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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:34pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:


And women are so light brained to resist?

Where the women forced to act or join?

Omo, it is real hustle. grin

Men might have built it to satisfy men however the women are willing participants.

nobody said so
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:35pm On Jun 20, 2019
dingbang:
very true. But I these days, society tends to have a higher power in influencing children. Remember that the Bible says in the latter days, son will rise against father, etc. So to me I feel its more like what is happening now is trying to fulfill what is written in the bible. People no longer care about morals, they just do whatever they like and all that. Its just scriptural and there is nothing that we can do that will fight it. If you try to cage a child , you will see that the child will spoil more than a child that is set free.

Caging kids never works, they will mingle with the kids of parents who don't care.

Actively teaching them and practicing in their presence would work better.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:38pm On Jun 20, 2019
KanwuliaExtra:



Great!
Your tithes can only grow from PSYCHOS! cheesy
That is why we have so many ofege-pastors all over Africa.

Please, let me find the BEST REPLY I got from that your “deleted thread rebuttal”.

Baby-doll? You are NO FRIEND to any free-thinking woman. kiss I could write pages, but do not wish to make this personal. Especially as you are now felling real “fly”. wink

It practically summed up what I feel like writing.

If by 'free thinking' you mean people with lose morals, you are very right.

I am no friend to any man or woman who equates liberation and freedom to a life without morals.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:39pm On Jun 20, 2019
KanwuliaExtra:


Hmmmmm!
Homework for the class.
Question of da day:
What would Lucifer say to the world.

Answer : I am not a DEVIL.

100% pass mark! grin

I actually chuckled reading this.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:39pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:


My demeanor disrespectful?

I didn't write the OP even though I agree very much with it.

That women should pick good husband? Disrespectful?

That women should be decent, ladylike and have decorum disrespectful?

again!
it was an example!

@bold
yes!
because this is a choice everyone must make for themselves
we are all different and that's a strength and not a weakness
yet you act like you are morally superior
and come off as mrs-know-it-all
you have even just compared yourself to Jesus you see cheesy

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 9:43pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:


If by 'free thinking' you mean people with lose morals, you are very right.

I am no friend to any man or woman who equates liberation and freedom to a life without morals.

To be frank, I’d rather take people with “lose morals”, than those with SATANIC MORALS.

Lose morals only requires maturity to rectify, with people who are only emotionally-lost, or
searching for peace and salvation. Their actions can be entertaining, harmless, self-inflicted and VERY EASILY FORGIVEN. kiss They often know no better. Purely “experimenting” for a better understanding of life. kiss

Satanic morals? No redemption, only eternal DAMNATION! Pure EVIL. If YOU WERE A PASTOR, I will not only stay FAAAAAAR away from you, but also from your MUMUliciius congregants like CRACKHOUSE as well. cheesy

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by doitforyou(f): 9:48pm On Jun 20, 2019
She is not encouraging anything, she doesn't care one way or the other because it's not her skin, she was being polite saying she liked it. In which language does "I like it" mean "do it"

bukatyne:


Hmmmm mm!

There is a difference between overlooking a tattoo and flattering the wearer

The former is letting people be, the latter is encouraging people to do what you wouldn't or consider wrong.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:50pm On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:


is there some unwritten law that states that you can't address them?
they are all over the place here preaching to us too so what stops you?
since your mission is a better society, you should consider the other 50%.
it would also lend you more credibility among the female folk
there is a thread here in the séxuality section, the contents quite shocking, I must say and I am not easily impressed
men share all kind of sexual escapades and what STDs they have already had but I have never seen you there



I know it is en vogue to be not politically correct though people understand different thing when they use these words but that's a different topic
I do not consider you objective at all, you are very much influenced by personal feelings and beliefs



see, this is why you are not objective wink
but it's good you give only advice you believe in and I am sure you try to give people the advice you would give a sister
the problem is that you give a lot of unsolicited advice in a rather disrespectful way
there are better ways for sure



true, even me wink




are you comparing yourself to Jesus now? cheesy



let's not go there

You see, the fact that a lot of men open threads about women doesn't I should open a thread about guys even though I have one or two addressed to them.

Rather, tell the men to open a thread about themselves.

