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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Judybash93(m): 2:10am On Aug 14
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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Mursz: 2:20am On Aug 14
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with


A while back I would have offered a ton load of tips to try to help you heal quickly, but now i gat nothing to give you.

Its not for lack of not wanting to, its cus you truly don’t need it.

A woman with a ravaging nether region that is always looking to grab the next available schlong isn’t worth thinking about.

Dude grab a cold beer and thank God you dodged a bullet, women aren’t really worth it.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by b0rn2fuck(m): 2:39am On Aug 14
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

brother just two years , I cut off 5 years when I sense her cheating two, she even attended the guy birthday in same cloth, posting love you to him .. I have to block her on every platform on social media. This is girl I spent a lot on, I remember even wasting 150k on her sister birthday.. I don mumu in the past
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 2:42am On Aug 14
Mrevildoer:
By getting her off your mind
it's not that easy u Know.
it's time that heals so he needs time he'll be fine and will come up stronger and also having the word of God as his companion and pls don't ever welcome the thought of stalking her social Media Facebook or WhatsApp last seen cos it's obvious you've been doing that since you're still obsessed with her and don't ever message her or initiate conversation with her cos she'll see u as a weakling.
a random date or flirt with other Ladies will make u forget her in a hurry (flirt as in going out with ladies to sit out not with the aim of sex oh) and also there are thousands of girls scattered around the universe so don't kill yourself over a girl at the detriment of ur future wife
like ABCthings said "she's not special you're just being obsessed"

blizard44 I'm so disappointed at this ur comment below

blizard44:


In a two-year relationship?

I no be Kumuyi nah.

Sex was on a regular.
But it isn't the sex I can't do without.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 2:53am On Aug 14
BiggyB242:
Next time if you find your gf cheating on you don't break up with her but play along till you find a new one. Shikenah
word
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 2:56am On Aug 14
Pharaoh4rin:
U are not idle bross, that means it should be 50℅ easy 4 u 2 handle. I don't think a nairalander could find it hard to handle relationship issues any more. Anyway, one major way of dealing with such a scenario is: MIND CONTROL; whenever her thought pop up in ur head, replace it with Buhari sentiment or something negative. The anger will definitely turn her off ur mind. Although, emotion don't heal emotion, but REPLACE HER THOUGHT IMMEDIATELY WITH SOMETHING ELSE. Mind control is very important 2 u here. It's a perennial solution. See her as a cheat. Another way to torment her is, go & hire a call girl 2 visit u in ur office. Make sure she's Xtremely beautiful. Flaunt with her passionately and let go. If u are in Lagos, I could direct u to some place at (off) Allen avenue. She'll commit cidesui afterward.
lol one reason I love nairaland cool

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 2:58am On Aug 14
ideatoprince18:
I will give you an advice ... if you like take it .... if u like leave it

Go back to her and tell her to take you back ..... Plan out a rigorous sex pattern ..... When sexing her transfer all the aggression and depression into her.. It may take time .... but when you are through,toss her away like a dirt rag and see how free your mind would become!!!
what I have is the Spirit of God running in my veins and that's why I quote u cos I'm full of the Spirit of God to forewarn you to repent!
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 3:01am On Aug 14
Rosskiki:
here's how to get her off your mind...

as in eh! only a Calabar/Akwa Ibom woman can solve this kind of problem
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 3:04am On Aug 14
Myhusband:
avoid loneliness and anytime you're lonely get some interesting games on your phone or anywhere to keep you busy



the very day you get occupied with something else is the day you will stop thinking about her

1. avoid loneliness

2. hangout with friends or play games

3. avoid love or emotional songs. if you're Yoruba listen to Fuji even if is not your kind of music

4. avoid her pictures and if you can't unfriend her on social media, stay off where you've her as friends for a month


do this for just a month and you will forget about her. do it for more than a month and see yourself turning to a misogynist
You're very right, especially number 3 ehn emotional songs that's the devil's tool for destruction ehn as it can trigger those obsessions up bit as for ur number 4 it's a bit hard cos if he has the lady's contact on WhatsApp then should he stay away from WhatsApp all because of this lady?
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 3:08am On Aug 14
Tvegas:
Time heal all wounds. Give it time and put yourself in other activities. You will be fine. Dont bother going back ooo, as she doesnt love you at all. You were the one loving yourself.
passing through the same issues now.
what do u mean when u said time heals all wounds? especially for a dude that has been so obsessed with this lady for sometime now
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 3:11am On Aug 14
Niageriaunite:
bro 5months ago I was in ur shoes, it affected my level of productivity my business went down seriously is not a good experience one should wish his enemy

with the experience, I was able to understand the reason why the Bible teaches us to to stay away from fornication, pre marital sex is evil, these are sins we comite not to hurt God but to hurt our selves, now see how u are feeling now who is suffering it God or you?

