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yazga:
A young ambitious lady should also not marry men of your kind

correctguy0900:
All d beauties also with a brain? Beauty without brain is also a burden even bigger than single mum. Note that

eni4real:
I am not a single Daddy na

gangbang86:
hey, personally I can't agree with the name of this topic, because there are men who don't afraid the fact that they date a woman with child. Simply they love the person, not her past or present, but the person itself. For example, I know that my friend was dating some single women from Ukraine, because she appreciated the qualities of these girls - as they're careful, attentive, good at cooking and understand the family obligations well.

larrydan:
wow, thank you, I would like to find a woman from Ukraine too

madridguy:
Because men jealousy pass women own. Majority of single mothers codedly see their baby daddy. Make i stop for here now.
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yazga:
Why are so many men scared to date single mother's?

Darzillionaire:
Life is full of choice. The decision you make today, can either make you or mar you.

There is nothing wrong in dating single mothers.

The main question is, what is your aim of dating a single mother?

Some men date single mothers for petty.
Some date them for their money.
Some use them as a play ground in order to get their right or true love.

But let me give you a shocker, when you sit down and discover yourself to check what you want in love, you will surely find it in the life of any single mother out there.

Most people say that its risky to date a single mother and go into marriage with her because there is every tendency that she will later divorce you.

It is not true when you start that relationship with a clear conscience knowing fully well what you want.

Some single mothers happens to give you the peace, love, joy, happiness and a better home you desire more than that young lady you think will do.

Some of them are single not because they possess bad character or maybe they were rude to their ex, its because they might happen to be passing through a lot of things deeply in their mind of which their partner happens to be the cause to their nightmare.

A friend got married to a single mother. She was transparent enough to explain every single thing that transpired between her and the ex.
The new guy laid all of them to back and started a new life with her from being friends, down to relationship and finally to marriage.

Today, they are happily married with kids and doing well in life.

One of the problems men have is inability to be patient enough on a lady before making love or asking her to make love with him. It is not nice to meet someone whom you want to start something serious with and you barely know her, next, you start asking for sex.

It will be nice, if men should give those single ladies in their lives time to truly understand their personality before diving into relationship.

Try to make her your friend for like a month or more. Get to understand her. Find out her past and allow her to know your own. This will help you to build a formidable bond with her and nothing will ever separate both of you.

PS: Single mothers are humans. Most of them did not ask to be single again. It is the circumstances of life that landed them in their current status.

Korllami007:
The father of the kid(s) can come back and claim his child(ren) and the kid(s) may not regard their mother's new husband as their father because they may stil love their father or they don't love their mother's new husband. The new husband will just be paying bills and school fees for nothing and the kid(s) may go back to their father in the future despite the fact the new husband has spent time and money on them.


The perfect example of a loser is man that marries a single mother.

Joystark:
Because some of them do not have sense.

Darzillionaire:
Life is full of choice. The decision you make today, can either make you or mar you.

There is nothing wrong in dating single mothers.

The main question is, what is your aim of dating a single mother?

Some men date single mothers for petty.
Some date them for their money.
Some use them as a play ground in order to get their right or true love.

But let me give you a shocker, when you sit down and discover yourself to check what you want in love, you will surely find it in the life of any single mother out there.

Most people say that its risky to date a single mother and go into marriage with her because there is every tendency that she will later divorce you.

It is not true when you start that relationship with a clear conscience knowing fully well what you want.

Some single mothers happens to give you the peace, love, joy, happiness and a better home you desire more than that young lady you think will do.

Some of them are single not because they possess bad character or maybe they were rude to their ex, its because they might happen to be passing through a lot of things deeply in their mind of which their partner happens to be the cause to their nightmare.

A friend got married to a single mother. She was transparent enough to explain every single thing that transpired between her and the ex.
The new guy laid all of them to back and started a new life with her from being friends, down to relationship and finally to marriage.

Today, they are happily married with kids and doing well in life.

One of the problems men have is inability to be patient enough on a lady before making love or asking her to make love with him. It is not nice to meet someone whom you want to start something serious with and you barely know her, next, you start asking for sex.

It will be nice, if men should give those single ladies in their lives time to truly understand their personality before diving into relationship.

Try to make her your friend for like a month or more. Get to understand her. Find out her past and allow her to know your own. This will help you to build a formidable bond with her and nothing will ever separate both of you.

PS: Single mothers are humans. Most of them did not ask to be single again. It is the circumstances of life that landed them in their current status.

Korllami007:
The father of the kid(s) can come back and claim his child(ren) and the kid(s) may not regard their mother's new husband as their father because they may stil love their father or they don't love their mother's new husband. The new husband will just be paying bills and school fees for nothing and the kid(s) may go back to their father in the future despite the fact the new husband has spent time and money on them.


The perfect example of a loser is man that marries a single mother.

Myde4naija:
i got married to one and I appreciate hell fire than her.

ubunja:
here's the thing; what do you want from a single mother that a single girl can't give you?

Sex? Single girl gives it better cause that punay is tighter and sweeter cause no big baby head went through it

Love? Single mother only loves better cause she's doing it to get you to support her calf.

