franchasng:
Most single mothers come with too many baggage.

How many rich single mothers will be willing to date or marry a broke or financially struggling single guy None!

Single mothers be looking for financially successful guys to cater for them and their child.

Its unfortunate that some men don't have sense; they allow ladies to use them all in the name of romantic love that does not exist.


Most successful or rich single mothers will never agree to remarry and when they decide to date or marry, they always target only rich or successful guys, why Because to them its all about taking care of their child and themselves not even about romance they deceive guys into believing. Most single mothers will not even see you as a guy if you are not doing well financially, so they are not looking for love or romance but for a care taker and provider for them and their child.

Since ladies want to coerce guys into dating and marrying single mothers, may we ask ladies why rich single mother's don't marry broke or average guys but will rather be waiting for the rich guys to date or marry

Guys need to wise up, to ladies it is money, survival before romance but to sex and emotionally starved men, its always about sec and romance first which is why ladies use guys a lot to achieve their selfish life goals.

Don't allow yourself to be used, don't be fooled, ladies only bring out what you guys mistake as love only when they know the money is there.


So op @yazga why don't rich single mothers date and marry broke guys Can you tell us more please

ubunja:
Scared is the wrong word.

Here you're trying to shame men as cowards. Don't manipulate us.

Hipsofagoddess:
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So why are you now telling us?

Liftedhands:
Every man will become second, third, fourth, fifth place! depending on the number of kids he father's in his woman's life once kids are involved. No wife places her husband above her children! NONE.


The only time a man remains number one is during courtship and before children starts coming
So don't deceive yourself, every man will eventually become second place after his children whether biological or adopted

ubunja:
i hear you. It's only natural I want men to win cause I'm a man. Plus men have been duped for so long they deserve a rest. And a little victory.

I have no respect for a woman who splits a bill 50/50 with a man. I detest that BS. Either the man covers everything or the woman does. That's how relationships can last. One must dominate. Equality in relationships leads nowhere but to divorce.

As funny as it may sound, after the virgin, the best woman to marry is a Gold Digger. Gold Diggers are the most feminine, most submissive women you'll find. Cause they know their place. And play their role well: eat money, open legs and shut up.

correctguy0900:


Don't have children then. Because ur mum also chose u over ur dad. way it is. Learn..

ubunja:
even global feminists are loonies.

The way they diss virgins, stay at home mothers, motherhood etc is hilarious.

They want women to be men.

Feminists destoyed femininity.

ubunja:
play that game of heart leading the head and you'll lose.
You think women have a reputation for marrying men with money cause they chase happiness? You joking. Don't follow the heart. That thing is deceitful above all else. Love with your head. With sense. The head is above the heart for a reason.

Single Fathers are Okay because the man is the bread winner anyways.

Ever seen a single mother chase a broke man?

Or why do single mothers with money say they don't need a man they can raise their kids all on their own? CAUSE ITS ABOUT THE MONEY. always.

Wake up!!

Edit: and this lady Michelle even agrees with my point in bold above

joyfullyjoyous:
Love conquers all including status.

Chukapage:
oga that's an individual issue some babby daddies are responsible ,Not all men are irresponsible stop writing like there was a national meeting that said baby daddies should be irresponsible.The females that became pregnant were they forced? Was it rape? Was it no consensual? It's high time folks like you stop making excuses for dumb women why pushing all the blame on the malefolks. The ladies didn't they know they were not ready for marriage too? It take two to tango.

Chukapage:
atleast the man will be 20th in her life BECAUSE of HIS children not some kids of some other men.Thats the responsibility of being a parent your child and family comes first I don't mind being 10th in her life as long as it's My children as long as it will favour them more, what no man wants is being 5th in her life because of another man's baggage and Children.

Kazeemakeem:




For me single mum are the best,they must have learn from past experience

Chukapage:
so men who now do "abnormal" stuffs like being with a single mother are *Great men* which kind of cheap black mail and manipulation is this?

ubunja:
play that game of heart leading the head and you'll lose.
You think women have a reputation for marrying men with money cause they chase happiness? You joking. Don't follow the heart. That thing is deceitful above all else. Love with your head. With sense. The head is above the heart for a reason.

Single Fathers are Okay because the man is the bread winner anyways.

Ever seen a single mother chase a broke man?

Or why do single mothers with money say they don't need a man they can raise their kids all on their own? CAUSE ITS ABOUT THE MONEY. always.

Wake up!!

Edit: and this lady Michelle even agrees with my point in bold above

Jfyzee:


When you cannot bring yourself to do something base on your limited knowledge and someone else comes on to do that same thing and get praised. Will you consider it a failure or a great thing..?

So the question you should ask yourself is.. Will you consider Joseph the carpenter a great man for marrying a woman like Mary who was a virgin but was pregnant for an unknown..? (so to speak).
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So young man, give it a deep thought and find your answer.[/b]your Analysis is the dumbest so because pushing drugs in Saudi Arabia is dangerous and Alot of people don't try it even the strongest of drug cartels don't try it me go mumu do am does it mean I'm a "legend" or I'm "great" ? Is that your definition of greatness? Knowninly taking avoidable dumb risks that others avoid? Lol so if the stock market is really crashing and I still invest huge money in it I'm "great" sorry but that sounds just too dumb too dumb , leave that Bible analysis because the single mothers are impregnated by randy irresponsible men they chose not holy Spirit.

Michellekabod2:

Have you ever seen a marriage where a woman walks out because of cheating?but many men will walk out because of cheating

Ugosample:



lmao
it takes two to tango
That is all I want to hear

so the irresponsible man as well has to pay for his irresponsibility
which means that he must take care of the kids

But the Nigerian society excuses irresponsible baby daddies.
You know it and I know it

Michellekabod2:

So when guys that have bleeped all the girls on a globe want a virgin as wife,why don't you guys diss him since he doesn't equate his choice?

zinaunreal:


Because the pikin papa don die abi?! Just listen to yourself

GeneralPula:
My own issh be my love for brand new thinza! I don’t fancy anything used or 2nd hand.

Liftedhands:
Reading all your comments about this topic. This is the only one I agree with you 100percent.

My childs welfare comes first no argument.

As a single mother "BY CHOICE" legally was married and walked out on my own accord and terms cos I don't won't no manwhore as husband. I pat myself everyday for taking that bold step to leave a serial casanova and I don't regret it one bit.



No single mother became a mother by mistake! No no! She thought it over and made the best and wisest decision to keep a life rather than abort it cos one boy feels he aints ready to take responsibility for his action.


Single mothers have it rough and tough raising kids all alone coupled with society with a mindset as yours.


It's shameful to see and regard them as unworthy of love! No woman who has gone thru the travails of childbirth whether as a wife or a single girl should be shamed for choosing to keep a life.


If you don't fancy them fine but don't discourage a brother who finds love and peace with one with your utterances and belief.

Note we all can't have same taste and choice in whom we love so don't crucify those who choose to love a single mother.

Every child born on this earth deserves the love and care of a father and mother be it step or biologically.


Live and let live

Shalom.

dumahi:

Na dis one weak me pass.

Michellekabod2:
wrong!
Feminist want women to be what they want to be.
They don't diss virgins, because it's not their business what women want to do with their bodies.
Feminist destroy patriarchy not feminity...

Oseh1Gidigba:
Single mothers are more respectful. I have one and we are doing well. Those that scare is because they don't want to bear or play the role of step father.

Michellekabod2:
wrong!
Feminist want women to be what they want to be.
They don't diss virgins, because it's not their business what women want to do with their bodies.
Feminist destroy patriarchy not feminity...