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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 4:07am On Aug 18, 2019 |
2buffagain:Lol. What women has done to men for having a restless third leg. We cannot talk am finnish. That " simplify" shah its like you go like mathematics. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 4:17am On Aug 18, 2019 |
ubunja:This one dey but what of cases where she has changed and now have sense just like say a single dad? |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Gentlewarrior1(m): 4:20am On Aug 18, 2019 |
Wealthy single mothers like genevieve nnaji and linda ikeji choose not to marry because of their wealth They have countless broke and average suitors yet they are not interested in marriage. They will rather Bleep around with sugar boys than to be with a relationship with one man. Lol Single mothers are more self centred than single ladies 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by 2buffagain(m): 4:31am On Aug 18, 2019 |
Gentlewarrior1: This guy gets it. People should stop saintifying single mothers. Na condition make crayfish bend. In the words of Jesus, "No one is good..." |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by 2buffagain(m): 4:32am On Aug 18, 2019 |
princfred: All of life is an equation my broda. Whoever tries to convince you otherwise is just trying to manipulate you. They will always revert back to equation mode when it is their turn to gain something from the equation. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 8:14am On Aug 18, 2019 |
2buffagain:No be lie at the bolded. Phony how men are regarded as unemotional brutes yet they are the ones who go into relationship more with their heart ( abi is it prick ?) than their head while naija women , regarded as soft , do more of the opposite. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Ugosample(m): 8:40am On Aug 18, 2019 |
princfred: Yea naija women in general are very very calculating in this dept scheme to get the most while wanting to give next to nothing in return It's the way they were conditioned which is quite unfortunate 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 8:53am On Aug 18, 2019 |
Ugosample:Yeah a good number think being a smart woman is all about identifying rich dudes, shaking bum bum and manipulatinghim / competing with other bitches to be the one choppong his money more and jumping unto the next bigger money bag instead of identifing calm reasonable guys and creating something sustainable with them. Las las when this orientation backfires, creating baby mama's, they wail and call all men brutes. Its in the upbringing and maybe poverty in the society. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:57am On Aug 18, 2019 |
Gentlewarrior1:.. Exactly. And the guys jumping into marriages with these single mothers still think they are wise. As for me,any guy that decides to marry a single mother is unwise or maybe frustrated.There's nothing like love from them,they are only there for poverty alluviation, pretending to be in love with the said "REAL MAN"i have to use this because once you fall for their manipulations, you automatically become one.Young men should start reasoning with their heads and not hearts. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Tunagee(m): 9:13am On Aug 18, 2019 |
Votukpa: I feel your comment o! wow! very brilliant 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by graceland366: 9:52am On Aug 18, 2019 |
Hmmm.... Well.... In my own perspective, I see what everyone has contributed so far as points raised based on the practical life experience or learning from other people's ordeals. But let's not forget that as some of us will be narrating their bad experiences, some people (even if they might be view in counting) are somewhere else too having successful union with their so-called single mother. In conclusion, I think the area we might need to drive our attention to while dabbling into any affairs that has to be with single mother is to talk more by getting to know where each other is coming from. You never can tell the single mother that comes your way might have been heart-broken on several relationship trial she has made with men. So expect to meet desperation because she is ready to get back whatever she has loss from you who who happened to be her next encounter. We just need to be wise and know when to back out when it is necessary to do so. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Tunkzy(m): 12:12pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
hopefulLandlord:Quiet understandable but do u continue the second leg with different club?? |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by emmaodet: 2:03pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
princfred: Reason why alot of guys are crying out recently about ladies dropping there ass |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by madridsta007(m): 2:21pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Ugosample: This thread -initial post- shouldn't have started. You will not have any reaction on a non-existent thread. Why should men who choose not to be with single moms be termed as "scared"? Women will have and write out a litanny of choices in terms of their future spouse. When men attempt that- in this era of equality- they will be demonised and derided. We are largely an unserious generation. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
princfred: Na the babes when get this type of orientation dey fall for ritualists trap pass. How wish una know the amount of these gold digger women when them done use their destiny. Today if I see babe dey look for rich man for this naija, I go just dey laugh. You dey look for rich man for world's poverty capital. Na use them go use all of them last last. Na the men when dey Bleep them I pity sef 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by oyatz(m): 6:23pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
The Nigerian society doesn't support a successful eligible bachelor marrying a single mother whole heartedly. When I was a bachelor, there was one nice lady that loved me and I was about returning her affections, then she told me she had a son already. About a month later, at a re-union of our old friends, one of them asked me what I was doing about getting married and I was giving him my options of ladies with their merits and demerits. Immediately, I got to that of the single mum, he just said I should forget her immediately. If you are a graduate from an educated family and you bring a single mom home, your mother and sisters will be the first to kick against it and your friends will make gest of you like kilode. You and your single mom fiancee will be a butt of jokes. larryking540: 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Myde4naija(m): 7:25pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
