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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 9:50am On Jun 21, 2019 |
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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 9:53am On Jun 21, 2019 |
crackhaus: As at that time, she was indifferent about it. Her eyes just opened now & discovered that she can actually leave a Bad Marriage, Women suffer & are unhappy those days too but THEY BELIEVE staying & praying for your Husband who keeps beating you is the right way to do things. No one actually told them they could leave & the world would not end. For example, you can only ask Google a question about "Feminism" because you have heard the word somewhere. I can bet that many of our parents Never knew there was a word called "Feminism", talk more of It's definition. So they simply DO NOT KNOW. 5 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 9:53am On Jun 21, 2019 |
crackhaus: Lol I don’t, and wouldn’t though, I think Just stating facts of what went thru my mind Cos someone mentioned doctor and boobs and I automatically processed them as me !(I joke) @ the arguments especially with regards to sex I just remembered my initial analysis of you I was mostly right, I am good! Good morning |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 9:55am On Jun 21, 2019 |
crackhaus: Wayoooooo! When it comes to feminism and misogyny, you agree more than you disagree. I C U ! Na today? 3 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 9:59am On Jun 21, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra:Lol.. Me I can take being called a misogynist and anti-feminist on NL, I don't have who I'm toasting or want to toast here. But if you think she is a misogynist or anti-feminist, the joke is on you oo. 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:59am On Jun 21, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra: narcissistic personality disorder with sadistic tendencies I pity his co-dependents, obviously the nicest of people typical 3 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 10:10am On Jun 21, 2019 |
truthsayer009:I know that already. Tell them who keep saying women back then were made to stay in bad marriages without their approval. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 10:16am On Jun 21, 2019 |
desvi: I'm really a 'movement' on this forum, so much so that invalid monikers I have never even give a second look know me so well. And if we investigate, you're not even a quack doctor or native doctor, not to mention a proper doctor, yet you can diagnose. Seun you ought to start paying me for bringing traffic to family section especially on threads that didn't even get to the FP. 3 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 10:22am On Jun 21, 2019 |
merahki:Which part exactly? The one about my stance on sexual relations, yes? Good morning. 1 Like |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 10:25am On Jun 21, 2019 |
crackhaus: If the shoe fits! Nothing wrong with being one. It is the “pretense” that is annoying. Be true to yourselves, so you can attract the right “partners”, instead of the naive or gullible who cannot detect WOLVES covered in SNAKE OIL! 6 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 10:31am On Jun 21, 2019 |
desvi: Many like him have come and gone ke. I remember my days with the most satanic dudes with post-doctorate degrees in misogyny on NL like Davidylan in 2008-2009 who practically fought ALL female IDs on NL. Except those that “smelled” or looked like Ziporrah in the Bible(with this feminine-mystique bizznezz) . Boy! Could he quote “The Satanic Verses”? We fought from thread to thread. He is now a NL NOBODY!!! Shegeeeeeeey!!! You dared not express your sexuality around him as a female o. But awon boys got free passes Crackhaus is a “learner” I swear. 8 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 10:32am On Jun 21, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra:Who is looking for partners? 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 10:35am On Jun 21, 2019 |
crackhaus: your narcissism shines through every single post of yours which leads us to some of the traits of a narcissist has an exaggerated sense of self-importance exaggerates achievements and talents [and the list continues going by the comments on this thread] let me guess you have also problems with substance abuse of some sort and mummy issues did she not have enough time for you or gave a sibling preferential treatment? you don't have to suffer in silence, your nagging repressed feelings of insecurity can be treated no need to fuel yourself with discord and mischief it is self-destructive in the long run recognition is the first step to betterment don't be a dunce 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by KanwuliaExtra: 10:39am On Jun 21, 2019 |
crackhaus: On or offline you will surely find them. . . . 2 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 10:40am On Jun 21, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra:Na my matter una don begin table like this? 3 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 10:43am On Jun 21, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra:Not looking for a partner, but keep guessing. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by crackhaus: 10:48am On Jun 21, 2019 |
desvi:I have a feeling you're diagnosing yourself and this is all you. Insecurity? Substance abuse? Mummy issues? 4 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 10:52am On Jun 21, 2019 |
crackhaus: denial is part of the narcissistic personality disorder but your comebacks are very lame Mr Dunce 3 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by CHoccolaTE: 11:12am On Jun 21, 2019 |
crackhaus: Yes, I saw the comment on the other thread and I knew that ignoring you will pain you more than typing anything in response. If you like deny it So I ignored you and I wasn't even wrong. Look at you bringing up a stupid meaningless comment that has nothing to do with this equally useless thread because you still have it in mind that I didn't reply your post. Since yesterday. 6 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ibkayee(f): 12:11pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