The question you should ask yourself is that 'how many times does bukatyne visit the sexuality section? Did bukatyne comment on the thread in question without correcting the OP' ? Objectivity.

The fact that I am influenced by my beliefs and religion offline should tell you that I am me.

If I stopped you on the way and told you to be decent in a rude manner, I would agree I am giving unsolicited advice.

A thread you read the OP, didn't like and still engaged this much? You are enjoying yourself. You are enjoying this unsolicited advise on your own volition and you have the liberty and freedom to jump and pass.

I wouldn't dare compare myself.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:50pm On Jun 20, 2019
doitforyou:
Comprehension and context. Sense: synonyms - awareness, feeling, perception etc. I would hope he would have sense (ability to identify) to make a decision that is best for him. Best is the key word, I don't know what is best for him. The girl that sleeps around might be best for him who knows? There are men that married former prostitutes (best for them) and went on to have a happy marriage. As I said a virgin wife can still be unfaithful.

Yea it might blow your mind but the world is that huge to accommodate the diversity of women without triggering Armageddon. Just do you and leave other women.


cheesy smiley cheesy smiley

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:52pm On Jun 20, 2019
doitforyou:
Comprehension and context. Sense: synonyms - awareness, feeling, perception etc. I would hope he would have sense (ability to identify) to make a decision that is best for him. Best is the key word, I don't know what is best for him. The girl that sleeps around might be best for him who knows? There are men that married former prostitutes (best for them) and went on to have a happy marriage. As I said a virgin wife can still be unfaithful.

Yea it might blow your mind but the world is that huge to accommodate the diversity of women without triggering Armageddon. Just do you and leave other women.


You brought virginity into this discussion and a virgin wife can cheat.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:53pm On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:


nobody said so

Good.

So forget about the porn industry been male dominated.

No one is held hostage.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:54pm On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:


again!
it was an example!

@bold
yes!
because this is a choice everyone must make for themselves
we are all different and that's a strength and not a weakness
yet you act like you are morally superior
and come off as mrs-know-it-all
you have even just compared yourself to Jesus you see cheesy








I compared myself to Jesus really?

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:55pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:


You see, the fact that a lot of men open threads about women doesn't I should open a thread about guys even though I have one or two addressed to them.

Rather, tell the men to open a thread about themselves.

The question you should ask yourself is that 'how many times does bukatyne visit the sexuality section? Did bukatyne comment on the thread in question without correcting the OP' ? Objectivity.

The fact that I am influenced by my beliefs and religion offline should tell you that I am me.

If I stopped you on the way and told you to be decent in a rude manner, I would agree I am giving unsolicited advice.

A thread you read the OP, didn't like and still engaged this much? You are enjoying yourself. You are enjoying this unsolicited advise on your own volition and you have the liberty and freedom to jump and pass.

I wouldn't dare compare myself.

go and visit the said thread and see how your attempts to save society are futile without the other half of the population
drink some wine before you do that
it's the place of no shame whatsoever

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:56pm On Jun 20, 2019
doitforyou:
She is not encouraging anything, she doesn't care one way or the other because it's not her skin, she was being polite saying she liked it. In which language does "I like it" mean "do it"


Yeah! Our girls qualified.

I feel sorry for the Chile girls especially the one who lost the penalty.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by cococandy(f): 9:58pm On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:

do you know what I find interesting?
in all the discussions about morals, it centers around women's séxuality
why?
Because of the need shame women into suppressing their sexuality. It usually always comes right down to that.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by doitforyou(f): 9:58pm On Jun 20, 2019
It's an example of two different choices. Pick any other values/choice/behavior and it applies.

bukatyne:


You brought virginity into this discussion and a virgin wife can cheat.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 9:59pm On Jun 20, 2019
doitforyou:
She is not encouraging anything, she doesn't care one way or the other because it's not her skin, she was being polite saying she liked it. In which language does "I like it" mean "do it"


Why the need to be polite if she wasn't asked and the person wasn't even there?

I like it is an encouragement to do it.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:59pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:


Good.

So forget about the porn industry been male dominated.

No one is held hostage.

I don't know how to explain it so that you get it but I will try ...
the porn industry is largely owned and run by men

that's a fact

you don't need to add any hostage stories to it
don't know what that has got to do with anything?
are you getting tired?

