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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by lollybizzu(m): 2:14pm On Aug 28, 2019

rex444:
Surprisingly, many of us fall victim for this.... but simple thing in relationship these days, guys withold your money, girls hold whatever it is you bring to the table( y'all know what I mean) and if you both can still have a healthy friendship then feel free to give her what you think she needs , she will be a keeper but if not, move on .... remember giving is a free will thing

You make sense bro!
But Imo, the love here is not strong; that's if there's even love at all.
A calculative relationship. Where the both both parties are being careful not be used and as such, can't fully express their love for each other.

No worry I'm in something like that ATM. grin

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:16pm On Aug 28, 2019

In Zlatan Ibrahimovich's voice:

No man can ever use me, let alone females, aptly described as weaker vessels in the scriptures.

If you've ever been used and dumped as a guy by a woman, then you need to be 'de-manned' and excommunicated from the noble stable of alpha bloodlines

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by omoharry(f): 2:16pm On Aug 28, 2019

CaptainMitch:
Many of them go eat person money and discharge thats why we always want to fvck them and move on.

ooo common! get over it..Men use and dump women so do women use and dump men and every one moves on..why the wining? I am sure you must have done same to several women in your life time without knowing it.This becos you are the one doing the dumping..so you do not feel the pinch.Those girls you slept with out of revenge, is that not use & dump? so what make you any better?Abeg shift.

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Isoduwa(m): 2:17pm On Aug 28, 2019

AwkaetitiBabe:
Who even sells 200naira suya? Must you expose your filthy poverty ridden self here?

Didirin

You are bitter because he is telling the truth and you once a victim of dangote suya

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Vladtin: 2:20pm On Aug 28, 2019

Once a girl is collecting your money or other values without adding any then she is using you.
Best way not to be used by a lady, ensure whatever you are adding to her life is in form of trade by barter angry

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by wizod(m): 2:20pm On Aug 28, 2019

I loved her wit everything in me and we agreed to marry. She even told me dat she was a virgin which i agreed wit one eyed open(partially). She asked me what i'll give her on our wedding night and i promised her a customised golden necklace and laptop. She was too materialistic and would lure me to shopping where i'll pay for everything she needed. When i wanted to come for introduction, she gave me flimsy excuses and told me dat it is not yet time. We had no sex but only romance. Like play like play she left and i fell sick for 3months dat defied all medications. She's still single but i'm married wit two boys and resides in stavanger Norway while she begs me money till date. Last time i came home, she begged to see me but i snubbed her and told her to allow me be. But i've 4given her

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by omoharry(f): 2:20pm On Aug 28, 2019

Edusouls:
90% of Nigerian girls are naturally wicked, greedy and very materialistic, that’s just a Nigerian girl for you and you cant change them, so Guys have understood them and gone on the defensive. Am happy men are now wiser, cos if u are not I swear these girls will murder you with massive stroke at age 28years..

haba! if we are that bad then how come there are wedding celebration every Saturday.Think am.

Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:20pm On Aug 28, 2019

Isoduwa:
You are bitter because he is telling the truth and you once a victim of dangote suya

Pissed at his lack of respect.

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by deltateam: 2:21pm On Aug 28, 2019

Who hasn't?

Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Edyice: 2:21pm On Aug 28, 2019

Nigerian men need relationship like this but gals will find your mumu button and press them grin

Then the rest is history ..

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by valentineuwakwe(m): 2:21pm On Aug 28, 2019*

A GENTLEMAN DOES NOT TALK OR DISCUSS SUCH IN PUBLIC

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by utenwuson: 2:21pm On Aug 28, 2019

AwkaetitiBabe:
Who even sells 200naira suya? Must you expose your filthy poverty ridden self here?

Didirin

abooki for junction cut 100 own sef

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Isoduwa(m): 2:22pm On Aug 28, 2019

AwkaetitiBabe:
Pissed at his lack of respect.

For real darling?

Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by TemmyT002(m): 2:22pm On Aug 28, 2019

Nobody can dump me
I am undumpable
I don't cheat and I don't doubledate
I am romantic

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:23pm On Aug 28, 2019

womenareapes:
I never give black naija women 1% of my heart!

I use and dump those idiots with just 200 naira suya

It's like we dey the same BOAT oooo
I never FALL in LOVE...
I don't even know what it means.
It's like telling the Great Okonkwo to fall in Love, How...??