eni4real:definitely |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Myde4naija:Na their way |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by pansophist(m): 8:14pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
princfred: Yes its true, and it is what I have realized so far. Society consider women the weaker sex, but undermine their ability in decision making and going for the very best. They use their head not their heart, Meanwhile, men, who are considered the rational and tough one, fall in love with heart not head, and are in more cases than not, led to the slaughterhouse by small girls Wetin konji don use local man eye see eh? Chai. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Ugosample(m): 9:50pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
madridsta007: i agree with you... one should not be demonized for their choices Men who choose to stay away from single moms no commit sin they are being calculative Men who are willing to take that risk should not be demonized either Besides I think it's hypocritical tho that women can have a long list of requirements in this naija and when men.list their own requirements it becomes a problem our society is delightfully twisted 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Ugosample(m): 9:51pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
pansophist: lol third leg matter no be small thing nwanne |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by Allsingles: 10:25pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Single mothers are very good but not all of them because some of them are single mothers due to their characters that chased them out of their man's house. Some are single mom because the man responsible for the pregnancy broke up with her when the pregnancy came up. Some are single mom Because she's a victim of rape. Some are single mom because the family of the guy said their son can't Marry her. Some are single mom because she refused to abort the pregnancy. Most single mom are very good when it comes to good wife and good mother to your children because they have gotten the experience on how to manage a home and also manage Marriage conflict. Marry single mom if she is okay for you to marry. allsinglesandmarried..com |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by PoliteActivist: 3:18am On Aug 19, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by PoliteActivist: 3:24am On Aug 19, 2019 |
pansophist: U and princfred actually have it a bit wrong. Women go in more with their heart than men. What happens is that it is easier for women to convince themselves they love a man regardless of his looks. So in her heart she truly loves the rich but ugly guy which is why she is marrying him - love, not his money. Men on the other hand find it very difficult to convince themselves they love a woman to whom they are not physically attracted. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 8:17am On Aug 19, 2019 |
PoliteActivist: No you are not getting it straight. Love yes but love of his richness not necessarily him. Once the money is no longer there suddenly she realizes that he is ugly. Lol Infact when average naija woman hears love, what their brain understands and interprets by default is self love and love for a rich man. For the man though he can be attracted to a not very beautiful woman otherwise many ugly women wont be married hence thats love. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 8:21am On Aug 19, 2019 |
pansophist: Women are making bank activating the latent konji in men. Na our portion shah if only they can kwontinu without rubbing it in with feminism. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by princfred(m): 8:27am On Aug 19, 2019 |
condemn: Its delusion or inspiration. If not for money ritual then the few rich chatter them in a haram to pass time and dump after their beautiful years are gone. Afterall their pastors, parents and society filled their brain, especially when they are beautiful or educated with "your husband is coming with a jeep benz and 10 cows" for soo long till they see anyone telling them on the contrary to "go workout their salvation with a man" as enemy of progress. Las las many of them eye dey clear shah just that many become old before then. Our own na to preach the good abi candid news anyway who get ear go hear. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by madridsta007(m): 2:18pm On Aug 19, 2019 |
Ugosample: This: "Besides I think it's hypocritical tho that women can have a long list of requirements in this naija and when men.list their own requirements it becomes a problem" True. I recall seeing a trend on Twitter where women wrote their male/husband requirements and everyone laughed and hailed them along. A guy mistakenly wrote his, "must know how to cook"... Women got on him and verbally whipped him for expressing his choice. Black, white, Asian, etc, women. It was brutal. As usual, Nigerian women led the pack of wolves. Hence my argument that this post demonises men who choose not to go with single mothers as "scared". It essentially means to show bravery and manliness, men should choose single mothers. It is important we call this out or there should be an agreement that women are the ones to have choices and men shouldn't. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by FEGEITOK: 2:29pm On Aug 19, 2019 |
Two of the sweetest girls I met were sort of damaged. One was forced into a marriage with a man who already had a wife, she is now divorced, no kids though. The second is a single mother, never married. Don't apply general labels without making for exceptions, they exist! |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by PoliteActivist: 5:26pm On Aug 19, 2019 |
princfred: But like u said, the man has to be physically attracted to the woman, beautiful or not. Women, on the other hand, find it much easier to convince themselves they love a man they are not at all physically attracted to. They also find it much easier to realise they no longer love him once the money is gone. But that doesn't mean they didn't love him initially. |
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