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dingbang:
It seems you clearly don't have any idea on what to use money for.

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my accounts as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

Godoverevery:
wish I listened bro.....but d most funniest thing is am not angry as am supposed to be...... like have just been laffing has my guys dey para here.

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my accounts as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

Oyindidi:
The most stupid boyfriend award goes to....


You celebrated her birthday with your friends and hers. Bought cake, wrist watch and took care of all the bills. All these should be up to 20/30k and the said lady is owing you 100k. You later gave her 50k and you're demanding for you money now. All I see is a stupid lover

Godoverevery:
Baba I hardly even bleep her..... just loved her naturally ...... not dat am very rich but I could still afford to help someone I intend to marry with some money to get something doing but see wat it turned out to be....dat why I get pissed Wen ladies say some guys are stingy......after D's Will i ever want to help any other dat come my way and not be stingy.

donziggyman:
This is why I have to back off on my own mission with this babe I met only.


Thinking about my previous relationshit I have to back off cuz it's better use kerosene burn the money to ashes than sacrificing for an average Nigerian lady. 99% of them if not 100% are ingrate. Ungrateful bigs with rotten smelling holes in between their legs.

Spits

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my accounts as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

Op, Behave yourself!
Why are you asking if you should get her arrested?
You are too STTTUUUPPPIIIIDDD to arrest anyone.

Let me guess, your middle name is "Pussy-whipped"? its men like you that make women say men are babies.

If l hear peem from you again...thunder fire that your brainless head, Muugu.

Oyindidi:
The most stupid boyfriend award goes to....


You celebrated her birthday with your friends and hers. Bought cake, wrist watch and took care of all the bills. All these should be up to 20/30k and the said lady is owing you 100k. You later gave her 50k and you're demanding for you money now. All I see is a stupid lover

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my accounts as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

Mariangeles:
My advice would be that you be patient with her .
It truly might not be her fault, because as it is, times are hard.

She might have been optimistic and excited about the business plan but things didn't turn out the way she had hoped .

What you should do is give her the benefit of the doubt, try to listen to her calmly and she might open up to you .
She might be facing some difficulties as it is, and the thought of not being able to meet up with the deadline you gave her might be stressing her the hell out .

What you should do now is to ignore your friends' advice and those of nairalanders that are telling you to go attack her, go to her and discuss things calmly.
Assure her of you understanding her, and she'll open up to you about the struggles she might have been facing.

You should even be proud of her and encourage her not to give up irrespective ...

Mariangeles:
My advice would be that you be patient with her .
It truly might not be her fault, because as it is, times are hard.

She might have been optimistic and excited about the business plan but things didn't turn out the way she had hoped .

What you should do is give her the benefit of the doubt, try to listen to her calmly and she might open up to you .
She might be facing some difficulties as it is, and the thought of not being able to meet up with the deadline you gave her might be stressing her the hell out .

What you should do now is to ignore your friends' advice and those of nairalanders that are telling you to go attack her, go to her and discuss things calmly.
Assure her of you understanding her, and she'll open up to you about the struggles she might have been facing .

You should even be proud of her and encourage her not to give up irrespective ...

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my accounts as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

Excuzeme:
Waht is this one saying?
Did you even read the story or you just skipped where he said "She told him th emoney is with her friend and she has asked her to deposit it into the bank"?

Which one is times are hard, it is not her fault, things did nt turn out bla bla bla?

SMH sef.

MrMcJay:
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I actually don't pity the OP. Since he refused to take intelligent advice, thank you for contributing your dumb advice to the OP also.

Thanks for your advice jare. May your brothers meet girls like the OP's girl.

Amyyy2020:
ur babe is a not a biz person. u shuld know dat by now na, some pple r just like dat. XO, instead of financing her to do biz which she obviously cant, encourage her to learn a trade instead, dats d way forward.

I dont knw wat u saw in her b4 proposing to marry her, buh u sure saw something good. This money ish shuldnt cancel out every of her goodnez. apply wisdom nd u will b alryt, dats if u r still interested in the relationship sha.

Arresting her wont produce ur money as u wish...nd from ur writeup, u sure dont think its cool, xo dont do it nd dont let ur friends hype u into it

BONUS: My mum tot me a wisdom on lending pple money; U LEND ONLY DAT WHICH U CAN FORFIET...dats if u r a peace-lover like me. Xo next tym, be guided
Gracias

Mariangeles:
You are so shameless!

jeffrey1596:
For her mind now ehn, she go believe say she don smart bu blocking you. same thing happened to me last year but in all honesty i wanted to murder someone for trying to outsmart me. i trusted the bitch and she did exactly the same thing to me. I'm jist waiting patiently for that day where I'll receive that "hi boo". person go die, ajeh to gp

MrMcJay:
Your post is a reflection of your IQ.