Dreal1247:
IN DELLTA, IT MAY BE ADVANTAGEOOS TO BE A SINGLE MOTHER FOR MARRIAGE, WHILE IN IGBOLAND, IT IS A SIGN THAT YOU ARE NOT QUALIFIED FOR MARRIAGE, UNLESS SHE IS WIDOWED.

ubunja:
I'm a father of a baby and to this day I'm sleeping with my babymama even tho we're no longer together. .

And my best friend is doing the same

And MANY guys I know are doing the same thing.

A girl who gives you a baby is your sex partner for life. Step fathers in their thirst for pussy and love don't even think about this.

userplainly:
Don’t let them fool u.. it’s worst than dating normal girl cos I met one online didn’t know tho until I went to visit cos she said she can’t visit, first thing was “I have a baby” I said ok.. then later when it seems we were connecting she said “sinach don’t mind him, he didn’t even buy u pampers” ... I swear that turned me off instantly.. I smile n told her I got things to do n I went home!.... I noh try that nonsense again!

ubunja:
even global feminists are loonies.

The way they diss virgins, stay at home mothers, motherhood etc is hilarious.

They want women to be men.

Feminists destoyed femininity.

Myde4naija:
i got married to one and I appreciate hell fire than her.

yazga:
Good to know. That nice. This is a whatsapp group for single parent https://chat dot whatsapp dot com/CXIrh0sW40lKnRo4I2FYon

Kazeemakeem:
For me single mum are the best,they must have learn from past experience

ubunja:
that's why my heart is now closed. No pity for women cause government is now their husband father and boyfriend.

Im only tender to virgins. Even then with limits.

yazga:
Why are so many men scared to date single mother's?

Votukpa:
Let me get this straight.

You walked out of your marriage because you found out your husband was a manwhore? You decided to deny your child its right to a family to be brought up in because you couldn't manage your husband?

Let me ask you these..

You made the conscious decision to marry him, did you not?
Did u not at least perceive he had manwhore tendencies before you decided to become an item with him?
I'm very sure you did. Show me a woman (or man) who is unhappily married or divorced and i'll show you someone who ignored many blatant warning signs/red flags and ignored all of them.


Please follow my logic (if you will):

It goes without saying that women who walk out of their marriage on account of infidelity or got knocked up by a man whom she isn't married to are prime examples of women who are very poor decision makers and are therefore unfit to be responsible wives; or were desperate for marriage (which makes them poor decision makers yet still).

So, why should any intelligent and rational male submit himself to picking up the pieces of a woman's broken relationship that she stupidly entered into and consciously broke? Why would any man want to be with a woman who brought forth a child in a marriage but couldn't remain in it inspite of the challenges; or a woman who easily spreads her legs open for premarital raw sex without thinking through the consequences and implications?

If a woman decides to walk out of a marriage with a child or had a child out of wedlock (worse) and any man agrees to date or marry her afterwards-she will never respect that man.

Ever.

She will forever resent him for his stupidity. She may pretend to love him (she has to since he will be footing bills and giving her social proof as well as being a step dad), but on the inside, she will loathe him for tolerating to be with her-thinking, "so, this is (me) the best you can do". Every woman (including single moms) wants a man to be better than her her in every sense. Any man agreeing to be with a divorced woman communicates to her that he isn't better than her, but only willing to be a tool.

Why do you think God hates divorce?

divorce destroys marriages and homes and children.

God hates that.

Bottom line.

No single man should cut a covenant of any sort with a single mother who walked out of her own marriage or wasn't intelligent enough to judge whether her sex partner would wife her up-- for his own sanity and safety.

Marrying such women is like going into a business deal with someone whom he knows dealt business with another person, and the deal was resoundingly unsuccessful for very bad reasons. Better safe than sorry.

For all divorced single mothers out there, marry your Bible and dedicate your lives to repentance and building your child. If God sees that you're ready and mature at heart, he knows how to bring a good man to you, who will show you love.

Meta4element:
Pasoooooo...Walai senior bro..na your comment I dey look for from Page 1...Oil full your head Nwanne...I always wish am kinda related to you...You really know how real life works..


and for most of you stupid Commenters..Una never see something...Carry a single mom go meet your mama make she clap for you make we see...Idiots who believe in eating Crumbs..seriously why will someone accept to eat Chicken head when you can comfortably afford its Laps?....For me you are nothing but a loser!!!

Hehehe

pansophist:
Exactly. It is like a drug dealer, he wants the money from his addict, but hate the addict and want nothing to do with him. A woman always wants a man that other women want. Any man that settled with a single-mum has inadvertently signified that he is at the bottom of the social ladder, without any attractive women competing for him hence, he is settling for her. She will loathe him, as he is an evidence of the best she can attract, which contradict her hypergamous instinct.

okewumi:
Hmmmm.
I decided not to make comment but you unlock me at last

YOUNG MEN hmmmmm. Be wise. I love her, she loves me era is a joke and only meant for relationship and first 4years of marriage. When your marriage is above 10years, you will know women are one million times smarter than men. 99% of them value their kids. They only build wall around you because they don't want any alien to disturb their source of income which is you.
They are tactical to cut-off friends, ladies, neighbors, family members, even your parent if you are not wise

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Lastly if the single mum husband is dead, that is a different ball game but if the man is still alive, just have it mind that whenever the child is above 12years and mature, your story will get to Quota or nairaland

Work hard,
Pray to God for his direction,
Use your sense always