I was laughing when people were advising you to get other girl, bro u will add more salt to ur injury, cos u will be with the new girl ur mind will still be beckoning on ur ex, and the now one will noticed and leave u again, when u must have slept with new u will now be having double heart break.

it very unfortunate that 2 are in same office, this is what u will do

first Go to living church alter lie face down and cry to God that u need help that he should come and deliver ur from the Spirit of ungodly soul tie you find ur self

secondly go to a living Church seek for deliverance let her spirit be cast away from ur soul

then give ur life to Christ completely not partially

delete her number don't view her on facebook, Instagram and whatsapp status

do all this bro u will get back ur life

I did It and I have permanent peace of mind now, how are wish I can talk to u on phone
send me an email let's talk more
exactly u took the words out of my mouth bro.
God bless u
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Glorylynn: 3:11am On Aug 14
Bro what you are going through now happens to everyone who loves genuinely,it has happened to me 2-3times despite the fact that I am the one who calls the relationships off all the time.its just a matter of time but the fastest solution is to find someone else,this way your attention will be divided and you think less of your ex,in just one month you will forget your ex totally but just make sure you date someone better than your ex,after a while your ex will be like a piece of shit when you see her and she will even be envying you cos obviously you will start glowing but the problem you will have is that she might want to come back to you grin grin grin
What you are going through now is really TOUGH I know and I can write about it grin but when you remember after a year or so you will look at yourself and feel stupid grin






blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 3:12am On Aug 14
effacofresh:
Am from crossriver, 21yrs old, am a student of unical. Hw can I link up with u so as 2 know u better?
chai owo efik.
se nwed mfo kpeb diahanre kpong nka ifere
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by FisifunKododada: 3:17am On Aug 14
Here are some options:

1. You can focus on your career and future.

2. You can get another girl-friend

3. You can
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 3:17am On Aug 14
daddyfreeman1:
Bro if you check very well... Last time I posted about how I broke up with my girlfriend sometime in march or April. I passed through exactly how you're witnessing it now. The advice I got here made me forget everything about her within few days... I advice you to do things that will make you happy, listen to music and all that... Remember that you were happy and still alive doing your things before she came into your life... If possible go to search box and type (I broke up with my girlfriend, a Nairalander cries out) that's my post when I broke up with my girlfriend... Read the comments under, I think it will help you a lot... Thank you
click on your profile you will see it as the second topic, click on it and copy the link and paste it to him while mentioning his moniker

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 3:18am On Aug 14
daddyfreeman1:
Bro if you check very well... Last time I posted about how I broke up with my girlfriend sometime in march or April. I passed through exactly how you're witnessing it now. The advice I got here made me forget everything about her within few days... I advice you to do things that will make you happy, listen to music and all that... Remember that you were happy and still alive doing your things before she came into your life... If possible go to search box and type (I broke up with my girlfriend, a Nairalander cries out) that's my post when I broke up with my girlfriend... Read the comments under, I think it will help you a lot... Thank you

Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by korilala: 3:20am On Aug 14
You forgot Lela Starr... The Kim Kardashian look alike.

IamPlato:
Watch Porn Bro.

Go To Xvideos and Check Out Girls Like Brittney White, Vanessa Blue, Joslyn James, Amy Anderssen, Dominican lipz, desire5k, blackraw, Kendra Sundaland, they Were Born To Make Men Forget Their Wives.