crackhaus:For a lot, a mixture of both Social conditioning shapes and reinforces mindsets, they were doing what they were taught, some believed it was right (For some, it can be argued that when you don’t know any better, there won’t be an incentive for change), but even if you were against it, society has a way of ostracising you when you fail to fit into norms so some also did it because of this, this is social force at work and it’s not something you can get rid of it in an instant Lack of platform to speak up? Depending on the year they couldn’t even vote at one point, key positions they couldn’t take/were underrepresented in and a bunch of other laws in place restricting their rights. They should’ve posted it on Nairaland I guess. Cc truthsayer009 3 Likes |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Esthered: 12:29pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Acidosis:Okay baby boo. 1 Like |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 12:33pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
doitforyou: If I tell you that I like the way you talk, I am encouraging you to continue talking that way. Understand? |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 12:57pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
cococandy: I interestingly do not see myself as a conservative Christian because I do not even agree with some things in 'conservative Christianity'. Everyone has the choice to do as they well; they should just be ready to face the consequences. Once in a while, I discuss those choices with their consequences in my threads. I think it is the sexual choices that is causing an uproar. I have discussed quota system, working wives, over emphasis on the girl child, beauty in previous threads etc. Is a woman free to be a slut? Yes. She can however not force me to see her otherwise or accept her slutty behaviour. I find it funny that most of the people here would agree with the choices in my threads yet come here to promote negative choices without the consequences. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 1:00pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
desvi: If telling people (women in this case) to be moral is been radicalized, I will own that badge. If you have gone through my threads in the past, this one should not surprise you. And no, I have not changed Church. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 1:02pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
truthsayer009: People are going back to the drawing board silently, it has always been a part of life. Some would call it repentance. Ever wondered why a lot of people who play the field suddenly become born-again and insist on no-sex relationships when looking for marriage? |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 1:06pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
crackhaus: Funny. A lot of people on this thread would not behave like the girls in the cinema in the first place. They instinctively know it is wrong. There is also a reason most people hide their body count when it is high: they are instinctively ashamed. Same with other immoral behaviours. 1 Like |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(f): 1:11pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
liberalchick: @Bold: I see alot of people talk about double standards on this thread. Nowhere did the author say this type of behaviour is ok in men nor did she encourage it. Infact to prove this, she said quality men are attracted to quality girls. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by liberalchick(f): 1:11pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
If this was reflected in your post, do you think we would be here 10 pages later? You seem to think, respecting people’s choices = promoting/encouraging said choices. No one is forcing you to accept anything, you need to just respect people’s choices. Humans are diverse, we are of different backgrounds and cultures, you can’t expect all to be alike. We are also capable of discussing other issues, this is the family section and we can only discuss topics that are presented. bukatyne: 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by liberalchick(f): 1:19pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
How is the bolded an example of double standard? You said, we are celebrating the negatives or women only want to aspire to be the bad things that some men do. My response was the negatives were highlighted to explain the double standard in society. One rule for men and another for women. There are many women that aspire and are actually astronauts, presidents, engineers etc. We can do both, call out the double standards and go on to achieve whatever goals we set for ourselves. bukatyne: 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by liberalchick(f): 1:30pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
This is an example of a double standard, why are women shamed for having a high body count, but a man is not? Why would they be instinctively shamed? Would a man have same emotions? Because a lot of people on this thread will not behave like the girls doesn’t mean some won’t fight and protect to have a society where these girls’ choices will be as validated as a man’s. You don’t have to participate in something to fight for the right for someone else to do it. That is how organized societies are built. What are immoral behaviors? Who decides what is immoral or not? bukatyne: 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 1:33pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
bukatyne:Fixed. |
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 1:35pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
liberalchick:Nature. Are you trying to legislate nature |
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