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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by dollytino4real(f): 10:44am On Aug 14
djoe21:


I love this. Op take this advice.
shey I get sense abi
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by ninodaniel(m): 11:07am On Aug 14
BlackIvory:
are women allowed? Can I know if there is a branch in karu, abuja?
hello dear. I'm in karu too
na me b d leader
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by ninodaniel(m): 11:09am On Aug 14
BlackIvory:
are women allowed? Can I know if there is a branch in karu, abuja?
blackivory I dey karu abuja too
DM me I get smtin for u
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Myhusband(m): 11:13am On Aug 14
DateMynd44:
archive? I remember such feature exist but it's like you can only archive the chats with the said person which will prevent u from seeing the person's chat again but the contact will always be available on ur WhatsApp contact lists so I don't know if one can archive contact or if there is a special WhatsApp that has such features (GB WHATSAPP FMWHATSAPPetc)

once you delete the contact you won't see the person again that one alone na eternity archive
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Kingpinukecy(m): 11:15am On Aug 14
I have passed tru dsame issue...but I can't do anything but to move on with life. just pretend that such a lady never existed in ur life. Just try to see her like other babes, but I knw its not easy as I have said.


but this is what kept me moving on during my time.I pretend I have never knew her wen I saw her. but we do greet each other and nothing more. it's normal bruh. just tell ur self that u can do it.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Auto200: 11:32am On Aug 14
jesus christ.. bros you be BABA
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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by uridiwan(m): 11:47am On Aug 14
I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

I promise joy won't cheat you.

Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by djoe21(m): 11:58am On Aug 14
dollytino4real:
shey I get sense abi

You try. Still observing before I make my final conclusion though. wink
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Ciaos: 12:02pm On Aug 14
Cheating has a serious emotional effect. To catch one's lover in the act has a long lasting effect on one.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by emeijeh(m): 12:06pm On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
The beads tempted me to commit that slutty act.
im the victim here.
lol. Promise to be gentle??

I won't be gentle.
Those things deserve justice for intended suffocation.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by djoe21(m): 12:18pm On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
Lol. And risk getting rejected?

If you don't take a chance, you may lose out on the best. Don't you know risk takers are the most successful? Besides, rejection makes us stronger smiley
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Popsy1(m): 12:18pm On Aug 14
I'm exactly in your situation but i guess mine is easier because after i found out and made up my mind to end it, i did not break up with her right away. I started pulling away slowly and after about 3 months, i ended it. It kinda softened the blow.

Since then, I've had my bros and work to fall back on. If I'm not working, i'm chilling with a couple of them and they know so once i call them up, they are always ready to hang.

That's just it.. Time will make you forget. It always does but NEVER EVER call her up.

You working in same place with her makes it tricky but man, you just gotta do what you have to do. Just remember this, she's not your enemy, just a girl you used to know.

Avoid all discussions with her that isn't work related. Once, things starts getting personal, flee the scene and put up an I DON'T CARE front.

All the best bro

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by airminem(f): 12:41pm On Aug 14
MrWTF:
Teenagers thought.

Or the people that act like their opinions are facts? No, dumbaaaass, it's an opinion, it's not a fact unless you can produce verified studies and comments from actual experts validating a claim.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Ufedolove: 12:44pm On Aug 14
Bro, first, you have to understand that you may never stop loving a person whom you truly love. So, don't even be in a rush to move on. Cry if you want to cry, kick things if you want to, be stupid if you want to. Just don't form hard guy hard guy. By the time you discover that you have been consistently crying and doing some stupid shits, you would pause and ask yourself "wait, was I this stupid" for a cheating hoe? Oh damn!

Secondly, while rushing into a relationship might help you on the SHORT RUN, just be waiting for the day you will find yourself in a worse situation as regarding your ex. My point is, never rush into a relationship thinking it would make feel better and help you move on. No, it won't. Instead, live with yourself, family and friends, love yourself, do those things you couldn't do back then, develop a new hobby, talent or specialty, read books, watch movies especially love movies.