Thank Me Later
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 3:23am On Aug 14
Glorylynn:
Bro what you are going through now happens to everyone who loves genuinely,it has happened to me 2-3times despite the fact that I am the one who calls the relationships off all the time.its just a matter of time but the fastest solution is to find someone else,this way your attention will be divided and you think less of your ex,in just one month you will forget your ex totally but just make sure you date someone better than your ex,after a while your ex will be like a piece of shit when you see her and she will even be envying you cos obviously you will start glowing but the problem you will have is that she might want to come back to you grin grin grin
What you are going through now is really TOUGH I know and I can write about it grin but when you remember after a year or so you will look at yourself and feel stupid grin






very true
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by DateMynd44(m): 3:28am On Aug 14
undefeateds:

The first option is right, that's d only way,u can get her off ur mind,not necessarily dating,but d one u will be able to share ur inner thought with,and u are good,but the second option can never work
explain more on the first option for me pls.
see the second option works at times for some
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by chelsea2014: 3:32am On Aug 14
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.
you own still better,my ex girlfriend even sleep with my uncle like 6 times both meet on facebook unknow to my uncle that is my girlfriend,but the funiest parth is that the girl didnt allow me to even touch her about 2year will are dating she the form church girl she no even they use earing.God refeal the secret to me by checking my uncle face book i saw their conversation that she even say to him you want kill me with sex after this i will not allow you again that this is 6 times now you have sex with me,i didnt sleep for a week infact i slap the conversation but i didnt ask both of them.
I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by citadels(f): 3:48am On Aug 14
It's in your thoughts. For me i will hate the person in my heart then get over the person later we will become friends but not intimate again
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by BlueAir: 3:52am On Aug 14
blizard44:
This is helpful.

Thank you.

I hope you be free of him too.
its only revenge knocking not heartbreak undecided
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by noscarn91(m): 3:57am On Aug 14
IamPlato:
Watch Porn Bro.

Go To Xvideos and Check Out Girls Like Brittney White, Vanessa Blue, Joslyn James, Amy Anderssen, Dominican lipz, desire5k, blackraw, Kendra Sundaland, they Were Born To Make Men Forget Their Wives.


Thank Me Later
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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by tightpussy156: 4:42am On Aug 14
@ op the way you sound u look like a Jew man.but forget that bitch.A bitch will remain a bitch.you love her so much but she doesn't love a bit.she is a fleet from the way you sound who bleeps different guys an look at you as a houseboy,nobody to her if she lives she go respect you or not cheat.I don't think you have made love to her that is why the tin eat ur bone marrow that is it.you were busy forming mugu follow her why different guys they flog the bitch wide pussy black an blue.just forget about her life goes on if not u go commit suicide. That is the real truth take it or leave it.those that will quote me wrong for telling this man the truth should hug transformer
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by pfadom: 4:46am On Aug 14
Take her of your mind too. You have tried to take her off your sight. Act as if she'd never existed in your life.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by srclark: 5:01am On Aug 14
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

no saint out there bro na who them catch be Barawo .since you know the facts just try to make peace and act along but don’t get too carried away cause she will keep distracting you .with time she might realize and turn a new leaf .Sometimes it is better to play along till you find the right person instead of punishing yourself for nothing
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Chukwuemekaking: 5:08am On Aug 14
By forgiven her and finding new friend...you wil forget about her
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by D1zion: 5:19am On Aug 14
IamPlato:
Watch Porn Bro.

Go To Xvideos and Check Out Girls Like Brittney White, Vanessa Blue, Joslyn James, Amy Anderssen, Dominican lipz, desire5k, blackraw, Kendra Sundaland, they Were Born To Make Men Forget Their Wives.


Thank Me Later
why would you advice someone on watching what will later be doom on him? You should advised him positively not negatively. Pls brother if you're taken advice pls don't go with this brothers own cos if you get addicted coming out will be a problem, there's spirits attached to that evil & if you're a Christian the Bible will never encouraged you to watch those dirty things,even in Islam that cannot be encouraged too.you might even end up not having affection for any lady you'll date.just try to get a pretty & intelligent girl & focused on her with time you'll forget about your ex.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by christobobby: 5:22am On Aug 14
Delete anything about her from your phone, from contacts to pictures WhatsApp Facebook everything and you well see
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by D1zion: 5:25am On Aug 14
BlackIvory:
[color=#990000][/color] going through the same thing too. I hate the fact that he's 90% of my thought.

focus your energy into more positive things. Improve an hubby, read a book, stuff like that.
hubby? But he's not married to improve anything. Or is it hobbies or hobby you mean.?
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by kenneh1(m): 5:34am On Aug 14
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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by gidoskiaustino: 5:36am On Aug 14
The strongest part is that you both are colleagues in same place.
Damn it.
Just try and get another Love as quickly as possible, then try and be focused, since you said she cheated, forget the good time and replace it with She Cheated.
Thanks me later

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