legs.




bros abeg send me her number shaperly let me help you tell her to cover herself!

na beg i dey beg! cheesy undecided
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by adetes: 7:09am On Jun 16, 2019
Do d needful thing
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by kerry57: 7:11am On Jun 16, 2019
Davash222:
Hmmmm.

Obviously, your wife knows the game she's playing. Your wife wants you to fucck her sister . She prefers you fucck her sister than fuccking outside. It's up to you to decide if you want to be fuccking two sisters.

There are some temptations that are meant only for Jesus and Satan.
Guy na wa for u ooo. See advice. My only advice to u that made the post is to discuss with ur wife about about her sister dress code which u are not comfortable with. Her response will determine ur next line of action.
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by gazza07(m): 7:11am On Jun 16, 2019
U be said it all. This temptation is far too way delicious to handle

Tueh umunwanyi
Davash222:
Hmmmm.

Obviously, your wife knows the game she's playing. Your wife wants you to fucck her sister . She prefers you fucck her sister than fuccking outside. It's up to you to decide if you want to be fuccking two sisters.

There are some temptations that are meant only for Jesus and Satan.
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by gbagyiza: 7:12am On Jun 16, 2019
SageMK:
What did I just read?

Bro, you know what to do. Talk to your wife.

Let her know how uncomfortable and “disgusted” you are by her sister's provocative dressing. Your wife will handle her well. Just keep minding your business.

Don't give any hint whatsoever that you are unable to control yourself or you find her sister attractive at all. I am sure your wife trusts you both that's why she's not reacting. Or could this be a stúpid ploy against you?

Anyway if you can't, demand she kindly moves out.

I am beginning to doubt the validity of your story self. grin

Don't believe this story because if you do is at your own peril.
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Nodogragra4me(m): 7:13am On Jun 16, 2019
Davash222:
Hmmmm.

Obviously, your wife knows the game she's playing. Your wife wants you to fucck her sister . She prefers you fucck her sister than fuccking outside. It's up to you to decide if you want to be fuccking two sisters.

There are some temptations that are meant only for Jesus and Satan.


Lol.... Na so.
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by themanderon: 7:14am On Jun 16, 2019
She will only crash it if you let her do it. It takes two to tango. Pretend she is not there. Fill your head with heavenly thoughts and that unnatural urge will die.
The devil is tempting you to eat the forbidden fruit. This type of temptation comes especially if something good is coming your way. Devil wan use that girl steal something good from you.
DONT ALLOW HIM HAVE HIS WAY. IGNORE THAT POISONED CHALICE OF A GIRL.

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by wifeesnatcher(m): 7:16am On Jun 16, 2019
Rednaxelot:
She is your wife’s sister, you have the authority to correct the lady to always dress properly, even without telling her sister to correct her.

No reason for any alarm here, it has been in your mind to fuckck the girl, u just looking for an excuse to do so in her dressing


you said everything in my mind, if the lady was his sister, will he be asking mumu QST here. your wife sister, is your sister


correct her politely. Bisi pls I do not tolerate this your dressing because of visitors that would be visiting the house, let that dressing be limited to your room pekem!
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Harpan: 7:17am On Jun 16, 2019
Yes, your wife is not sensitive. I wear Mary Amaka night wear in my sister's house when I visit. I don't want trouble. Plus, the day I even try wearing my normal night gown that wasn't even a see through gown, my sister cautioned ME ASAP.

YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR WIFE SIR. TELL YOUR WIFE. TELL YOUR WIFE. THAT HER SISTER SHOULD ALWAYS COVER HERSELF UP.

You can't possibly know what her reaction will be for sure so don't take that away from her. Tell her!

If you value your marriage, don't even think about what some people are suggesting here. YOU'LL REGRET IT.

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by tfelicityk(m): 7:18am On Jun 16, 2019
It is better for u to act like head of the house. Call her in the presences of your wife and talk sense into her brain. Let her know she can only do that in her own hubby's house when she get married...

Besides, is it that supposed to be dressing like that since your marriage is a year old?

Please see her like your sister and control your emotions and joystick.
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by chikabmm(m): 7:18am On Jun 16, 2019
Nn
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by lawman88(m): 7:21am On Jun 16, 2019
INDUSTRIALFAN:
nope.. Don't think it, don't try it. Erase that thought. Do not for any reason ask your wife's siblings out of your home. You will just cause trouble with your own hand. She is your family now whether you like it or not. What you should do is sit your wife down Nd like the man of the house you Re, categorically tell her that you do not like the way her sister dresses in unpleasant manners around the house. Note the word 'UNPLEASANT ' so that you do not come across as falling. Do not use the word 'provocative ' or 'tempting ' so that she doesn't get hinted that you re getting hot for her sister. Tell her you won't tolerate that sort of irresponsibility anymore and be firm Bout it.

