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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by sylve11: 7:37am On Aug 14
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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by backbone503(m): 7:43am On Aug 14
RoseyJ:


Dude, this won't work on me. I love mind games.

My dear, I don't play games. When you're off my heart, without hating or casting aspersions, I'll ignore you till you wither and fade away.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by undefeateds: 7:44am On Aug 14
DateMynd44:
explain more on the first option for me pls.
see the second option works at times for some
The first option of getting another female friend is the only way he can forget her so easily,he should channel his whole thought and feelings to another girl,not just any girl or d one that will be taking long to reply ur message,d one that u will be free to share ur inner thoughts,u even talk about relationships stuff, the thing is just like someone passing a carryover course,u know this kind of feelings,gladness u have in u, that's it,and beware,u don't cross ur boundary with the new girl,u don't take a girl's familiarity to u as green light, and if u see such girl that make u so relaxed and make u forget about d previous one,u don't rush things, otherwise she might think u takes her for granted and call off d whole thing,just assume u are in friend zone,if she wants u to take it higher, she will definitely gives u the tip,if not, while having such lady,u should also be thinking of having ur own girl,if ur new friend is interested in u,she knows how to get u,
And the second option,by calling her nonsensical name will never work,deep inside ur heart,u know u are been hurt,u are just trying so hard,which u will still be always attracted to her,unless u do the first option.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by friendl: 7:46am On Aug 14
With time ,you will forget her but mind you the next won't be any better

Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by sojiooo1(m): 7:51am On Aug 14
Time will heal it. But the fastest way to heal is to pick another girl. You will forget about her in just days
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Bahddo(m): 8:00am On Aug 14
Get busy, and remind yourself of the reason why it didn't work out. Improve yourself as a person and build on your self esteem. When you know your worth, you wouldn't continue pining over people who aren't worth it.

Getting another girl just to get over your ex is an immature move. It's like borrowing money to pay debts. You'd still be indebted, just to a different lender.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by deltateam: 8:05am On Aug 14
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.


Dude you made the first mistake in the dating game. Never date your co worker, neighbour or people too close distance to you.

You just got to leave with the fact, she's always there to haunt you until one of you leaves the establishment.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by condemn: 8:07am On Aug 14
blizard44:


In a two-year relationship?

I no be Kumuyi nah.

Sex was on a regular.
But it isn't the sex I can't do without.

Let me poison your mind astrologically against her. When is your birthday and when is her birthday?
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Myhusband(m): 8:10am On Aug 14
DateMynd44:
You're very right, especially number 3 ehn emotional songs that's the devil's tool for destruction ehn as it can trigger those obsessions up bit as for ur number 4 it's a bit hard cos if he has the lady's contact on WhatsApp then should he stay away from WhatsApp all because of this lady?


do you save pics on WhatsApp? WhatsApp had only DP plus he can archive the said Lady contact which can prevent him from seeing her
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by fraspree(m): 8:17am On Aug 14
Just give it time it will fade gradually, i have been in the same shoes and discovered that love is a useless thing, the moment you show a little sign of weaknesses women will take full advantage of that. To women they only exist to survive on their strategy which they use on men, because they see the world very differently from the way men do. Till date women are still devising new techniques in dealing with men, that's why the competition for attention through their nude dressings are getting more provocating. Watch out for them.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by deejayx5: 8:23am On Aug 14
[You just need to concentrate on myself and things around me probably new ones....][color=#990000][/color]
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by banjo022(m): 8:27am On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
The beads tempted me to commit that slutty act.
im the victim here.
lol. Promise to be gentle??

hit me up on 08131280558
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by OlawaleBammie(m): 8:35am On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
hmm... But i havent faced a d!ck one on one.
and as for the cucumber i dont think anything more than my two slender fingers can enter my tight...
cheesy cheesy

Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by djoe21(m): 8:45am On Aug 14
dollytino4real:
old tinz have passed away, so focus on the present more and read ur bible

I love this. Op take this advice.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by djoe21(m): 8:47am On Aug 14
ABCthings:
1. Get a new girl even if it just for the main time. � you will discover that girl is not special and you're just obsessed

2. Attach some thing negative to her. e.g a nickname like goat so when you think all of her you remember goats. For me I can just decide to say your hole stinks horribly and that kills all my attraction to you. Later I may even remember how I stopped liking you sef � .

Make sure you punish her by not thinking of her
All the Best. smiley

grin grin grin That your number 2 is just funny.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by djoe21(m): 8:50am On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
thanks too.

Both of you can just hook up. Matter don solve grin
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by djoe21(m): 8:52am On Aug 14
iLegendd:
I'm finding it difficult to read posts relating to relationships nowadays. It's becoming boring to me.

