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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 8:59pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
desvi: You find the statement that every woman must strive to marry good men disrespectful? Interesting. 4 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:00pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
doitforyou: like sassysure's, your examples are very apt too thank you! it was a mass hysteria in the 60s, what would become of the world? what has changed? it has become much better my great-grandmother, my grandmother and my mother agree they repeat over and over again how happy they are I do not have to live through the struggles of the past I would not go back 4 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:02pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
desvi: Porn industry is male dominated how? Are the women forced to participate? Everyone tangles for people's entertainment while they make their cool cash. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:02pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
bukatyne: I find your demeanor on the whole very disrespectful but I am sure you choose to be provocative so it shouldn't surprise you 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 9:03pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
doitforyou: Only “the blind” cannot see. This thread just exposed her COMPLETELY. People cried to have it deleted. The title alone neither tickles my curiosity nor motivated my fingers to open the thread. I just felt like . . . *jump am pass*. It was only after the thread was deleted I realized she actually opened another thread to question why the thread was deleted. Seriously? I would rather listen to a “GAGGLE OF GAFFING 20-somethings” PUBLICLY discussing their sexual binges in a movie theater, than click on that nauseating thread about “marital rape” Look at who is writing about DECORUM? Muchechecheche LWKMD!!!! 6 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by doitforyou(f): 9:03pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
crack house said nothing he lacked comprehension, just as you are doing now. we are railing against double standard in society nothing about women wanting be negative or whatever. You are also making an erroneous comparison between a choice without victims and a choice with victims. One is a personal choice the other one is a crime. I have not seen anybody encouraging crime here. Omoluabi16: 5 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:04pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
sassysure: Leave marriage out of the discussion, it is a different space. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:04pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
bukatyne: it's run by men 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:07pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
ThothHermes: am just not interested in copy&paste opinions |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 9:09pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
desvi:This is even more pitiable than the first excuse. 1 Like |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:11pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra: Hahahaha My titles are growing Feminist, anti-feminist, misogynist, fanatic, Feminazi, divorce advocate etc. Some things might be offensive yet objective. For instance, if you warn a girl to be careful whom she opens her legs for because she bears the burden of pregnancy, it is offensive yet objective. I love women and would expect them to be willing to face the consequences of their actions. When they do not like the consequences of their actions, I am all for going back to the drawing board. Let's see what was obtainable before and tweak it to work today. That has actually been the driving force of most of my threads. The society outside is different from Nairaland. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:12pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:14pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
desvi: @Secondly, reminds me of the proverb I quoted in a post. My obsession with sex on public display is repulsive while those loud about it are not? |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:14pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
Omoluabi16: Very. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Omoluabi16(m): 9:15pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
doitforyou:choice or crime, my position was on how society reacted to it. Crime is bad, as are some choices. We are all victims of our choices..a reality I believe you understand. Whatever I typed, I tried as much not to narrow it to everyone's favourite men vs women topic of discussion. Men..women are all members of a wider society, and indeed societal values are failing. I don't see the need to pander to just anything. I feel some of us are too much in a hurry to dispose of our systens which has defined us since life began. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:16pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra: I have no idea about any misogynistic outlets. They would not even come near me. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by essenceplus: 9:17pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
bukatyne: Don't mind them sister bukky |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by doitforyou(f): 9:19pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
There is nothing wrong with that!!!!! that is the point of all our mentions to you, because you don't like something doesn't mean you shouldn't give others space to enjoy it if they like it. She doesn't have to want one to respect the choice of her friend getting one. it's just simple! bukatyne: 3 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:19pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
bukatyne: didn't say so you too shall be free in expressing your nymphomania don't mind me it's a free world |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by spongeisback: 9:20pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
Wrong! Wrong! Wrong! The Romans used to organise orgies on the street. Even in Nigeria in the olden days sex parties wasn't unheard of. Social media just made the world smaller and we get to hear of things that normally we would not. I've never seen anyone anywhere organising orgies in public in this modern time. bukatyne: 6 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by dingbang(m): 9:20pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
