budaatum:

Don't insult his heart, please! He does not think at all!

Abeg, op. She definitely needs another 500k. She will pay it all back yesterday.

lilwetdick:


as usual, they will always put out their resume as a street guy

you call yourself a street guy and a woman deceive you and you are laughing there, funny enough, you still want to put the woman in your house as wife, you will be poor soon, so you are proud as a man that you have a irresponsible girl as a future wife, you are indeed a street sissy who love been manipulated all in the name of love, you cant even set her straight and you call yourself a man, continuing laughing there until you laugh into brokeness and poverty.

flokii:
@OP your mumu is legendary..

And if you check well now, na one street guy dey collect the money still dey yarnsh the babe.

Sha be careful so they don't gang up to attack or even kill you.

Godoverevery:

well you are free to make fun out of it......but you are totally wrong with the heart thing......it matter of helping and supporting someone......Wen good people with good heart goes bad....is people like dat call them wicked but mock there gud heart previously.

budaatum:

Of course I'm free to make fun of you lol. Especially as I've done the same many times over and at a greater cost and I continue to do so despite so many burnings. Or do you think you have a monopoly on not thinking? There's only one difference between you and I though.

Once someone burns me like you have been burnt, I don't call the police on them, I call police on myself for being so gullible and just move on to the next person because I understand that I will kiss many frogs before I find a prince so I just move on from the frogs that kiss me. It sure would cost me more if I don't.

Ah, but forget all that. 500k please. Her whatsapp isn't receiving your calls and she's asked me to collect it for her.

Godoverevery:

lol......wish D's place is only meant for matured men and women....I mean people who aiin't still under there parent .....
people who haven't started life .....dat ow I see some fools who are still in there teens/people who aiin't married commenting about marriages..... advising them what to do...... you don't talk about things you av no experience of...only fools do that...when you get to that level of fiancée things you will understand...... enjoy ur bf/gf level.

Godoverevery:

lol......wish D's place is only meant for matured men and women....I mean people who aiin't still under there parent .....
people who haven't started life .....dat ow I see some fools who are still in there teens/people who aiin't married commenting about marriages..... advising them what to do...... you don't talk about things you av no experience of...only fools do that...when you get to that level of fiancée things you will understand...... enjoy ur bf/gf level.

nwanneni:
Dem dey borrow woman money
Brother weh never still wise
The moment you ask me for loan,nne k leg don dey enter the relationship oo

Godoverevery:

wish I listened bro.....but d most funniest thing is am not angry as am supposed to be...... like have just been laffing has my guys dey para here.

Godoverevery:

Mumu botton you say.....bro I be confirm street I was born and brought up in mushin Lagos....I finished from lautech....so I no be Mumu Wen it comes to ladies.
I have dated alot of ladies dat if you ask me start counting I won't even remember some.
But a man get to a stage in life were you have to move Into dat level of having a family and building a home.....my intention is to marry her early next year.....so I knew wat I was doing not like I was fooled....maybe that why am not angry.

Godoverevery:

lol...... well D's is coming from a kid who 150k seems like a big money too......Wen God bless you bro you will see things in another way.
FYI been street doesn't mean you sud av a fiancée and not been able to assist her financially bro if you have it......only poor guys will see dat as a big deal.....it was my friends dat wanted to cause trouble not me cos as for me am bigger than that man.....I didn't lose at all.....she already no wat she has lost in her life and she already begging.