Thirdly, I would have suggested you cut every tie to your ex but you said you are colleagues. Now, you just have to do the opposite. Be her friend, greet her, smile at her, appreciate her, be yourself around her. Before you know it, she will return to being one random girl at your workplace. If you don't believe this logic, lemme quickly remind you that your ex has been flawlessly doing all these to you and they hit you so hard in your heart.

Fourthly, never imagine yourself with her in the future. Stop fantasising about what you both could have achieved together. Na rubbish thinking be that.

Lastly, be very optimistic, forgive her and yourself. Open your mind to new possibilities. Bear in mind that there are way more beautiful girls, well-behaved girls than her. Nothing wrong in fcking some random girls but if you are too holy for that, take girls you think can be fitting out and enjoy life.

There's more to life than your ex. I didn't copy this from google, I'm telling you my personal experience and I'm glad to tell you that I'm really moving on.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Preshob(m): 1:11pm On Aug 14
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.


is this a love poem??
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by STARGREEN(m): 1:23pm On Aug 14
40secondsMan:
I think the biggest issue is the fact that you are colleagues, and you see her everyday.

Mehn! It's gonna be hard truly...@op, can you change your job?
Change job because of an ex? To where? Let him set bigger goals such that she will be seen as distractions towards actualization of his goal. Without well defined goal figuratively speaking he will still be feeling towards past tense.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Nicolex(f): 1:26pm On Aug 14
MrWTF:
wetin you they talk?
lwkm!,i swear.e weak me..
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Pharaoh4rin: 3:54pm On Aug 14
yetunsbay:
baba oo

Yeah. NL has healed more emotional injuries than inflicting one. Nairaland is Africa-friendly.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Omotaday(m): 4:00pm On Aug 14
BlackIvory:
[color=#990000][/color] going through the same thing too. I hate the fact that he's 90% of my thought.

focus your energy into more positive things. Improve an hubby, read a book, stuff like that.
Let me make you forget him. wink
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 4:39pm On Aug 14
djoe21:


If you don't take a chance, you may lose out on the best. Don't you know risk takers are the most successful? Besides, rejection makes us stronger smiley
Thanks. Rejection might make me split his head tho.
grin
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 4:41pm On Aug 14
emeijeh:


I won't be gentle.
Those things deserve justice for intended suffocation.
Hahaha
every single bead deserved it. That day i was like, its sunday let me not mast**ate but that necklace.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 4:44pm On Aug 14
ninodaniel:
hello dear. I'm in karu too na me b d leader
yes??
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Blackivy27(f): 4:47pm On Aug 14
Omotaday:
Let me make you forget him. wink
grin Can you??
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by djoe21(m): 6:36pm On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
Thanks. Rejection might make me split his head tho.
grin

smiley
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by emeijeh(m): 9:15pm On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
Hahaha
every single bead deserved it. That day i was like, its sunday let me not mast**ate but that necklace.
See you in court!
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by dollytino4real(f): 9:21pm On Aug 14
djoe21:


You try. Still observing before I make my final conclusion though. wink
ok, international observer
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by djoe21(m): 9:55pm On Aug 14
dollytino4real:
ok, international observer

Yeah. Got my eyes on you henceforth cool
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by dollytino4real(f): 9:59pm On Aug 14
djoe21:


Yeah. Got my eyes on you henceforth cool
i will find u
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Abcruz(m): 10:17pm On Aug 14
blizard44:


In a two-year relationship?

I no be Kumuyi nah.

Sex was on a regular.
But it isn't the sex I can't do without.

You can't eat your cake and have it. The bolded is were your problem lies. Sex is beyond the physical attribute; it is beyond the euphoria you experienced.

Sex is a covenant well recognized in the realms of light and darkness. It is a soul tie and an emotional agreement to be one in thinking with a partner.

Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will become one flesh." --1st Corinthians 6:16

Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body.--1 Corinthians 6:18
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by djoe21(m): 10:19pm On Aug 14
dollytino4real:
i will find u
I don't hide. You'll always see me.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by dollytino4real(f): 10:21pm On Aug 14
djoe21:
I don't hide. You'll always see me.
ok, welcome on-board
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by IamPlato(m): 11:07am On Aug 15
Blackivy27:
ofcourse, yes...
im proudly bead free. I miss that necklace tho. We shared good memories.
I Have Something That Can Replace The Beads

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