bukatyne:very true. But I these days, society tends to have a higher power in influencing children. Remember that the Bible says in the latter days, son will rise against father, etc. So to me I feel its more like what is happening now is trying to fulfill what is written in the bible. People no longer care about morals, they just do whatever they like and all that. Its just scriptural and there is nothing that we can do that will fight it. If you try to cage a child , you will see that the child will spoil more than a child that is set free. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 9:21pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
bukatyne: Great! Your tithes can only grow from PSYCHOS! That is why we have so many ofege-pastors all over Africa. Please, let me find the BEST REPLY I got from that your “deleted thread rebuttal”. Baby-doll? You are NO FRIEND to any free-thinking woman. I could write pages, but do not wish to make this personal. Especially as you are now feeling real “fly”. It practically summed up what I feel like writing. Here goes: merahki: This was so deeeeeep, I felt it for you. Please, accept it in good faith. It will do you a lot of good prior to copying and pasting “shyte” all over NL and other social media. 6 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:23pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
desvi: How can I preach to my brothers when I am a sister? My dear, I have never cared about the agreement or disagreement of a cactus here or in my life. I am a very objective person and states it as it is. If you go through my posts and thread, you would know that I am NOT a politically correct person. I would also not give an advise that I can not follow because I am a woman of my words and everywhere I go/am is a projection of who I am in part. Funny thing is that one or two women would come in, read and pick whatever they want to and that's fine with me. Even Jesus Christ who shed His blood did not save everyone. @ I encourage rape: is that's what you got from the thread, then good for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:26pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
doitforyou: Interesting. He would have sense to make the best decision for himself aka marry a better girl. Also interesting you think for every girl who decides to sleep around, ten are willing to wait till their wedding night. A part of you wish your brother picks from that pool right? 1 Like |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 9:27pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
bukatyne: Hmmmmm! Homework for the class. Question of da day: What would Lucifer say to the world. Answer : I am not a DEVIL. 100% pass mark! 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:28pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
desvi: My demeanor disrespectful? I didn't write the OP even though I agree very much with it. That women should pick good husband? Disrespectful? That women should be decent, ladylike and have decorum disrespectful? 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ibkayee(f): 9:28pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
bukatyne:Lol 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:30pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
desvi: And women are so light brained to resist? Where the women forced to act or join? Omo, it is real hustle. Men might have built it to satisfy men however the women are willing participants. 1 Like |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:33pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
doitforyou: Hmmmm mm! There is a difference between overlooking a tattoo and flattering the wearer. The former is letting people be, the latter is encouraging people to do what you wouldn't or consider wrong. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:33pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
bukatyne: is there some unwritten law that states that you can't address them? they are all over the place here preaching to us too so what stops you? since your mission is a better society, you should consider the other 50%. it would also lend you more credibility among the female folk there is a thread here in the séxuality section, the contents quite shocking, I must say and I am not easily impressed men share all kind of sexual escapades and what STDs they have already had but I have never seen you there My dear, I have never cared about the agreement or disagreement of a cactus here or in my life. I know it is en vogue to be not politically correct though people understand different thing when they use these words but that's a different topic I do not consider you objective at all, you are very much influenced by personal feelings and beliefs I would also not give an advise that I can not follow because I am a woman of my words and everywhere I go/am is a projection of who I am in part. see, this is why you are not objective but it's good you give only advice you believe in and I am sure you try to give people the advice you would give a sister the problem is that you give a lot of unsolicited advice in a rather disrespectful way there are better ways for sure Funny thing is that one or two women would come in, read and pick whatever they want to and that's fine with me. true, even me Even Jesus Christ who shed His blood did not save everyone. are you comparing yourself to Jesus now? @ I encourage rape: is that's what you got from the thread, then good for you. let's not go there 5 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:33pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by doitforyou(f): 9:33pm On Jun 20, 2019 |
Comprehension and context. Sense: synonyms - awareness, feeling, perception etc. I would hope he would have sense (ability to identify) to make a decision that is best for him. Best is the key word, I don't know what is best for him. The girl that sleeps around might be best for him who knows? There are men that married former prostitutes (best for them) and went on to have a happy marriage. As I said a virgin wife can still be unfaithful. Yea it might blow your mind but the world is that huge to accommodate the diversity of women without triggering Armageddon. Just do you and leave other women. bukatyne: 2 Likes 1 Share |
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