Thanks. I have sat her and my wife down this morning and talk to lady concerning the dressing. My wife also said she was highly uncomfortable with her dressing but decided to keep quiet till one day she will send her out. The lady said she don't have other home wears. So my wife will get her some clothes later after church. Thanks

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Nobody: 7:23am On Jun 16, 2019
Rednaxelot:
She is your wife’s sister, you have the authority to correct the lady to always dress properly, even without telling her sister to correct her.

No reason for any alarm here, it has been in your mind to fuckck the girl, u just looking for an excuse to do so in her dressing
seconded. You better listen to this guy.
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by franzis(m): 7:23am On Jun 16, 2019
Don't fall for it , Its a test they both planned .....
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by lawman88(m): 7:24am On Jun 16, 2019
Harpan:
Yes, your wife is not sensitive. I wear Mary Amaka night wear in my sister's house when I visit. I don't want trouble. Plus, the day I even try wearing my normal night gown that wasn't even a see through gown, my sister cautioned ME ASAP.

YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR WIFE SIR. TELL YOUR WIFE. TELL YOUR WIFE. THAT HER SISTER SHOULD ALWAYS COVER HERSELF UP.

You can't possibly know what her reaction will be for sure so don't take that away from her. Tell her!

If you value your marriage, don't even think about what some people are suggesting here. YOU'LL REGRET IT.
Thanks. I have sat her and my wife down this morning and talk to lady concerning the dressing. My wife also said she was highly uncomfortable with her dressing but decided to keep quiet till one day she will send her out. The lady said she don't have other home wears. So my wife will get her some clothes later after church. Thanks

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by oloriLFC(f): 7:28am On Jun 16, 2019
GraGra247:


Thanks for being honest jare. They put the blame on the innocent man that has clearly shown integrity and restraint both in the past and now and leave the offending lady out of the equation.

This is the attitude that has made many men to fall. There's so much anyone can endure in any given turbulent solution.
Of course na. so many people saying he wanted to sleep with her. He didn't need to come to this forum in the first place if he had that in mind, he'd have done it. That I trust my husband doesn't mean I shouldn't make corrections if need be. so many men have fallen 4 this type of temptation , even those that have been faithful to their wives. I just think the man should man up and tell his wife. If she is a wise woman, she'll find a way of reprimanding her sister or cousin or whoever she is. Let her know what u want in ur house n what u don't want. she didn't even need to quarrel with her as some wives reaction would be. marriage isn't for the unwise
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Nobody: 7:29am On Jun 16, 2019
Valleys:
It's obvious, your wife is not attractive. Maybe shapeless, I should say. Tell your wife now.

If we check now..There's every possibility that you aren't married...dumb
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Majid1990(m): 7:31am On Jun 16, 2019
No element of truth here I can't believe unvisualized story
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by oloriLFC(f): 7:31am On Jun 16, 2019
Harpan:
Yes, your wife is not sensitive. I wear Mary Amaka night wear in my sister's house when I visit. I don't want trouble. Plus, the day I even try wearing my normal night gown that wasn't even a see through gown, my sister cautioned ME ASAP.

YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR WIFE SIR. TELL YOUR WIFE. TELL YOUR WIFE. THAT HER SISTER SHOULD ALWAYS COVER HERSELF UP.

You can't possibly know what her reaction will be for sure so don't take that away from her. Tell her!

If you value your marriage, don't even think about what some people are suggesting here. YOU'LL REGRET IT.
God bless you jare
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Nobody: 7:32am On Jun 16, 2019
obiekunie2:
see mumu!


them dey offer you paradise on a platter of gold you dey reject am!


some men sha! cheesy


bros abeg send me her number shaperly let me help you tell her to cover herself!

na beg i dey beg! cheesy undecided

U never marry
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Nobody: 7:32am On Jun 16, 2019
2dice01:
well done Mr sharp shooter

If she was your daughter will you say the same

Not even about their daughter or something....
Na their type Dey be carrier of positive☺
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by GraGra247(m): 7:33am On Jun 16, 2019
oloriLFC:
Of course na. so many people saying he wanted to sleep with her. He didn't need to come to this forum in the first place if he had that in mind, he'd have done it. That I trust my husband doesn't mean I shouldn't make corrections if need be. so many men have fallen 4 this type of temptation , even those that have been faithful to their wives. I just think the man should man up and tell his wife. If she is a wise woman, she'll find a way of reprimanding her sister or cousin or whoever she is. Let her know what u want in ur house n what u don't want. she didn't even need to quarrel with her as some wives reaction would be. marriage isn't for the unwise

Abeg Buhari should give you family life award quick quick.
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by PapaAdanna: 7:34am On Jun 16, 2019
Oga you have already made up Ur mind and just seeking for validations from Ur type here
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by toprealman: 7:34am On Jun 16, 2019
Bro you are enjoying the "freeview".....let's be honest here.
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by PeterKbaba: 7:35am On Jun 16, 2019
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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Nobody: 7:35am On Jun 16, 2019
Cholls:
my brother e dey ya body.. see as you describe her breast like say u just squeeze am

Don't blame him...

