correctguy0900:


Good luck

ubunja:
how hungry for love are you that you have to accept it even from a single mother?

Have standards. You make people with money look stupid

Efewestern:


The way you hate women, do you have any woman in your life? like mother, sister, GF?

Bro tone down please, stop throwing jabs at ladies at any given opportunity, they are humans just like you and me, and they also deserve to be happy.

Being pregnant doesn't mean one is a slut, shii happens in life. Once again, learn to respect WOMEN!

ubunja:
it's sad when a man needs luck to have what his ancestors got everyday

correctguy0900:


Bros try dig na. In this world some things just work differently.

A lady rape u no problem, ur hand touch her u go jail. She slapped u first but u do same back, all hell go loose 4 ur head.

Can u change all these imbalance?
Reason i said good luck.

Efewestern:


The way you hate women, do you have any woman in your life? like mother, sister, GF?

Bro tone down please, stop throwing jabs at ladies at any given opportunity, they are humans just like you and me, and they also deserve to be happy.

Being pregnant doesn't mean one is a slut, shii happens in life. Once again, learn to respect WOMEN!

madridguy:
Because men jealousy pass women own. Majority of single mothers codedly see their baby daddy. Make i stop for here now.
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eni4real:
Single mothers should settle with single fathers.. Stop adding burden to a young man life.. He is just starting up for God sake.
He is yet to have his own child but he is a step father already... Is that what you wish your blood brother?? To marry a single mother??

Single mothers can become a second wife in another family too. That is perfect for their MATURITY

ubunja:
that's why my heart is now closed. No pity for women cause government is now their husband father and boyfriend.

Im only tender to virgins. Even then with limits.

correctguy0900:


Guy d way u carry virgin for head like gala. Go join bh. Na dem be virgin fanatics.

U na virgin self? U go bias well well sha

ubunja:
play that game of heart leading the head and you'll lose.
You think women have a reputation for marrying men with money cause they chase happiness? You joking. Don't follow the heart. That thing is deceitful above all else. Love with your head. With sense. The head is above the heart for a reason.

Single Fathers are Okay because the man is the bread winner anyways.

Ever seen a single mother chase a broke man?

Or why do single mothers with money say they don't need a man they can raise their kids all on their own? CAUSE ITS ABOUT THE MONEY. always.

Wake up!!

Ugosample:


your first paragraph tho

It is the culture of encouraging men to be irresponsible that is to blame for the shithole behaviour prevalent in NiggerArea.
Assuming men are mandated to pay child support for their "irresponsible act of getting a lady preheat that they are no married to" for example

all these talk won't even be popping up in the first place

I wonder wfy people think it's okay for a single dad to be not responsible for his child
it's just weird how people think in Nigeria

ubunja:
how hungry for love are you that you have to accept it even from a single mother?

Have standards. You make people with money look stupid

cooooooks:
There's nothing wrong in being a single mother and there's nothing wrong in dating or marrying one.

However, don't expect them to be more mature or experienced or understanding. Treat them like as though they were single and not yet mothers.

Furthermore, you have to consider their kid(s). You should be ready to take care of them as though they were yours.

Michellekabod2:

If I get you correctly, marrying a single father is cool but a single mother is wrong?

For the money aspect, in cases where the wife is the bread winner or at least very financially bouyant enough to cater for her kid it's still wrong?
Lemme know what you think

Fvckmoderators:
These jambites bashing single mums have a myopic view about life. As for me I don't discriminate, happiness and peace of mind is what I cherish. Some single mums are far more mature than single ladies. The one I am dating presently is a rare spec. Would you prefer her she aborts? To each his own, my last exes caused me depression, and so far presently I met someone who is v3ry understanding.

Liftedhands:
Every man will become second, third, fourth, fifth place! depending on the number of kids he father's in his woman's life once kids are involved. No wife places her husband above her children! NONE.


The only time a man remains number one is during courtship and before children starts coming
So don't deceive yourself, every man will eventually become second place after his children whether biological or adopted

PoliteActivist:


Gerald Ford, Bill Clinton, Barak Obama, all their step fathers married their single mothers

Bridget95:
love could make a man overlook your concern s.Most single moms are victims of deciet.

ubunja:
Michelle it's a little better if the whole excercise won't cost you money.

But the time and emotional costs still matter. I think I've made that point already somewhere.

In SA we have a TV Show called KhumbuleKhaya (Remember Home, loose English translation). Its about uniting long lost family members. You should see how stupid and dumb step fathers become when at 18 step kids go looking for their biological fathers. It's sad

molybdenum0012:
Lol... What is biggie there. Make una sit there dey debate I cannot do this I cannot do that. In the next 50 years, some of us here may be no more.

Life is too short than to engage in irrelivant argument. Each one has his or her reason for taking a certain decision in life. There are no rules at all.


Meanwhile, I will soon be getting married to my Yankee single mother.... She is the sweetest woman I have ever met. I love you baby....

johnkey:
So not choosing to date another man's vomit means not having sense? you sis are a ugly fool.

DonEd:
Dating them isn't bad but be rest assured that u will be partly if not wholly responsible for the upkeep of their child/children.

This means if u were supposed to give ur girl upkeep cash that should last for one week, expect her to come knocking again in 3 days.

My take though.

ubunja:
don't mistake truth for hate

joepepsy:
Stop saying what you don't know..I need a single mother to date..single mothers got life experience and are well behaved.

ubunja:
more like Dick experience

Yes they're well behaved cause they've got the slutting and the hoering out of their system