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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by SilasNwude: 8:52am On Aug 17, 2019 |
[s] MachadoPreto:[/s] trash trash trash |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Revolva(m): 8:53am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Single girls are easy to bang many have gone tru a lot from doing olosho to feed their children Till where they get themselves many are still hustling somehow depending on men |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by MJBOLT: 8:55am On Aug 17, 2019 |
feminists want the privileges of men but not the responsibilities of men. Michellekabod2: 6 Likes
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Od1n: 9:01am On Aug 17, 2019 |
They are not "scared". They only have better options. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by freethinker01: 9:01am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Michellekabod2:I think you need to know what feminism really stands for. Feminism destroys feminine nature, not only patriarchy, it is selfish. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by onlinetomola(m): 9:09am On Aug 17, 2019 |
betterpikinn: lol...you no go fit understand |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Ugosample(m): 9:11am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Chukapage: well you have a point on the weak laws |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Ugosample(m): 9:13am On Aug 17, 2019 |
egbaguy2: That is nice |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Abesodiq(m): 9:14am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja:Are you saying all single mothers got it wrong the first time? I pray non of your siblings meet the wrong guy! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Ugosample(m): 9:17am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Chukapage: you have a point about the Nigerian society and the manipulations I can agree |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by holocron: 9:22am On Aug 17, 2019 |
yazga: There's nothing wrong or young about the poster. A single mom by definition is a mother raising a child by herself alone, not just a woman who has a child but of which said child is under upkeep or being reared by the woman's parents or near relatives, or even by the child's father. Except such a woman is gotten very early in age and goes ahead to have many more children for the man, such a man will be in a losing relationship because women naturally care about their offspring and does not give a damn about their romantic partner. She will frustrate your ambitions to co-parent the child with her, especially when you attempt any manly discipline. At the end of the day, the real father will show and lay claims on the now matured product of your sweat and you will be the loser. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 9:22am On Aug 17, 2019 |
MJBOLT:Very so and very selfish confused combination. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Ugosample(m): 9:22am On Aug 17, 2019 |
AreaFada2: exactly |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Advancedman(m): 9:24am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Kazeemakeem:You would soon find out why the first man japa 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by AstroG: 9:32am On Aug 17, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 9:33am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Advancedman:Lol which kind bad wish be this? Is it not better to pray that the woman has improved so the man loves in paradise forever? |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:34am On Aug 17, 2019 |
MJBOLT:Wannabe feminist not feminist ..ignore the rants of some Nlander so called feminist |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by mrdino(m): 9:37am On Aug 17, 2019 |
onlinetomola:It is easy to date a woman, to marry her is the main thing. Do you hope to marry her? |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:38am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Chukapage:m trying to point out that it is a win-win...why women do some stuff like leaving their husbands when he loses his job and he will not do likewise if she loses her job, women will not leave when he cheats,but he will leave.... Using it to cite an example that men aren't the only victilms in marriage |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:39am On Aug 17, 2019 |
sylve11:I am not at his level... He plays in the UCL, I am just a Ligue 1 material Seriously, we should face the truth!! No man should bear the brunt for another man wrongdoings!! The emotional and financial baggages is not fair on a young ambitious man!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:39am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Jiang: May the peace of God be with you. You really need it. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Omonigeriarere: 9:40am On Aug 17, 2019 |
cooooooks: I always laugh codedly whenever a single mother in my environment is giving me green lights; how can a young guy like me with rigorous and meticulous financial planning engage a single mother with the gift of only four children? I saw that factor as a means of leakage that could not be blocked irrespective of how many attempt. Single mother who wants a better life should double their hustlings; boys are not smiling. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by paix(m): 9:45am On Aug 17, 2019 |
You go dey suffer indirectly dey train another man pikin. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 9:52am On Aug 17, 2019 |
frozen70:Like I said, guys should not be carried away by the sweet and peaceful love that single mother offer during dating stage.. Single Mothers are the best at this.. They know what must be done to make you comfortable and to make you rate them higher than younger ladies.. Hence, Marriage Guys, don't fall victim of emotional and financial baggages!!!! Never marry a lady you don't make a woman!!! 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:04am On Aug 17, 2019 |
eni4real:... Exactly bro. And once a man gives in to there manipulations and deceit, they term you a real man just to massage your ego and keep you permanently as a maga. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 10:09am On Aug 17, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:She don conquer the guy be dat 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Drumzj(m): 10:11am On Aug 17, 2019 |
the experience I had and see marrying a single mother made me scared of dating single mother..imagine marrying a single mother and train her daughter to a marriage age and eventually the real father came out to sit and collect the bride price while the man that train the lady was not even invited on the lady wedding ceremony's.... 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by DLekan(m): 10:16am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Depend on the single mother |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Jfyzee: 10:19am On Aug 17, 2019 |
[quote author=Chukapage post=81326639][/quote] Don't have the luxury time for you any more since you're a saint and one who don't make bad decision. Know that you're not the creator of life neither do you determine who to meet who in life journey. Mind you, Jesus always spoke in parables when he needs to illustrate and clarify certain things to the Pharisees, the reason you heard that of Joseph and Mary in the illustration. Anyway, don't expect you to understand as you're just like the pharisee who judge by what they see. Goodluck son and God bless |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ashantitope: 10:20am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Mastalo: That not true there's alot of girls out there that they are single mother and so beautiful that this young girls you called them being single mother is not a barrier and most of them were innocent when they got pregnant and now they have learn there lesson and they move on life see this small girls that they can do anything just to get iPhone and fashion come to lekki or ajah here come and see them in the name of money they can Fu!!k 4guys so far u are ready to pay them in ajah here all the holtel here u can not see a girls of 28 year there they are all range of 17-26 and they are still single |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by jinka(m): 10:25am On Aug 17, 2019 |
Myde4naija: pls share your experience |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by pansophist(m): 10:26am On Aug 17, 2019 |
This thread really exposed the hypocrisy in women. Somehow, these women think it is okay to saddle a promising man with a single mom, but refuse to acknowledge the opinion from the male contributors, that single moms and single dads fit themselves perfectly. Also, dismissing all the challenges that a man will experience dating a single mom with statements like, ''if they love each other'' etc, like really? How does love prevent the baby daddy from showing up and causing trouble? how does love rewire her sexual imprint to her new partner? how will love make the child accept the young man as his father? how will love prevent his innocent actions, such as scolding the child not to be interpreted as hate? How about the risk associated with raising up a kid that will never love you, or see you as a father? In a romantic context, ''Love'' is the most abused word and a go-to convenience for irresponsible people without any shred of accountability in them. If we turn the table around and ask these women if they will marry a divorced single dad with kids and broke, I can bet my life that they will all flee, and even if they said yes, its virtue-signaling. They won't allow their sons, or brothers to do the same, but somehow, wants to guilt-trip young ambitious men to be with one. The only exemption that I will not be against a young man going for a single mom is if the baby dad is deceased, and even at that, he must have been a responsible man prior to passing away. Her previous partner is the evidence to judge her standards and the life choice she made, which is crucial in determining if she is worthy of a ring. No man should save any woman. If you mess up with your life, you should bear the consequences that come with it. Special thanks to Ubunja, boss13, franchasng and other contributors for the dose of common sense. 31 Likes 7 Shares |
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