After you have written like 5 books out of them already. I see.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Tvegas(m): 8:54am On Aug 14
DateMynd44:
passing through the same issues now.
what do u mean when u said time heals all wounds? especially for a dude that has been so obsessed with this lady for sometime now

It means you can experience heartbreak but youve got to move on. Dont dwell on it. Cut communication with the party involved thats the only way to stop the obsession.

Time heals all wounds in few years you will look back and wonder at how foolish you were wasting youe emotion on people who dont love you.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 9:06am On Aug 14
djoe21:

Both of you can just hook up. Matter don solve grin
grin We arent both ready to date.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by iLegendd: 9:07am On Aug 14
djoe21:


After you have written like 5 books out of them already. I see.
Not really. Though, 20+ men's dating books already. See some below for anyone who wants to purchase.

https://books.apple.com/us/author/joe-clef/id1406072621

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by sahm4u2nv(m): 9:10am On Aug 14
Get busy making money

Thank me later
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 9:28am On Aug 14
Myhusband:



do you save pics on WhatsApp? WhatsApp had only DP plus he can archive the said Lady contact which can prevent him from seeing her
archive? I remember such feature exist but it's like you can only archive the chats with the said person which will prevent u from seeing the person's chat again but the contact will always be available on ur WhatsApp contact lists so I don't know if one can archive contact or if there is a special WhatsApp that has such features (GB WHATSAPP FMWHATSAPPetc)
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Jewessgratitude(f): 9:30am On Aug 14
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.


My honest advice, go for HIV test and certify your free. Then give thanks to God and move on. Anytime the thought of her comes to mind, just ask yourself, what if she had infected you with the dreaded and imagin you're sitting in front of a doctor telling you to take heart that you have HIV.... By the time you continually imagin those things about her, you'll see yourself getting over her.

This trick worked for me when I dumped my cheating ex too. To even look at his pic, I get scared cos all I see is disease.


Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 9:34am On Aug 14
undefeateds:

The first option of getting another female friend is the only way he can forget her so easily,he should channel his whole thought and feelings to another girl,not just any girl or d one that will be taking long to reply ur message,d one that u will be free to share ur inner thoughts,u even talk about relationships stuff, the thing is just like someone passing a carryover course,u know this kind of feelings,gladness u have in u, that's it,and beware,u don't cross ur boundary with the new girl,u don't take a girl's familiarity to u as green light, and if u see such girl that make u so relaxed and make u forget about d previous one,u don't rush things, otherwise she might think u takes her for granted and call off d whole thing,just assume u are in friend zone,if she wants u to take it higher, she will definitely gives u the tip,if not, while having such lady,u should also be thinking of having ur own girl,if ur new friend is interested in u,she knows how to get u,
And the second option,by calling her nonsensical name will never work,deep inside ur heart,u know u are been hurt,u are just trying so hard,which u will still be always attracted to her,unless u do the first option.
thanks a lot for this
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by djoe21(m): 9:37am On Aug 14
Blackivy27:

grin
We arent both ready to date.

According to a psychological fact, you only truly move on from a breakup when you find someone new. So who says you are not ready? Biko shoot your shot. We are in the era of 'shot shooting' grin
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by eni4real(m): 9:47am On Aug 14
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

Wow!!
Please how old are you??
Do you have buddies
Do you have hobbies or other activities aside working in your office??
Were you planning marriage with her??
Is she a chronic cheat?? Any genuine remorse after being caught??
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 9:48am On Aug 14
djoe21:


According to a psychological fact, you only truly move on from a breakup when you find someone new. So who says you are not ready? Biko shoot your shot. We are in the era of 'shot shooting' grin
Lol. And risk getting rejected?
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by eni4real(m): 9:50am On Aug 14
rosy1992:
Be creative and get yourself busy with creative things. Don't rush into relationships but keep healthy friends that will motivate you. As time goes by, you will get over her.

Trust me she isn't worth this stress. Because if she loves you like the way you felt, she shouldn't have cheated on you.
Take this advice @blizard44
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by themaestro08: 9:54am On Aug 14
rosy1992:
Be creative and get yourself busy with creative things. Don't rush into relationships but keep healthy friends that will motivate you. As time goes by, you will get over her.

Trust me she isn't worth this stress. Because if she loves you like the way you felt, she shouldn't have cheated on you.
I agree! Nobody is worth stressing over.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Nobody: 10:38am On Aug 14
The only thing wey go help you na "time"
Later later you go just dey laugh at your own mumu-ism



blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by boldking(m): 10:39am On Aug 14
i fell victim also gat to marry her bcoz my life was at stake

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