Godoverevery:
Hi everyone.... just need your veiw if am doing the right thing.
I started dating my current gf last December and it have been alot of up and few down........what really happened was Wen we met she just lost her job so I felt like helping her out so I came up with the idea of her doing a business of her own were we can both benefit....so one of my friend gave me a link to were she can pick perfumes ,body spray and female slippers in bulk at cheap prices and resale since she knows lot of people due to her friendly nature.
After discussing with her and she accepted so I sent her 100k around feburary ds year to start and got her a new phone has well cos d one she was using was bad so she can also advertise online.....sales was good according to her........fast forward to April
I just felt like knowing if she was keeping the money in her account as she Claimed so i asked her to come give account of the sales cos I told her we will share the gains between ourselves becos i didn't want her to lose track and be financially reackless ........she did the account and it good sales......i now asked her to send me the capital back...to my surprise
She said she sorry that her dad was in need of cash and was depressed so she borrow him 80k out of the money......I was really angry cos she didn't tell me before doing it so alot of drama happened..... after begging she said her dad will give her back d cash ending of last month...... ending came she started begging again dat I should give her till mid this month.....last week she started begging again I should give her till ending of D's month.

Ds were I need you guys help.....I love the gal if God permit I want to marry her.
Her birthday is on Friday and I av plans of celebrating it on Sunday with few friends at a nice lounge....(get cake, wristwatch with set of nice panties has gift).
But has I was making order for the wristwatch D's afternoon at work something in me just ask if am sure am doing the right thing and ever since I am really thinking I should just cancel the plan.... because what she did with the business money really hurt and I find it difficult to trust her.

Pls am I doing the right thing celebrating her birthday or I should just cancel it....thanks

Godoverevery:

bro I can't deny I love her......but am not blinded by love.... have made her gone through alot from last month till now for doing that rubbish .....I use my head before my heart.
Anyway thanks ur point noted.

Godoverevery:

wish I listened bro.....but d most funniest thing is am not angry as am supposed to be...... like have just been laffing has my guys dey para here.

Godoverevery:

lol...... well D's is coming from a kid who 150k seems like a big money too......Wen God bless you bro you will see things in another way.
FYI been street doesn't mean you sud av a fiancée and not been able to assist her financially bro if you have it......only poor guys will see dat as a big deal.....it was my friends dat wanted to cause trouble not me cos as for me am bigger than that man.....I didn't lose at all.....she already no wat she has lost in her life and she already begging.

budaatum:

Lol! I'm only 12years old, where please can I possibly have gotten the kind of sense that make you not think? It's not as if one were born with it, or were you?

But that's of no matter. Send me the 500k for her please. She said she will only use a tiny bit to get a new whatsapp that will receive your call and she will pay back last week.

budaatum:

This was you in that thread lying that you use your head and not your heart when the truth is you use neither your head nor your heart and you now have the audacity to insult me because I'm only 12 yrs old! I swear if my 12 year old sense no pass your own however old you may be!

But don't mind me. Her whatsapp is not working. Let me know about that 500k she told me to get for her from you. I can come in the morning to collect it wherever you are.

budaatum:

This was you in that thread lying that you use your head and not your heart when the truth is you use neither your head nor your heart and you now have the audacity to insult me because I'm only 12 yrs old! I swear if my 12 year old sense no pass your own however old you may be!

But don't mind me. Her whatsapp is not working. Let me know about that 500k she told me to get for her from you. I can come in the morning to collect it wherever you are.

anthonyuncle:
that money is gone.

it's obvious she's a wasteful person and she don't have u in her future plans.

u should be grateful to God that u realised dz on time.

plz, just allow da sleeping dog to continue it's sleep & move on with ur life

lilwetdick:


150k is a big money for many families in nigeria.

If you really work for your money. You wont be throwing it away..any form of mismanagement will be like a blow to you.

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things
I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends are her's at a lounge(paid all the bills).

so the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised too produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my account as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.
this new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.
On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).
so I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

my friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
they are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly ...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

alphaNomega:


From what I've read about the guy he does not take advice.

He will call police to lock her up and will still be the one to pay for her bail after spending money to open case, fuel for motor etc etc

Don't bother advising the guy. Maga no dey hear word.

nwanneni:
Dem dey borrow woman money
Brother weh never still wise
The moment you ask me for loan,nne k leg don dey enter the relationship oo