Rosskiki:
here's how to get her off your mind...

Jesu
This one bad gonna eat it with Vex

my guy it's not an easy task, it will only take the special grace of God to overcome. It's only easy when you don't love her that much, But just pray to God to give you the strenght to overcome cos our advice will never stop you of thinking about her, it's only God that can help you.

Pls take sniper I think that will help

iLegendd:
I'm finding it difficult to read posts relating to relationships nowadays. It's becoming boring to me.

hmm. business man

I will advise u focus more on urself and ur job.... Make new friends and try to avoid places u normally hangout with her. When u are alone focus ur attention on ur self by occupying ur thoughts with ur future plans. Avoid eye contact with her and stay away from her . Good luck

Here is the solution

Get another girl immediately it doesn't even have to be a relationship you could as well be friends make sure she has better or perhaps same level of looks with your ex, make her come visit u at work so your ex can be aware buy a gift for the new girl and surprise her when she comes visiting then sit back and watch as things unfold her reaction will either get u off your addiction or bring you guys back together,then choose what's best for your life.

blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

simple get another galfrnd dat would make d pain go away

blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

Just endure the hard feelings, it's normal with what you are feeling for separating with someone you love deeply

It's your first love and it will help you to learn how to handle break up.

But since you guys are colleagues, relate with her as if nothing happens and make sure you have made up your mind not to bed her

Get into another relationship to kill the deep feelings you have in her

She is supposed to be felling hurt too but since she has other bouy friends, she is using then to cusion the effects of the break

This Op need See Buhari

You are the one not letting go. Because you were the one who ended the relationship, you still love her. Love scientist have it that the person who ends a relationship first is still having some feelings lingering in their heart. You need to learn to enjoy life outside your past. However, It will be so difficult for you since you get to see her every good day. You won't be able to move on easily. You need to kill all contacts if you will have to heal up.

blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

You do not have to worry. The fact that you see her daily should be the motivation behind you moving on.

When you forgive a cheating partner and same re-occurs, it leaves this semi-permanent mark on your memory hence you have to be strong mentally so you don't live in your past forever. I experienced this about a year ago and was bitter with myself for tolerating a cheater for long although i did because i wanted concrete evidence for moving on. Cheaters never change and you need not condone them; once is enough to send her packing.

I am quite sure you'd be concerned with whether she feels remorse or not but trust me, that should be the least of your worries.

There is alot to achieve in your lifetime. Do not be held back by memories that were hinged on false feelings.

You go dey alright Las Las.....

Get another lady of your love and move on and if this one fail too, keep moving, no loitering until you teach your destination.after life is a journey.

Get a female office colleague as a best friend. Or any other girl. It will help if this girl is more beautiful than your ex. Just get a girl as your best friend and tell her everything about the pain you are facing, spend time with this girl, focus on this new found best friend without asking her out. You will find yourself mentally drawn away from your ex and mentally strengthened to make unhurried love decisions. And yes, you would have discovered a really good friend.

blizard44 & BlackIvory
I think both of u can come together to forget about ur ex. blizzard44 pm her now, u need someone that will take your attention at least for now. I am sure BlackIvory is your best bet

blizard44:
This is helpful.

Thank you.

I hope you be free of him too.

.


.what are you guys waiting for, make una two hook up and solve una problem simple

blizard44:


In a two-year relationship?

I no be Kumuyi nah.

Sex was on a regular.
But it isn't the sex I can't do without.

werrey man

BlackIvory:
[color=#990000][/color] going through the same thing too. I hate the fact that he's 90% of my thought.

focus your energy into more positive things. Improve an hubby, read a book, stuff like that.

Hook up with him. You can heal yourselves. Case closed.

It may be difficult but bro move on.

My advice seriously this days for young people in relationship is don't give it your all until you're sure.

Build yourself bro, focus on you...mentally, financially and otherwise....
Then maybe the right one will come along the way..

BlackIvory:
are women allowed? Can I know if there is a branch in karu, abuja?

No... you are only allow to join the candle platoon.

blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

it's hard generally which is expected when u really loved someone. but in your case it's harder cos u see her everyday.

two things u can do...get another girl. truth is you won't love her one bit as long as u still feel for the first one but he moment u can get close to her and even make love to her the healing starts gradually.
then the 2nd thing is to fuel your head with irritating thoughts of how the girl you loved so much was taking doggy and being ordered around in bed by guys who didn't send her half as much as u did. imagine telling u she loves u yet it was a big fat lie yet she would still surrender her body to those guys for pounding without respect just like a wh.ore...

MrWTF:
wetin you they talk?

Am confused too lol

i am also in the same situation but mine is not even aware that i know what she is doing but i just kept mute. Last night after speaking with her she said she was sick that i should send her get well message. But that was a lie. Her new boyfriend is the person sick andshe wanted to send the message to her, she immediately forwarded to him.

personally i do not beleive in cheating or double dating, i have access to her facebook account which she is unaware that is where i am seeing her numerous illicit affairs with different guys.

Women are deadly. i don't even know If to play along with her Or just quit her. ldon't think i can love again wholeheartedly Or just play the playboy lifestyle.

your side of the story. But if its the true story, then you took a bold step. Next is to go for the jugular by disconnecting totally from her (delete her nos, msgs, pics and unfollow her) and assuming she dosen't exist.

If your work paths cross, don't dodge her, rather, relate with her just the way you do with other colleagues.

Finally and most importantly, love yourself and fill yourself with it. She wasn't worth it, one that does will find her way into your life. But if she was truly yours, she'll come to her senses.

You will suffer emotionally oo naija gals Dem no send u o

If she see a highest bidder she will follow

Before your decision. You would’ve get off it. By having someone better than her or intimacy gadget. It’s matter of time. You will get off it.

backbone503:
your side of the story. But if its the true story, then you took a bold step. Next is to go for the jugular by disconnecting totally from her (delete her nos, msgs, pics and unfollow her) and assuming she dosen't exist.

If your work paths cross, don't dodge her, rather, relate with her just the way you do with other colleagues.

Finally and most importantly, love yourself and fill yourself with it. She wasn't worth it, one that does will find her way into your life. But if she was truly yours, she'll come to her senses.

Dude, this won't work on me. I love mind games.

See this one wan die at a young age because of women

Never you trust any naija gal especially bro no love in naija no Tru love ooo

I de tell you many of Dem are hustlers you don't know wat de do behind ur back

See wetin small fish brain gals don do u

Hahahaa ota na de trust her abi u wan marry her if u wanna marry her den marry her and stop wasting ur emotions and energy over a hoe

DateMynd44:
what I have is the Spirit of God running in my veins and that's why I quote u cos I'm full of the Spirit of God to forewarn you to repent!

.... Bro can you shift you are blocking the first rays of the Sun that gives vitamin Q

well, u shud try going to church more often.
remember that hubby use2like¿u can use it and or get in d gym... hangout wit ur frendz wen u can. i tink dah wih help

Bro, first rule of recovery is --> you don't heal where you were hurt. Take time off work, spend time with new amazing people, buy your mother a necklace maybe, sped time with your female cousins. And you'd discover that the sentence 'I love you ' could sometimes be a jail sentence


I pray God heals you.