I can say that 80% of married are cheats
There is this "test new environment syndrome" that comes to play in the DNA. .lol
Some men are good at cheating and some aren't good..meanwhile, they all cheated
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by topazgold: 7:37am On Jun 16, 2019
Safitu:
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed about your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. How can her sister be dressing like a stripper, and she’s staying mute? You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate. You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the “show”, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour. You are deceiving yourself, silly man.
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Nobody: 7:38am On Jun 16, 2019
Fiction
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by ashawopikin(m): 7:38am On Jun 16, 2019
Sha use condom
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by zoedew: 7:39am On Jun 16, 2019
Here’s the solution-

Topic: Watch Your Back! (Open Heaven 16 June 2019)

Memorise: “Continue in prayer, and watch in the same with thanksgiving;”- Colossians 4:2

Read: 1 Peter 5:5-11 (KJV)

5 Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble.

6 Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time:

7 Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.

8 Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:

9 Whom resist stedfast in the faith, knowing that the same afflictions are accomplished in your brethren that are in the world.

10 But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you.

11 To him be glory and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.

Bible in One Year: Numbers 14-15, Lamentation 1:15-2:5

Open Heaven 16 June 2019 Sunday MESSAGE:
Watchfulness means to be alert and expectant as you monitor someone or something in your care, or as you await the arrival of someone important or a significant event. To be watchful is to be alert to things around you as you live your daily life. The Bible warns us to be vigilant by closely watching the activity of the devil, mortifying all vulnerabilities to temptation, looking out for the enemy’s wily attacks and being ever prepared for the return of our Lord Jesus Christ. Our watchfulness should begin with the words of Proverbs 4:23, which says:

“Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”

The Holy Spirit refers to this as renewing the mind in Romans 12:2, which is best done by filling our minds with the undiluted words of God (Hebrews 4:12). Having set a watch over the thoughts and imaginations of our hearts, we then need to bridle our tongue in order not to sin with it (James 1:26, 1 Peter 3:10). Finally, 1 Peter 4:7 says:

“But the end of all things is at hand: be ye therefore sober, and watch unto prayer.”

As Christians in these last days, we are called to watch unto prayers more than ever before.

Why do we need to be watchful? The Holy Spirit answers this in 1 Peter 5:8, which says:

“Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:”

Let us follow the example of our Lord, who took the need to be watchful seriously in the last hour before His sufferings began. Knowing what was about to happen to Him, He was so sorrowful and decided to take His disciples to have a private moment at the Garden of Gethsemane. It was at this retreat that Jesus gave His disciples the sure antidote to temptation. He said in Matthew 26:41:

“Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

We are therefore called to be alert to dangers which can erode and shipwreck our faith in Christ such as false teachings, worldliness, love of money, inordinate ambition, sinful pleasure, sexual immorality and all other works of the flesh. Complacency or failure to watch can be very dangerous indeed. It led to the sudden death of Abel, who was killed by a brother who spoke peacefully with him in one minute but rose up to kill him in the next (Genesis 4:cool. Sanballat and Tobiah, the enemies of the Jews, would have successfully terminated Nehemiah’s building project if not for watchfulness (Nehemiah 4). I pray that God will expose every activity of the enemy in your like and family today in Jesus’ Name.

Open Heaven 16 June 2019 Sunday Prayer Point:
Father, as You did with Elisha, help me to always be one step ahead of my enemies, in Jesus’ Name (2 Kings 6:8-12).
Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by Nobody: 7:41am On Jun 16, 2019
obiekunie2:
see mumu!


them dey offer you paradise on a platter of gold you dey reject am!


some men sha! cheesy




bros abeg send me her number shaperly let me help you tell her to cover herself!

na beg i dey beg! cheesy undecided
vagina is not a paradise

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Re: My Wife's Sister Is About To Crash My Marriage, Please Help by kenx1(m): 7:42am On Jun 16, 2019
Bro it's better you tell ur wife, I hv been in this same situation... This kind of temptation can ruin ur marriage!!

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