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 10:00pm On Jun 20, 2019
cococandy:

Because of the need shame women into suppressing their sexuality. It usually always comes right down to that.

tell me about it wink
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by cococandy(f): 10:00pm On Jun 20, 2019
Well cheating on your spouse (if you both agreed to be monogamous) and infecting them with an std is a totally different issue isn't it?

bukatyne:


What if your brother becomes interested in such a girl who after marriage still can't keep it in her pants and infect him with HIV or staph?

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by doitforyou(f): 10:00pm On Jun 20, 2019
Yea. I am happy just saw it too. It's funny you are happy, women were not allowed to play football it was not considered lady like.

bukatyne:


Yeah! Our girls qualified.

I feel sorry for the Chile girls especially the one who lost the penalty.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 10:01pm On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:


go and visit the said thread and see how your attempts to save society are futile without the other half of the population
drink some wine before you do that
it's the place of no shame whatsoever

Any reason why I should do so?
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 10:02pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:


Any reason why I should do so?


to save the world? cheesy

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by cococandy(f): 10:03pm On Jun 20, 2019
Mmm hmm undecided
ThothHermes:
Men run everything in the world cheesy

A man is wired is hump any and everything.

Women can exercise far more restraint. The burden of decency should and rightly does rest far more on women.
The standards are not the same. Stop trying to make it the same. Just like the standard for achievements are not the same for men and women. This is why women are slut-shamed everywhere and not. It's physiology. Not society.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 10:03pm On Jun 20, 2019
doitforyou:
Yea. I am happy just saw it too. It's funny you are happy, women were not allowed to play football it was not considered lady like.


Women were not allowed to do a lot of things abi?

Well the French girls have perfected playing ball while looking sexy.

Our girls? lipsrsealed undecided lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed grin

I sha love them like that cheesy
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by doitforyou(f): 10:04pm On Jun 20, 2019
lol no don't go inventing your own language. "I like it" to most rational people is "I like it" it does not mean encouragement to do anything. People might like something doesn't mean they want to do it. Humans are capable of handling many emotions and wants.

bukatyne:


Why the need to be polite if she wasn't asked and the person wasn't even there?

I like it is an encouragement to do it.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Daeylar(f): 10:04pm On Jun 20, 2019
doitforyou:
Yea. I am happy just saw it too. It's funny you are happy, women were not allowed to play football it was not considered lady like.


Lmao grin grin grin chai grin

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 10:05pm On Jun 20, 2019
cococandy:
Well cheating on your spouse (if you both agreed to be monogamous) and infecting them with an std is a totally different issue isn't it?


This is a different issue.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 10:05pm On Jun 20, 2019
doitforyou:
Yea. I am happy just saw it too. It's funny you are happy, women were not allowed to play football it was not considered lady like.


cheesy

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Omoluabi16(m): 10:09pm On Jun 20, 2019
cococandy:

Because of the need shame women into suppressing their sexuality. It usually always comes right down to that.
Women expressing their sexuality like the medical doctor shaking her breasts up and down to our delight?

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by cococandy(f): 10:11pm On Jun 20, 2019
Me and you often agree on many things and disagree on many others.
But I won’t also shy away from telling you the truth when necessary. I understand you’re a conservative Christian and I respect that for you.
The problem is that recently you’ve been trying to convince everyone else to be. That’s impossible and you know it.
What happened choice?
bukatyne:


Hahahaha

My titles are growing

Feminist, anti-feminist, misogynist, fanatic, Feminazi, divorce advocate etc. kiss

Some things might be offensive yet objective.

For instance, if you warn a girl to be careful whom she opens her legs for because she bears the burden of pregnancy, it is offensive yet objective.

I love women and would expect them to be willing to face the consequences of their actions.

When they do not like the consequences of their actions, I am all for going back to the drawing board. Let's see what was obtainable before and tweak it to work today.

That has actually been the driving force of most of my threads.

The society outside is different from Nairaland.

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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by cococandy(f): 10:12pm On Jun 20, 2019
Yes cool
Omoluabi16:
Women expressing their sexuality like the medical doctor shaking her breasts up and down to our delight?

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