dirtycoin:



The correct spelling is 'fiancee'

Awon spelling spirits unah weldon

hatbricker:
Think I remember clearly, I advised you not to do any birthday for her but you still proceeded with it. I'm saving my advice this time

La give advice la bend.....lol bro respect...

Straight up reply......

cy4eve:
why give wat you can't let go......since she's not d sincere type, just 4get about d money, relationship nd move on with ur life. Let go abeg

See her mouth....yin yin yin yin....trash!!! if he is your brother will you say this.....?

flokii:
@OP your mumu is legendary..

And if you check well now, na one street guy dey collect the money still dey yarnsh the babe.

Sha be careful so they don't gang up to attack or even kill you.

My thoughts though

Skmoda360:

See her mouth....yin yin yin yin....trash!!! if he is your brother will you say this.....?

I will do more, if he keeps been irresponsible

bestdudes:
you are the one ignorant cos next time do not blame a guy who refuse to "take care" of you.

are u even ohk at all, wox wrong with ur damn brain?, y encourage a guy to b irresponsible, even if he's gettn the money on a platter does not mean he should lavish on a gal. better tell d dude to wake up.

wait..didn't you guys read what I read? what if all she said was true? o.p calling her a liar wasn't right.. haba a gal you claim you want to marry..what if truly all she said was true? well, I didn't read your previous thread so maybe I shouldn't meddle. but what if you're in her shoes and she called you a liar straight up.. you'ud be furious and might also block her too..been in that situation b4 , the money was there but pushing it to her was the problem. she was patient and it got to her later

Una fit make this guy go commit suicide with the kind comments I dey see here so . Abeg we all know say the na mumu but sofree sofree with the comments abeg

I understand you perfectly; count it as a pay off.

dirtycoin:



The correct spelling is 'fiancee'

That's wrong bro; "Fiancée" is the right one.


One love bro.

Starkid3010:
baba show her
Let her know that you are not a fool
If you just leave her she will think she is smart
She blocked you
Because of your own money
And you no get angry
Baba this girl don charm you
Better do something before she kills you........
If she can lie ,argue and block she can also kill

LMAOO You sha want make this guy commit

Engine005:


That's wrong bro; "Fiancée" is the right one.


One love bro.

You are right with the spelling. I do not have the first 'e' on my phone's keypad.

Dont let go oh. Do all you have in your power to teach her a bitter lesson, within the confines of the law though. Else, she could take her scamming business to the next level. We dont want that, do we?

folake4u:






Hahahaha

for real o ... By the way I Wanna gift you a bag... Delivery at your cost.. You wan it? Holla on IG

yettymuse:
for real o ... By the way I Wanna gift you a bag... Delivery at your cost.. You wan it? Holla on IG

Omg Aunty yetty! Jeez! .


I want oh. no problem about the delivery.

Thank you, thank you, thank you! .

Godoverevery:

oooo is my fault for sincerely helping........why did I give wat I can't let go??.....I didn't even see were you condemn her actions..... well am not surprised dat why most of you end up having broken marriage and becoming single mothers becos you never condemn each other bad behaviours.

My problem with you is that you have not learnt anything from the comments. And you may make the same mistakes with the same or another lady.

obekediamondfuto:



oooooh your story is about to repeat itself.... literally!
I smell it already

What's this one saying Were you referring to the Op?

denitro:
Most loans are made with close friends and relatives on a handshake, but that may not be enough to make it legally collectable. Agreements regarding certain amounts of money or that have repayment terms that exceed a certain period of time must be in writing or will run afoul of the statute of frauds. The statute of frauds mandates that certain agreements must be in writing or they are unenforceable. As a result, a handshake agreement with a friend or relative that is not in writing could lead to an inability to legally enforce the agreement for repayment.

By law, if there was no written agreement in relation to the loan, she has committed no crime according to the law. Your only option will be to beg for your money or forget it. The reason is that she can claim the money was a gift and they will believe her because if you have loaned money to someone and the person defaults, you don't issue another loan except the 1st and 2nd monies were gifts and the relationship has gone bad and she is being blackmailed to return the money.
N.B: I believe you, but the law will look for evidence of a loan and once there is no evidence, the tables will be turned on you.
Don't complicate things by listening to foolish friends wwho have no idea of the law and how things operate in a civilised society

OP should clarify if there's a social medium correspondence as to whether she was meant to repay. I want that money retrieved. The process is cumbersome but would make OP stronger.

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my accounts as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

your friends r 100% correct. Diplomacy nd decorum is for respectful nd considerate people and not selfcentered ingrates. This girl is a liar and senselessly selfish. All u r to her is a cashsource. She doesnt think or take time out to ponder on ur goodness to her or the ramifications of her actions. So reason wont work on her-only force.

asalimpo:

your friends r 100% correct. Diplomacy nd decorum is for respectful nd considerate people and not selfcentered ingrates. This girl is a liar and senselessly selfish. All u r to her is a cashsource. She doesnt think or take time out to ponder on ur goodness to her or the ramifications of her actions. So reason wont work on her-only force.

men are know to be practice polygamy from time ago, and the funny think right nw is dat it is one innocent gullible brother that will put her inside the hux,
thank God, god exposed her by revealing her tru character,


my advice to all male in the hux date as much lady as u can date,becus experience will help u on a long run,
it is ovious the OP has not been on much date b4,
if d said lady had sense, she would have turned down the money the guy was presenting to her wen she hasn't had the first one,

and the op was not sharp enough, the girl never give u ur first money, u still send another one, na wa for d op ooo

but truth b told many ladies really miss their helpers sha,in the name of materials tins that eventually fade away

larryking540:


men are know to be practice polygamy from time ago, and the funny think right nw is dat it is one innocent gullible brother that will put her inside the hux,
thank God, god exposed her by revealing her tru character,


my advice to all male in the hux date as much lady as u can date,becus experience will help u on a long run,
it is ovious the OP has not been on much date b4,
if d said lady had sense, she would have turned down the money the guy was presenting to her wen she hasn't had the first one,

and the op was not sharp enough, the girl never give u ur first money, u still send another one, na wa for d op ooo

but truth b told many ladies really miss their helpers sha,in the name of materials tins that eventually fade away