Only INDOMIE MEN do experience such RUBBISH...
U find Most of them KNEELING to Profess and Propose LOVE to most Ladies, who offer nothing.
When I was using them as FOREX back then, I never waited for a LADY to tell me it was over.
I made sure I DID such myself.

The MOMENT u know your WORTH as a MAN by engaging yourself meaningfully and gainfully, such NONSENSE wouldn't come up..
The ONLY THING that can break my heart is POVERTY..
I avoid it like a PLAGUE.
That's why I avoid LADIES with POVERTY INSTINCTS and LEECHES.

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by sylve11: 2:24pm On Aug 28, 2019

Silentscreamer:
why would u allow her use u to do all that? don't u have sense?

Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by sylve11: 2:25pm On Aug 28, 2019

ashewoboy:
how would you know? ladies are pretenders. she tells you she doesn't like that guy then the next thing you see her riding the phallus of that same guy. stupid girls.

na so.

Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Olorunnim: 2:25pm On Aug 28, 2019

Danmaigida511:
Whose baby mama

I don't know.

Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by wizod(m): 2:26pm On Aug 28, 2019

omoharry:
haba! if we are that bad then how come there are wedding celebration every Saturday.Think am.

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omoharry:
haba! if we are that bad then how come there are wedding celebration every Saturday.Think am.

just to have a child or two.

Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by deltateam: 2:27pm On Aug 28, 2019

Rukkydelta:
I once used and dump a boy
He taught me phy111 cos of him I had B in the course that 50% of my course mates failed
After his teaching job I didn't still agree to date him

Well, that's a pretty lie
Just check my signature please

How will the signature now be true huh

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by olumalcolm(m): 2:29pm On Aug 28, 2019

rex444:
Surprisingly, many of us fall victim for this.... but simple thing in relationship these days, guys withold your money, girls hold whatever it is you bring to the table( y'all know what I mean) and if you both can still have a healthy friendship then feel free to give her what you think she needs , she will be a keeper but if not, move on .... remember giving is a free will thing

At the bolded, MI, PHYNO AND FLAVOUR. MI....my father used to tell me, her keeper na number 1. grin

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Truthsbitter: 2:30pm On Aug 28, 2019

ashewoboy:
how would you know? ladies are pretenders. she tells you she doesn't like that guy then the next thing you see her riding the phallus of that same guy. stupid girls.

Awareness flying around catch yours...

Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:31pm On Aug 28, 2019

Same way thy use your sister

womenareapes:
I never give black naija women 1% of my heart!

I use and dump those idiots with just 200 naira suya

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by CaptainMitch: 2:31pm On Aug 28, 2019

I only fvck olosho. I pay and fvck I dont fvck on credit.

omoharry:
ooo common! get over it..Men use and dump women so do women use and dump men and every one moves on..why the wining? I am sure you must have done same to several women in your life time without knowing it.This becos you are the one doing the dumping..so you do not feel the pinch.Those girls you slept with out of revenge, is that not use & dump? so what make you any better?Abeg shift.

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by excel4us: 2:31pm On Aug 28, 2019

Florblu:
And they are all forming hard man.

So where are the guys whose heart has been shattered or you people just scream " women are scam/scum" in vain?

No mind them. everybody is forming hard man yet they fall victim of the issue on ground.

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by olumalcolm(m): 2:32pm On Aug 28, 2019

Naso one do me dat year for lasu, after all the protection as a unionist, when she graduated, she said her father said he wuld not allow her marry a xtian. She is still not married 7years after graduation and she don dey like my facebook uploads grin

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by omoharry(f): 2:34pm On Aug 28, 2019

CaptainMitch:
I only fvck olosho. I pay and fvck I dont fvck on credit.

. i pray u get healed from your broken heart and find love again.

Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Rilwayne001: 2:35pm On Aug 28, 2019*

Well I've never been used and dumped, because even the girl that supposedly broke my heart did not get much spending from me. She rather spent on me and when she got tired, she ran away grin

And that broke my heart really cry

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Re: Guys, Have You Ever Been Used And Dumped By A Lady? Share Your Experience by Truthsbitter: 2:36pm On Aug 28, 2019

Silentscreamer:
so long as she didn't put a gun to ur head to do all that, u only have urself to blame.

You're absolutely correct.

The problem I have with females is that they don't practice what they preach.
if they were fvcked and dumped or played off their cash by Casanova they will reject the above statement made by you with venomous anger and hate pumping out their breath.

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