You are really funny bro.....if am to count .....I think I have dated more than 15 ladies both serious and unserious relationship excluding the one nite ladies(dat I can't even recollect all of them) so I think I av got experience a lil went it comes to ladies.

one thing I have realised in me is that ladies I love always Bleep up but the one dat loves me i Bleep dem up.
I av a lady a while back dat was ready to be dropping her salary every month for us to build a home together.... like she did everything possible but I just don't feel anything for her..... you guys think I was a Mumu or a fool but you all are totally wrong....I did it all with my brain intact and am glad I did it during the courtship and not after marriage....

cy4eve:
can u imagine, abeg am not the cause of ya misfortune, wen d luv d shake u, u did not call us oh, now u want pity party, my dear u deserve more of wat u got, b glad she's a Nyc gal for letting u go.

You behave like an ashawo wey go like juju die

cy4eve:
are u even ohk at all, wox wrong with ur damn brain?, y encourage a guy to b irresponsible, even if he's gettn the money on a platter does not mean he should lavish on a gal. better tell d dude to wake up.

I don't know wat is ur problem actually but I think maybe you are jealous.....Av been reading all ur post and dey all sound foolish.....is not my fault you don't have a man in ur life who can spend on you because I don't understand why you carry another person matter for head like a slowpoke.....Na ur money or any of ur family member.....I decide whatever I want to do with my money.....if you think helping my fiancée is irresponsible of me and you are really pained ....send me ur ACC number let transfer you money to get sniper.

Godoverevery:

I don't know wat is ur problem actually but I think maybe you are jealous.....Av been reading all ur post and dey all sound foolish.....is not my fault you don't have a man in ur life who can spend on you because I don't understand why you carry another person matter for head like a slowpoke.....Na ur money or any of ur family member.....I decide whatever I want to do with my money.....if you think helping my fiancée is irresponsible of me and you are really pained ....send me ur ACC number let transfer you money to get sniper.

like you have the money.........broke asssss

cy4eve:
like you have the money.........broke asssss

Lol.....am broke but I can still afford to get you sniper my dear...... learn to mind ur bleeping business ...am sure you ain't married yet at ur age i expected dat problem is enough to keep you busy but still you can't face and mind ur problems.... Don't worry I will send you the pic of me taking her out D's weekend so you can feel more bitter old fool.....

Godoverevery:

Lol.....am broke but I can still afford to get you sniper my dear...... learn to mind ur bleeping business ...am sure you ain't married yet at ur age i expected dat problem is enough to keep you busy but still you can't face and mind ur problems.... Don't worry I will send you the pic of me taking her out D's weekend so you can feel more bitter old fool.....

oh oh...so sorry, I Neva knew u re dis pained for getting the truth....if u know ur still very much interested in the so called relationship, y cry lyk a baby for advice, y bring ur relationship to social media, all this chewing gum bois tryna fit in. Ammature

cy4eve:
oh oh...so sorry, I Neva knew u re dis pained for getting the truth....if u know ur still very much interested in the so called relationship, y cry lyk a baby for advice, y bring ur relationship to social media, all this chewing gum bois tryna fit in. Ammature

I no English can be sometimes hard..... I posted the thread so some people can learn from my mistake not for any advice from frustrated old ladies like you.....first get a man to marry so you will stop making a fool of yourself over people relationship issues and life..... menopause is not far away ooo anuty

Godoverevery:

Lol.....am broke but I can still afford to get you sniper my dear...... learn to mind ur bleeping business ...am sure you ain't married yet at ur age i expected dat problem is enough to keep you busy but still you can't face and mind ur problems.... Don't worry I will send you the pic of me taking her out D's weekend so you can feel more bitter old fool.....

Chaii..Bros be nice small na

izaray:
Chaii..Bros be nice small na

honestly all her comments are very annoying....first telling me she didn't cause my misfortune (on top wetin) and now saying my actions are irresponsible over a money belonging to me and non of her family member.....I believe she pained and wish was the one.......Am not surprised she still single at her age by there fruit we no them.......is ladies like D's old idiot that will be screaming there bf/husband is stingy or wicked if he refuse to help them financially.

Godoverevery:

I no English can be sometimes hard..... I posted the thread so some people can learn from my mistake not for any advice from frustrated old ladies like you.....first get a man to marry so you will stop making a fool of yourself over people relationship issues and life..... menopause is not far away ooo anuty

What lesson do u want promising pple to get from ur miserable nd frustrated relationship?. the last tym I checked it was a question not a story ape brain, how I wish am half ur age

Godoverevery:

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

We took you to frontpage so more people can tell you to learn from your own mistake but look!

Godoverevery:

Lol.....am broke but I can still afford to get you sniper my dear...... learn to mind ur bleeping business ...am sure you ain't married yet at ur age i expected dat problem is enough to keep you busy but still you can't face and mind ur problems.... Don't worry I will send you the pic of me taking her out D's weekend so you can feel more bitter old fool.....

You be legend now she said ₦10M don't bother with repayment.

cy4eve:
Ignorance is a disease, try work on urself

hypocrisy is also a disease try and cure your self